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How to Never Get Drained Around People


P nice infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re out here we’re nature
breathing in that good ass prana baby
how to never feel drained around people
I made a video that went viral how to
stop absorbing other people’s energy it
helped a lot of people out and I was
wondering why this video and I get it
because a lot of us simply don’t want to
be around other people we ain’t even had
breakfast yet can I get a hello I’m a
Pisces
March 3rd what does that mean it means
I’m super intuitive and everybody tells
me their problems I’m a psychologist
what does that mean
it means everybody tells me their
problems I inspire millions of people
and help them become their greatest
version I’ve been doing that for years
what does that mean it means everybody
tells me their problems I’m a counselor
I went to university at 17 to study
psychology and criminology what does
that mean it means everybody tells me
their problems how do I feel about them
it’s hard
because of all of that I had to find
ways to stop absorbing other people’s
energy to conserve my energy as an
infinite being who transcends all labels
let me share with you what’s helped me
along my journey before I go into the
five secrets a lot of people are saying
I want to send you in a question where
can I send you a question literally I
get thousands of questions every single
day thousands of emails so if you want
to send me a question DM me on instagram
at infinite waters is that simple now
look at it like this a lot of us we find
ourselves with people we don’t want to
be around plain and simple
you’re working with someone right now
who you probably wouldn’t want to go out
with on a Saturday night to go for
drinks it’s just that simple
now before we really start to ask
ourselves why do I feel this way why am
i drained all the time ask yourself this
what are you eating to make you feel
drained mm-hmm slow motion si mmm
there was a time where I was feeling not
the best and I was eating foods which
weren’t the best and then I would be
around people who would make me feel
even worse but then I asked myself wait
a minute what if
the food I was eating were reflections
of the people I was meeting hmm
slow motion that’s like mm-hmm then I
became a vegan over 11 years ago started
the seven day vegan challenge started to
get some watercress in me some guava
some papaya then I started to meet
people who were like the fruits I was
sympathetic vibration this is what
science is now coming to realize is a
reality this is the phenomena where two
peoples vibrations are moving towards
each other it’s beautiful
ever been in love it’s kind of like that
yet it’s kind of like that there is a
mutual exchange of energy I’ve spoken
about the law of attraction I’ve spoken
about the law of exchange what happens
if the exchange is lopsided what happens
this is the first secret out of five
when you’re not surrounding yourself
with people who share the same values as
you you’re gonna feel drained
automatically ever been around someone
who doesn’t even care about you
chances are it’s really draining isn’t
it because you’re trying to win their
approval ever been around someone who’s
always rooting for you supporting you I
got the cat down the road for that
people say Ralph gosh how do you have so
much energy
I said because I connect with amazing
beautiful splendid deep divers every
single day people that would be there
for me if I was in a really hard time
it’s a mutual exchange I talk about
becoming your greatest version so I’m
very specific with what I’m talking
about to attract the right people to
never feel drained around people you got
to start showing people who you really
are not who you pretend to be a lot of
us are good actors but there are no
awards for acting in nature there are
only awards for being mm-hmm
slow motion essay so instead of
pretending all the time to people be
yourself because pretending will drain
your energy some places we love to
pretend the workplace oh yes how are you
great oh good no you’re not maybe you
are but most of the times if it’s not a
job really aligned with your true life
purpose it’s not coming from a truthful
place if it is well it is another place
akward parties sometimes we’re trying to
make a good impression you’re trying
that’s why it’s hard because there’s a
lot of resistance when you’re trying you
don’t have to try to be anything you
already are so what’s helped me along my
Jeni is showing people as much as who I
really am I speak about a lot of
different stuff a lot of people say gosh
Ralph how did you get over half a
million subscribers I said because I
deep and that’s the only way to really
grow you got to be able to face fear
which is false evidence appearing real a
lot of people just want to show to the
world they’re all peaches and cream and
kumbaya stuff but once again it’s
pretending there are so many sides to us
and you got to be versatile in your
approach so people know who they’re
dealing with and you know who you’re
dealing with but you got to realize that
if you are feeling drained around people
whose fold is it you did it you did it
we love to point the finger because now
we don’t have to take responsibility we
don’t have to respond to our ability
responsibilities break it down response
ability responding to your ability slow
responding responding to your ability so
I used to always blame people for making
me feel a certain way the great
psychologist fritz perls inspired me to
become a psychologist he said take a
hundred percent responsibility for your
internal condition now at 17 when I went
to university I was sitting inside the
lecture room scratching my head thinking
what is this guy talking about years
later I realized that was the only way
forward to never feel drained around
other people because you have a choice
of who you surround yourself with but
more so you become like the people you
surround yourself with most often let me
repeat that you become like the people
you surround yourself with most often I
always have tons of energy
why because I choose consciously to
invite amazing people who help uplift my
spirit into my life it’s a conscious
choice I’m inviting them in they’re not
violating me I chose to be around them
and they should choose to be around me
because we got the cat down the road
here hello
what’s the second secret we move on to
how nice see you a lot of people say I’m
a nice person I’m a nice guy I’m a nice
girl I’m nice nice I’m nice too
real nice super kind I’ll invite you to
my house for some pineapple juice stuff
like that but
what’s better than being nice being
authentic when you are authentic you
move past nice you see because it’s
great to be nice it’s even better to be
authentic many times we think people
will get offended if we say no no no dun
dun dun it’s not that bad
trust me someone would just perceive it
as and hear it as no no fine no you
don’t want to go out no fine yes yes yes
yes yes okay yes see how easy that was
but it’s not because sometimes we feel
drained around people when we can’t
express ourselves a hundred percent when
you’re struggling to say no when you’re
struggling to say yeah so you got to
learn how to cultivate and find your
voice many of us we feel drained around
people because we feel lost around them
we don’t know how to be ourselves around
them so before you can even be yourself
around other people you’ve got to be at
one with yourself
meditation changes the entire structure
of the brain neuroplasticity your brain
changes based on your experience when I
realize that
you can never be rude if you’re being
your authentic self my life changed for
the better a lot of us feel we are
offending people know you can’t offend
what’s another secret to never feel
drained around people many of us we are
active listeners ever been around
someone who’s just talking talking and
talking for a really long long long long
long long long long long long long long
long long long long long long long long
long long long long long long long time
oh my goodness gracious it’s draining so
are you one of these people who just
listen all the time are you a sponge
kind of person who just soaks in
everybody’s energy without actually
talking your piece don’t worry I used to
be like that until I realized wait a
minute I’ve actually got a mouth now you
should always listen more than you talk
that’s why you’ve got two ears and one
mouth we’ll come to that later so active
listening is super important that’s why
people love to talk to you because
you’re such a great listener but you
don’t want to just be a listener you
want to have balance which is active
listening but also active talking and to
become a better talker you got to place
value on your word so if you’re at a
party and someone is saying hey I’m
there some man and you’re like almost
falling asleep but it’s really starting
to drain you now just say hey look I
went traveling to Brazil once and
they’re gonna be like oh wow and now
you’re getting energy just by talking
about Brazil and in Panama Beach well
about to go back to Brazil baby
okay active listening but also active
talking your voice matters speak even if
your voice shakes but what happens if
you don’t speak your piece
like so many of us were just silent now
we start blaming the other person for
not allowing us to speak not realizing
we have a mouth so learn how to exercise
breathing in the good ass prana
to become more confident which means to
trust yourself go on to the fourth
secret four out of five a lot of people
give they give I know the most I know
the most amazing giver and she just
gives she got me so many things she just
gives me crystal she buys me like
beautiful paintings she draws them for
me she knows who she is
amazing being she gives a lot but at the
same time I give back you see the
greatest relationships are reciprocal
but you learn more about relationships
by realizing the greatest relationship
you can have is with yourself now you’ve
got givers and you’ve got takers if
you’re a giver
it’s beautiful people want to be around
you so if you’re a giver kind of person
I do a video on the three kinds of
people coming up soon you’ll give a kind
of person what happens it’s like
everybody’s around you like a whole
circle you’re like hey I want to get out
right now know where to go if you are
take a kind of person you’re the one
standing in the circle givers and takers
who is the most drained who do you think
both if you’re just a giver without
taking anything you’re gonna feel
drained if you’re just the taker you’re
going to feel very needy all the time
and you’re gonna feel a lack but you
don’t have anything to give so you’re
also going to feel very drained this
secret is balanced we call equilibrium
homeostasis you got to learn how to
become a giver and a taker but you got
to learn how to surround yourself with
people who you can give to and who you
can take from and create this mutual
exchange of beautiful energy amongst
each other I love giving to people but I
also take from people what do I take I
take the thank-yous that’s why I say
infinite love and balanced reciprocal
relationships so I’ve never drained I’m
always full of energy
why because I’m living my true life
purpose in becoming your greatest
version most people feel drained because
they’re not doing what they came here to
do if you are right now scratching your
head not sure what to do with your life
it’s really draining isn’t it because
you got to learn that your life purpose
will always recharge you and if you’re
not living your life purpose you will be
drained to live your life purpose you
got to cast away everything people have
told you about who and what you can be
and you got to start taking a small step
towards it every single day the fifth
secret is to never feel drained around
people is to surround yourself with
people who are on the same mission as
you I’ve been making videos since the
cat down the road was little one it’s
kind of big right now we’ve been having
fun in nature for a long time creating
abundance meeting beautiful people but
if have you noticed have you noticed how
many people are featured on this channel
how many people I connect with I know a
lot of people I just found out jenna
Marbles was subscribed to infinite
waters that’s incredible
I love our videos so it just shows you
the impact we have reaching millions of
people when you’re working with people
who are sharing the same mission as you
I love working with other people who are
doing the work even when it comes to
food eating right I’m all about that I
don’t want to be around people who don’t
have the same fit who don’t have the
same focus same vision or the same Drive
as me I only surround myself with people
who help me become better than I was
yesterday and that’s why we’re growing
at a phenomenal rate so once again to
never feel drained around people always
surround yourself with people who are
working in your favor you don’t want to
surround yourself with people who are
belittling your dreams and saying oh
that’s rubbish oh you can never do that
because if you do you will eventually
believe what they’re saying people say
gosh why are you so optimistic why are
you happy all the time why are you
smiling all the time I say because my
life has changed baby do you know how
incredible it feels right now to be
alive whoa breathing in that good are on
a baby so there you have it we’re out
here we’re nature
breathing in the good ass prana baby
have a beautiful day infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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