peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we have a very special guest
joining us today a dear brother Lenin
honor Lenin honor is a writer musician
video producer talk show host and
counselor his website wwlp.com an Hood
fatherhood spirituality positive
relationships subliminal manipulation
marriage the entertainment industry
children family and personal growth
welcome because we are gonna dive deep
today and the main topic we are gonna
discuss is overcoming childhood
circumstances and manifesting a greater
reality for future generations let’s
how did it all start out for you what’s
it it’s been a day-by-day journey and it
continues to this day
and I know we we talked about this
before just the journey of life and how
we’re presented with certain challenges
and as we overcome those challenges we
continue to grow and as we continue to
grow we develop the wisdom that allows
us to create a greater reality and
that’s what my wife and I are
particularly we’re trying to do and we
are doing for our children
wonderful wonderful you’ve been doing
this for a long time and it’s
inspirational a lot of us we might be in
situations where we blame our childhood
for where we are today what you say to
these kinds of people who can’t get past
their childhood and are bitter and angry
well that the answer well first that
being angry and bitter it’s
understandable because I’ve been there
too but that the answer ultimate
comes and realizing that healing is
necessary anger really comes out of a
lack of healing so even if someone like
upset someone and someone gets angry
well when someone upsets you you can
decide to heal that condition of anger
in that moment or shortly after that
moment it’s okay to feel that but
ultimate if there’s anything that needs
to take place more to let that go so one
of the things that I’ve had to do in my
life is to let go of a lot of the anger
that I felt and in order to do that I’ve
had to heal and so healing becomes a
central theme for those of us who maybe
perhaps were born into difficult
childhood circumstances or maybe even
those of us who are currently in
difficult circumstances that we would
like to overcome and you had the famous
sentence I want my vision back and we
can apply this in creating and
manifesting a greater reality for future
generations how has this helped you in
becoming the greatest version of
yourself yes I remember I came up with
that it was a sign and it said I want
vision back and I was holding it like
this and this was when I was doing my
documentary work and during that time I
was I was looking at different aspects
of manipulation that’s present in
particular in media advertising
subliminal messages the entertainment
industry movies music and doing analysis
of those things because I was trying to
understand why it was that so many of us
on the planet are and were unhappy and
one of the things that I realized what
it was that one of the reasons why we
have been unhappy and I’m using myself
as an example to because I’ve been there
was because of a lot of the manipulation
that takes place coming from media allow
the toxic toxic substance I guess you
can say media substances a lot of the
toxic programming that we get from media
a lot of the programming that caused us
to have low self esteem low self value
caused us to not necessarily appreciate
other people this type of thing and
there’s a lot of manipulation out there
like that so part of what I was getting
at with her I want my vision back was I
wanted to be able to see what the mini
release was
so that I can begin to overcoming that
was like the first level but then there
was another level to that now was when I
began to realize that I wanted my vision
back so that I can see beyond not only
the manipulation that was external but
also looked within and see what was it
that I was doing to myself that was
causing me to be unhappy that’s the true
challenge it’s easy to say you know
looking and think about what other
people are doing to us to make us
unhappy but the deeper challenge and the
more difficult challenges that look
within and say what am i doing to myself
– cause that’s causing you this level of
unhappiness and for most of my life I
was unhappy and what I decided to do at
a certain point was I’ll begin to
transition from dealing with topics
dealing with the external manipulation
and those things that from the external
that can make cause unhappiness in my
life and in other people’s life and
begin to look at what I was doing to
myself to make myself unhappy and one of
the things I begin to do is to ask the
question what is my orientation to my
life experience you know am i someone
who is empowered or am i someone who is
merely a victim and the victim mentality
is something that a lot of us struggle
with and a lot of us we develop that
victim mentality based upon our
childhood experiences and things that we
were born into but I have a saying that
there there are things that were born
into there are things that we overcome
there are things that we become and then
there are things that we are becoming
and so long as we continue on that
continuing that process that
evolutionary process we will continue to
be to become something greater and in my
life that is what I aspire to to become
I want to become something greater not
just for myself for my children for my
wife and for those that I seek to help
in mind right and how has meditation
helped you in manifesting greater
reality because many of us I’ve seen
along my journey people who meditate a
lot can let go of the past trauma what
are some of the tools other tools we can
also use I know you are a fabulous
musician I see you playing the flute and
I’m like wow you should continue playing
because it’s inspirational and
so harmonious when you’re playing it and
it’s almost as if you are creating a
perfect balance of perfect homeostasis
many of us when we are in disarray
we don’t do that so what are some of the
tools we can use in becoming the
greatest version of ourselves and you
bring up such an important point one the
reasons why a lot of us are unhappiness
because we’re not dealing with those
things that bring us peace right right
and I’m talking to myself as I say that
you know I find peace in playing with
you I really do once I start producing
those tones and those frequencies peace
comes over me and it’s perfectly natural
I don’t have to think about I don’t have
to try to make it happen it just happens
and yet I don’t do this nearly as much
as I see some of us what happens in life
is we get so balled down with like
different levels of response me I have
five children so I have holed out of
this possibility okay my wife but now we
have five beautiful children we
homeschool our children so we have a lot
of responsibilities we take care of
their dietary needs where we can make
sure that they’re eaten properly we make
sure most definitely if they’re loved
that’s the key thing so we have a lot of
responsibilities and what happens off
the times if we get older the more
responsibilities we have the less time
you put into those things that bring us
peace and I’m speaking to myself as I
say for me and my journey music has been
fundamental for me meditation – when I
was in college I spend a lot of time
meditating meditation for me had more to
do with me developing an ability to
focus my mind because part of finding
peace is having the mental capacity to
focus long enough to find the peace the
beautiful thing for me was that I can
pick up a fleeting life within two
seconds I can find the peace you know
but but there’s other time griffie if I
don’t have access to the food if I have
suddenly something comes up I have to
find peace in other ways and one of the
ways is just to think about things on a
certain level and change my orientation
or my perspective on what it is it has
brought me you know just come through
okay look at it from a different vantage
point and then I can find peace that way
but when I call I want to go back to
one of the things one of the reasons why
creativity and that’s because it’s a
tool that anyone can use if they truly
wish to find peace that would allow them
to become something greater is to really
engage your creativity when I was a
child music for me was really what
allowed me to get through my childhood
circumstances am I used to lock myself
in the bathroom for like hours and I
will practice you know I’m like you know
10 11 years old
can you imagine 10 11 years old and a
lot of people thought that the reason
why I was doing that was because like I
had this love for music and it wasn’t so
much that I love music I enjoyed it it
was that it brought me peace so growing
up in a abusive household locking myself
in the bathroom and just being with the
food and how the vibrations everything
would echo inside the bathroom you
closed the door and everything would
echo back to you and it was like it’s
just me and this sound it’s just me and
this sound and it was so it was it just
brought me so much peace when I was a
child the beautiful thing is that
because I developed that skill of
bringing myself peace through music
which is creativity late now as I as I’m
older like over the last four months
I’ve committed myself to practicing more
and as I practice have been more
peaceful as I practice or loving to my
children’s I practice I’ve been more
calm which is good these are thick this
is one of the avenues through which I’ve
been able to develop peace in my life
and what people will find is that if you
engage your creativity whatever that may
be it can be writing a book it can be
doing doing infinite water videos it can
be you know playing the guitar can it
can be singing it can be you know arts
and crafts we provide that for our
children a lot or some kind of artistic
expression when you do those things that
you really enjoy it brings you peace and
peace is really the Gateway to realize
in your greater self that’s wonderful
and we talk of just focusing on our
inner journey as opposed to the
distraction we’re being bombarded with
constantly many of us we talk of how
fast life can be you’ve said it just now
and sometimes because of this
we wanna even escape even more into the
wildness often and what I love about
your work is that you talk about
relationships and positive relationships
with your wife
Aida fantastic that’s how it all starts
right through relationships and
conscious parenting so what are some of
the tools parents can use and also
people in relationships who are focusing
and wanting to have children how can
they help raise geniuses that can love
themselves because I say a lack of self
love is the root of all suffering and
when you love yourself a hundred percent
that’s where the magic takes place
absolutely
very well said my wife and I we’ve
learned a lot over the last we’ve been
together for 13 years but we’ve we’ve
had we had our first time when let’s see
he’s ten now so I think it was like
about three years into our relationship
and since that time we’ve given birth to
four other children so we have five
altogether the oldest and the youngest
turned three last this month or let know
last month wasn’t this month
we have so many babies of so many
birthdays so we’ve learned a lot over
the last ten years of parenting and one
of the most important things that for my
wife
we understood early on that we have to
make sure that we built an appropriate
foundation for the relationship because
ultimately what’s birthed out of
relationships is a family institution
even if there’s no children involved the
fact that you’re together with your mate
it is a family and then ultimately if
you take it a step further there’s going
to be children that are going to come
onto the scene and then you’re a
responsibility level and you know your
love has to be taken to the next step or
like I have this idea that there’s
different levels of love like there’s
the love that people may feel early on
in relationship and there’s a love that
you may feel a bit later on there’s a
whole nother love that you experience
when you have children it’s just
different levels of love no level is
more important than the other one or
more significant but but but
to understand as you could progress
through this experience that we call
love you do realize that there’s
different levels of love and there’s
also different levels of understanding
that one may have about love when you
have those babies love takes on a whole
different dimension so getting to your
question my wife and I because we set a
really good foundation for our
relationship early on parenting became a
very natural occurrence and one of the
reasons why I became a very natural
occurrence for us was because we were on
the same page and one of the reasons why
we were on the same page was because we
took the time early on to really get to
know who we were respectively so I not
only did I get to know whom she was or
she got to know who I was but I got to
know who I was post this on my Facebook
page they let me see if I could remember
I said one of the major reasons why
people fail in relationships is because
they don’t get to know their partner
before they commit to their relationship
Wow but wait one of the reasons why
people failed in relationships because
they do not get to know themselves
before they commit to the villain
powerfully so one of the things that my
wife we have really engaged in this
process of not only getting to know each
other
day-by-day but also getting to know
ourselves as we progressed and that
really makes a difference and what
happens is is if you know yourself you
know your mate you can establish a
positive relationship it increases the
probability that the relationship is
going to be positive and so then
therefore when children come onto the
scene what happens is that because I’ve
learned of my wife and she learned of me
and I learned of myself as he learned
the birth of so in essence renew
ourselves and we knew each other we were
on the same page and so what we
experienced in terms of love was in line
with that level of understanding she
loved had that there is a wisdom that
one must attain in order to experience
higher levels of love and without that
and without that wisdom there’s only
certain levels that you can really
experience but as you grow in love and
with love you realize that there’s it
just continues to expands as it’s so
expansive you know it’s it’s like you
know the cosmic the cosmos
and to infinity is what love is so our
understanding of it has to evolve as we
progress and as our wisdom begins to
progress and one of the beautiful things
about relationships is that if you do
them right you begin to begin to see a
psyche like we were saying earlier you
want your vision back I began to see
even deeper into what this thing that
people call love is and what happens is
me and my wife we experience this level
of love and it’s beautiful but then when
these babies start coming on the scene
all of the love that we share is now
magnified and now not only did we love
each other but now we love this new
being that’s on the planet too and so we
have to evolve and expand our conception
of what love is in our expression of
love to meet this new demand because
this baby needs love and so we’ve done
this five times now Wow so when it comes
to parenting and conscious parenting
part of the success that one experiences
is directly related to our understanding
of what love is
and understanding what love is comes
from a knowledge of self but then also a
knowledge of your mate if you know
yourself and you know your mate you get
on the same page and so then when the
baby start coming on to the scene you’re
already on the same page and if it’s all
done in love than what you give to that
child from the beginning it’s all rooted
in love and our diely that’s what we
want to be able to provide for our
children if we want our children to
experience a greater reality than what
we experienced then we have to be
prepared to give them the opportunity to
experience something greater than what
we experience and I can say 100% at this
moment that what my children are
experiencing in terms of love far
outweighs what I experienced growing up
as a child I’m writing the book now our
business of manhood and I talk about my
journey as a fatherless boy coming into
manhood and becoming a husband and the
father and the challenges associated
with that and I’m so thankful that I’m
in a previous position today at the age
of 38 about to be 39 to where I’m in my
family’s life I’m in my children’s life
I’m in my daughter’s lives I’m in my
son’s life every single day I make
breakfast or at least for the last week
I make breakfast well for my daughters
right here on this table and I’ll put a
candle out there and I’ll light the
candle and I sit them down there so
today when they woke up daddy we’re real
go bring the camp some light
we didn’t experience that growing up as
children my my siblings and I I put my
daughters to bed every single night we
have this whole routine I love you baby
are you so beautiful have a good night’s
sleep my sons – I put them to bed I love
you sons you know we do this thing where
we grab each other’s right on like right
here and we say qapla star attractive
clean eyes and it it’s basically like an
affirmation you know like st. Peace Cup
LA goodnight I love you son these sorts
of things
this is conscious parenting my wife and
I we make sure that love is the essence
of what we do and as a consequence I can
say it 100% certainty that what my
children are experiencing it’s blessed
and I’m so thankful for that because
what it allows them is for it allows
them to maintain their genius because we
all come onto the planet has geniuses
but it allows them to maintain them
their genius because that is what love
does if you give someone love they would
experience not only the genius of love
but their own genius and that’s
precisely what we’ve done with our
children through love we’ve managed to
preserve preserve their genius and they
are just miraculous beings already and I
can’t wait 20 years down a lie to see
what they become that’s wonderful and
what I love about your work is that is
so versatile you talk about positive
relationships healthy food you’re a
vegan but also what I love about your
work is the subconscious mind you’re an
expert on that and as much as I love
also to talk about the inner and and
being positive but at the same time like
Carl Jung said you have to also dive
into areas which may not be so positive
to become illuminated the in the first
place because a lot of us we don’t even
know how we are subliminal II programmed
from the news the media and a lot of
this stuff has been the most empowering
stuff for me to help me love myself when
you realize the game that’s being played
if you can decode it now you become even
more empowered because this is a big
game of manipulation and there is so
much information we are unaware of but
you have laid it so clear in your
documentaries I love the Star Trek the
Borg agenda this is epic work you see
please talk about how to protect the
subconscious mind yes and that’s that’s
so important that is so very important
most of us were born we operate based
upon our subconscious minds it’s not
until we reach a particular age to where
the conscious mind begins to kick in
there and there’s a difference between
the subconscious and the conscious and
particularly the subconscious mind is
not aware of time past present future
doesn’t it doesn’t perceive time in that
sense the conscious mind is aware of
past president future the subconscious
mind tends to look at things and try to
draw correlations between things that
may not necessarily be you know that
that may not necessarily at first appear
to have a correlation so that it’s
always trying to connect things together
which is a powerful thing whereas the
conscious mind tends to try to analyze
things and compartments you know this is
here this is there this is there the
conscious mind its primary objective is
to solve problems in the define
undefined elements so whenever we have a
problem
it takes the content is usually the
conscious mind approaches it took to
where it’s trying to solve it and if it
can’t solve it if we begin to experience
psychological trauma and as a
consequence that’s when the subconscious
mind kicks in and submerged is that
particular trauma thought about this
inside one of my books submerges that
subconscious trauma and in taking that
that trauma in that unsolved problem or
undefined element taking it down to the
subconscious mind now your conscious
mind can move forward without having to
feel as if it’s there’s all these
problems that are unsolved it’s like a
psychological defense mechanism that we
don’t continue to traumatize ourselves
whenever we we’re faced with the
challenge or faced with the problem that
we can’t solve but getting getting more
deeper into the question for since so
many of us when we come onto the planet
where we operate based upon our
subconscious mind is a Content mind
observe absorbs everything and it
absorbs everything to such a degree to
where we don’t even have to think about
it consciously and and that’s why
children they tend to pick up things so
easily you know they learn things out of
rape because they’re mainly operating
based upon the subconscious mind they
learn thing that erase that is
phenomenal this is ingenious and it can
be preserved too if you maintain a
certain level of balance between the
subconscious mind in the conscious mind
and a lot of us that’s the primary
we received a lot of the negative
programming from meat in particular and
in some cases from our family you know
the environments that were born into we
get a lot of toxic and negative ideas
about self we begin to develop mold
levels of self esteem self worth and
self value because a lot of that
programming is being received and it’s
going to recommend to the subconscious
mind what I have learned is that at a
certain point once we are become aware
of the manipulation and we become aware
that it has impacted the subconscious
mind because what happens is that all
the programming begins to express itself
on some level in our daily life so let
me give you an example you know I’ve
done consultations with people who they
have it in there so they have a
subconscious programming and they
believe that no matter what they do
their relationship is going to fail and
so ultimately this subconscious belief
which is a core belief system influences
their choices in terms of male-female
relationships so they will go out and
unconsciously
or subconsciously seek out relationships
that will ultimately fail not because
that’s what they want but that’s but
because that is a subconscious belief so
even though they may want a positive
relationship they go and they choose the
person that is going to bring to them a
negative relationship because they have
developed over the years this belief
subconscious belief that ultimately
they’re going to fail them they’ll from
relationships also self-fulfilling
prophecy in essence so what I found is
that if one wishes to break that
particular program because it does
become a program one has to begin to
look at their beliefs and then begin to
look at where did those beliefs come
from and in particular where does the
belief come from for anyone to begin to
think that somehow no matter what they
do they’re not going to be able to
experience a positive relationship
that’s its program and I can say that
for me I’ve gone to the process I’m
still going through the process but as I
write this book I have to go back and
look at a lot of the experiences that I
had when I was a child that went
directly to my subconscious mind and
analyze those experiences so that I can
understand why it is that I’m making the
choices that I’m making that make
absolutely no conscious since today
right and it is a positive experience of
life see ya no fuss we
I feel we can’t be anything because that
programming and when you almost unlock
the secrets and the magical codes you
realize actually I can do anything
he saw the mindset absolutely it is a
mindset it’s a mindset of success
it’s also my instead of just
understanding that we have the power to
experience something greater and it
reminds me what comes to mind it’s like
if you take an animal and you put them
in a cage and it stays in that cage for
the first five years of its life you may
open up the door to that cage but the
animal will might not ever think that
there’s anything outside of the cage may
not even try to attempt to escape or to
get out or to look poke its head out or
anything but because it’s been it’s
experiencing particular reality that
it’s limited it begins to think in a
limited way and a lot of us these are
the programs that we received from an
early age as another example in terms of
programming that we received like when I
was growing up one of the programs that
in the United States of America that was
very prevalent was the criminalization
of males who look like me in other words
there was a lot of television shows
there was a lot of movies that portrayed
males who look like me as gang bangers
thugs drug addicts you know this type of
thing and you know I had a lot of
friends who saw the television shows and
watch the movies and they began to take
on that persona
it wasn’t who they were it was who
someone else was saying that they were
but they began to adopt it the
programming was being accepted to the
subconscious mind and then ultimately
begins to play itself out into their
everyday behavior their conception of
who they are there and really what it
did was it put them in a cage of
possibility a cage of possibility as
slavery will have possibilities near you
trapped inside this small cage based
upon what someone else told you you’re
about what it means to be a man is this
and this and this no that’s not what it
means to be a man it’s deeper than that
what does it mean to be a good human
being as this this and this you gotta
have you know in a fancy car you got to
have you know a PhD you got to have you
know that the latest tech gadgets you
got to have this is what it means to be
okay
is but is it is there more to this human
experience than that you know so a lot
of us we were put inside these very
confining box them and for me what I had
to do was and even to this day I have to
look at the programming that I received
and see whether or not consciously
whether or not it’s still impacting my
behavior my thoughts and ideas what I
perceive to be possible in my life and
that’s one thing that I encourage
everyone to do regardless of where
you’re at in life is to look at your
experience in essence and take stock and
look at the types of ideas thoughts and
ideas that you receive when you’re a
child and look and ask the question are
any of these thoughts or ideas are they
influencing me in a negative way are
they causing me to think that somehow I
cannot experience a greater life
experience that I cannot become
something greater and people will be
amazed at how much programming we still
have no matter how old we are
that really constricts us and restricts
us in certain ways but it doesn’t mean
that we can’t overcome the programming
that’s what you call breaking the
programming and it’s doable and I’m
doing it and I continue to do it every
single day Hey well I see you as
powerful inspiration in really not being
afraid to stand by your truth and when
we talk of manifesting a greater reality
a lot of people won’t homeschool their
children not because they don’t want to
but because they have a fear of what
other people might think how do we even
get past that programming I’m sure
you’ve had it where you’ve got family
members poking their nose into your
business how do you still stand in your
truth and still live from your heart
space as opposed to just conforming to
the world around you because I know it’s
not easy it can be a challenge but it’s
well worth the challenge it really is
and you use a term living from your
heart space I think that that’s key
because when you live from your heart
space you’re living your truth and for
me it it really it comes down to that
you know is this true you know is
raising my children is it true I want
people to think about that it sounds
strange to even say that but really
think about that is it true to what you
is home-school module – is it true true
– what is it true to this idea notion of
love and I can tell you all that it is
definitely true to the notion of love my
wife and I we’ve had a lot of resistance
because of the choices that we’ve made
we have so much resistance not only from
family members friends but also over the
Internet but I have a saying and that is
that time always tells the truth
that if we’re patient enough and if
we’re willing to seek truth not
necessarily belief but if we’re willing
to seek truth time will show us the
truth and it will be clearly evident and
I can tell you all that it is clearly
evident in my children that doing what
we’re doing for them with the
homeschooling then is a blessing it is a
gift – unto our children I grew up in
the public education system my wife
there – and it was not a hospitable
place and it was not a place that
ultimately realized internal genius and
in fact a lot of us that’s where we lost
our internal genius and then we spend
the rest of our life trying to find it
well just imagine what if our parents
said hey wait a minute
you know what I know that’s the
standardized norm and oh that’s what
everyone else is doing but let’s do
something different let us preserve our
children’s genes let us give to them
what they need based upon our
understandings of their needs their
intellectual needs if you will and as we
teach them let’s love them – and let’s
do this every single day Monday through
Monday let’s think let’s do every single
day throughout the year not no spring
break no summer break every single day
this is what we do and what we found is
that the level of intellectual
progressions that are present in our
children time has told the truth and
remarkably what happens there’s a lot of
the people who had reservations about
our decisions not to vaccinate not to
circumcise my sons there’s no way that I
would ever do that
I will circumcise but there’s no way
that I’m going
cut a piece of my son’s penis off and
somehow that’s reasonable or logical or
rooted in love you stop saying that’s
what I’m saying when we say you know is
it true is that true to love no that’s
not true to cut your son a piece of your
child’s penis off when the child is
first born
that’s not rooted in love so okay we
make it resistance from people because
we didn’t vaccinate because we didn’t
circumcise our sons are because we
homeschool because we don’t eat the fast
food we may get the resistance but
ultimately time tells the truth so a lot
of the people who had took issues with
us and had all types of discouraging
things are safe now when they see our
children when they see our family
institution when they see the positive
relationship that we have the last 30
years they have no recourse but to admit
the truth that what we have done was the
right thing to do for our children
now I should say that it’s not for
everyone it depends on your situation
and circumstance but if you want to do
the best for your children you have to
consider thinking outside of the
socialized norms especially as it
relates to how your children are going
to be educated how your children are
going to be cared for them in terms of
their health many different levels and I
should also mention that for those know
if you have your children the public
education system make up for the
difference what this means is that when
they come home spend time with your
babies don’t get on Facebook on Twitter
and have you to run around the house and
you’re just on the internet or no don’t
do that or watching television you know
or you know take you do something
constructive positive with your children
because that time goes by so quickly
what what happened is that if you don’t
take the time when your child becomes 14
or 15 we’re gonna look at your child and
they’re gonna look at you and they’re
gonna say you’re gonna say to them I
don’t know you and they’re gonna say to
you I don’t know you either and that is
not the truth as it relates to love the
love has to do especially when it comes
to parenting
you have to know self and you have to
know your babies and in knowing yourself
you’ll know what you can provide for
your babies and annoying your babies
you’ll know what needs to be provided
for them and in the end time always
tells the truth and I stand by that and
that’s precisely why I can stand by my
truth because I know that time
ultimately proved that what my wife and
I are doing it is in the best interest
of our children and if one if a parent
can say that that this is in the best
interests of my children then that’s
what you go with
you don’t necessarily have to be
concerned
with what other people have to say or
what other people’s fears are because a
lot of times their fears about what your
choices that you’re making that no
that’s their fear not yours let them
have their fear you just do what you
know is right and that’s precisely what
my wife and I we continue to do well
laughs I can see it’s wonderful it’s
just I see that a lot of us we are
searching for happiness the pursuit of
happiness but in the process by the time
we get what we want everything has
changed
certain friends of God they’re not there
to celebrate with us we see people’s
true colors and even ourselves it may
not be what we expect because not
everything that glitters is gold when we
talk of personal growth and manifesting
a greater reality what is for you the
secret of happiness because this is what
everyone is after in my journey I’ve
learned that the secret of happiness is
to recognize that happiness ultimately
as a choice and I think that that’s a
very empowered position because in other
words it’s up to the individual to make
the choice to be happy let me give you
an example what I mean because I know
that sounds simple but is it for me is
so true it is a choice one person you
can give them a cup of water and it
makes them happy because they’re thirsty
they drink the water oh and it’s so good
it’s cool it’s refreshing and they find
happiness but you can take the same cup
of water and give it to someone else and
they just drunk a whole bunch of water
they’re not thirsty and point of fact
they don’t want to drink any more water
if they drink any more it’s gonna make
them upset it’s gonna make their stomach
upset because they just drank this just
too much you give them a cup of water’s
the same water same purity and it’s so
wonderful you give it to him I can’t
stand this water what do you mean it’s
still it’s the same water I don’t I
don’t I can’t stand it it makes me
unhappy why because happiness is a
choice right right well this is powerful
depending on a person’s orientation and
what they’re experiencing this is what
you were alluding to earlier depending
on their what their what they’re
searching for and what they need at any
given time what they perceive to be
happiness is going to be different so
therefore for in my journey what I’ve
learned is that we just simply have to
make the choice whatever we’re given at
any given time whether we want the water
or not whether or not it’s so water is
warm or hot water or cold water or maybe
it’s not so tasty but it’s still water
that you know may be beneficial for us
on some level we can still find
happiness in the fact that we have the
cup in our hand so this can be applied
to any area of our life whatever in life
deals us whether it’s what we could may
perceive it to be positive or all we may
even perceive it to be negative in that
moment we can still make a choice to be
happy and in this sense the power it
always resides within us it’s not so
much about the circumstances of what
someone else is doing to us or what
someone else the cup that are the type
of cup that they’ve given us or whether
or not we’re thirsty or not it has
nothing to do with that issue is
accepting what it is that we are
receiving at any given time and
recognizing that we can make the choice
to be happy that’s a very empowering
place to be well I absolutely love that
and I just want to say thank you for
taking the time out of your busy
schedule because your work is phenomenal
Lennon and I go back a long time and
it’s just great to see your evolution in
your journey how your family are
progressing and lastly just leave the
infinite waters family with any advice
that you want to leave us with in yeah
manifesting a greater reality for future
generations yes and I just want to go
back to my children here because
ultimately for me and my wife
is about what we are doing for our
children I mean when I met you in person
I said something and I almost say it
again because I really do believe this
I remember it was time to go and I said
yeah let me get back to these baby I got
a hit on out I gotta get back to these
babies and and Freni we all watching
this off I was blessed to meet brother
Ralph in California he happened to be in
what’s where would you add any wave in
sense that sounds about right you know
he’s in Venice right and I happen to be
in Los Angeles this during the same time
I had that I was at doing a lecture out
there and after the lecture I mean it
was able to meet up with Ralph and so I
had a wonderful time with the bread I
love bread
I just I love you as a human being as a
being beyond human – okay that’s such a
wonderful time we talked your wonderful
wife she cooked that I had some more
wonderful meal I’d to say wife okay and
and we had a fantastic time and and when
it was time to go I said okay bread let
me get on this road because I got to get
back to these babies so I can tuck them
in and make sure that they are
adequately prepared for their good
night’s sleep
and I said something to the effect that
I’m doing this because I want my
children to someday be like you talking
about Ralph smart and the reason why I’m
saying that is because like Ralph said
we’ve known each other for many years
now and as I’ve watched this brother
progress I have been so inspired I mean
it’s changed my direction
in terms of my work by watching just a
level of positivity in the sincerity
because you will find that there are a
lot of people doing this type of work
who are not quite sincere but this
brother is a genuine human being he’s
otherworldly in a sense it’s like 1 in
people’s like this power I’m saying all
this to say that just imagine if all of
our parents thought that way
– we’re in all of our parents said I
want to make sure that I do whatever it
needs to be done so that my children can
become as Ralph would put it the
greatest versions of themselves where
would we be as a species and we’re with
this planet being we would we all be
collectively as a species if that was
the orientation and so I just want to
leave that with everyone that whether
you have children or not that’s not even
the point if you have children make sure
you do what you can so that they won’t
have to wait like I did until I was
about 28 29 years old and begin to ask
the question how do I get my business
back so many of us that was our journey
we get to a certain age and then we have
to start this journey to really trying
to discover self well what if our
parents allowed us to know our self and
preserved our genes from the beginning
how far much further along with Vivi so
I want people to be clear even if you
don’t have children treat yourself like
your own child give to yourself what you
need to become your greatest self or how
what Ralph would say your greatest
version the greatest version of yourself
treat yourself with that level of
kindness and give to yourself
in the way that you as a child would
have loved to have been given to and I
have a sense that if we all did that and
if we did it long enough may take a
couple of millennia but if we all did
that enough that this species would be
perceived as a remarkable blessed Intune
spiritual loving species in the cosmos
and this is going to be get back to a
place that I hope my children will help
people to get back to which Ralph is
most definitely helping the species to
get back to and that is a place wherein
we are respected again as a species in
the cosmos I called a cosmic
respectability and I also want to say
but I’m so thankful to have this
opportunity to speak with you
and you know I love you dearly and I’m
so thankful that I’m on the planet while
Ralph smart is on the planet
likewise I love you too and I’m so
thankful Lenin honor is on the planet
because you awakened my eyes so much in
early journeys even today to this
present moment and I just love seeing
the evolution of your work and sometimes
you might feel okay my early work it’s
all relative because that is phenomenal
work to never discard that work because
like I always say it’s so connected you
know everyone is coming from a different
angle the inner is important but also
your whole work on decoding that stuff
is powerful that stuff in itself is it’s
a masterpiece
and I feel sometimes because whenever
you put something out there people may
say stuff but you really created a storm
I would say you are a pioneer of this
awakening movement in such a powerful
way you created those ripples which are
creating the tidal wave to awaken people
to a higher consciousness right now on
the planet well thank you well it’s been
part of the journey I’ve grown up watch
me grow and I want everyone else just
keep growing and of course if you want
to continue to be inspired your head on
over and your yard you’re on there right
now viewing this but you stay tuned to
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check out Lenin honors YouTube channel
www.graebert.com orders diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
once again we have a very special guest
joining us today a dear brother Lenin
honor Lenin honor is a writer musician
video producer talk show host and
counselor his website wwlp.com an Hood
fatherhood spirituality positive
relationships subliminal manipulation
marriage the entertainment industry
children family and personal growth
welcome because we are gonna dive deep
today and the main topic we are gonna
discuss is overcoming childhood
circumstances and manifesting a greater
reality for future generations let’s
how did it all start out for you what’s
it it’s been a day-by-day journey and it
continues to this day
and I know we we talked about this
before just the journey of life and how
we’re presented with certain challenges
and as we overcome those challenges we
continue to grow and as we continue to
grow we develop the wisdom that allows
us to create a greater reality and
that’s what my wife and I are
particularly we’re trying to do and we
are doing for our children
wonderful wonderful you’ve been doing
this for a long time and it’s
inspirational a lot of us we might be in
situations where we blame our childhood
for where we are today what you say to
these kinds of people who can’t get past
their childhood and are bitter and angry
well that the answer well first that
being angry and bitter it’s
understandable because I’ve been there
too but that the answer ultimate
comes and realizing that healing is
necessary anger really comes out of a
lack of healing so even if someone like
upset someone and someone gets angry
well when someone upsets you you can
decide to heal that condition of anger
in that moment or shortly after that
moment it’s okay to feel that but
ultimate if there’s anything that needs
to take place more to let that go so one
of the things that I’ve had to do in my
life is to let go of a lot of the anger
that I felt and in order to do that I’ve
had to heal and so healing becomes a
central theme for those of us who maybe
perhaps were born into difficult
childhood circumstances or maybe even
those of us who are currently in
difficult circumstances that we would
like to overcome and you had the famous
sentence I want my vision back and we
can apply this in creating and
manifesting a greater reality for future
generations how has this helped you in
becoming the greatest version of
yourself yes I remember I came up with
that it was a sign and it said I want
vision back and I was holding it like
this and this was when I was doing my
documentary work and during that time I
was I was looking at different aspects
of manipulation that’s present in
particular in media advertising
subliminal messages the entertainment
industry movies music and doing analysis
of those things because I was trying to
understand why it was that so many of us
on the planet are and were unhappy and
one of the things that I realized what
it was that one of the reasons why we
have been unhappy and I’m using myself
as an example to because I’ve been there
was because of a lot of the manipulation
that takes place coming from media allow
the toxic toxic substance I guess you
can say media substances a lot of the
toxic programming that we get from media
a lot of the programming that caused us
to have low self esteem low self value
caused us to not necessarily appreciate
other people this type of thing and
there’s a lot of manipulation out there
like that so part of what I was getting
at with her I want my vision back was I
wanted to be able to see what the mini
release was
so that I can begin to overcoming that
was like the first level but then there
was another level to that now was when I
began to realize that I wanted my vision
back so that I can see beyond not only
the manipulation that was external but
also looked within and see what was it
that I was doing to myself that was
causing me to be unhappy that’s the true
challenge it’s easy to say you know
looking and think about what other
people are doing to us to make us
unhappy but the deeper challenge and the
more difficult challenges that look
within and say what am i doing to myself
– cause that’s causing you this level of
unhappiness and for most of my life I
was unhappy and what I decided to do at
a certain point was I’ll begin to
transition from dealing with topics
dealing with the external manipulation
and those things that from the external
that can make cause unhappiness in my
life and in other people’s life and
begin to look at what I was doing to
myself to make myself unhappy and one of
the things I begin to do is to ask the
question what is my orientation to my
life experience you know am i someone
who is empowered or am i someone who is
merely a victim and the victim mentality
is something that a lot of us struggle
with and a lot of us we develop that
victim mentality based upon our
childhood experiences and things that we
were born into but I have a saying that
there there are things that were born
into there are things that we overcome
there are things that we become and then
there are things that we are becoming
and so long as we continue on that
continuing that process that
evolutionary process we will continue to
be to become something greater and in my
life that is what I aspire to to become
I want to become something greater not
just for myself for my children for my
wife and for those that I seek to help
in mind right and how has meditation
helped you in manifesting greater
reality because many of us I’ve seen
along my journey people who meditate a
lot can let go of the past trauma what
are some of the tools other tools we can
also use I know you are a fabulous
musician I see you playing the flute and
I’m like wow you should continue playing
because it’s inspirational and
so harmonious when you’re playing it and
it’s almost as if you are creating a
perfect balance of perfect homeostasis
many of us when we are in disarray
we don’t do that so what are some of the
tools we can use in becoming the
greatest version of ourselves and you
bring up such an important point one the
reasons why a lot of us are unhappiness
because we’re not dealing with those
things that bring us peace right right
and I’m talking to myself as I say that
you know I find peace in playing with
you I really do once I start producing
those tones and those frequencies peace
comes over me and it’s perfectly natural
I don’t have to think about I don’t have
to try to make it happen it just happens
and yet I don’t do this nearly as much
as I see some of us what happens in life
is we get so balled down with like
different levels of response me I have
five children so I have holed out of
this possibility okay my wife but now we
have five beautiful children we
homeschool our children so we have a lot
of responsibilities we take care of
their dietary needs where we can make
sure that they’re eaten properly we make
sure most definitely if they’re loved
that’s the key thing so we have a lot of
responsibilities and what happens off
the times if we get older the more
responsibilities we have the less time
you put into those things that bring us
peace and I’m speaking to myself as I
say for me and my journey music has been
fundamental for me meditation – when I
was in college I spend a lot of time
meditating meditation for me had more to
do with me developing an ability to
focus my mind because part of finding
peace is having the mental capacity to
focus long enough to find the peace the
beautiful thing for me was that I can
pick up a fleeting life within two
seconds I can find the peace you know
but but there’s other time griffie if I
don’t have access to the food if I have
suddenly something comes up I have to
find peace in other ways and one of the
ways is just to think about things on a
certain level and change my orientation
or my perspective on what it is it has
brought me you know just come through
okay look at it from a different vantage
point and then I can find peace that way
but when I call I want to go back to
one of the things one of the reasons why
creativity and that’s because it’s a
tool that anyone can use if they truly
wish to find peace that would allow them
to become something greater is to really
engage your creativity when I was a
child music for me was really what
allowed me to get through my childhood
circumstances am I used to lock myself
in the bathroom for like hours and I
will practice you know I’m like you know
10 11 years old
can you imagine 10 11 years old and a
lot of people thought that the reason
why I was doing that was because like I
had this love for music and it wasn’t so
much that I love music I enjoyed it it
was that it brought me peace so growing
up in a abusive household locking myself
in the bathroom and just being with the
food and how the vibrations everything
would echo inside the bathroom you
closed the door and everything would
echo back to you and it was like it’s
just me and this sound it’s just me and
this sound and it was so it was it just
brought me so much peace when I was a
child the beautiful thing is that
because I developed that skill of
bringing myself peace through music
which is creativity late now as I as I’m
older like over the last four months
I’ve committed myself to practicing more
and as I practice have been more
peaceful as I practice or loving to my
children’s I practice I’ve been more
calm which is good these are thick this
is one of the avenues through which I’ve
been able to develop peace in my life
and what people will find is that if you
engage your creativity whatever that may
be it can be writing a book it can be
doing doing infinite water videos it can
be you know playing the guitar can it
can be singing it can be you know arts
and crafts we provide that for our
children a lot or some kind of artistic
expression when you do those things that
you really enjoy it brings you peace and
peace is really the Gateway to realize
in your greater self that’s wonderful
and we talk of just focusing on our
inner journey as opposed to the
distraction we’re being bombarded with
constantly many of us we talk of how
fast life can be you’ve said it just now
and sometimes because of this
we wanna even escape even more into the
wildness often and what I love about
your work is that you talk about
relationships and positive relationships
with your wife
Aida fantastic that’s how it all starts
right through relationships and
conscious parenting so what are some of
the tools parents can use and also
people in relationships who are focusing
and wanting to have children how can
they help raise geniuses that can love
themselves because I say a lack of self
love is the root of all suffering and
when you love yourself a hundred percent
that’s where the magic takes place
absolutely
very well said my wife and I we’ve
learned a lot over the last we’ve been
together for 13 years but we’ve we’ve
had we had our first time when let’s see
he’s ten now so I think it was like
about three years into our relationship
and since that time we’ve given birth to
four other children so we have five
altogether the oldest and the youngest
turned three last this month or let know
last month wasn’t this month
we have so many babies of so many
birthdays so we’ve learned a lot over
the last ten years of parenting and one
of the most important things that for my
wife
we understood early on that we have to
make sure that we built an appropriate
foundation for the relationship because
ultimately what’s birthed out of
relationships is a family institution
even if there’s no children involved the
fact that you’re together with your mate
it is a family and then ultimately if
you take it a step further there’s going
to be children that are going to come
onto the scene and then you’re a
responsibility level and you know your
love has to be taken to the next step or
like I have this idea that there’s
different levels of love like there’s
the love that people may feel early on
in relationship and there’s a love that
you may feel a bit later on there’s a
whole nother love that you experience
when you have children it’s just
different levels of love no level is
more important than the other one or
more significant but but but
to understand as you could progress
through this experience that we call
love you do realize that there’s
different levels of love and there’s
also different levels of understanding
that one may have about love when you
have those babies love takes on a whole
different dimension so getting to your
question my wife and I because we set a
really good foundation for our
relationship early on parenting became a
very natural occurrence and one of the
reasons why I became a very natural
occurrence for us was because we were on
the same page and one of the reasons why
we were on the same page was because we
took the time early on to really get to
know who we were respectively so I not
only did I get to know whom she was or
she got to know who I was but I got to
know who I was post this on my Facebook
page they let me see if I could remember
I said one of the major reasons why
people fail in relationships is because
they don’t get to know their partner
before they commit to their relationship
Wow but wait one of the reasons why
people failed in relationships because
they do not get to know themselves
before they commit to the villain
powerfully so one of the things that my
wife we have really engaged in this
process of not only getting to know each
other
day-by-day but also getting to know
ourselves as we progressed and that
really makes a difference and what
happens is is if you know yourself you
know your mate you can establish a
positive relationship it increases the
probability that the relationship is
going to be positive and so then
therefore when children come onto the
scene what happens is that because I’ve
learned of my wife and she learned of me
and I learned of myself as he learned
the birth of so in essence renew
ourselves and we knew each other we were
on the same page and so what we
experienced in terms of love was in line
with that level of understanding she
loved had that there is a wisdom that
one must attain in order to experience
higher levels of love and without that
and without that wisdom there’s only
certain levels that you can really
experience but as you grow in love and
with love you realize that there’s it
just continues to expands as it’s so
expansive you know it’s it’s like you
know the cosmic the cosmos
and to infinity is what love is so our
understanding of it has to evolve as we
progress and as our wisdom begins to
progress and one of the beautiful things
about relationships is that if you do
them right you begin to begin to see a
psyche like we were saying earlier you
want your vision back I began to see
even deeper into what this thing that
people call love is and what happens is
me and my wife we experience this level
of love and it’s beautiful but then when
these babies start coming on the scene
all of the love that we share is now
magnified and now not only did we love
each other but now we love this new
being that’s on the planet too and so we
have to evolve and expand our conception
of what love is in our expression of
love to meet this new demand because
this baby needs love and so we’ve done
this five times now Wow so when it comes
to parenting and conscious parenting
part of the success that one experiences
is directly related to our understanding
of what love is
and understanding what love is comes
from a knowledge of self but then also a
knowledge of your mate if you know
yourself and you know your mate you get
on the same page and so then when the
baby start coming on to the scene you’re
already on the same page and if it’s all
done in love than what you give to that
child from the beginning it’s all rooted
in love and our diely that’s what we
want to be able to provide for our
children if we want our children to
experience a greater reality than what
we experienced then we have to be
prepared to give them the opportunity to
experience something greater than what
we experience and I can say 100% at this
moment that what my children are
experiencing in terms of love far
outweighs what I experienced growing up
as a child I’m writing the book now our
business of manhood and I talk about my
journey as a fatherless boy coming into
manhood and becoming a husband and the
father and the challenges associated
with that and I’m so thankful that I’m
in a previous position today at the age
of 38 about to be 39 to where I’m in my
family’s life I’m in my children’s life
I’m in my daughter’s lives I’m in my
son’s life every single day I make
breakfast or at least for the last week
I make breakfast well for my daughters
right here on this table and I’ll put a
candle out there and I’ll light the
candle and I sit them down there so
today when they woke up daddy we’re real
go bring the camp some light
we didn’t experience that growing up as
children my my siblings and I I put my
daughters to bed every single night we
have this whole routine I love you baby
are you so beautiful have a good night’s
sleep my sons – I put them to bed I love
you sons you know we do this thing where
we grab each other’s right on like right
here and we say qapla star attractive
clean eyes and it it’s basically like an
affirmation you know like st. Peace Cup
LA goodnight I love you son these sorts
of things
this is conscious parenting my wife and
I we make sure that love is the essence
of what we do and as a consequence I can
say it 100% certainty that what my
children are experiencing it’s blessed
and I’m so thankful for that because
what it allows them is for it allows
them to maintain their genius because we
all come onto the planet has geniuses
but it allows them to maintain them
their genius because that is what love
does if you give someone love they would
experience not only the genius of love
but their own genius and that’s
precisely what we’ve done with our
children through love we’ve managed to
preserve preserve their genius and they
are just miraculous beings already and I
can’t wait 20 years down a lie to see
what they become that’s wonderful and
what I love about your work is that is
so versatile you talk about positive
relationships healthy food you’re a
vegan but also what I love about your
work is the subconscious mind you’re an
expert on that and as much as I love
also to talk about the inner and and
being positive but at the same time like
Carl Jung said you have to also dive
into areas which may not be so positive
to become illuminated the in the first
place because a lot of us we don’t even
know how we are subliminal II programmed
from the news the media and a lot of
this stuff has been the most empowering
stuff for me to help me love myself when
you realize the game that’s being played
if you can decode it now you become even
more empowered because this is a big
game of manipulation and there is so
much information we are unaware of but
you have laid it so clear in your
documentaries I love the Star Trek the
Borg agenda this is epic work you see
please talk about how to protect the
subconscious mind yes and that’s that’s
so important that is so very important
most of us were born we operate based
upon our subconscious minds it’s not
until we reach a particular age to where
the conscious mind begins to kick in
there and there’s a difference between
the subconscious and the conscious and
particularly the subconscious mind is
not aware of time past present future
doesn’t it doesn’t perceive time in that
sense the conscious mind is aware of
past president future the subconscious
mind tends to look at things and try to
draw correlations between things that
may not necessarily be you know that
that may not necessarily at first appear
to have a correlation so that it’s
always trying to connect things together
which is a powerful thing whereas the
conscious mind tends to try to analyze
things and compartments you know this is
here this is there this is there the
conscious mind its primary objective is
to solve problems in the define
undefined elements so whenever we have a
problem
it takes the content is usually the
conscious mind approaches it took to
where it’s trying to solve it and if it
can’t solve it if we begin to experience
psychological trauma and as a
consequence that’s when the subconscious
mind kicks in and submerged is that
particular trauma thought about this
inside one of my books submerges that
subconscious trauma and in taking that
that trauma in that unsolved problem or
undefined element taking it down to the
subconscious mind now your conscious
mind can move forward without having to
feel as if it’s there’s all these
problems that are unsolved it’s like a
psychological defense mechanism that we
don’t continue to traumatize ourselves
whenever we we’re faced with the
challenge or faced with the problem that
we can’t solve but getting getting more
deeper into the question for since so
many of us when we come onto the planet
where we operate based upon our
subconscious mind is a Content mind
observe absorbs everything and it
absorbs everything to such a degree to
where we don’t even have to think about
it consciously and and that’s why
children they tend to pick up things so
easily you know they learn things out of
rape because they’re mainly operating
based upon the subconscious mind they
learn thing that erase that is
phenomenal this is ingenious and it can
be preserved too if you maintain a
certain level of balance between the
subconscious mind in the conscious mind
and a lot of us that’s the primary
we received a lot of the negative
programming from meat in particular and
in some cases from our family you know
the environments that were born into we
get a lot of toxic and negative ideas
about self we begin to develop mold
levels of self esteem self worth and
self value because a lot of that
programming is being received and it’s
going to recommend to the subconscious
mind what I have learned is that at a
certain point once we are become aware
of the manipulation and we become aware
that it has impacted the subconscious
mind because what happens is that all
the programming begins to express itself
on some level in our daily life so let
me give you an example you know I’ve
done consultations with people who they
have it in there so they have a
subconscious programming and they
believe that no matter what they do
their relationship is going to fail and
so ultimately this subconscious belief
which is a core belief system influences
their choices in terms of male-female
relationships so they will go out and
unconsciously
or subconsciously seek out relationships
that will ultimately fail not because
that’s what they want but that’s but
because that is a subconscious belief so
even though they may want a positive
relationship they go and they choose the
person that is going to bring to them a
negative relationship because they have
developed over the years this belief
subconscious belief that ultimately
they’re going to fail them they’ll from
relationships also self-fulfilling
prophecy in essence so what I found is
that if one wishes to break that
particular program because it does
become a program one has to begin to
look at their beliefs and then begin to
look at where did those beliefs come
from and in particular where does the
belief come from for anyone to begin to
think that somehow no matter what they
do they’re not going to be able to
experience a positive relationship
that’s its program and I can say that
for me I’ve gone to the process I’m
still going through the process but as I
write this book I have to go back and
look at a lot of the experiences that I
had when I was a child that went
directly to my subconscious mind and
analyze those experiences so that I can
understand why it is that I’m making the
choices that I’m making that make
absolutely no conscious since today
right and it is a positive experience of
life see ya no fuss we
I feel we can’t be anything because that
programming and when you almost unlock
the secrets and the magical codes you
realize actually I can do anything
he saw the mindset absolutely it is a
mindset it’s a mindset of success
it’s also my instead of just
understanding that we have the power to
experience something greater and it
reminds me what comes to mind it’s like
if you take an animal and you put them
in a cage and it stays in that cage for
the first five years of its life you may
open up the door to that cage but the
animal will might not ever think that
there’s anything outside of the cage may
not even try to attempt to escape or to
get out or to look poke its head out or
anything but because it’s been it’s
experiencing particular reality that
it’s limited it begins to think in a
limited way and a lot of us these are
the programs that we received from an
early age as another example in terms of
programming that we received like when I
was growing up one of the programs that
in the United States of America that was
very prevalent was the criminalization
of males who look like me in other words
there was a lot of television shows
there was a lot of movies that portrayed
males who look like me as gang bangers
thugs drug addicts you know this type of
thing and you know I had a lot of
friends who saw the television shows and
watch the movies and they began to take
on that persona
it wasn’t who they were it was who
someone else was saying that they were
but they began to adopt it the
programming was being accepted to the
subconscious mind and then ultimately
begins to play itself out into their
everyday behavior their conception of
who they are there and really what it
did was it put them in a cage of
possibility a cage of possibility as
slavery will have possibilities near you
trapped inside this small cage based
upon what someone else told you you’re
about what it means to be a man is this
and this and this no that’s not what it
means to be a man it’s deeper than that
what does it mean to be a good human
being as this this and this you gotta
have you know in a fancy car you got to
have you know a PhD you got to have you
know that the latest tech gadgets you
got to have this is what it means to be
okay
is but is it is there more to this human
experience than that you know so a lot
of us we were put inside these very
confining box them and for me what I had
to do was and even to this day I have to
look at the programming that I received
and see whether or not consciously
whether or not it’s still impacting my
behavior my thoughts and ideas what I
perceive to be possible in my life and
that’s one thing that I encourage
everyone to do regardless of where
you’re at in life is to look at your
experience in essence and take stock and
look at the types of ideas thoughts and
ideas that you receive when you’re a
child and look and ask the question are
any of these thoughts or ideas are they
influencing me in a negative way are
they causing me to think that somehow I
cannot experience a greater life
experience that I cannot become
something greater and people will be
amazed at how much programming we still
have no matter how old we are
that really constricts us and restricts
us in certain ways but it doesn’t mean
that we can’t overcome the programming
that’s what you call breaking the
programming and it’s doable and I’m
doing it and I continue to do it every
single day Hey well I see you as
powerful inspiration in really not being
afraid to stand by your truth and when
we talk of manifesting a greater reality
a lot of people won’t homeschool their
children not because they don’t want to
but because they have a fear of what
other people might think how do we even
get past that programming I’m sure
you’ve had it where you’ve got family
members poking their nose into your
business how do you still stand in your
truth and still live from your heart
space as opposed to just conforming to
the world around you because I know it’s
not easy it can be a challenge but it’s
well worth the challenge it really is
and you use a term living from your
heart space I think that that’s key
because when you live from your heart
space you’re living your truth and for
me it it really it comes down to that
you know is this true you know is
raising my children is it true I want
people to think about that it sounds
strange to even say that but really
think about that is it true to what you
is home-school module – is it true true
– what is it true to this idea notion of
love and I can tell you all that it is
definitely true to the notion of love my
wife and I we’ve had a lot of resistance
because of the choices that we’ve made
we have so much resistance not only from
family members friends but also over the
Internet but I have a saying and that is
that time always tells the truth
that if we’re patient enough and if
we’re willing to seek truth not
necessarily belief but if we’re willing
to seek truth time will show us the
truth and it will be clearly evident and
I can tell you all that it is clearly
evident in my children that doing what
we’re doing for them with the
homeschooling then is a blessing it is a
gift – unto our children I grew up in
the public education system my wife
there – and it was not a hospitable
place and it was not a place that
ultimately realized internal genius and
in fact a lot of us that’s where we lost
our internal genius and then we spend
the rest of our life trying to find it
well just imagine what if our parents
said hey wait a minute
you know what I know that’s the
standardized norm and oh that’s what
everyone else is doing but let’s do
something different let us preserve our
children’s genes let us give to them
what they need based upon our
understandings of their needs their
intellectual needs if you will and as we
teach them let’s love them – and let’s
do this every single day Monday through
Monday let’s think let’s do every single
day throughout the year not no spring
break no summer break every single day
this is what we do and what we found is
that the level of intellectual
progressions that are present in our
children time has told the truth and
remarkably what happens there’s a lot of
the people who had reservations about
our decisions not to vaccinate not to
circumcise my sons there’s no way that I
would ever do that
I will circumcise but there’s no way
that I’m going
cut a piece of my son’s penis off and
somehow that’s reasonable or logical or
rooted in love you stop saying that’s
what I’m saying when we say you know is
it true is that true to love no that’s
not true to cut your son a piece of your
child’s penis off when the child is
first born
that’s not rooted in love so okay we
make it resistance from people because
we didn’t vaccinate because we didn’t
circumcise our sons are because we
homeschool because we don’t eat the fast
food we may get the resistance but
ultimately time tells the truth so a lot
of the people who had took issues with
us and had all types of discouraging
things are safe now when they see our
children when they see our family
institution when they see the positive
relationship that we have the last 30
years they have no recourse but to admit
the truth that what we have done was the
right thing to do for our children
now I should say that it’s not for
everyone it depends on your situation
and circumstance but if you want to do
the best for your children you have to
consider thinking outside of the
socialized norms especially as it
relates to how your children are going
to be educated how your children are
going to be cared for them in terms of
their health many different levels and I
should also mention that for those know
if you have your children the public
education system make up for the
difference what this means is that when
they come home spend time with your
babies don’t get on Facebook on Twitter
and have you to run around the house and
you’re just on the internet or no don’t
do that or watching television you know
or you know take you do something
constructive positive with your children
because that time goes by so quickly
what what happened is that if you don’t
take the time when your child becomes 14
or 15 we’re gonna look at your child and
they’re gonna look at you and they’re
gonna say you’re gonna say to them I
don’t know you and they’re gonna say to
you I don’t know you either and that is
not the truth as it relates to love the
love has to do especially when it comes
to parenting
you have to know self and you have to
know your babies and in knowing yourself
you’ll know what you can provide for
your babies and annoying your babies
you’ll know what needs to be provided
for them and in the end time always
tells the truth and I stand by that and
that’s precisely why I can stand by my
truth because I know that time
ultimately proved that what my wife and
I are doing it is in the best interest
of our children and if one if a parent
can say that that this is in the best
interests of my children then that’s
what you go with
you don’t necessarily have to be
concerned
with what other people have to say or
what other people’s fears are because a
lot of times their fears about what your
choices that you’re making that no
that’s their fear not yours let them
have their fear you just do what you
know is right and that’s precisely what
my wife and I we continue to do well
laughs I can see it’s wonderful it’s
just I see that a lot of us we are
searching for happiness the pursuit of
happiness but in the process by the time
we get what we want everything has
changed
certain friends of God they’re not there
to celebrate with us we see people’s
true colors and even ourselves it may
not be what we expect because not
everything that glitters is gold when we
talk of personal growth and manifesting
a greater reality what is for you the
secret of happiness because this is what
everyone is after in my journey I’ve
learned that the secret of happiness is
to recognize that happiness ultimately
as a choice and I think that that’s a
very empowered position because in other
words it’s up to the individual to make
the choice to be happy let me give you
an example what I mean because I know
that sounds simple but is it for me is
so true it is a choice one person you
can give them a cup of water and it
makes them happy because they’re thirsty
they drink the water oh and it’s so good
it’s cool it’s refreshing and they find
happiness but you can take the same cup
of water and give it to someone else and
they just drunk a whole bunch of water
they’re not thirsty and point of fact
they don’t want to drink any more water
if they drink any more it’s gonna make
them upset it’s gonna make their stomach
upset because they just drank this just
too much you give them a cup of water’s
the same water same purity and it’s so
wonderful you give it to him I can’t
stand this water what do you mean it’s
still it’s the same water I don’t I
don’t I can’t stand it it makes me
unhappy why because happiness is a
choice right right well this is powerful
depending on a person’s orientation and
what they’re experiencing this is what
you were alluding to earlier depending
on their what their what they’re
searching for and what they need at any
given time what they perceive to be
happiness is going to be different so
therefore for in my journey what I’ve
learned is that we just simply have to
make the choice whatever we’re given at
any given time whether we want the water
or not whether or not it’s so water is
warm or hot water or cold water or maybe
it’s not so tasty but it’s still water
that you know may be beneficial for us
on some level we can still find
happiness in the fact that we have the
cup in our hand so this can be applied
to any area of our life whatever in life
deals us whether it’s what we could may
perceive it to be positive or all we may
even perceive it to be negative in that
moment we can still make a choice to be
happy and in this sense the power it
always resides within us it’s not so
much about the circumstances of what
someone else is doing to us or what
someone else the cup that are the type
of cup that they’ve given us or whether
or not we’re thirsty or not it has
nothing to do with that issue is
accepting what it is that we are
receiving at any given time and
recognizing that we can make the choice
to be happy that’s a very empowering
place to be well I absolutely love that
and I just want to say thank you for
taking the time out of your busy
schedule because your work is phenomenal
Lennon and I go back a long time and
it’s just great to see your evolution in
your journey how your family are
progressing and lastly just leave the
infinite waters family with any advice
that you want to leave us with in yeah
manifesting a greater reality for future
generations yes and I just want to go
back to my children here because
ultimately for me and my wife
is about what we are doing for our
children I mean when I met you in person
I said something and I almost say it
again because I really do believe this
I remember it was time to go and I said
yeah let me get back to these baby I got
a hit on out I gotta get back to these
babies and and Freni we all watching
this off I was blessed to meet brother
Ralph in California he happened to be in
what’s where would you add any wave in
sense that sounds about right you know
he’s in Venice right and I happen to be
in Los Angeles this during the same time
I had that I was at doing a lecture out
there and after the lecture I mean it
was able to meet up with Ralph and so I
had a wonderful time with the bread I
love bread
I just I love you as a human being as a
being beyond human – okay that’s such a
wonderful time we talked your wonderful
wife she cooked that I had some more
wonderful meal I’d to say wife okay and
and we had a fantastic time and and when
it was time to go I said okay bread let
me get on this road because I got to get
back to these babies so I can tuck them
in and make sure that they are
adequately prepared for their good
night’s sleep
and I said something to the effect that
I’m doing this because I want my
children to someday be like you talking
about Ralph smart and the reason why I’m
saying that is because like Ralph said
we’ve known each other for many years
now and as I’ve watched this brother
progress I have been so inspired I mean
it’s changed my direction
in terms of my work by watching just a
level of positivity in the sincerity
because you will find that there are a
lot of people doing this type of work
who are not quite sincere but this
brother is a genuine human being he’s
otherworldly in a sense it’s like 1 in
people’s like this power I’m saying all
this to say that just imagine if all of
our parents thought that way
– we’re in all of our parents said I
want to make sure that I do whatever it
needs to be done so that my children can
become as Ralph would put it the
greatest versions of themselves where
would we be as a species and we’re with
this planet being we would we all be
collectively as a species if that was
the orientation and so I just want to
leave that with everyone that whether
you have children or not that’s not even
the point if you have children make sure
you do what you can so that they won’t
have to wait like I did until I was
about 28 29 years old and begin to ask
the question how do I get my business
back so many of us that was our journey
we get to a certain age and then we have
to start this journey to really trying
to discover self well what if our
parents allowed us to know our self and
preserved our genes from the beginning
how far much further along with Vivi so
I want people to be clear even if you
don’t have children treat yourself like
your own child give to yourself what you
need to become your greatest self or how
what Ralph would say your greatest
version the greatest version of yourself
treat yourself with that level of
kindness and give to yourself
in the way that you as a child would
have loved to have been given to and I
have a sense that if we all did that and
if we did it long enough may take a
couple of millennia but if we all did
that enough that this species would be
perceived as a remarkable blessed Intune
spiritual loving species in the cosmos
and this is going to be get back to a
place that I hope my children will help
people to get back to which Ralph is
most definitely helping the species to
get back to and that is a place wherein
we are respected again as a species in
the cosmos I called a cosmic
respectability and I also want to say
but I’m so thankful to have this
opportunity to speak with you
and you know I love you dearly and I’m
so thankful that I’m on the planet while
Ralph smart is on the planet
likewise I love you too and I’m so
thankful Lenin honor is on the planet
because you awakened my eyes so much in
early journeys even today to this
present moment and I just love seeing
the evolution of your work and sometimes
you might feel okay my early work it’s
all relative because that is phenomenal
work to never discard that work because
like I always say it’s so connected you
know everyone is coming from a different
angle the inner is important but also
your whole work on decoding that stuff
is powerful that stuff in itself is it’s
a masterpiece
and I feel sometimes because whenever
you put something out there people may
say stuff but you really created a storm
I would say you are a pioneer of this
awakening movement in such a powerful
way you created those ripples which are
creating the tidal wave to awaken people
to a higher consciousness right now on
the planet well thank you well it’s been
part of the journey I’ve grown up watch
me grow and I want everyone else just
keep growing and of course if you want
to continue to be inspired your head on
over and your yard you’re on there right
now viewing this but you stay tuned to
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check out Lenin honors YouTube channel
www.graebert.com orders diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
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