he submitted waters diving deep once
again we’re out here in nature in
Jurassic Park the lush green behind me
baby whoa breathing in that good ass
Pranab whoo that prana was like getting
me high just then how to love someone
who is afraid to love or be loved
someone wrote in that like how can we
love someone who’s afraid to love and be
loved and that’s a great question
we even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey are you
afraid to love today are you afraid to
be loved okay either it’s us or someone
we know maybe they don’t open up they’re
afraid okay now it starts with this this
is for you out there if you are free to
love or be loved and then I’m gonna talk
about how to love someone who’s afraid
to love and be loved
catch my drift great okay you out there
are you looking at new relationships
through old eyes
this is sexology baby water fire hot
cold yin-yang we don’t want to look at
new relationships with old eyes because
that means we have forgotten to change
the lens slow motion this side and
that’s what happens time and time again
people instead of seeing who’s in front
of them they might see the X maybe even
a family member who didn’t treat them
right and now they are looking at you
with old eyes slow motion this side I
always tell people the millions of
people I inspire that you’ve got to see
new relationships with new eyes you got
to give people a chance you might be
afraid to love and be loved if you are
carrying old energy into new
relationships is that you out there
bringing all your baggage how many
suitcases you got goodness gracious
like four five six okay six you’re
bringing all of that baggage into a new
relationship into a new connection into
a new friendship ain’t got nothing to do
with me right people bring baggage and
that’s why many people are afraid to
love because once again is old energy
resurfacing they have forgotten to
cleanse their energies many times people
are afraid to love because they have a
lack of trust confidence that word comes
from the Latin confident which means to
trust so someone may not have the
confidence to trust themselves that’s
why they are afraid to love and be loved
insecurities are natural I’m insecure
about certain things you might be
insecure about certain things
everybody is insecure about certain
things and that’s okay but you see a lot
of us
we allow insecurities to keep us away
from loving other people the security’s
no securities in securities could be in
the form of jealousy okay and the way
around this right this is for you now
how to love someone who is afraid to
love will be loved is communication
communication is the key to opening
someone up right but how do you
communicate with someone who is closed
off insecure doesn’t trust anyone not
even the cat down the road could have
been from a past experience maybe a
traumatic childhood so this is how it
works you can’t help people you can’t
open up people by hurting them a lot of
people hurt people right because they
say I need to tell this person the truth
they need to hear what I’m talking about
so I’m gonna be really hard on them no
they closed up even more if you really
want to help people you’ve got to talk
to them with compassion respect and
admiration instead of pointing out what
isn’t working with them start focusing
on what is slow motion this side that is
how people open up to us and that’s how
to start loving people who are afraid to
love you’ve got to show them the love
first you can’t be criticizing them the
whole time pointing out their flaws
because once again that’s not productive
it’s not gonna help the situation many
times you have to realize everything
comes at the right time at the perfect
moment you see many times we are meeting
someone when they’re not ready
they’re not ready to love yet because
they haven’t found love within
themselves slow motion this side there
was a time when I didn’t love myself a
hundred percent so it was hard for me to
love other people but then I began to
love myself a hundred percent and it
became a whole lot easier now if you
were trying to love me back then it
would be hard cuz I didn’t find it
within me but then I did and then it
became so fun okay
many times we have to realize are we
helping this person or are we keeping
them in an arrested state of development
are we hindering their growth by being a
band-aid many times we might be a reason
why people are afraid to love because
now they feel comfortable if we don’t
change something they won’t change
something so you gotta realize that look
you can only do your best but at the
same time you’ve got to gravitate to
where you are celebrated and not
tolerated cuz certain people just don’t
want to be loved they’re not ready to be
loved because they haven’t found it
within themselves so that is okay okay
you can’t just force someone to start
opening up if they’re not ready if they
haven’t been shown that if they haven’t
gone through that process themselves so
what I found along my journey is that
many people are free to love to be loved
share love and the best thing you could
do is to cultivate more love within
yourself don’t feel guilty for it right
don’t blame yourself for it don’t say oh
my gosh it’s me know a lot of people’s
problems have nothing to do with you
when it comes to giving love and
receiving love okay don’t take it
personal it’s not personal
we have to learn how to stop ascribing
intent what am I talking about so let’s
just say you’re around someone maybe
you’re even in a relationship with
someone a lot of women write to me
saying Ralph like this guy doesn’t want
to commit to me a lot of guys tell me
the same thing this woman doesn’t want
to commit to me right a lot of people
are afraid of commitment they may not be
ready yet okay
they may not be ready for that yet but
ascribing intent is where let’s just say
someone doesn’t give you the reply you
want you say I love you and they just
say excuse me oh my gosh my heart right
now okay so what I always tell people is
this that when you stop a scribing
intent to say okay I’ve given love if
they don’t they aren’t reciprocal it’s
got nothing to do with me but I’m gonna
form a connection a relationship which
is reciprocal you gotta ask yourself
does the shoe fit you see in Cinderella
right as a child you can try and force
it in it’s not happening is it no take
it off
there’s gonna be a perfect fit for you
and you’re gonna know it because it’s
gonna feel amazing you’re gonna have
this euphoria flood your whole body
you’ve got to realize that everybody is
at a different level of consciousness 7
day vegan challenge I’m eating a lot of
plant-based foods right now and I used
to date a meat eater and I loved her but
it didn’t work out because we had a
different level of consciousness I was
here
stuffing strawberries in my mouth pears
and apples and eating a lot of kale and
almonds and drinking almond milk and she
didn’t want to know about that that’s
okay right cuz then I found someone who
loved to eat a lot of plants like me and
then we had a great time everyone has a
different level of consciousness you got
to start meeting people where they are
instead of trying to change people
you’re gonna accept them for where they
are at their level of evolution and then
give them time just like you have time
to grow and you’ll be just fine and then
you say feel so good to be alive baby
shout out to all the amazing deep divers
we are out here breathing in that good
ass prana have a beautiful day
[Music]
time deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we’re out here in nature in
Jurassic Park the lush green behind me
baby whoa breathing in that good ass
Pranab whoo that prana was like getting
me high just then how to love someone
who is afraid to love or be loved
someone wrote in that like how can we
love someone who’s afraid to love and be
loved and that’s a great question
we even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey are you
afraid to love today are you afraid to
be loved okay either it’s us or someone
we know maybe they don’t open up they’re
afraid okay now it starts with this this
is for you out there if you are free to
love or be loved and then I’m gonna talk
about how to love someone who’s afraid
to love and be loved
catch my drift great okay you out there
are you looking at new relationships
through old eyes
this is sexology baby water fire hot
cold yin-yang we don’t want to look at
new relationships with old eyes because
that means we have forgotten to change
the lens slow motion this side and
that’s what happens time and time again
people instead of seeing who’s in front
of them they might see the X maybe even
a family member who didn’t treat them
right and now they are looking at you
with old eyes slow motion this side I
always tell people the millions of
people I inspire that you’ve got to see
new relationships with new eyes you got
to give people a chance you might be
afraid to love and be loved if you are
carrying old energy into new
relationships is that you out there
bringing all your baggage how many
suitcases you got goodness gracious
like four five six okay six you’re
bringing all of that baggage into a new
relationship into a new connection into
a new friendship ain’t got nothing to do
with me right people bring baggage and
that’s why many people are afraid to
love because once again is old energy
resurfacing they have forgotten to
cleanse their energies many times people
are afraid to love because they have a
lack of trust confidence that word comes
from the Latin confident which means to
trust so someone may not have the
confidence to trust themselves that’s
why they are afraid to love and be loved
insecurities are natural I’m insecure
about certain things you might be
insecure about certain things
everybody is insecure about certain
things and that’s okay but you see a lot
of us
we allow insecurities to keep us away
from loving other people the security’s
no securities in securities could be in
the form of jealousy okay and the way
around this right this is for you now
how to love someone who is afraid to
love will be loved is communication
communication is the key to opening
someone up right but how do you
communicate with someone who is closed
off insecure doesn’t trust anyone not
even the cat down the road could have
been from a past experience maybe a
traumatic childhood so this is how it
works you can’t help people you can’t
open up people by hurting them a lot of
people hurt people right because they
say I need to tell this person the truth
they need to hear what I’m talking about
so I’m gonna be really hard on them no
they closed up even more if you really
want to help people you’ve got to talk
to them with compassion respect and
admiration instead of pointing out what
isn’t working with them start focusing
on what is slow motion this side that is
how people open up to us and that’s how
to start loving people who are afraid to
love you’ve got to show them the love
first you can’t be criticizing them the
whole time pointing out their flaws
because once again that’s not productive
it’s not gonna help the situation many
times you have to realize everything
comes at the right time at the perfect
moment you see many times we are meeting
someone when they’re not ready
they’re not ready to love yet because
they haven’t found love within
themselves slow motion this side there
was a time when I didn’t love myself a
hundred percent so it was hard for me to
love other people but then I began to
love myself a hundred percent and it
became a whole lot easier now if you
were trying to love me back then it
would be hard cuz I didn’t find it
within me but then I did and then it
became so fun okay
many times we have to realize are we
helping this person or are we keeping
them in an arrested state of development
are we hindering their growth by being a
band-aid many times we might be a reason
why people are afraid to love because
now they feel comfortable if we don’t
change something they won’t change
something so you gotta realize that look
you can only do your best but at the
same time you’ve got to gravitate to
where you are celebrated and not
tolerated cuz certain people just don’t
want to be loved they’re not ready to be
loved because they haven’t found it
within themselves so that is okay okay
you can’t just force someone to start
opening up if they’re not ready if they
haven’t been shown that if they haven’t
gone through that process themselves so
what I found along my journey is that
many people are free to love to be loved
share love and the best thing you could
do is to cultivate more love within
yourself don’t feel guilty for it right
don’t blame yourself for it don’t say oh
my gosh it’s me know a lot of people’s
problems have nothing to do with you
when it comes to giving love and
receiving love okay don’t take it
personal it’s not personal
we have to learn how to stop ascribing
intent what am I talking about so let’s
just say you’re around someone maybe
you’re even in a relationship with
someone a lot of women write to me
saying Ralph like this guy doesn’t want
to commit to me a lot of guys tell me
the same thing this woman doesn’t want
to commit to me right a lot of people
are afraid of commitment they may not be
ready yet okay
they may not be ready for that yet but
ascribing intent is where let’s just say
someone doesn’t give you the reply you
want you say I love you and they just
say excuse me oh my gosh my heart right
now okay so what I always tell people is
this that when you stop a scribing
intent to say okay I’ve given love if
they don’t they aren’t reciprocal it’s
got nothing to do with me but I’m gonna
form a connection a relationship which
is reciprocal you gotta ask yourself
does the shoe fit you see in Cinderella
right as a child you can try and force
it in it’s not happening is it no take
it off
there’s gonna be a perfect fit for you
and you’re gonna know it because it’s
gonna feel amazing you’re gonna have
this euphoria flood your whole body
you’ve got to realize that everybody is
at a different level of consciousness 7
day vegan challenge I’m eating a lot of
plant-based foods right now and I used
to date a meat eater and I loved her but
it didn’t work out because we had a
different level of consciousness I was
here
stuffing strawberries in my mouth pears
and apples and eating a lot of kale and
almonds and drinking almond milk and she
didn’t want to know about that that’s
okay right cuz then I found someone who
loved to eat a lot of plants like me and
then we had a great time everyone has a
different level of consciousness you got
to start meeting people where they are
instead of trying to change people
you’re gonna accept them for where they
are at their level of evolution and then
give them time just like you have time
to grow and you’ll be just fine and then
you say feel so good to be alive baby
shout out to all the amazing deep divers
we are out here breathing in that good
ass prana have a beautiful day
[Music]
time deep once again stay well stay healthy
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