yes and Finn award is diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in nature baby basking in the
delicious sunshine but do you have
insecurity issues trust issues how to
know you’re safe with someone how to
know you can trust someone let’s just
well breathing in that good ass prana
baby I got a great question that came in
if you’ve got a question Instagram at
infinite waters that’s the best place to
add me don’t email me I get thousands
there a woman asks me Ralph how do I
know I’m safe with someone how do I know
I can really trust this person and with
you’re looking a bit shaky baby Ralph I
seriously don’t know I’ve been hooked in
the past I don’t want to get hurt again
deep divers do you ever experience that
– you’re like having like weird feelings
inside of your stomach like I don’t know
if I’m safe with this person I don’t
really know if I can trust this person I
don’t really know if that person would
be there for me and we even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello so let
me share with you was help me along my
journey I’m not perfect
I’m definitely not a saint I’ve been in
many relationships I’ve been hurt before
had a broken heart thank goodness I
fixed it we all have insecurities
we all have trust issues and whenever we
meet someone sometimes they can even
bring up
past feelings okay but I’m gonna share
with you how to know you’re safe with
someone they’ve got your back baby
oh they got your back it first starts
with this if you both never forget your
friends first before lovers then that’s
how you know you’re safe with them mmm
slow motion this side
[Music]
at first we were friends and then we
became lovers
you see the greatest relationship exists
within yourself if you can realize that
if you are secure in yourself you know
who you are it’s a lot easier to be safe
with someone else many times our
insecurities our trust issues come
because we don’t have a good
relationship with ourselves and we are
trying to seek external validation from
someone else slow motion in each side so
I had to learn how to cultivate a better
relationship with myself become my own
best friend and then once that happened
I’m like okay is this person I’m with in
a relationship are they my best friend
like seriously are they my best friend
like can I tell them anything if you
can’t tell someone you’re with in a
relationship that you ate all the
cookies at five years old and nobody
still knows about it till this day then
it’s not a relationship you’re not going
to feel safe with them we feel safe with
people who we can trust with our deepest
secrets
and if both of you can never forget your
friends first then you’re gonna feel
safer with that person so always ask
yourself do I have a friend do I have a
friend
forget about lava do I have a friend
okay
because many times I counsel people who
are in relationships who aren’t friends
they got a lot of problems however the
best relationships happen when two
people see each other as friends first
they’re there for each other each one is
holding each other’s back okay that’s
how you know you’re safe with someone
that’s how you know you can trust them
now this person you’re with what
attracted you to them
well Ralph they had a nice body and they
had a nice car and they had a nice house
and they know a lot of people and they
seem to kind of be very social okay
that’s great many times in our society
we are only attracted to the superficial
external shell and that’s why we have a
lot of insecurities that’s why we don’t
feel secure with that person because
we’re like actually I don’t know this
person you have to ask yourself do I
know this person’s energy let me repeat
that do I know this person’s energy you
feel safe with someone when you know
slow motion inside when you are
attracted to their energy more than
their body
oh they got such a nice body yes I Got
News for you the body will change but if
you can fall in love with someone’s
energy or rise in love with someone’s
energy that’s how you feel safe with
someone it happened to me along my
journey I saw someone with amazing
energy and I didn’t even see their body
anymore I’m like whoa this person’s
energy is so awesome can you imagine if
we lived in a world where we only saw
slow motion inside many times we don’t
feel safe with someone because we have
body insecurities so you can be with
someone in a relationship you can be
with someone in a relationship and
you’re like oh my gosh my body is not as
good as hers if you base your
relationships if you base if you base
your relationship solely on physical
appearance you’ll never feel safe with
anybody let me repeat that if you base
your relationship only on physical
appearance you won’t feel safe with
anybody because true love is deeper than
that true love is the intangible is what
you’re still not feeling safe are you
don’t worry we got something for you
look seven day vegan challenge shout out
to everybody stuffing pumpkin seeds
pumpkin seeds in their mouth full of
zinc and eating asparagus and eating
peaches and lemons and limes and all of
that beautiful good stuff and green
juice but I still don’t feel safe with
him Ralph I still don’t feel I can trust
him now what happened to me along my
journey that made me feel insecure when
I was a teenager because I was with
someone I didn’t feel safe because I
knew that they didn’t have my best
interests at hand they didn’t help me
and give me beautiful vegan food recipes
like hey Ralph just make a beautiful
butternut squash soup they didn’t do
that no oh here’s how you make a
beautiful smoothie wrap no and they
didn’t do that they’re just like hey
here’s the ketchup so I didn’t feel safe
with them cuz I’m like I’m not feeling
good and they’re like helping me not
feel good okay you feel safe with
someone when you are only with someone
who motivates you he sees the potential
inside of you even when you don’t see it
okay that’s how you feel safe with
someone someone who’s cheering you on
rooting for you they want to see you win
they want to see you make it your
happiness is their happiness and
sometimes even your sadness is their
sadness because the love is that strong
how to know you’re safe with someone
hold me tight baby you can trust someone
now the society we’re living in is very
fast it’s fast paced it’s easy come easy
go
living in this fast-paced world with so
many different profiles on social media
it’s no wonder why people get into a
relationship and don’t feel safe because
they’re like gosh I don’t want to work
on this relationship relationships
aren’t easy that’s how you feel safe
when you realize it takes work to build
the foundation I’ve realized this that
there is no relationship without
communication slow motion inside Ralphy
doesn’t even talk to me we’re in a
relationship for five years I used to
counsel one woman who said that right he
doesn’t even talk to me he just comes
home and just sits on the sofa and watch
TV right yes people are in relationships
of it people people are in relationships
and they don’t have no communication
there is no relationship without
communication you have to express how
you’re feeling – that person feels safe
with that person is time to stop
pretending how you feel oh I’m fine no
you’re not
you’ve never been fine because you’ve
never really expressed how you truly
feel so it feels safe with a person to
trust that person you got to start
letting it out you got to start
communicating how you feel exactly at
that precise time to that person
communication is what builds intimacy
what slow motion this side let me repeat
that communication is what builds
intimacy the reason why some people some
people can get into relationships and
have no intimacy because there is no
communication there is no communication
it’s time to start bringing back the
communication to have the intimacy to
feel safe with someone and to fill
trustworthy and that you can trust
someone else okay now how to know you’re
safe with someone hold me tight baby I’m
holding you look understanding
the reason why communication is
essential because both of you have to
have a better understanding of where
both of you are coming from
we’ve all had different experiences
which have changed us nobody’s perfect
sometimes we act up we act out okay this
is life and sometimes in a relationships
sometimes in a relationship in a
relationship instead of pointing the
finger and saying you did it you you you
are to blame it’s your fault no you
don’t feel safe with someone by blaming
them you feel safe with someone by
understanding them and not holding their
past against them but seeing that hey I
get it
their experiences may have shaped them
to become this kind of person and we can
work on it you see a relationship is a
work in progress it is not the finished
masterpiece slow motion this side a
relationship is work in progress it is
not the finished masterpiece how to know
you’re safe with someone hold me tight
baby don’t let go okay it all starts
with appreciation do you know what a
compliment does for someone’s life do
you know what a compliment does for
someone’s life that’s how you feel safe
with someone that’s how you know you can
trust someone if they are always paying
you compliments you’re paying them
compliments but more so you have
appreciation if nobody appreciates you
honey if they don’t love you if they
treat you like a doormat how can you
feel safe with that person how can you
feel like you can actually trust that
person okay so start looking for the
clues to say actually does this person
really appreciate me does this person
appreciate me the enemy not just the out
of me how I look okay because once again
the body is gonna change do they
appreciate me do they like pick me up
Airport and stuff do they buy me flowers
do they take me out be with someone who
would drive five hours just to see you
for one slow motion this side what be
with someone who would drive five hours
just to see you for one because they
appreciate the time they have for you
nobody is too busy it’s just a matter of
priorities you feel safe with someone
when someone is giving you that quality
time that’s what to look for to know if
someone is to be trusted do they have
time for me or are they always saying oh
I’m so busy be with someone who treats
you like the crown jewels who treats you
like the precious beautiful being you
are how to know you’re safe with someone
hold me baby don’t let go loyalty if
someone has been with you from day one
before the fame before the fame before
the flashing lights before the money
before the house before the boat or you
got a boat now yeah look
[Laughter]
if someone has been with you before all
of that that’s how you know you’re safe
with that person that’s how you know you
can trust that person because they don’t
want you for the money they don’t want
you for the fame they don’t want you for
the house they don’t want you for the
car they want you for you slow motion
this side getting emotional now okay
they’ve loved you from the start without
anything else they accept you that’s how
to know you’re safe with someone look
for acceptance look for apps look for
acceptance that’s what you got to look
for acceptance do they accept me or are
they always trying to change me we don’t
feel safe with someone who’s always
trying to change us oh I got a tattoo
I’ll take the tattoo off no look this is
my tattoo if you like it that’s good if
not then I can’t change it so you gotta
learn how to be yourself 100% you got to
learn how to accept yourself 100% and
someone will love you for you if they do
that’s how you know you can be safe with
that person if they don’t like it then
you can’t trust that person you can’t
trust that person you can’t feel safe
with that person because they don’t even
accept you okay so how to knuckle you’re
safe with someone you can trust someone
hold me tight baby honesty okay I love
people who tell me the truth no matter
how hard it is
slow motion this side if you’ve got
someone ladies fellas in your life who’s
always telling you the truth like
sometimes you work outside of the house
and they’re like no go back inside
go back inside you look like an orange
actually oranges are pretty cool
however today it’s time for you to look
like a blueberry okay look if you’ve got
someone who’s telling you the truth like
hey sometimes you really get inside of
your ego if they tell you that and it’s
coming from a real place honor that
because they are helping you once again
to become better than who you were
yesterday that’s how you know you can be
safe with someone you don’t want just
yes people around you yes women yes man
no you want someone who’s gonna tell you
that I don’t know the truth you want
someone who’s gonna tell you the truth
and nothing but the truth right nothing
but the truth that’s what you want
someone who tells you the truth even if
it’s hard to swallow okay that’s what
creates a great relationship how to know
you’re safe with someone look deep
divers you know you can trust someone
when the love is real it’s a depth to it
it’s a dimension to it it’s
multi-layered that’s how you know you’re
safe with someone if the love is
multi-layered multi-dimensional a heart
space connection you can’t trust someone
if both of you are always in your ego
you can only be safe with someone when
you’ve moved into your heart space and
if you love yourself because the
greatest relationship exists within
yourself once again if you don’t love
yourself you’ll always be chasing other
people to find love and find none
so get loving yourself and that will
give you more clarity to say okay is
this the right person for me do I feel
safe with them it all starts by feeling
secure
in yourself now how to know how to know
you can trust someone let me share with
you this it’s about fun ultimately
that’s what I’ve seen along my Jenny can
I be silly around this person are they
gonna judge me are they gonna laugh at
me or can I just do this and pretend I’m
playing the imaginary drums and stuff
like wake up and I don’t have that
ladies quickly put on makeup before they
see me and roll back into bed I know
what you do if they accept you the role
organic beautiful you that’s how you
know you can be safe with someone so
once again don’t just play into people’s
likes also be yourself and see if they
still like you after their slow motion
in this side ultimately have fun if you
can have fun with someone you know you
can be safe with that person if you are
with someone and they don’t try and use
the past against you they don’t try to
they don’t try to use the past against
you they don’t try to blackmail you or
white male you okay they don’t try to
talk down on you they don’t trash-talk
you then you know you can be safe with
someone but if someone is always
bringing up your past because they want
to win an argument you know you’re not
safe with that person if someone is
always blaming you they’re gaslighting
you you know you’re not safe with that
person look for someone who is proud to
have you 100% that’s how you know you’re
safe with someone and you can trust
someone and then you’ll just say Phil so
get to be a live baby can I get a Hello
a beautiful deep divers we are out here
in the heart of nature have a beautiful
day deep divers we just whoa breathing
in that good ass prana baby of a
beautiful day deep divers infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy stay well stay healthy eat
peace you hold me baby I feel so safe
now
that’s better [Music]
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in nature baby basking in the
delicious sunshine but do you have
insecurity issues trust issues how to
know you’re safe with someone how to
know you can trust someone let’s just
well breathing in that good ass prana
baby I got a great question that came in
if you’ve got a question Instagram at
infinite waters that’s the best place to
add me don’t email me I get thousands
there a woman asks me Ralph how do I
know I’m safe with someone how do I know
I can really trust this person and with
you’re looking a bit shaky baby Ralph I
seriously don’t know I’ve been hooked in
the past I don’t want to get hurt again
deep divers do you ever experience that
– you’re like having like weird feelings
inside of your stomach like I don’t know
if I’m safe with this person I don’t
really know if I can trust this person I
don’t really know if that person would
be there for me and we even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello so let
me share with you was help me along my
journey I’m not perfect
I’m definitely not a saint I’ve been in
many relationships I’ve been hurt before
had a broken heart thank goodness I
fixed it we all have insecurities
we all have trust issues and whenever we
meet someone sometimes they can even
bring up
past feelings okay but I’m gonna share
with you how to know you’re safe with
someone they’ve got your back baby
oh they got your back it first starts
with this if you both never forget your
friends first before lovers then that’s
how you know you’re safe with them mmm
slow motion this side
[Music]
at first we were friends and then we
became lovers
you see the greatest relationship exists
within yourself if you can realize that
if you are secure in yourself you know
who you are it’s a lot easier to be safe
with someone else many times our
insecurities our trust issues come
because we don’t have a good
relationship with ourselves and we are
trying to seek external validation from
someone else slow motion in each side so
I had to learn how to cultivate a better
relationship with myself become my own
best friend and then once that happened
I’m like okay is this person I’m with in
a relationship are they my best friend
like seriously are they my best friend
like can I tell them anything if you
can’t tell someone you’re with in a
relationship that you ate all the
cookies at five years old and nobody
still knows about it till this day then
it’s not a relationship you’re not going
to feel safe with them we feel safe with
people who we can trust with our deepest
secrets
and if both of you can never forget your
friends first then you’re gonna feel
safer with that person so always ask
yourself do I have a friend do I have a
friend
forget about lava do I have a friend
okay
because many times I counsel people who
are in relationships who aren’t friends
they got a lot of problems however the
best relationships happen when two
people see each other as friends first
they’re there for each other each one is
holding each other’s back okay that’s
how you know you’re safe with someone
that’s how you know you can trust them
now this person you’re with what
attracted you to them
well Ralph they had a nice body and they
had a nice car and they had a nice house
and they know a lot of people and they
seem to kind of be very social okay
that’s great many times in our society
we are only attracted to the superficial
external shell and that’s why we have a
lot of insecurities that’s why we don’t
feel secure with that person because
we’re like actually I don’t know this
person you have to ask yourself do I
know this person’s energy let me repeat
that do I know this person’s energy you
feel safe with someone when you know
slow motion inside when you are
attracted to their energy more than
their body
oh they got such a nice body yes I Got
News for you the body will change but if
you can fall in love with someone’s
energy or rise in love with someone’s
energy that’s how you feel safe with
someone it happened to me along my
journey I saw someone with amazing
energy and I didn’t even see their body
anymore I’m like whoa this person’s
energy is so awesome can you imagine if
we lived in a world where we only saw
slow motion inside many times we don’t
feel safe with someone because we have
body insecurities so you can be with
someone in a relationship you can be
with someone in a relationship and
you’re like oh my gosh my body is not as
good as hers if you base your
relationships if you base if you base
your relationship solely on physical
appearance you’ll never feel safe with
anybody let me repeat that if you base
your relationship only on physical
appearance you won’t feel safe with
anybody because true love is deeper than
that true love is the intangible is what
you’re still not feeling safe are you
don’t worry we got something for you
look seven day vegan challenge shout out
to everybody stuffing pumpkin seeds
pumpkin seeds in their mouth full of
zinc and eating asparagus and eating
peaches and lemons and limes and all of
that beautiful good stuff and green
juice but I still don’t feel safe with
him Ralph I still don’t feel I can trust
him now what happened to me along my
journey that made me feel insecure when
I was a teenager because I was with
someone I didn’t feel safe because I
knew that they didn’t have my best
interests at hand they didn’t help me
and give me beautiful vegan food recipes
like hey Ralph just make a beautiful
butternut squash soup they didn’t do
that no oh here’s how you make a
beautiful smoothie wrap no and they
didn’t do that they’re just like hey
here’s the ketchup so I didn’t feel safe
with them cuz I’m like I’m not feeling
good and they’re like helping me not
feel good okay you feel safe with
someone when you are only with someone
who motivates you he sees the potential
inside of you even when you don’t see it
okay that’s how you feel safe with
someone someone who’s cheering you on
rooting for you they want to see you win
they want to see you make it your
happiness is their happiness and
sometimes even your sadness is their
sadness because the love is that strong
how to know you’re safe with someone
hold me tight baby you can trust someone
now the society we’re living in is very
fast it’s fast paced it’s easy come easy
go
living in this fast-paced world with so
many different profiles on social media
it’s no wonder why people get into a
relationship and don’t feel safe because
they’re like gosh I don’t want to work
on this relationship relationships
aren’t easy that’s how you feel safe
when you realize it takes work to build
the foundation I’ve realized this that
there is no relationship without
communication slow motion inside Ralphy
doesn’t even talk to me we’re in a
relationship for five years I used to
counsel one woman who said that right he
doesn’t even talk to me he just comes
home and just sits on the sofa and watch
TV right yes people are in relationships
of it people people are in relationships
and they don’t have no communication
there is no relationship without
communication you have to express how
you’re feeling – that person feels safe
with that person is time to stop
pretending how you feel oh I’m fine no
you’re not
you’ve never been fine because you’ve
never really expressed how you truly
feel so it feels safe with a person to
trust that person you got to start
letting it out you got to start
communicating how you feel exactly at
that precise time to that person
communication is what builds intimacy
what slow motion this side let me repeat
that communication is what builds
intimacy the reason why some people some
people can get into relationships and
have no intimacy because there is no
communication there is no communication
it’s time to start bringing back the
communication to have the intimacy to
feel safe with someone and to fill
trustworthy and that you can trust
someone else okay now how to know you’re
safe with someone hold me tight baby I’m
holding you look understanding
the reason why communication is
essential because both of you have to
have a better understanding of where
both of you are coming from
we’ve all had different experiences
which have changed us nobody’s perfect
sometimes we act up we act out okay this
is life and sometimes in a relationships
sometimes in a relationship in a
relationship instead of pointing the
finger and saying you did it you you you
are to blame it’s your fault no you
don’t feel safe with someone by blaming
them you feel safe with someone by
understanding them and not holding their
past against them but seeing that hey I
get it
their experiences may have shaped them
to become this kind of person and we can
work on it you see a relationship is a
work in progress it is not the finished
masterpiece slow motion this side a
relationship is work in progress it is
not the finished masterpiece how to know
you’re safe with someone hold me tight
baby don’t let go okay it all starts
with appreciation do you know what a
compliment does for someone’s life do
you know what a compliment does for
someone’s life that’s how you feel safe
with someone that’s how you know you can
trust someone if they are always paying
you compliments you’re paying them
compliments but more so you have
appreciation if nobody appreciates you
honey if they don’t love you if they
treat you like a doormat how can you
feel safe with that person how can you
feel like you can actually trust that
person okay so start looking for the
clues to say actually does this person
really appreciate me does this person
appreciate me the enemy not just the out
of me how I look okay because once again
the body is gonna change do they
appreciate me do they like pick me up
Airport and stuff do they buy me flowers
do they take me out be with someone who
would drive five hours just to see you
for one slow motion this side what be
with someone who would drive five hours
just to see you for one because they
appreciate the time they have for you
nobody is too busy it’s just a matter of
priorities you feel safe with someone
when someone is giving you that quality
time that’s what to look for to know if
someone is to be trusted do they have
time for me or are they always saying oh
I’m so busy be with someone who treats
you like the crown jewels who treats you
like the precious beautiful being you
are how to know you’re safe with someone
hold me baby don’t let go loyalty if
someone has been with you from day one
before the fame before the fame before
the flashing lights before the money
before the house before the boat or you
got a boat now yeah look
[Laughter]
if someone has been with you before all
of that that’s how you know you’re safe
with that person that’s how you know you
can trust that person because they don’t
want you for the money they don’t want
you for the fame they don’t want you for
the house they don’t want you for the
car they want you for you slow motion
this side getting emotional now okay
they’ve loved you from the start without
anything else they accept you that’s how
to know you’re safe with someone look
for acceptance look for apps look for
acceptance that’s what you got to look
for acceptance do they accept me or are
they always trying to change me we don’t
feel safe with someone who’s always
trying to change us oh I got a tattoo
I’ll take the tattoo off no look this is
my tattoo if you like it that’s good if
not then I can’t change it so you gotta
learn how to be yourself 100% you got to
learn how to accept yourself 100% and
someone will love you for you if they do
that’s how you know you can be safe with
that person if they don’t like it then
you can’t trust that person you can’t
trust that person you can’t feel safe
with that person because they don’t even
accept you okay so how to knuckle you’re
safe with someone you can trust someone
hold me tight baby honesty okay I love
people who tell me the truth no matter
how hard it is
slow motion this side if you’ve got
someone ladies fellas in your life who’s
always telling you the truth like
sometimes you work outside of the house
and they’re like no go back inside
go back inside you look like an orange
actually oranges are pretty cool
however today it’s time for you to look
like a blueberry okay look if you’ve got
someone who’s telling you the truth like
hey sometimes you really get inside of
your ego if they tell you that and it’s
coming from a real place honor that
because they are helping you once again
to become better than who you were
yesterday that’s how you know you can be
safe with someone you don’t want just
yes people around you yes women yes man
no you want someone who’s gonna tell you
that I don’t know the truth you want
someone who’s gonna tell you the truth
and nothing but the truth right nothing
but the truth that’s what you want
someone who tells you the truth even if
it’s hard to swallow okay that’s what
creates a great relationship how to know
you’re safe with someone look deep
divers you know you can trust someone
when the love is real it’s a depth to it
it’s a dimension to it it’s
multi-layered that’s how you know you’re
safe with someone if the love is
multi-layered multi-dimensional a heart
space connection you can’t trust someone
if both of you are always in your ego
you can only be safe with someone when
you’ve moved into your heart space and
if you love yourself because the
greatest relationship exists within
yourself once again if you don’t love
yourself you’ll always be chasing other
people to find love and find none
so get loving yourself and that will
give you more clarity to say okay is
this the right person for me do I feel
safe with them it all starts by feeling
secure
in yourself now how to know how to know
you can trust someone let me share with
you this it’s about fun ultimately
that’s what I’ve seen along my Jenny can
I be silly around this person are they
gonna judge me are they gonna laugh at
me or can I just do this and pretend I’m
playing the imaginary drums and stuff
like wake up and I don’t have that
ladies quickly put on makeup before they
see me and roll back into bed I know
what you do if they accept you the role
organic beautiful you that’s how you
know you can be safe with someone so
once again don’t just play into people’s
likes also be yourself and see if they
still like you after their slow motion
in this side ultimately have fun if you
can have fun with someone you know you
can be safe with that person if you are
with someone and they don’t try and use
the past against you they don’t try to
they don’t try to use the past against
you they don’t try to blackmail you or
white male you okay they don’t try to
talk down on you they don’t trash-talk
you then you know you can be safe with
someone but if someone is always
bringing up your past because they want
to win an argument you know you’re not
safe with that person if someone is
always blaming you they’re gaslighting
you you know you’re not safe with that
person look for someone who is proud to
have you 100% that’s how you know you’re
safe with someone and you can trust
someone and then you’ll just say Phil so
get to be a live baby can I get a Hello
a beautiful deep divers we are out here
in the heart of nature have a beautiful
day deep divers we just whoa breathing
in that good ass prana baby of a
beautiful day deep divers infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy stay well stay healthy eat
peace you hold me baby I feel so safe
now
that’s better [Music]
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