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How to Know if Someone’s Who They Seem


she said finit waters diving deep once
again commedia toes but we are out here
in nature baby
how to recognize someone’s who they seem
how do we know if people are who they
say they are let’s just whoa breathing
in that good ass prana baby so I got a
question that came in someone off that
how do we know if people are who they
seem Ralph because I keep meeting people
and I’m still not sure are they real are
they fake I don’t know I even cut down
the road knows that wing even I
breakfast yet can I get a Hello so let
me share with you what helped me along
my journey recognize if someone who they
seem to be right now
it starts with it you’ve got to ask
yourself one question first and foremost
what have you experienced with this
person you see a lot of us we don’t
really know people we don’t even know
our next-door neighbors and some friends
we have we still don’t know who they are
we’re just laughing with them and their
jokes aren’t even funny by the way
right you know their jokes aren’t funny
stop laughing
okay so I realized that okay I get it
now
if I really want to know who someone is
if they are what they seem I got to
start assessing my interactions with
them what have we gone through together
have we had some hard times together
have we made it through that what have
you experienced with them I’m not just
talking about on instant messenger I
know the Ralph
we’ve sent a few text messages back and
forth right I mean have you gone on long
walks with them over time how have their
character changed do they sometimes
change how they behave towards you one
minute they’re so warm and friendly next
minute they’re so cold they start
disappearing like this where’d you go
so ask yourself that what have I
experienced with them have we gone
through a lot together or is the
interaction the connection very shallow
and superficial a lot of people talk a
good talk they will tell you they are
going to do this for you and they are
going to do that for you so you’ve got
to ask yourself do they keep their
promises are they impeccable with their
words
you see I don’t listen to what people
are saying I feel their energy slow
motion inside I’ve seen it along my
early journey a lot of people told me
they were going to do this they were
but I got you I got you beautiful deep
divers right now and it feels fantastic
you see be wary of people who make false
hollow promises if someone is impeccable
with their word if they can stand by
their words that means someone is going
to be there for you in hard times
whether it’s your family members friends
your partner someone you are in a
relationship with okay
see if their words match their actions
see if their words match their actions
when someone’s actions speak louder than
their words it shows you that okay I get
it now this person is not only talking
the talk oh they are actually walking
the walk as well okay and that’s how to
really know if someone is true and
authentic if they can prove to you
through their actions sometimes people
say I love you I love you I love you but
their actions don’t show that because
they’ve never got time for you so you
got to look at someone’s behavior their
actions as well as their words and see
how both pair up together now when the
grass is cut the snakes will show
meaning we actually discover our true
friends the one our real soulmate or
twin flame when things get rough when
the road gets rough not at the beginning
of the relationship or friendship or
interaction no no no no no when the
storms are brewing whoa you’re going
round and around right now okay this is
where you’re really going to see
someone’s true character when both of
you are going through hard times
you see hard times reveal your true
slow motion inside I remember days when
I used to wake up now I was going
through some hard times and my phone
wasn’t ringing right now I wake up I’ve
got like thousands of messages every
single day relp let’s hang out I just
saw you have over 1 million subscribers
on YouTube no we can’t hang out right
but guess what when I was going through
hard times it was always one good friend
who would call me check up on me I thank
you so much
you see that will show you who people
are who they truly are if they are there
for you during the hard times not just
when it’s all Rosie are they checking up
on you when you both go out do they call
you to say did you get home safe right
that’s how to know if someone is who
they appear to be if they are who they
seem to be right if they actually show
you that actually if you’re going
through something a really hard
stressful situation I’m going to be here
for you not just when you’ve won the
lottery because I want the money grab no
no I was there for you when you had
nothing and I’m still going to be here
for you even if you are making millions
right that’s how to know if someone is
who they they are who they say they are
right if they are constant in their
attitude towards you they don’t just
change because things are going in your
favor you’re making moves your business
is doing great
they’re not just there then they’ve been
there when you never had anything and
they’re still here so you realize ok I
can trust this person this person did
of the spot in my life and is worthy to
be here because they have shown me their
loyalty more so their honesty mmm
slow motion aside there are people who
just want to be around because they see
you are doing good with your life when
you are successful when you are going
places you are going to have a lot of
friends they are not friends they are
acquaintances your real friends are not
only there during your success they are
there in your low moments they are there
in your highs and your lows seven day
League and challenge millions of people
all around the world know about the
seven day vegan challenge you can know
if someone is who they seem through the
seven day vegan challenge while both of
you are eating those juicy dates okay
you’re in a restaurant right now by the
way do they always want you to pay for
the meal ever got a friend like that
you’ll go out both of you go out maybe
it’s a group of you and you’re like oh
my gosh this person is not going to pay
for the meal because I’ve always got to
pay for it and they give me the guilty
face like I left my wallet at home can
you pay for it
that’s how to know who someone really is
through food because if you have someone
who is just using you they just eat off
you they want you to buy everything the
beautiful vegan meal okay when you’re in
Cafe Gratitude right the cacao smoothie
the vegan paella if they just want you
to buy all of that and then they bounce
you don’t want to be around that person
for too long right because they are
going to drain your
bank balance dry however if someone is
paying their half their part offering to
pay then you can actually gauge their
character to say okay this person isn’t
a user in life you’re going to meet
users and abusers but you’re also going
to meet people who value you enough to
say actually I got this I got this meal
because you pay for the last one slow
motion so I literally meet people and
they’re like Ralph your videos have
changed my life let me buy you this
whole meal two hundred dollars I’m like
whoa I buy them stuff right because once
again life is about give and take
whenever I go out with my friends to eat
they are paying sometimes I’m paying
sometimes and that’s how it has to be
because then you realize okay this
person is about giving and I am about
giving but if you’ve always got someone
who’s just taking from you you’re both
going to Whole Foods and they’re just
filling the basket and they’re like I
left my wallet at home run has this
person earn their stripes how to
recognize if someone is who they seem
has this person earned their stripes
you see a lot of people I inspire
millions of people to become their
greatest version and a lot of people are
like Ralph that’s so cool I want to do
that what they don’t realize is that you
got to keep doing it over a prolonged
period of time that’s why I am inspiring
millions
that’s why infinite waters has over 1
million YouTube subscribers this didn’t
happen overnight
I’ve earned my stripes of the respect
that’s why I touch lives I change
however when I was just starting I
didn’t earn my stripes so what I was
talking about it was a little believable
but not that believable because people
can see the progression so when you
realize that when you are seeing
someone’s progression when someone has
earned their stripes when they’ve been
doing it not just since yesterday no
they’ve been doing it for years and that
is why you watch them that is why you
listen to them that is why you are
inspired by them because you have seen
their journey from this to this they
have earned their stripes they have paid
their dues and that’s how to know if
someone is the real deal or not it’s
easy to talk but show me what you have
achieved what you have accomplished
through your talking it’s easy to
criticize easy to write but what are you
doing what have you got to show for for
your own life right so I’m always
looking if someone has earn their
stripes I meet people and I’m like okay
I see they have been helping people for
years they get a pass come to the
infinite waters retreat happening soon
right they get a pass because I know
they are living what they are talking
about they’re not just talking empty
words because they have tangible results
see their body of work now many times we
are round all kinds of energies people
listen very closely how people treat
other people will tell you how they feel
about themselves
sometimes I’m with people friends and
I’m like you’re being so rude to someone
you’re not even kind to them then I
realize that’s how they feel about
themselves
and guess what that’s probably how they
are going to feel about me
however I’ve got friends who are so
compassionate towards people therefore
that’s how they feel about themselves
their very self loving self accepting
and that’s how they feel about me
they’re like they’re like I love you
Ralph and I’m like I love you too
right so how people treat other people
will tell you a lot about their
character so just stay around go out
with them and see do they treat other
people with respect do they treat the
janitor the same way they treat the CEO
with the same level of respect if they
do then you realize okay this person
respects everybody if they don’t then
you realize okay this person still feels
they are inferior they are superior
right they still feel they are superior
to other people and other people are
inferior to them so you learn so much
about people when you start to see how
they interact with other people do they
care about animals seven day vegan
challenge right I’ve learnt so much
about people just how they interact with
animals are they caring towards animals
because then I’m like okay if they like
animals cows pigs then I’m like they
respect all life I want to be around
that person if they don’t then I’m like
remind yourself this that authenticity
is everything if you really want to know
if someone is who they seem you’ve got
to ask yourself this are they authentic
meaning can I see through them are they
transparent or are they still wearing
the mosque are they still in the ego so
I started to realize ok if I really want
to know who someone is because so many
people message me I’m like have I seen
their authenticity now you don’t just
see someone’s authenticity through a
message or by five minutes once again
you see someone’s authenticity by their
body of work by their life mission their
life purpose right by seeing if they are
actually living what they are talking
about by seeing their results and what
they have actually manifested in their
slow motion inside what’s helped me
along my journey is to trust they say
trust your gut if you can whoa breathing
in that good-ass piranha baby if you
feel it in your gut that something feels
off well it probably is if a person’s
energy feels off to you it could be off
at the same time you don’t want to just
judge people too quickly but you got to
trust your heart instincts you got to
say okay what do I feel right now when
you can when you can really feel feel
into a person that will help you really
really know their true character okay
you got to feel people’s energy first to
say okay how do I feel
do I feel relaxed around them do I feel
comfortable do I feel do I feel at peace
with them or am am I feeling kind of
tense around them
by starting to sweat around and boy oh
boy do they make me feel stressed so you
can learn a lot by just seeing how you
feel emotionally around someone certain
times certain times I’m around people
and I’m just like I feel so amazing
right now
they bring out the best in you you see
you want to surround yourself with
people who bring out the best in you not
people who put the stress in you now
once again sometimes it’s so easy to say
okay I think I know who this person is I
think I know who they seem to show to
the world right who they appear to be
but sometimes we can even get it wrong
so what’s helped me is to never assume
what I’ve realized along my journey is
slow motion inside when you keep
assuming who somebody is I think they’re
like this I think they’re like that that
comes from judgment which is coming from
the ego so instead of judging people
what’s helped me along my journey is to
allow people to reveal themselves to me
through time and situations because we
are all changing we are all in this
marvellous metamorphosis of change
therefore our life is constantly
changing our situations are changing and
because of that how people treat us and
respond to us is also going to change so
just allow time to let people reveal
their true colors to you some people are
like I’m always going to be here for you
next month you don’t hear that from them
ever again so you realize they weren’t
the real deal someone who is the real
deal will be with you through thin and
thick they will be with you through the
worst times and the best times and these
are people who are worthy for
in your life and then both of you will
hold hands like this and then both you
will just say feel so good to be a live
baby can I get a hello there and there
you have it we are out here in this
marvellous lush tropical rainforest just
whoa getting high breathing in that good
a sprout a baby have a beautiful day
infinite waters diving deep once again
you [Music]

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