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How to Keep Conversations Flowing || An Introverts Guide (Never Run Out of Things to Say)


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we are out here in nature
baby we got birds like we got the choir
out today much love to you beautiful
deep divers conversation do you like
them do you sometimes freeze up forget
what to say don’t know what to say start
scratching your head how to never run
out of things to say in a conversation
how to keep the conversation flowing if
you are an introvert that’s right let’s
just whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby if you are an introvert if
you are a very shy person someone with a
lot of anxiety
someone who freezes up and you forget
your train of thought and then you’re
like really silent and you run out of
things to say in the conversation and
you’re thinking to yourself you’re
thinking to yourself wait a minute we
nee v’n at breakfast yet can I get a
Hello let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey keep
conversations going because I’m a
introvert and an extrovert right never
run out of things to say if you are a
shy person don’t worry I’ve got you I
get thousands of messages every single
day and a lot of them are from
introverts
people with anxiety who find it very
difficult to keep a conversation going
is that you I used to be like that
I’m going to share with you the most
amazing secrets so by the end of this
video you will be flowing so smoothly in
any conversation even the cat down the
road will start clapping sleeve we do
that cat down the road definitely great
talk about the present moment please
when you are talking to anybody the
reason why a lot of people freeze up is
because they’re not tuning into the
present moment they’re thinking about
what happened last week they’re not
really paying attention and then when
it’s time for them to speak they’re like
up where were we ever got into a
conversation they told you their name
and then you actually forgot because you
weren’t paying attention happens to me
all the time don’t worry about it
right talk about your life that’s how to
keep a conversation going if you are an
introvert be descriptive
talk about what is actually happening in
the here and now so for instance let’s
just say you meet someone on the beach
and this happened to me many years ago
and I was talking about how I help
people become their greatest version
there was a beautiful wave right and the
other person was like do you see that
and I’m like wait a minute yes I do see
it you see when you talk about the
present moment what is actually
happening you can now keep the
conversation flowing if you see a bird
flying by talk about it say oh my days a
bird just flew by if you see a leaf
falling to the ground the leaf is
falling to the crown talk about it if
it’s a hot day talk about it talk about
what you are seeing right now in your
immediate environment because the moment
you start talking about the past or the
future that’s fantastic but if you
really want to create that rapport get
that conversation the juices going
you gotta you gotta you’ve got to become
present and you’ll find how your
conversation becomes so much more
enjoyable when you are present so what
is actually happening in the here and
now okay once you’ve done that talk
about the world current events what is
happening
you see I meet a lot of people who say
Ralph I keep meeting people who they’re
shallow basically Ralph and I have no
time for shallow Torrell force
interactions or meaningless friendships
hey I’m
I’m with you right there I don’t have
time to shallow talk either I’m a deep
diver
you won’t hear me talking of the pineal
gland and if that’s not your cup of tea
well disappear like copperfield right so
I started to realize I get it so many of
us we are hiding who we truly are that’s
why when we’re with someone we find it
very hard to open up and really talk I
had to learn along my journey to expand
my expression range and it’s all about
meaningful interactions meaningful
friendships and that can only happen
when you really reveal to that other
person you’re talking to or even the cat
down the road reveal to them who you
really are you can only do that when you
slow motion excite your vibe will
attract your tribe what I learnt a lot
my early journey was this that the more
you are your true self you will attract
more of your true reflections can I get
a Hello how many people just did that
with me if you did that you are my true
reflections my heart is beating right
now right so realize that when we talk
of just getting the conversation going
never forget to listen as well because a
lot of people just talk your ear off and
that can be very uncomfortable
especially if you are an introvert a shy
person right is good to listen though
even if you are those things right
listen
really listen to what they are saying to
know if you should stay or run I
realized that I became very anxious
along my early journey sometimes this
was when I was actually like a teenager
sometimes I would be in awkward
situations talking to people actually my
mum would actually send me into the
living room and say go and talk to those
guests and I’m like I don’t know you I
just met you you want me to entertain
you so I was very anxious and then I
would be talking to them but I wouldn’t
be listening to what they were saying
because I would be so anxious to think
of oh my gosh what am I going to say
next you see that’s why a lot of people
find it very hard to maintain a
conversation and to keep it flowing
because you’re not listening to what the
other person is saying you are so you
are you are so caught up in what you
have to say and that’s why conversations
and the Brooklyn because nobody is
listening you’ve got to really listen I
say this speak so that people feel
comfortable to listen to you and listen
so that people feel comfortable to speak
to you slow motion this side that’s a
secret right there to keep conversations
flowing because when people can open up
to you when they can be vulnerable with
you they’ll start talking oh yeah
they’ll start talking when they can
really feel they can open up to you they
can pour out their heart to you start
crying on you right and hopefully you
can do the same and that’s what will
keep that conversation flowing I’ve
learned this along my journey
that it’s all about sharing stuff
sharing your food journey for instance
seven day vegan challenge so I had a
blueberry juice yesterday and a
strawberry and banana smoothie what did
you have well I had whole bunch of
grapes I had some watermelon I had some
papaya has actually I’m doing the
infinite water seven day vegan challenge
of my days you see how you’re getting to
talk with someone you’ve never even
known before right food is everything
just say hey what did you eat for
breakfast hopefully they won’t say we
ain’t even had breakfast year they’ll
actually start talking and then you’re
like okay why do you eat that right food
you can literally talk to someone for
hours and hours just about food trust me
I’ve done it especially vegans like
vegans pretty yeah vegans pretty much
talk about food every single day or a
thinking of it every single day in the
most beautiful way so share your food
journey with someone and you will find
the conversation will begin to flow in a
very beautiful way many times we find it
difficult to keep conversations flowing
because we don’t feel good enough right
we don’t feel good enough I’m here to
tell you you are good enough and once
you see yourself as worthy of being in
anyone’s presence you will find it a lot
easier to develop once again a greater
expression range so you can now really
speak your heart and mind speak your
heart and mind even if your voice shakes
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slow motion this side because once again
you will find your true reflections that
way one of the greatest ways to never
run out of things to say in conversation
to keep it flowing if you are an
incredibly shy person or introvert or
someone with anxiety is to ask questions
that’s right when you ask someone a
question it kind of takes the pressure
of you now they’ve got to answer it
then then then right let them do the
hard work because you just want to like
sunbathe on the beach I don’t blame you
it’s a hot day today
alright so awesome a question like how
was your childhood okay they got a whole
lot to say about their childhood if you
ask deeper questions you will connect
with someone on a deeper level you will
have more conversation time if you say
how are you someone’s probably going to
say fine bye okay that conversation
lasted like what 2 seconds so ask deeper
questions I’m a deep diver I speak about
all kinds of things that will help you
become your greatest version I’ve spoken
about the fifth dimension
Indigo’s now why do I talk of such deep
topics because I know if I do that I
will find my true reflections because
I’m speaking my heart and mind if you
are someone who doesn’t have time it’s
going to be very hard to keep the
conversation flowing so you’ve got to
even create time in the first place I am
living I’m living such a magnificent
life right now because I have time to
really dive deep with people
I’m counseling people are meeting people
on the beach I’m meeting people in the
park and I’m meeting loads of different
cats right loads of different cats and
that’s only because I created time for
that
once you create time dive deeper with
someone don’t just say the same mundane
question how are you you’re right
because you’re only going to get the
same mundane answer back so you really
really got to start to ask the big
questions
the intimate questions when was your
first time but before you do that wait a
minute
before you do that actually get to know
them right before you do that actually
get to know them don’t just don’t just
start asking massive personal questions
straightaway right take one step at a
time to say okay do I really know this
person good enough to really start
diving deep straightaway okay so once
you do that start small with a question
like okay what happened to you in your
childhood that’s a pretty
non-threatening question and then say
okay what do you think about the world
okay do you think we’re living in a
matrix okay then you’ll get to see more
about who they are whether or not you
should continue this conversation
sometimes it’s best just to run now if
you are an introvert or someone
incredibly shy I’m here to tell you if
something feels off it probably is you
got to trust your intuition there is a
reason why some conversations and early
because there is no resonance their
resonance means returning to sound so
remind yourself this step
you don’t have to put up with boring
those conversations okay you don’t have
to do that only invest in meaningful
conversations deeper conversations and
meaningful friendships and then you’ll
find that you’ll never run out of things
to say and you will always keep
conversation flowing remind yourself
this though that it’s beautiful to
observe the silence you see lovers best
friends and people who love taps can be
around them and they’re around each
other and they observe the silence
sometimes they don’t have to talk but
when they do they can’t stop talking so
through observing the silence you know
how to be active which is when you are
talking to someone and then you know how
to be passive and then both of you know
how to be silent and you’re dancing in a
beautiful rhythm and that’s how to keep
the conversation flowing nice and
smoothly you see what happens a lot of
the times what I call nervous anxiety a
lot of people sometimes you’re talking
to someone and you’re like okay I got a
talk for the sake of talking that’s when
you have a shallow conversation slow
motion this side only talk if your heart
is in it don’t talk just for the sake of
talking be truly invested in meaningful
connections with great minds and then
you’ll find that the conversation will
become so enjoyable
just like those beautiful birds up there
and it will flow just like that
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social meet ups so we’re gonna have to
do a massive infinite waters retreat can
I get a hello
because we are I am why do I always say
we I say we because this collective
thing right we are inspiring millions of
people okay it’s overwhelming sometimes
how many much how many messages flood my
inbox thousands and it’s a beautiful
feeling so I realize when we’re doing
the infinite waters retreats when
thousands of people are coming with
bunches of grapes in their mouths right
with bunches of grapes in their mouths
right it’s going to be hard for them to
keep the conversation flowing social
meet ups social events social gatherings
when you can really meet people outside
it’s great to learn how to keep a
conversation to learn how to keep a
conversation flowing but check this out
so what I call private meetups is even
better so keep a conversation flowing if
you are an introvert because once again
you don’t want to just throw yourself
into the deep end to go to like a
massive party ever gone to a massive
party your friends invited you to and
you walk in really late and you got all
of these weird faces in front of you and
you’re like oh my gosh who the hell are
you wine are you okay and you’re silent
you’re like I’m so scared what I should
say right now
okay so private hangouts Netflix and
chill no no private hangout and chill
and
whoa breathing that good ass prana baby
breathing in that good ass prana baby
that’s what it’s all about when you get
to know someone on an intimate level in
their natural environment like a lot of
people sometimes they meet me on the
beach they’re like infinite waters is
that you right you meet me in a natural
environment I always stop and talk to
people I get stopped every single day
and for me it’s only an honor to do that
right but I’ve got friends like neck
with and we always are in nature and
when you are meeting people in both of
your natural environments ie nature it’s
a lot easier to keep that conversation
flowing in a very beautiful and simple
way what happens though a lot of people
want to engage in a lengthy conversation
in a very awkward time sometimes people
are just dashing to work and you’re like
I want to dive deep with them once again
no resonance they’ve got to be somewhere
at eight o’clock and you’re trying to
focus on about the cosmos good luck
right but diving deep right now I have
so much time every single day to dive
deep into whatever I want
connect with beautiful minds and I can
only do that because once again are
freed up space to do that so when we
talk of just going out it’s beautiful to
learn the confidence to speak with
strangers and the streets and all of
that but you really learn even more on
an intimate level on a one-to-one level
that you can really open up and say okay
I like to talk about this with this
person I like to diabete and then you
start to once again surround yourself
with people
slow-motion this side you see a lot of
people we’ve got to change around people
with one way to our mom’s we’re one way
to our cats and we’re one way to random
strangers right we work we really these
are we aiming for to be transparent and
authentic means you are the same to
every person you meet and that’s how to
have the confidence that’s how to have
the confidence to keep a conversation
flowing and it happens when you surround
yourself with people who don’t judge you
for what you have to say they respect
where you’re coming from you respect
where they’re coming from and it does
wonders just remind yourself that many
times there is not a lot to say certain
people if both of you are on the same
consciousness level I can talk to
someone about the third eye for hours
and hours the cat down the road right
same consciousness levels the
conversation is going to flow better not
everyone in your life is meant to be
there some people are just passing
through some are meant to stay something
you can learn from you can grow with and
that’s how to keep a conversation
flowing in a very beautiful pure way if
you are someone who’s incredibly shy
when you are talking to someone become
aware of your body language you want to
keep your spine straight want to relax
your shoulders
wanna whoa breathing in that good ass
crying a baby you want to do a bit you
want to do a bit of that you want to
realize that your story is important let
me repeat that
your story is important your story is
important it is it is as important as
this
because sometimes we’re around people
and they’re just talking about a subject
we have no interest in but we’re still
express yourself and realize you got to
got a whole lot to talk about
you’ve been through a lot I know you
told me when you start realizing you are
worthy you are good enough your story
matters and then you find someone both
of you have mutual respect for each
other
both of you now can share your stories
together and you will build a
long-lasting connection and friendship
goodness knows you might even get
married and then Ralph’s smile will come
to the wedding and say feel so good to
be alive baby can I get a Hello we are
out here in the heart of nature just
having fun just whoa
breathing in that good-ass prana baby
have a beautiful day to diverse infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy see

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