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How to Handle Insecure People in Relationships || 10 Breakthrough Solutions (AMAZING)


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again we are out here when nature baby
whoa breathing in that good ass Prada
snapchat questions someone asked how can
I deal with the jealous mate they’re
really insecure they’re so insecure and
it’s so annoying
and we an even had breakfast yeah can I
get a hello okay let’s dive into it what
happens when we’re in a relationship and
the other person is really insecure or
maybe we are have you ever been in a
relationship and gone outside of the
house and your partner’s like where are
you going and you’re like to go and see
Ralph to breathe in that good oz product
actually to go and see the cat down the
road how about that no stay in the house
look let me share with you what’s helped
me along my journey I’m gonna go through
ten breakthrough solutions let’s start
with the first one you’ve gotta show
people the real you and if they can’t
deal with it too bad you don’t have to
change for anybody if people can’t
accept you for who you are what makes
you think they’ll accept you for who
you’re not
slow-motion that side that’s what’s
helped me along my journey you see I’ve
been in many different relationships and
a lot of the time 4-minute when it comes
to insecurities we often want to start
changing for people acts squeaky clean
and perfect no no no the best way to
deal with insecurities in relationships
even jealousy and whatnot is to show
people the real you and if they can’t
accept you for who you are then you
shouldn’t be in that relationship Point
Blank period plain and simple
now we don’t want to accept certain
things and certain people we don’t want
to see that okay I make a lot of videos
I’m always connecting and sharing and
your partner your relationship mate has
to be happy for who you are if they’re
not then you can change but you gotta
ask yourself is that mean so you’ve got
to respect yourself enough to be with
someone who accepts you a hundred
percent who you are whatever you do now
let’s talk about another breakthrough
solution you see if you go and buy a car
that’s new no car is new every car was
tested before you got it no computer is
new it was tested they tested it for
like 20 hours and when it’s not working
you say hey you didn’t test it properly
right same thing as relationships
everybody has a history you know nothing
about I know nothing that’s right do you
know how many people people have gone
through before they got to you and now
you’ve got to deal with all of that crap
how nice
so what helped me along my journey was
conversations and disagreements and
fallout that’s perfectly natural and it
is healthy to be insecure it is
wonderful to be insecure because it
actually shows you are human it shows
that you care but you see in dealing
with an insecure partner maybe someone
who’s jealous envious you got to realize
that you aren’t their problem you see
their problem was created long before
you you are just seeing the culmination
of that slow motion aside please
so that’s where you have to have
discernment which is the ability to
judge well to say okay I get it they are
jealous they are insecure angle nothing
to do with me maybe it’s from their
puffs but since we’re in the present
right now I’m gonna stop showing
communicating that’s the solution we’re
gonna start expressing some of our
history to each other so we get a better
understanding understanding and over
standing of each other to help each
other become our greatest versions how
simple was that like we just started
expressing and being vulnerable and
opening up like yeah I’m really insecure
the last person left me for the cat down
the road for goodness sakes goodness
gracious what happened let’s talk about
number three now seven day vegan
challenge what’s helped me in
relationships
past relationships growing up being
around different people look if you want
to create a more intimate bond with
someone do you know how to do it
food that’s right food and love go
together
oh yes they do so you got to realize
this stop setting aside time to eat
together you see most people don’t eat
together the greatest conversations
happen on the dinner table baby can I
get a hello
look when you are eating brown rice
avocados kale watermelon papaya whatever
you’re eating mangoes you’re in a good
mood
you’re gonna stop oh I’m really in love
with this food oh I’m really in love
with you you get more confident you see
a lot of our insecurities emanate from a
lack of confidence the confidence comes
from separation the lack of confidence
comes from a separation the confidence
grows from a bonding the unity that’s
why if you’re in a relationship and you
spend a lot of time in nature maybe you
go skinny-dipping then chances are
you’re gonna be really secure the most
attractive thing in any relationship is
a secure partner confident partner like
hey go and talk to whoever you want okay
that is perfectly natural it’s healthy
for goodness sakes
okay and that comes through food you get
confident you create more intimacy a
greater bond by stuffing a whole load of
strawberries in your mouth together
hello what’s the fourth breakthrough
solution of dealing with someone who’s
very insecure maybe even jealous now I
talked about how a lot of us we bring
old energies into new relationships
you’re looking for that fairytale
romance right Prince Charming maybe
right yeah I think so no no they’re only
frogs you’re looking for that perfect
princess right
yeah no no you are dealing with history
here and that’s beautiful
because in every relationship we are
growing we are evolving we’re learning
more about ourselves but also we are
becoming more refined we are becoming
more of our greatest version meaning we
are a better version after every single
relationship I’ve learned some hard
lessons in relationships I’ve learned
that okay I’ve got to start giving
people the attention they need because a
lot of my earlier days I was just
working all the time I said I’ve got no
time for you this that and that’s what
happens in relationships a lot of us
we’re so selfish not selfish we’re just
so focused that we are the only focus
and relationships are like plants you’ve
got a coat of ate them you’ve gotta
water them and then they grow to be so
huge okay so everyone has a history
that’s healthy it’s normal its natural
now we got to start showing compassion
for people’s history oh I get it
that’s why you’re so insecure now both
people in relationships they develop
more appreciation for each other because
once again they are now stepping into
that compassionate role to say okay
maybe that’s why your ways like checking
my phone grabbing my phone out of my
hand to see where I’ve been look a lot
of people have been cheated on in
past relationships they’ve come home and
then they’ve seen the computer someone
forgot to turn it off thousands of
messages okay yeah who’s that don’t
worry about it
okay look compassion that person might
in turn say well I’ve always been very
insecure due to someone leaving me I
don’t feel I can trust anybody look in
relationships we don’t attract what we
want we attract what we are and
therefore as we change the types of
people we meet also changes okay so you
got to look at it like this every
relationship we enter is a choice we
have to now choose where this
relationship is going but compassion for
someone’s history will create a stronger
bond and it will help both parties deal
with their insecurities you see because
insecurities is like a domino effect if
someone is really insecure like I don’t
trust you
then you become really insecure okay
because you’re like I don’t trust you
either right so when you start to trust
yourself the other person also begins to
trust you and vice-versa
we are out here is so windy in nature
but we’re still rocking it let’s talk
about the fifth breakthrough solution
you see in relationships many of us we
think we own people how can we own
someone like did we buy them in the shop
I have no idea but you have got in your
mind like this person is mine you see a
lot of relationships break down because
people feel they possess other people so
what’s helped me along my journeys to
say I do not own anybody in a
relationship and that has helped me even
deal with my own insecurities just like
people saying I own land like how can
you own land it was here before you
mm-hmm slow motion that site mm-hmm okay
so you have to realize you don’t own
anybody
everybody that is in a relationship with
you going on to number six is offering
themselves to you you should be honored
to be in their presence
just like they should be honored to be
in yours so you both develop mutual
appreciation for each other
and then you just go and sing a sweet
song and dance off into the horizon does
it go like that a lot of the times I
don’t know what happens to you guys okay
now people are offering themselves to
you you don’t own them that’s what will
help you deal with insecurities many
times we take people for granted because
we think we own them we think that’s
what they’re supposed to be doing even
if you get married it is a mean they’re
yours because we don’t own anybody they
are choosing to be around you so you’ve
got to honor that person by saying thank
you thank you thank you
number seven breakthrough solution how
to deal with the insecure mate
appreciate them take them out travel
with them not just through words say oh
you’re so beautiful this show them like
show them by how you treat them
show them by what you’re willing to do
for them but also show them how they’ve
helped you along your journey
okay you see when you appreciate people
people will always do better than
expected they’ll always do better than
expected you see what happens in
insecure relationships and relationships
filled with jealousy is that people
always focus on what isn’t working
so I tell you focus on what is working
that’s what’s helped me along my journey
my relationships in the past I never
argued like if I was arguing it was
always solution orientated some people
they just focus and nitpick at people
say you did this they pointing the
finger but you see when you point a
finger you got a lot of other fingers
pointing back at you okay so it’s about
not pointing fingers it’s about working
together to say okay none of us are
perfect with both got flaws
imperfections but we’ll live to see
another day like these days in
relationships people can’t even handle a
little argument they just say it’s over
huh appreciation focus on the best of
people and the universe will show you
more of that within them
okay appreciation is the key to dealing
with insecurities buy them some flowers
for goodness sakes or or some vegan
chocolates let’s talk about number eight
is honesty
look honesty will help you with your
insecurities because you’ve got to be
honest to say I’m very vulnerable okay
I’m a really insecure person if you can
do that then the person is gonna warm up
to you even more they’re gonna open up
to you even more many people who are
insecure sometimes they’re jealous
sometimes they don’t admit it though
they just say stop doing now I don’t
like that but they don’t tell you why so
if you are a very insecure person I
challenge you today to tell your partner
to say I’m really insecure I’m being
honest right now and it’s got nothing to
do with you
but it’s got to do with my past and you
are amplifying my insecurities I don’t
like you let’s work together with it and
now your partner is gonna have more
empathy more compassion and the
relationship is gonna taste a whole lot
sweeter not everyone’s a mine reader
okay people don’t know until you open up
until you’re vulnerable and that’s how
the relationship evolves now let’s talk
about number 9 how to deal with an
insecure partner what’s helped me a lot
my journeys to realize everybody is
working progress I’m not perfect at all
sometimes I’m a very positive person
most times but when it comes to
relationships I realize that a lot of
unresolved issues come up in every
single person’s relationship that’s why
relationships are fantastic mirrors
every relationship is reflecting back to
us our brightest light or a darker
shadow so everybody in a relationship is
practically your teacher therefore
showing you more about unresolved issues
a lot of people say Ralph I just want
the perfect relationship that doesn’t
exist because relationships are they
were created for your evolution that
means if you’re in a relationship you’re
gonna stop
learning more about yourself really
quickly I was in a relationship for a
few years I learn more of mice about
myself than in my entire life because
someone is holding up a mirror so they
are forcing you to look at your
unresolved issues okay you can think
gosh I’m so I’m so let’s see I’m so kind
and considerate all the time and then
you can get into a relationship and then
become moody all of a sudden you see
it’s easy to be like that when you by
yourself
when you’re with another person you are
with a whole nother universe and they’re
gonna start showing you highlighting
unresolved issues within yourself so in
dealing with insecurities jealousy use
that as an opportunity to start looking
at your own unresolved issues okay and
also if we go on to number 10 a
breakthrough solution you are an
insecure person in relationships or
maybe it’s the other way around
someone else is maybe you can do
something that won’t make them more
insecure what is that you can remind
them every single day to trust
themselves more you see Trust is why a
lot of us are insecure we don’t trust
ourselves we don’t trust ourselves
because we’re not sure of ourselves
because we’re not in our true life
purpose so let’s say my partner is
really insecure what can I tell her that
can make her less insecure I can tell
her I can encourage her to live more of
her dreams so she can trust herself so
she can become more confident more
secure and therefore she would be so
she’ll be so busy living her dream that
she will fill her own cup self-love
is the key to dealing with insecurities
and it’s not easy to do it all but it
starts from within so once again if you
are around someone who’s very insecure
and you really want to keep the
relationship together you can say okay
I’m gonna take in mind you are very
insecure I’m not gonna amplify your
insecurities on purpose but I’m still
gonna be Who I am but at the same time I
want you to live your dream every single
because you see you find the one you
love doing what you love the most
confident people in relationships are
the people who are doing things they’re
the movers and the Shakers abundant
surrounds them okay they’re not just
hanging on to one person for dear life
no no no no they are realizing that this
person is so amazing but they’re so also
focused on their purpose that they don’t
put all that pressure on one person
many of us are insecure in relationships
we’re jealous we’re envious we say don’t
look at that person don’t look at that
person because we feel that’s all we
have
you see if you only feel you’ve only got
one Apple left in the basket oh my
goodness you’re gonna go oh my gosh it’s
the only one left if you’re doing other
things if you are finding confidence by
coming into nature going for a run
feeling better about yourself you
realize that okay I can take the
pressure off my partner and now the
relationship there’s no resistance
resistance makes stronger if you say
don’t look at that person don’t look at
that person they’re gonna do it anyway
and people already doing it before you
even open your mouth goodness gracious
so it starts by trusting yourself Trust
is the key to dealing with insecurities
but once again if you are interested if
you are insecure it is perfectly natural
I get insecure a lot of the times and
it’s healthy but just realize there are
unresolved issues that need to be
addressed there’s a lot of work and you
have to always realize that you don’t
own anybody anybody that you are with is
a gift and they are offering themselves
to you so you have to respect that
because they don’t have to do it so
there you have it baby well it feels so
good to be alive we’re out here having
fun of a beautiful day whoa breathing in
that good ass prana baby infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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