peace infinite waters diving deep once
again do you smell that good ass prana
how to cope with a really really
difficult person can I get a hello there
and it’s always at the start of the week
that’s the question that came in let me
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey because we’re not just talking
about a normal difficult person right
there are two kinds of difficult people
one that you only see once a month and
one you see every single day someone
wrote in to me saying that they’re
dealing with a difficult work colleague
right I know what it’s like and they
don’t know what to do they just don’t
know what to do so what happens when we
have a work colleague we don’t get on
with or even someone you see on the bus
every single day someone that comes
around to the house every single day
what are they doing there every single
day nobody knows now I always say nobody
absolutely nobody in the world has
control of your internal condition now
for a long time I was externalizing my
power I thought this difficult person if
they would just disappear I would feel
so much better and then they went away
and I was still thinking about them
making me feel like crap right it’s not
really got a lot to do with that
difficult person it’s got a lot to do
with what they are bringing out a few
and you see so you’ve got to ask
yourself why why or why or why then
you’ve got to accept that you feel
intimidated by them that’s right because
a lot of the times a lot of us we have
complexes big complexes right
inferiority complex you feel they are
superior to you that’s how we feel
towards a lot of so-called difficult
people we’re just afraid to admit it so
you’ve got to ask yourself why do I feel
intimidated by this person you see many
times is because we can’t express
ourselves a hundred percent to that
person so you’re probably at work and
you see them and you really want to say
I don’t like you but you can’t do that
you’ll lose your job so what do you say
you’re like hi hi hi there’s a lot of
fake smiles a lot of fake hand shakes a
lot of fake gestures that you really
like them when you don’t now you don’t
have to tell people you don’t like them
you just have to be as honest to them as
you can authentically be you’ve got to
look them I to I this is what I call the
confrontation you see we feel
intimidated by someone when we feel less
and then look I always tell people don’t
look up to me don’t do
I don’t look down to me don’t do that
meet me I level right we are both equal
and that’s what you’ve got to do to this
so-called difficult person and then
you’ve got to realize they are there to
test you you see the universe like I
said a long time ago gives every single
person a job their job is to see what
buttons really piss you up what buttons
they should press right but you see we
only discover ourselves through contrast
right now from time to time I get a lot
of difficult people that come into my
life but instead of blaming them I say
okay who do I want to surround myself
with every single day then I reclaim
back my power then I say do you know
what I’m not going to feel like a victim
anymore that’s right because a lot of us
we feel like victims we feel helpless we
feel at their mercy and that’s why we
end up feeling resentment towards these
so-called difficult people but they are
testing you to see if you are who you
say you are because you’ve read a lot of
self-help books right now right about
how to be peaceful how to be so serene
how to be an upstanding citizen of
planet Earth okay here’s the test I’m
gonna make you I’m gonna show you parts
of yourself even you didn’t know existed
but wait wait a minute this is not who I
am well thank me for showing you who you
are as well the other part of yourself
that you don’t like to see so i always
say once again
people have different roles not everyone
is going to be your best friend in life
you’re gonna get people who are going to
test you but once again once you realize
hey you don’t have to fear them you just
have to know who you’re surrounding
yourself with every single day and then
ask yourself what the hell are you doing
in that environment in the first place
right I surround myself with people that
uplift me that people that we have we
play card games we have a lot of fun a
lot of vegan barbecues yeah vegans have
barbecues too and we just come to nature
breathing in that beautiful prana have a
beautiful day we are out here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again do you smell that good ass prana
how to cope with a really really
difficult person can I get a hello there
and it’s always at the start of the week
that’s the question that came in let me
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey because we’re not just talking
about a normal difficult person right
there are two kinds of difficult people
one that you only see once a month and
one you see every single day someone
wrote in to me saying that they’re
dealing with a difficult work colleague
right I know what it’s like and they
don’t know what to do they just don’t
know what to do so what happens when we
have a work colleague we don’t get on
with or even someone you see on the bus
every single day someone that comes
around to the house every single day
what are they doing there every single
day nobody knows now I always say nobody
absolutely nobody in the world has
control of your internal condition now
for a long time I was externalizing my
power I thought this difficult person if
they would just disappear I would feel
so much better and then they went away
and I was still thinking about them
making me feel like crap right it’s not
really got a lot to do with that
difficult person it’s got a lot to do
with what they are bringing out a few
and you see so you’ve got to ask
yourself why why or why or why then
you’ve got to accept that you feel
intimidated by them that’s right because
a lot of the times a lot of us we have
complexes big complexes right
inferiority complex you feel they are
superior to you that’s how we feel
towards a lot of so-called difficult
people we’re just afraid to admit it so
you’ve got to ask yourself why do I feel
intimidated by this person you see many
times is because we can’t express
ourselves a hundred percent to that
person so you’re probably at work and
you see them and you really want to say
I don’t like you but you can’t do that
you’ll lose your job so what do you say
you’re like hi hi hi there’s a lot of
fake smiles a lot of fake hand shakes a
lot of fake gestures that you really
like them when you don’t now you don’t
have to tell people you don’t like them
you just have to be as honest to them as
you can authentically be you’ve got to
look them I to I this is what I call the
confrontation you see we feel
intimidated by someone when we feel less
and then look I always tell people don’t
look up to me don’t do
I don’t look down to me don’t do that
meet me I level right we are both equal
and that’s what you’ve got to do to this
so-called difficult person and then
you’ve got to realize they are there to
test you you see the universe like I
said a long time ago gives every single
person a job their job is to see what
buttons really piss you up what buttons
they should press right but you see we
only discover ourselves through contrast
right now from time to time I get a lot
of difficult people that come into my
life but instead of blaming them I say
okay who do I want to surround myself
with every single day then I reclaim
back my power then I say do you know
what I’m not going to feel like a victim
anymore that’s right because a lot of us
we feel like victims we feel helpless we
feel at their mercy and that’s why we
end up feeling resentment towards these
so-called difficult people but they are
testing you to see if you are who you
say you are because you’ve read a lot of
self-help books right now right about
how to be peaceful how to be so serene
how to be an upstanding citizen of
planet Earth okay here’s the test I’m
gonna make you I’m gonna show you parts
of yourself even you didn’t know existed
but wait wait a minute this is not who I
am well thank me for showing you who you
are as well the other part of yourself
that you don’t like to see so i always
say once again
people have different roles not everyone
is going to be your best friend in life
you’re gonna get people who are going to
test you but once again once you realize
hey you don’t have to fear them you just
have to know who you’re surrounding
yourself with every single day and then
ask yourself what the hell are you doing
in that environment in the first place
right I surround myself with people that
uplift me that people that we have we
play card games we have a lot of fun a
lot of vegan barbecues yeah vegans have
barbecues too and we just come to nature
breathing in that beautiful prana have a
beautiful day we are out here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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