How to Get the Love You Deserve

peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
here beautiful day I hope you’re
enjoying yourself today deep divers are
you dreaming of love right now by any
chance being with the right one
where are they Ralph are you with
someone right now in a relationship and
it’s looking a bit shaky baby and you’re
like Ralph I don’t deserve this
I deserve somebody a lot better
I hear you how to get the love you
deserve deep divers less just whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby do
you want to know how to get the love you
deserve now every single day I get
thousands of messages literally about
relationships alone
people writing to me telling me that
Ralph I’m with someone in a relationship
but he’s but she’s but he’s but she’s
okay and they keep telling me that
they’re not fulfilled in this
relationship and they know they deserve
better but something is holding them
back and they really want to start
getting the love they know they deserve
deep divers this is sexology water fire
hot cold yin-yang daddy’s home I’m back
so we are about to dive really deep I
say everybody deserves a great love
however there are requirements for you
to attract
the love you really want and we an even
had breakfast yet can I get a Hello now
let me share with you was help me along
my journey deep divers get the love I
deserve you see the universe does not
respond to our once a response to what
we never attract what we want we always
attract what we are and that is even
happening in relationships many times
you’re with someone and you’re like I
don’t deserve them
then why are you with them because both
of you have lessons to learn together
now to really get the love you deserve
deep divers what’s helped me along my
journey is to be responsible my life’s
not perfect I’ve been in some crazy-ass
relationships like what am I doing here
okay I’m a Pisces I’m a Pisces so
sometimes I’m kind of like just going
with a flow not really knowing what I’m
getting myself into not again
never again okay because to get the love
you deserve it’s all about being
responsible which means responsibility
responding to your ability you see
nobody is forcing you to be in this
relationship nobody is forcing you to be
somewhere where you don’t want to be but
yourself Ralph I can’t go anywhere else
I don’t want to be alone even though
he’s terrible I just can’t
find out the worth of who I really am by
myself I need that terrible person in my
life Ralph to validate my existence I
know it’s crazy we have to stop right
there it’s time to stop making excuses
and it’s time to stop being happy again
and once you start taking a hundred
percent responsibility and say to
yourself I can’t blame anybody anymore
I’m choosing to be here and then start
to realize that we only attract what we
are a vibrational match to we only
attract what we are a vibrational match
to if you want to get the love you
deserve you have to be vibrating at the
same frequency as the love you feel you
deserve okay be clear deep divers every
single day about the love you feel you
deserve like what kind of person are you
and then write down what kind of person
you feel you deserve and then any time
you meet somebody just see if they meet
a requirement many times they don’t well
they gotta go but one day you’re gonna
meet somebody who’s like exactly like
you they have the same values the same
visions and then you start investing in
that interaction relationships
friendships is soil investments okay so
you have to be wise with who you invest
your energy in
slow motion inside mmm and then love
yourself I hear a lot of people saying
Ralph I don’t deserve this love I wasn’t
that person I want this person I want to
cut down the road I want this I want
that a lot of once we have to become
whole within ourself we have to instead
of just seeking love and appreciation
outside there we have to learn how to
start cultivating it within ourselves
once you are whole within yourself you
already have the love you deserve it’s
all starting from within because nobody
can’t nobody can ever give you what you
truly are looking for that has to come
from yourself
they will enhance it so I’ve learned
that the moment I started to love myself
I started to get the love I deserved
because no longer was I settling I meet
a lot of people who write to me you’re
probably one of them Ralph my boyfriend
this my husband my wife my girlfriend
like is acting up this that many times
that’s happening because we are settling
we are settling for a mediocre
relationship we are settling for
unhappiness we are addicted to arguments
we are addicted to not getting it right
with someone because this is all we know
to get the love you deserve you’re gonna
have to break your comfort zone and even
learn how to be alone learn how to be
single until you are patient until deep
divers until you are patient enough to
really wait for the love you know you
are worthy for when you stop settling
that’s when you stop getting the love
you deserve when you’re like actually I
don’t care if I’m alone he’s better than
being in a relationship that’s making me
unhappy life is too short to spend with
someone who’s making your days miserable
hmm what slow motion this side now every
single day I’m learning to see the best
in people that’s how you get the love
you deserve okay many times we are
seeing the worst in people and therefore
they are also seeing the worst in us and
therefore we’re not really getting the
love we all know we deserve and that can
change if you see the best in people
they will often see the best in you and
now both of you will really deserve each
other
you’ll have a better relationship okay
to really get the love you deserve be
vocal about what you want to that person
communicate a lack of a lack of
communication is the downfall of any
relationship however open communication
is what brings it to life
so learn how to communicate and then
learn how to be available to that person
I meet a lot of people who are like
Ralph I want this love I deserve it but
you don’t deserve it because you’re not
willing to put in the effort to deserve
it you’re not willing to put in the
effort the investment say actually I’m
gonna spend time with this person not
just 10 minutes every single day
a whole hour more than that most people
don’t have time even to brush their
teeth in the morning how they gonna have
time for you
goodness gracious right so I’ve learned
the hard way that if you want a
relationship to grow you’re gonna have
to put in time okay you’re gonna have to
make time in other words you’re gonna
have to learn how to be available to say
actually I’m not gonna say I’m always
busy I’m gonna make time because I
definitely feel there’s something there
if you are always unavailable you’re
never gonna get the love you really know
you deserve so learn how to be available
make time for love
how to get the love you deserve surround
yourself with people who push you to
become a better person every single day
I guarantee you one of them will be your
loves and then you’ll just dance off
into the sunset choose who you hang
around wisely and surround yourself with
people who really want to see you win
that’s how to get the love you deserve
and then you’ll just say feel so good to
be a live baby can I get a Hello
limit the time you spend with people who
put you down and increase the time you
spend with people who uplift you one of
them I guarantee you will be your love
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there deep divers you are amazing have a
beautiful day infinite waters diving
deep once again stay well stay healthy
peace you the moment I stopped searching
it all came to me find the love within
yourself and then you will find it out there