peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we are out here can you hear those
birds singing we even had breakfast yet
can I get a hello there breathing in
that beautiful prana baby how to gather
back your emotional strength after rough
patches we’ve got a great question that
came in
you got a question just Instagram us
infinite waters or go to the website RAL
smart comm we’ve got it from a woman in
Australia right hi Ralph
hope you’re feeling great today I’m not
feeling so great I was wondering if you
could do a video on how to get back up
after losing your mojo a couple of
months ago I was in an amazing place
spiritually mentally and emotionally I
was awakened and high on life as time
went by I felt my mojo slowly
disappearing but found it hard to catch
it and get back on track I have let go
of old friends that no longer served me
for the better and have absolutely no
regrets with them as they really held me
back I haven’t yet met any like-minded
people and I thought perhaps that’s why
I’ve lost my mojo I’m not sure but I’m
finding it really difficult to get to
that place that I was before please
consider a video on this topic I feel it
might help many others – can I get a
hello there boy oh boy that’s a long
long long long long long question but
we’re going to
I’ve into it let’s dive into it right
let me share with you what’s helped me
along my journey right because many
times we take a fall just imagine one
day right you wearing all these fancy
clothes you’ve just bought and you’re
trying to show off why are you trying to
show off nobody knows right so you’re
walking and then you just trip up and
you fool down right now what we’re
really embarrassed about is not the
actual falling right but how other
people now perceive us falling right
what does it say about us oh they’re not
looking where they’re going right
they’re clumsy they’re not stylish
enough right they don’t walk in style so
we now feel so guilty we feel ashamed of
ourselves we wish we could turn back the
hands of time so you’re probably saying
to yourself right now right after losing
your mojo you probably said to yourself
I can’t believe it right I was walking
somewhere and I tripped up and I said I
can’t believe it
and once you say I can’t believe it I
can’t believe this happened to me I
can’t believe I lost my swagger juice
where did it go right you got to
remember the last two words believe it
can I get a hello there you got to learn
the rise and the fall is part of the ebb
and the flow let me repeat that you got
to learn that the rise and the fall is
part of the ebb and the ebb and flow
right urban flow AB and flow is that AB
and never mind
right it’s part of the spiral it’s part
of the infinite loop
that ascends and descends I say fool
down with style for goodness sakes right
you see models doing it on the catwalk
all the time right they fall down and
they’re like doing presses Oh oh yeah we
got this you see some people fall down
and they say I can’t believe I’ve just
fallen I can’t believe I’ve just lost my
mojo right and they’re they’re so in
resistance because they can’t believe
this happened that they end up blaming
themselves for what’s happened they end
up hating themselves what’s happened and
they end up feeling like there’s never
gonna be another chance to walk in style
again everybody falls honey everybody is
gonna lose their mojo
what is the mojo after all right it’s
that kind of amazing place like you just
mentioned now a lot of people say Ralph
how come you always keep your mojo can I
get a hello there you got to create a
catchphrase right design one right now
so when you feel really low not as
inspired as usual just say it out loud
can I get a Hello there that’s gonna be
the catalyst for helping you rebuild
your emotional strength after rough
patches you see many times when we going
through certain trials and tribulations
when it seems like we’ve been knocked
out you got knocked out when you got
knocked out right what happens there are
lessons to be learned from the
underground lessons to be learned from
the underground sometimes it’s almost we
don’t really appreciate what we have
until it’s gone so value before you get
it whoa when you have it uh after you
lose it whoa so you gotta you gotta
remind yourself to appreciate your mojo
when you actually have it
because it can slip away from you
writing all day I’m creating I’m sharing
I’m doing what I love because I realize
if I get lazy complacent I’m also gonna
lose what I call the juice you see we
only gather the juice once we stop not
taking our gifts for granted now you
said that you probably think you’ve lost
your mojo because you’re not connecting
with like minds and that’s very profound
because I always say you see infinite
waters wouldn’t be infinite waters
without the cat down the road okay
infinite waters wouldn’t be infinite
waters without you me and the entire
human race right it’s a team effort we
are who we are because of our
interactions with others can I get a
hello there certain times we’re around
certain people and they are helping
refuel our mojo and we are helping
refuel their mojo right if you can look
at it like this when you don’t feel
you’ll use yourself you got to go back
into a time machine and go to that
picture right you’ve got that frame in
your mind right okay where you are
actually doing something which was
generating this feeling which was
creating this euphoria this bliss this
high right what were you doing now you
probably stopped doing that right that’s
why you’ve lost the juice so you’ve got
to start doing that you got to start
realizing the more you spread your
tentacles everywhere right spread your
tentacles maybe when you are feeling so
great about yourself you had
the confidence start breaking down the
fear of social anxiety right you could
be yourself there was no judgment
so if you fall down realize hey you
learn more when you’re down sometimes
and when you’re up cuz when you’re down
you get to see things from a whole
nother perspective can I get a hello
there accept what has just happened
realize you can’t be you can’t be on a
24/7 hi I tried it once lots of things
started to happen really badly right my
life is like this it’s a wave that’s why
it’s infinite waters we go up then we go
down it’s part of the dance I don’t want
to be high all the time right even the
bird that’s flying really high all the
time has to come down for some water
right so it’s part of the fabric of the
universe the inbuilt design of who we
are as human beings to have the high and
except the low you see once you stop
thinking where you should be
that’s what screws us up we have this
idea that every day should be rainbows
and unicorns when some days some days
are like Dungeons and Dragons right
Dungeons and Dragons are okay too you
got to learn how to dance in the rain
how to dance in the storm as a
psychologist a lot of people say I’m
going through a rough patch what should
I do about it and I tell them you don’t
have to do anything all you have to do
is stop being in resistance to the rough
patch and then you will see actually
it’s not a rough patch it’s actually one
of the greatest events of your life
because you are getting a reality check
many of us we don’t have the reality
check because we’re too busy trying to
control
our reality mmm we’re too busy trying to
control every single outcome we’re too
busy holding on to feelings in the past
not realizing everything is in constant
motion I don’t look back at the videos I
created two years ago and say oh my gosh
that was amazing well sometimes I do but
most times I realize it’s what I’m doing
right now that matters this very single
moment right you got to move into the
here and now to ask yourself okay what
is stopping me from even having a
totally different experience you see
when you compare experiences together
you are heading for a big trap my dear
why because you’re never gonna get that
same high you’ve got three weeks ago you
might get a new high but it’s gonna feel
a bit different right because the
variables have changed you’ve got to get
used to
the variables changing and how do I do
this you see every time when we talk
about building back our emotional
strength with you building back our
emotional strength which is getting back
your mojo you got to realize there are
no mistakes or accidents you are where
you need to be be patient and hold on
are you holding on are you holding on no
hold on again right because it’s not
over we think that the chapter is coming
to an end not realizing it hasn’t even
started can I get a hello there now in
getting back your mojo I always say you
got to be hungry your life has to be
filled with passion so when I say Wayne
even had breakfast yet
what am I talking about
we ain’t even had breakfast yet we
haven’t had breakfast yet
that was his end story saying no work no
food right and you got to apply this to
your mojo saying that if you aren’t
taking time to do what you love no mojo
if you are subjecting yourself to a life
of slavery boredom and confusion then no
mojo right because have you ever eaten
so much that you’re just so lazy you
just fall asleep and you got a lot of
work to do you got to get busy but you
can’t because you didn’t stay hungry
so you once I started to eat right after
the work it was amazing because now I
actually enjoyed what I was eating
because I had gotten the work out of the
way right when you can realize that
right now we’re living in a very testing
time for Humanity it’s beautiful at the
same time why do I always say that at
the same time right you got to have fun
you gotta keep you got to keep your
sense of humor that is how to get your
mojo back if you if you feel you’ve lost
it right I’m laughing at myself all the
time I don’t take myself seriously but
the cat down the road takes me seriously
because I’m wearing a suit all the time
right or not sometimes I’m naked that’s
another story
have fun you see we put ourselves into
boxes into categories and into labels
therefore when we don’t live up to those
expectations we start blaming ourselves
we start feeling that other people
validate our existence you got to start
validating your own existence you got to
your mojo hasn’t gone anywhere it’s just
in well hibernation right let’s just say
I stopped doing what I was doing right
being a psychologist counseling people
every single day doing consultations and
then let’s just say I stopped for like
three years oh yeah it’s gonna be hard
for me to get back into the flow but
give me a day or two and I’ll be back in
it why because you see the seeds are
already there once you embrace them once
you nurture them once you give them
attention I’ve seen people who have gone
through horrendous things certain people
have had rough childhoods right they’ve
gone through trauma but they’ve made it
out because they didn’t see themselves
as a victim first of all you don’t want
to say I’ve lost my mojo because word is
bond you want to say I’m in the process
of getting my mojo back to a hundred
percent can I get a hello there if
you’ve got it you’ve got it right but
it’s gonna be harder to get it back if
you are always doubting yourself talking
bad about yourself giving yourself too
much work to do because you feel you
always have to be on a high do you know
how much pressure first of all it is to
always feel you have to feel a certain
way it’s just like certain people say I
always want to be positive I tried that
once
it was terrible can I get a hell yeah
I’m negative and positive baby why
because it’s infinite balance here
infinite love and infinite balance so
realize the fool is part of the artwork
mmm how about that right when you lose
your mojo it adds another dimension into
your life
it’s all about changing perspective and
seeing the bigger picture what have you
really lost I’m asking you that you’re
writing it down yeah what have you
really lost because you’ve still got
your body you still got your mind you
can still create at will if everybody
was to take all my equipment so I can’t
do consultations away I’ll be talking to
people at the beach which I do every
single day sometimes I’m in Laguna
sometimes I’m in Hawaii sometimes I’m in
Brazil sometimes I’m in Ethiopia eating
injera what’s up right in Egypt right
Sri Leone sometimes the Gambia you get
my drift right all around the world
doing different things you see when you
are insecure when you are flexible when
you can move with the tide you are
letting off resistance so now you have
more versatility because you now have
more adaptability you see if you going
back to the first example fall down
we’re not worried about falling down
it’s hurt our ego because we have in our
mind that we could never fall you get
what I’m saying you say I can’t believe
it going back to the last two words
believe it believe that yes sometimes
the car is gonna break down and that
high you were feeling because you just
gave a great talk has just been deflated
sometimes you wake up feeling great and
then you slip right or the post doesn’t
come on time right and it doesn’t really
feel to be in alignment with how you are
problems right in congruence right in
congruence I talked about coherency all
the time and that is how to get back
your mojo to 100% and realize it’s
probably gonna fall back to 30 anyway
and then go back to 100 and then
probably go back to 20 and then probably
go back to 50 up and down right
coherency is where you realize look
is gonna happen outside of me you can’t
do anything about that right because the
variables are always changing but inside
of you is where the magic takes place
law of Correspondence states that your
internal state is everything because
what you experience externally is based
on your internal state you have to look
your mojo your x-factor your sparkle
your light your fire work only
diminishes when you say it does and you
just said it had you say you just said
I’ve lost my mojo you don’t want to say
that just say my Mojo’s in hibernation
so change the way you see yourself
change how other people perceive you
right I’ve been making so many videos
like I’m in the the state where I’m in
Nirvana right now because you see when
you are doing something so consistently
and so when you’re full of commitment
other people’s opinions don’t matter so
much as your own right and once you see
yourself with unconditional positive
regard every single day
you will realize that you are worthy to
be surrounded by great people every day
right because that’s the kind of signal
you would put out there you gotta ask
yourself honey
what are you doing to connect with your
reflections right maybe you are with a
lot of people who are inspiring you at
that time you are having fun having
parties and stuff and they went their
ways you and yours so what are you gonna
do right now to kind of share with the
world your story you can get a blog
going
I challenge you to make a youtube video
about anything and everything and you’re
gonna find a support network but more so
look at it like this ask yourself what
is the relationship I have with myself
right now that’s the only thing that
matters once you begin to take everybody
and everything out of the equation you
will only be left with yourself you have
to face that you got to realize look I’m
not here to be perfect say that again
I’m not here to be perfect I’m here to
be authentic I’m not here to be positive
I’m here to be authentic I’m not here to
have my mojo to 100 percent I’m here to
be authentic I’m not here to be nice
to Ralph you better be nice to me baby
can I get a Hello hey have fun love how
a beautiful day it’s a beautiful day
here in California got the bird singing
but the water flowing getting high have
a beautiful day Wow here infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we are out here can you hear those
birds singing we even had breakfast yet
can I get a hello there breathing in
that beautiful prana baby how to gather
back your emotional strength after rough
patches we’ve got a great question that
came in
you got a question just Instagram us
infinite waters or go to the website RAL
smart comm we’ve got it from a woman in
Australia right hi Ralph
hope you’re feeling great today I’m not
feeling so great I was wondering if you
could do a video on how to get back up
after losing your mojo a couple of
months ago I was in an amazing place
spiritually mentally and emotionally I
was awakened and high on life as time
went by I felt my mojo slowly
disappearing but found it hard to catch
it and get back on track I have let go
of old friends that no longer served me
for the better and have absolutely no
regrets with them as they really held me
back I haven’t yet met any like-minded
people and I thought perhaps that’s why
I’ve lost my mojo I’m not sure but I’m
finding it really difficult to get to
that place that I was before please
consider a video on this topic I feel it
might help many others – can I get a
hello there boy oh boy that’s a long
long long long long long question but
we’re going to
I’ve into it let’s dive into it right
let me share with you what’s helped me
along my journey right because many
times we take a fall just imagine one
day right you wearing all these fancy
clothes you’ve just bought and you’re
trying to show off why are you trying to
show off nobody knows right so you’re
walking and then you just trip up and
you fool down right now what we’re
really embarrassed about is not the
actual falling right but how other
people now perceive us falling right
what does it say about us oh they’re not
looking where they’re going right
they’re clumsy they’re not stylish
enough right they don’t walk in style so
we now feel so guilty we feel ashamed of
ourselves we wish we could turn back the
hands of time so you’re probably saying
to yourself right now right after losing
your mojo you probably said to yourself
I can’t believe it right I was walking
somewhere and I tripped up and I said I
can’t believe it
and once you say I can’t believe it I
can’t believe this happened to me I
can’t believe I lost my swagger juice
where did it go right you got to
remember the last two words believe it
can I get a hello there you got to learn
the rise and the fall is part of the ebb
and the flow let me repeat that you got
to learn that the rise and the fall is
part of the ebb and the ebb and flow
right urban flow AB and flow is that AB
and never mind
right it’s part of the spiral it’s part
of the infinite loop
that ascends and descends I say fool
down with style for goodness sakes right
you see models doing it on the catwalk
all the time right they fall down and
they’re like doing presses Oh oh yeah we
got this you see some people fall down
and they say I can’t believe I’ve just
fallen I can’t believe I’ve just lost my
mojo right and they’re they’re so in
resistance because they can’t believe
this happened that they end up blaming
themselves for what’s happened they end
up hating themselves what’s happened and
they end up feeling like there’s never
gonna be another chance to walk in style
again everybody falls honey everybody is
gonna lose their mojo
what is the mojo after all right it’s
that kind of amazing place like you just
mentioned now a lot of people say Ralph
how come you always keep your mojo can I
get a hello there you got to create a
catchphrase right design one right now
so when you feel really low not as
inspired as usual just say it out loud
can I get a Hello there that’s gonna be
the catalyst for helping you rebuild
your emotional strength after rough
patches you see many times when we going
through certain trials and tribulations
when it seems like we’ve been knocked
out you got knocked out when you got
knocked out right what happens there are
lessons to be learned from the
underground lessons to be learned from
the underground sometimes it’s almost we
don’t really appreciate what we have
until it’s gone so value before you get
it whoa when you have it uh after you
lose it whoa so you gotta you gotta
remind yourself to appreciate your mojo
when you actually have it
because it can slip away from you
writing all day I’m creating I’m sharing
I’m doing what I love because I realize
if I get lazy complacent I’m also gonna
lose what I call the juice you see we
only gather the juice once we stop not
taking our gifts for granted now you
said that you probably think you’ve lost
your mojo because you’re not connecting
with like minds and that’s very profound
because I always say you see infinite
waters wouldn’t be infinite waters
without the cat down the road okay
infinite waters wouldn’t be infinite
waters without you me and the entire
human race right it’s a team effort we
are who we are because of our
interactions with others can I get a
hello there certain times we’re around
certain people and they are helping
refuel our mojo and we are helping
refuel their mojo right if you can look
at it like this when you don’t feel
you’ll use yourself you got to go back
into a time machine and go to that
picture right you’ve got that frame in
your mind right okay where you are
actually doing something which was
generating this feeling which was
creating this euphoria this bliss this
high right what were you doing now you
probably stopped doing that right that’s
why you’ve lost the juice so you’ve got
to start doing that you got to start
realizing the more you spread your
tentacles everywhere right spread your
tentacles maybe when you are feeling so
great about yourself you had
the confidence start breaking down the
fear of social anxiety right you could
be yourself there was no judgment
so if you fall down realize hey you
learn more when you’re down sometimes
and when you’re up cuz when you’re down
you get to see things from a whole
nother perspective can I get a hello
there accept what has just happened
realize you can’t be you can’t be on a
24/7 hi I tried it once lots of things
started to happen really badly right my
life is like this it’s a wave that’s why
it’s infinite waters we go up then we go
down it’s part of the dance I don’t want
to be high all the time right even the
bird that’s flying really high all the
time has to come down for some water
right so it’s part of the fabric of the
universe the inbuilt design of who we
are as human beings to have the high and
except the low you see once you stop
thinking where you should be
that’s what screws us up we have this
idea that every day should be rainbows
and unicorns when some days some days
are like Dungeons and Dragons right
Dungeons and Dragons are okay too you
got to learn how to dance in the rain
how to dance in the storm as a
psychologist a lot of people say I’m
going through a rough patch what should
I do about it and I tell them you don’t
have to do anything all you have to do
is stop being in resistance to the rough
patch and then you will see actually
it’s not a rough patch it’s actually one
of the greatest events of your life
because you are getting a reality check
many of us we don’t have the reality
check because we’re too busy trying to
control
our reality mmm we’re too busy trying to
control every single outcome we’re too
busy holding on to feelings in the past
not realizing everything is in constant
motion I don’t look back at the videos I
created two years ago and say oh my gosh
that was amazing well sometimes I do but
most times I realize it’s what I’m doing
right now that matters this very single
moment right you got to move into the
here and now to ask yourself okay what
is stopping me from even having a
totally different experience you see
when you compare experiences together
you are heading for a big trap my dear
why because you’re never gonna get that
same high you’ve got three weeks ago you
might get a new high but it’s gonna feel
a bit different right because the
variables have changed you’ve got to get
used to
the variables changing and how do I do
this you see every time when we talk
about building back our emotional
strength with you building back our
emotional strength which is getting back
your mojo you got to realize there are
no mistakes or accidents you are where
you need to be be patient and hold on
are you holding on are you holding on no
hold on again right because it’s not
over we think that the chapter is coming
to an end not realizing it hasn’t even
started can I get a hello there now in
getting back your mojo I always say you
got to be hungry your life has to be
filled with passion so when I say Wayne
even had breakfast yet
what am I talking about
we ain’t even had breakfast yet we
haven’t had breakfast yet
that was his end story saying no work no
food right and you got to apply this to
your mojo saying that if you aren’t
taking time to do what you love no mojo
if you are subjecting yourself to a life
of slavery boredom and confusion then no
mojo right because have you ever eaten
so much that you’re just so lazy you
just fall asleep and you got a lot of
work to do you got to get busy but you
can’t because you didn’t stay hungry
so you once I started to eat right after
the work it was amazing because now I
actually enjoyed what I was eating
because I had gotten the work out of the
way right when you can realize that
right now we’re living in a very testing
time for Humanity it’s beautiful at the
same time why do I always say that at
the same time right you got to have fun
you gotta keep you got to keep your
sense of humor that is how to get your
mojo back if you if you feel you’ve lost
it right I’m laughing at myself all the
time I don’t take myself seriously but
the cat down the road takes me seriously
because I’m wearing a suit all the time
right or not sometimes I’m naked that’s
another story
have fun you see we put ourselves into
boxes into categories and into labels
therefore when we don’t live up to those
expectations we start blaming ourselves
we start feeling that other people
validate our existence you got to start
validating your own existence you got to
your mojo hasn’t gone anywhere it’s just
in well hibernation right let’s just say
I stopped doing what I was doing right
being a psychologist counseling people
every single day doing consultations and
then let’s just say I stopped for like
three years oh yeah it’s gonna be hard
for me to get back into the flow but
give me a day or two and I’ll be back in
it why because you see the seeds are
already there once you embrace them once
you nurture them once you give them
attention I’ve seen people who have gone
through horrendous things certain people
have had rough childhoods right they’ve
gone through trauma but they’ve made it
out because they didn’t see themselves
as a victim first of all you don’t want
to say I’ve lost my mojo because word is
bond you want to say I’m in the process
of getting my mojo back to a hundred
percent can I get a hello there if
you’ve got it you’ve got it right but
it’s gonna be harder to get it back if
you are always doubting yourself talking
bad about yourself giving yourself too
much work to do because you feel you
always have to be on a high do you know
how much pressure first of all it is to
always feel you have to feel a certain
way it’s just like certain people say I
always want to be positive I tried that
once
it was terrible can I get a hell yeah
I’m negative and positive baby why
because it’s infinite balance here
infinite love and infinite balance so
realize the fool is part of the artwork
mmm how about that right when you lose
your mojo it adds another dimension into
your life
it’s all about changing perspective and
seeing the bigger picture what have you
really lost I’m asking you that you’re
writing it down yeah what have you
really lost because you’ve still got
your body you still got your mind you
can still create at will if everybody
was to take all my equipment so I can’t
do consultations away I’ll be talking to
people at the beach which I do every
single day sometimes I’m in Laguna
sometimes I’m in Hawaii sometimes I’m in
Brazil sometimes I’m in Ethiopia eating
injera what’s up right in Egypt right
Sri Leone sometimes the Gambia you get
my drift right all around the world
doing different things you see when you
are insecure when you are flexible when
you can move with the tide you are
letting off resistance so now you have
more versatility because you now have
more adaptability you see if you going
back to the first example fall down
we’re not worried about falling down
it’s hurt our ego because we have in our
mind that we could never fall you get
what I’m saying you say I can’t believe
it going back to the last two words
believe it believe that yes sometimes
the car is gonna break down and that
high you were feeling because you just
gave a great talk has just been deflated
sometimes you wake up feeling great and
then you slip right or the post doesn’t
come on time right and it doesn’t really
feel to be in alignment with how you are
problems right in congruence right in
congruence I talked about coherency all
the time and that is how to get back
your mojo to 100% and realize it’s
probably gonna fall back to 30 anyway
and then go back to 100 and then
probably go back to 20 and then probably
go back to 50 up and down right
coherency is where you realize look
is gonna happen outside of me you can’t
do anything about that right because the
variables are always changing but inside
of you is where the magic takes place
law of Correspondence states that your
internal state is everything because
what you experience externally is based
on your internal state you have to look
your mojo your x-factor your sparkle
your light your fire work only
diminishes when you say it does and you
just said it had you say you just said
I’ve lost my mojo you don’t want to say
that just say my Mojo’s in hibernation
so change the way you see yourself
change how other people perceive you
right I’ve been making so many videos
like I’m in the the state where I’m in
Nirvana right now because you see when
you are doing something so consistently
and so when you’re full of commitment
other people’s opinions don’t matter so
much as your own right and once you see
yourself with unconditional positive
regard every single day
you will realize that you are worthy to
be surrounded by great people every day
right because that’s the kind of signal
you would put out there you gotta ask
yourself honey
what are you doing to connect with your
reflections right maybe you are with a
lot of people who are inspiring you at
that time you are having fun having
parties and stuff and they went their
ways you and yours so what are you gonna
do right now to kind of share with the
world your story you can get a blog
going
I challenge you to make a youtube video
about anything and everything and you’re
gonna find a support network but more so
look at it like this ask yourself what
is the relationship I have with myself
right now that’s the only thing that
matters once you begin to take everybody
and everything out of the equation you
will only be left with yourself you have
to face that you got to realize look I’m
not here to be perfect say that again
I’m not here to be perfect I’m here to
be authentic I’m not here to be positive
I’m here to be authentic I’m not here to
have my mojo to 100 percent I’m here to
be authentic I’m not here to be nice
to Ralph you better be nice to me baby
can I get a Hello hey have fun love how
a beautiful day it’s a beautiful day
here in California got the bird singing
but the water flowing getting high have
a beautiful day Wow here infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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