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How to Find Your One True Soulmate


please infinite waters diving deep once
again we are chilling in nature baby you
heard that bird in Oahu Hawaii baby
beep divers can you believe it so
beautiful here
we’re just whoa breathing in that girl’s
piranha baby how to find your one true
soul mate how to find someone on the
same wave length as you that’s the
question that came in we got a whole lot
to talk about
right now I’m blown away by the beauty
of Oahu and I’m like this is a great
place for retreat deep divers if you’ve
got a question I get thousands in my
email don’t email me the best places
Instagram at infinite waters now someone
asked me that they’ve been searching for
their soul mate and they still can’t
find them they want to know what they’re
doing wrong we Nev n’ had breakfast yeah
can I get a hello this is sexology water
fire hot cold yin-yang daddy’s home
we’re bad
so I get to travel all around the world
inspiring millions of people and how did
I find my soulmate how did I find
someone on the same wave length as me
the same wave level you find the one you
love doing what you love that’s how it
happens it’s not that you have to search
to find this soulmate someone who
someone who’s gonna lift you up out of
the darkness no you have to become your
own light slow motion on this side it’s
what I call putting a ring on it
put a ring on your own finger get
married to yourself because the greatest
relationship you can have is with
yourself I come to nature spots like
this all around the world to reconnect
with myself instead of searching for
your soulmate start looking for your
soulmate inside and then the one outside
will appear we have many soul mates it
could even be the cat down the road your
brother your sister a romantic lover
this is someone who totally gets you and
you totally get them but how do we find
them what helped me along my early
journey deep divers was to be
unapologetically me that’s me this is me
infinite waters Ralph smart what you see
is what you get I’m very vocal with my
thoughts beliefs and opinions I spread
them out into the world so
I’m already putting a message out to my
soulmate and if they respond like I get
what you’re saying Ralph that’s it right
there
you gotta be yourself 100% you have to
accept yourself 100% that’s the only way
you’re gonna have a chance of finding
your soulmate if you are caught up in
living someone else’s life if you are
caught up in being someone else you
aren’t in alignment
therefore if someone sees you they won’t
recognize you so you have to ask
yourself the greater question how can I
become more recognizable to my true
reflection and that can only happen when
you are authentic I’ve learned this you
have to be vulnerable I don’t want to be
vulnerable Alf well it’s gonna be hard
to find your soulmate you see a lot of
people open up to me because I’m very
vulnerable I pour my heart into the
world at the same time I reap the
benefits in Hawaii right now living the
dream I live a life of infinite
abundance every single day that’s what
happens when you’re vulnerable you find
your soul mate through vulnerability
vulnerability is your strength
just like the great psychologist brené
Brown said vulnerability is the gift why
people so afraid of it because you have
to strip yourself of your ego the
vulnerability allows yourself to be seen
– one person that is truly special to
you out there
if you are always wearing the mosque in
this persona is very hard to find your
soulmate is very hard very very hard to
find someone you have a good connection
with so every single day I realize I
have to be vulnerable which means it’s
not about me acting all tough I’m so
tough no it’s not about that it’s about
me being freeing to myself by allowing
myself to surrender I don’t have to be
this macho man that’s not how I found my
soul mate I have to be very gentle we
have both masculine and feminine
principles within each of us when we
talk of the water relationship you have
to be vulnerable to find your true
reflection you have to lay down your
guard in essence you have to surrender
slow motion inside why did I come to
Hawaii because it allows me to surrender
and it’s the same with a soul mate your
soul mate is someone who wants the best
for you and you want the best for them
but to find that soul mate you have to
be vulnerable you have to stop playing
these roles that you play in society you
have to be a child again you see what’s
helped me find my soul mate is to speak
my heart even if I’m scared you’re
looking a bit shaky baby speak your
even if you’re scared don’t be afraid
speak your mind even if your voice
shakes that’s how you find your soulmate
you’re gonna be a warrior ladies you got
to be a warrior too I realized this that
many times if you are always searching
for something what happens you don’t
find it ever lost a set of keys and
you’re searching around the house and
you don’t find it I’ve realized you have
to stop searching you have to stop
looking and for the first time start
being the energy you want to attract
into your space so I’m like okay I need
to find my soulmate right now this was
many years ago and I’m like instead of
searching for the perfect person the
perfect soul mate who’s gonna rescue you
ladies from the castle why not start
embodying that frequency within yourself
and now it is magnetically drawn towards
you I realize this that so many times
what happens along all of our journey we
feel incomplete we’re waiting for
someone else to complete us right so
I’ve realized this you have to practice
the art of filling your own cup to find
your soul mate you can’t be a half
looking for another half because that
makes two incomplete halves you have to
become whole within yourself you have to
become grounded that’s why I always say
you find the one you love doing what you
love now seven day vegan challenge right
now in Hawaii there are fruits galore
fruits everywhere
I just had some grapes had a pineapple
full of vitamin C be passionate about
something show people your inner
passions okay so many times we are
caught up in showing people the outside
world that is what is keeping our soul
mate away from us we have to learn how
to show people are in a world or inner
passions like hey I love food I’m doing
the 7 day vegan challenge let’s share
recipes oh I really love food too okay
that’s how I found my soul mate talk
about food talk about something you are
passionate about and then see how they
respond if both of you have the same
passions both of you are gonna dance off
into the sunset okay I’ve learnt this to
that define your soul mate eat in public
okay go to Cafe Gratitude
I gotta find some vegan spots here in
Hawaii in Hawaii if you are here in Oahu
let me know because I need to find some
good vegan spots right eat in public
that’s how I found my soul mate I was
sharing also my seven day vegan
challenge journey okay over 13 years now
I’m inspiring a lot of people to go
vegan eat a plant-based diet has changed
my life forever right it’s changed my
life forever when I’m eating in public
if someone walks past me and it’s like
oh my gosh can you spare a grape I’m
like yeah we get talking soul mate right
food is a clue to who you should be with
when both of you are sharing a similar
food diet that means you are gonna have
great conversations about food and food
is life right how to find your one true
soul mate many soul mates what’s helped
me along my journey is to show people
your mind instead of just your body
ladies fellas I workout I skate every
single day I love running I love cycling
but at the same time this body is just a
vehicle it’s not who I am a hundred
percent and a lot of us how we attract
other people towards us
is trying to beautify ourselves on the
outside taking care of the outside
forgetting about the inside not
realizing that the only way to find your
true soulmate is to expose yourself your
inside not just your outside make
someone fall in love with inner you more
than the outer you slowmotion this type
and ladies take off your makeup then see
if he really wants you that’s how to
find your true soul mate because your
true soul mate will always accept you
100% they’ll be like baby baby you look
so beautiful
just like this scenery behind me right
that’s how you find your one true
soulmate you have to show them how
beautiful your mind is first and then
your body let someone appreciate the
how to find your one true soulmate now a
lot of the times we grow up watching
fairy tales Cinderella what was the
other one
snow-white and Rapunzel okay life is
very different and when it comes to
relationship when it comes to forming a
bond with someone entering the water
relationship what’s helped me along my
journey is to be be with someone who is
proud to have you that’s how you find
your soul man you got to look out for
ones who is really rooting for you
who wants you because of you and who
wants you just because you’re famous or
because of your money or because you can
get them places who really loves you for
your essence who was with you before you
blew up who is giving you the same as
what you are giving them is the
connection reciprocal is it a
sympathetic vibration are you vibrating
towards each other more so are both of
you putting in the same amount of effort
to find your soul mate you gotta be
honest with yourself and say are we both
on the same mission I’ve met people
along my journey and I’m like I’m a deep
diver I’m travelling around the world in
a different country every single week
are you ready for that and they’re like
I’m like when you go they just ran away
right your soul mate will be like yeah
I’m ready let’s do it as you create as
I’m creating they are also creating we
have a similar vision to help other
people become their greatest version
find someone who is on the same mission
as you and if you found them
that’s your soulmate and you can only
find that person by being in your
mission once again how focused are you
okay instead of just searching and
searching and searching you won’t find
it start being and being and being the
truth of who you are and then you won’t
even have to search any longer it will
just magically appear like it has for me
be around someone who doesn’t judge you
that’s how you find your soulmate ask
yourself okay who have I got around me
right now who doesn’t judge me for my
weird thoughts my random things I do at
night at two o’clock I walk around the
streets and go like that if you’ve got
someone in your life right now who loves
your silliness both of you can be silly
together you feel comfortable in the
awkward silence there is no awkward
silence okay if you’re around someone
ladies and fellas and there’s awkward
silence and both of you observe as well
quit you better run right your soulmate
there is no awkward silence in fact
there is a language a hidden
communication both of you have in the
silence which makes the silence so
beautiful you don’t always have to talk
you can absorb yourself in the present
moment you can absorb yourself in the
present moment both for you and that’s
what makes it so magical
how to know you found your soulmate how
to find them right how define where’d
you go I’ve realized this that so many
times in our lives what happens we spend
our lives not satisfied not content not
happy because we’re waiting for someone
to fill us we’re waiting for someone to
complete us we’re waiting for someone to
tell us how marvelous we are we might
have to be that person who tells someone
that first so to find your soul mate ask
yourself when I’m paying compliments to
someone how are they responding how
about that I’m always paying people
compliments and I always realize that a
lot of people are grateful and a lot of
people aren’t briefing and your soul
mate will always be the most thankful
person in your life let me repeat that
your soul mate your soul mate will
always be the most thankful person for
you in your life and that’s why your
soul mate can be someone in your family
it could be your partner right now it
could be an animal but they will always
be the most thankful for you
they appreciate you the most they
appreciate you the most out of anybody
out of all your friends your soulmate is
your ride or die now how many times have
you met someone you’re like oh I think
you’re amazing they don’t even say
anything back the connection is not
reciprocal that’s not your soul mate
because your soul mate is your
reflection right and yes you have the
twin flame who is your cut from the same
cloth but your soulmate gets you there
about elevating you so deep divers today
start paying people compliments just
random compliments and then see who
responds see who is putting in the same
energy the same passion the same effort
as you and the one who is remaining or
the the last few right one of them is
gonna be your true soul mate the energy
is gonna be so intense is gonna blow you
away will gonna blow your way like these
beautiful palm trees in the background
right how to find your one suit your one
your one true soulmate what I’ve
realized is that you have to be
available a lot of us we have a lot of
priorities we don’t have a priority if
you were to ask children back at school
what you want to be when you grow up
what you want to have what you want to
do not many of them said oh I just want
to be in love right few people did right
most people were like oh I want to be a
lawyer I want to be a doctor
I want to be an athlete right so love
has been at the background for so long
in so many of our lives
define your soulmate you have to make
time for
water relationship you have to be
available for your soulmate you have to
be ready for your soulmate you have to
make them a priority no more excuses no
more me me me me me me you have to say
okay right now I’m ready for it along my
early journey boy oh boy I was not ready
to meet my soulmate I was not ready to
even find a soulmate because I didn’t
know who I was you have to start knowing
myself in ancient Egypt in every single
temple above is said know thyself once
you know thyself you begin to find your
soulmate and they know that they they
know themselves too right but you can’t
find your soulmate if you don’t know who
you are if you don’t know what you want
if you don’t know your true heart space
and what it feels like so be ready leave
an open space for your soulmate leave an
open space for your soulmate to say
actually I’m ready for you right now
I’ve made time for you right now and
that’s why deep divers you have to get
yourself in the position spiritually
financially emotionally physically to be
ready for your soulmate because your
soulmate is gonna come
the question is will you be ready your
soul mate is gonna arrive the question
is will you have time for them to find
your soul mate you need to be in the
position to accept your soul mate you
need to be in the position to accept
yourself that’s why self-love is
paramount it is so important self-love
self-acceptance and then your soul mate
comes realize that you can’t find your
soul mate if you are expecting everybody
to be perfect many times you’re gonna
need patience because just like love is
like the seasons there is a time and a
place for everything you may not find
them now you may not find them now but
just wait a few minutes and they’ll
they’ll be right there oh my gosh right
they’ll be right there so that is how to
find your one true soul mate
be patient everything will come to you
when you are truly ready to receive it
once you realize that deep dive as well
you just say they also get to be a live
baby can I get a hello Ted beautiful
deep divers we are chillaxing in the
heart of nature basking in the delicious
sunshine the delicious sunshine have a
beautiful day deep divers infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you Hawaii loves you
whoa breathing in that good ass Prada baby have a beautiful day deep divers

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