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How to Find Someone Who Loves You And Accepts You Unconditionally


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in the Jardin H I hope your day
is going good but do you really want
somebody to hang out with you right now
are you looking for love are you looking
to be validated by someone else you just
want to be accepted how to find someone
who wants to hang out with you and who
loves you and accepts you
unconditionally let’s just whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang daddy’s home we’re back yes I
got a great question I was in a vegan
restaurant yesterday and I know these
people we’ve met before they’re deep
divers and they start asking me this
question how do you get a guy to hang
out with you powerful question and we
started talking and I’m like that’s a
video right there so you inspired that
both of you you know who you are
beautiful ladies
deep divers are you searching for love
right now and it still hasn’t come even
the cat down the road is getting worried
how to find someone
who wants to love you and accept you
unconditionally and we and even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello so let
me share with you us help me along my
journey find someone who wants to hang
out with me
love me and accept me unconditionally
you see it first starts with this I had
to learn the hard way to fill my own cup
to behold within myself you see many
people who spend a lot of time alone
have fantastic relationships because
they have a better intimacy with
themselves
yikes mmm slow motion this side they
know themselves they’re comfortable with
themselves and in their own skin that
wasn’t me along my early journey I was
begging people please accept me please
love me I’m a good person
please but the more I asked the more
elusive love became you see the moment
you are whole within yourself you start
to fall in love with yourself or rise in
love with yourself and that’s actually
how to find someone who’s also gonna
love you and accept you for who you
really are know who you’re pretending to
be in society so be whole within
yourself start loving yourself 100%
today and how did I do that
well first of all
spend time in nature alone go somewhere
where it’s really quiet and then start
to say actually I like this about myself
I like my personality I like my weird
quirky side I like what a lot of people
can’t see my hidden talents and hobbies
okay
that’s how to find someone who loves you
and accepts you because you have to
marry yourself first
yikes mmm say it again Ralph wait first
slow motion this slide you have to marry
yourself first the moment I began to
love myself
oh my phone was ringing like crazy Ralph
I want to hang out with you because
they’re like Ralph’s a pretty
comfortable person in his own skin
that’s so attractive
compare that to a very needy person who
is always in a state of lack you’re half
full waiting praying begging for someone
to complete you but you’ve got to be at
your best to give someone your best you
got to be hold so you can have more to
offer someone else how to find someone
who loves you and accepts you
unconditionally who wants to hang out
with you be direct cuz we were talking
yesterday ladies won’t we
that should I just play hard-to-get
Ralph with this guy
what did I tell you I said you don’t
want to play hard to get we’re living in
a whole new world you have to start
telling him how you really feel ladies
because it is really into you
at least now he knows but the more you
play games you play the waiting game
I’ll just wait a week act hard-to-get no
be honest it’s what I call the
transparency of the water relationship
that’s how to find someone who loves you
and accepts you for you once again you
don’t want to facade you definitely
don’t want a mosque you want someone
who’s gonna accept your true
authenticity now if you can be direct
ladies fellas if you could learn how to
state how you really feel if you can
learn how to express yourself if you can
learn not to sugarcoat your true
emotions that’s how to get someone to
hang out with you because when they do
you know they are accepting all of me
all of me all of me okay how to find
someone who loves you and accepts you
for you
you see I’ve realized this along my
journey don’t force ever seen Cinderella
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the stepsisters are trying to force the
foot in it’s just not happening the heel
is sticking out the back and that’s
what’s happening in so many people’s
lives and relationships you’re trying to
beg someone to be in your life who isn’t
meant for you
because someone who is meant for you you
don’t have to beg them it’s an honor for
them to be with you mm slow motion
inside
they can’t wait to be with you they’re
gonna travel overseas just to be with
you they’re gonna leave work early just
to be with you they’re gonna not babysit
the cat down the road just to be with
you okay they’re gonna do whatever it
takes
drive five hours just to see you for one
okay you don’t have to force people to
hang out with you you are so worthy son
believable look Ralph’s smart yes me I
will hang out with you because I feel
you’re awesome that’s the mentality
you’ve got to have you don’t have to beg
anybody to come into your life you don’t
have to chase anybody but you do have to
be ready to receive and you do have to
be direct with how you really feel once
again you don’t just want to wait for
someone to make all the moves if you
feel a certain way make the first move
but don’t force it don’t force it
because I learn the hard way
I used to force interactions now I don’t
and it all comes it all came to me the
moment I let go the moment I let go the
moment I let go it all came to me
yikes mm mm slow motion this side so
learn to let go learn to embrace the AB
and the flow learn to realize that you
don’t have to be an option for someone
else you can be the main course and you
don’t have to force that interaction
because when someone truly wants to hang
out with you they will leave them that
choice do your own thing
start loving yourself and then the love
will come how to find someone who loves
you and accepts you I don’t want to hang
out with you every single day because
you’re that awesome you see what I’ve
seen along my journey 7 day vegan
challenge is that you have to eat with a
person get to know a person okay like
growing up I used to go to before I was
a vegan lots of barbecues house parties
right house parties and every family
kind of knows each other’s families
right so I used to be going out with
someone and my mom knows their mom and
this that it’s like a family circle you
know what it’s like right that’s the
best way to find someone who wants to
hang out with you who loves you and
beyond their ego which is edging
goodness out you got to see them when
they’re very vulnerable you got to see
them when they’re around their mom what
do they act like right and then you can
actually start to pierce the ego and
form a more intimate relationship with
that person create more depth with that
person more meaningful conversation with
that person and now you build a better
rapport and speaking of the seven day
vegan challenge speaking of the seven
day vegan challenge shout out to
everybody going vegan this year
congratulations you see ladies you asked
me yesterday would I date someone who’s
not a vegan and it’s hard for me to do
that but just by me embracing the vegan
plant-based lifestyle i attracted
someone phenomenal to me phenomenal
people to me Oh Ralph I want to hang out
with you because I’m not trying to
change my diet just to please someone
I’m happy being a vegan of over 13 years
and inspiring millions of people you’ve
got to have conviction especially with
what you’re eating say hey this is what
I do I’m eating a plant-based lifestyle
take it or leave it because once again
you don’t want to try and change how you
are just to make someone else feel
comfortable you got to be your true
authentic self and then you can really
see who loves you for you I’m gonna eat
a whole load of cherries after this sike
grapes how to find someone who loves you
and accepts you unconditionally who
wants to hang out with you
stop playing games can everybody stop
playing games right ladies are you
playing games the waiting game you’re
like I’m not gonna text him on the first
day because I don’t want to seem too
desperate well guess what we’re living
in a different world right now he could
have felt rejected like you didn’t care
and now he’s gone off with someone else
so to really find someone who loves you
and accepts you who wants to hang out
with you who wants to be with you you
got to be honest with how you feel about
them tell them don’t expect everybody to
be a psychic reader with how you feel
cuz the longer you wait circumstances
will change it’s like a wave when you’re
surfing if you miss it
go to wait another 30 minutes and we
ain’t even had breakfast yet we can’t
have that so little games people play in
relationships I’m not gonna cool yet
it’s too early but I really want to call
but I’m not gonna call right be
transparent be rule and be honest and
then you will naturally attract a person
who loves you for you into your life
because the more you play games the more
they play games and now there is no
truth in the relationship and that’s
what happens in so many relationships
because I get thousands of messages
every single day telling me he’s playing
games again she’s playing games again
even the cat down the road started to
you on goodness gracious how to find
someone
who wants to hang out with you who loves
you and accepts you for you allow your
body to be seen that’s very important
but listen to this allow your soul to be
seen just as your body likes mMmmm what
slow motion this side that’s right I go
to the gym to you Instagram fitness
models and guys right but I want to show
somebody my mind first as well I want to
show them how I think my thinking
process I want to show them a deeper
side of me I’m skating every single day
but I want to have a conversation with
you that’s how to attract someone who
loves you and accepts you for you
because time and time again I get
messages time and time again from ladies
who are like Ralph I don’t know if he
likes me for my butt or he likes me for
my mind to really recognize when someone
loves you to get them to love you
because that’s what you want right to
get them to accept you you have to make
them accept you a hundred percent that
means they have to fall in love with
your mind they have to fall in love with
your soul before they fall in love with
your body
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cuz then you’re gonna really know I
always say this ladies wear no makeup
for a week then see if he’s still there
if he is he wants to really he really
wants to hang out with you he really
loves you he really accepts you for your
soul not for your backside right the cat
down the road Scudder it’s always taking
but pigs goodness gracious right your
body is beautiful but so is your soul my
body is beautiful
but so is my soul so the moment I
started to show people my soul people
gravitated towards me they started to
dive deep okay that’s the secret allow
your soul to be seen just as your body
your body is super important as is your
in essence you need both okay I’ve
realized this that how define someone
who loves you and accepts you who wants
to hang out with you deep divers you
have to show them your flaws
you see many times what happens we want
to appear to be perfect we take the
perfect selfie what’s the camera is not
coming on right really perfect okay
you’re dressed all beautifully all
star-studded got your jewelry going
ladies just got your manicure your
pedicure going oh we that’s amazing
you’re so perfect right Ralph you’re so
smart
what’s your name Ralph smart I’m not
perfect
I have imperfect perfections I have
imperfect perfections I have imperfect
perfections I show people my flaws
that’s how to find out if someone really
loves you and accepts you for you to get
someone to hang out with you
show them how imperfect you are show
them how many floors you have and allow
yourself to be vulnerable with them
allow yourself to make mistakes and then
I guarantee you you will find someone
who loves you and accepts you for you
the widow that you are but a magnificent
weirdo like that because so many times
what happens I’ll fall into this trap
before we want to show the world how
good we’re doing we’re smiling I love to
smile that’s good for your health but
are you really living this life that’s
another question I am but there was a
time when I wasn’t and I would be
showing other people hey look at me like
you’re trying to impress this woman
ladies you’re trying to impress this guy
you’re trying to impress this guy by
appearing to be perfect
but behind closed doors you know there
are still aspects of yourself you need
to work on so why not tell that person
hey I’m still working on this sometimes
I can be a bit moody it doesn’t mean
you’re a bad person if you express your
emotions you are allowed to be sad you
are allowed to be angry you see we
gravitate towards raw emotions which is
the energy in motion the reason why I’m
attracting and inspiring so many
millions of people is because I’m not
saying I’m very humble I’m very
confident sometimes I’m super happy
sometimes you might be like oh my gosh I
can’t believe Ralph said that
oranges I’m human I’m showing you my
human side and that’s how to find
someone who loves you and accepts you
for you show them the human side don’t
show them that you are a saint show them
that you make mistakes
show them your failures show them your
regrets
show them your mistakes show them your
flaws and if they’re still around where
did everyone else go there’s one person
right there that’s how to get someone to
hang out with you that’s how to find
someone who loves you and accepts you
for you they didn’t run when everyone
else did
purpose purpose purpose what is my
purpose
to find someone who wants to hang out
with you love you and accept you being
your purpose you find the one you love
doing what you love
yikes slow motion this side say it again
Ralph you find the one you love doing
what you love in the words a French
Montana I ain’t worried about nothing
I’m not worried about nothing cuz when
you are living your purpose every single
day love just falls on your lap oh my
gosh hi love hi hi it just comes cuz you
are so focused you see hello my early
journey I had a lot of time on my hands
I was idle not really knowing what I was
here to do on the planet going to
someone else to fill my cup now because
I’m living my purpose inspiring millions
love is right on my lap is right on my
doorstep because I am love first you
have to be the energy you seek if you
want love start code evading love and
appreciation within yourself if you want
someone to hang out with you start
hanging out with yourself what likes
slow motion this side if you want
someone to hang out with you start
hanging out with yourself it goes back
to knowing who you are knowing your
needs knowing what you can offer someone
else and filling your own cup you find
the one you love doing what you love ask
yourself am I in my mission today
if the answer’s no you’re not gonna
you’re not gonna feel complete so
instead of trying to search for love
instead of trying to chase somebody be
content within yourself by marrying
yourself by really becoming who you came
here to be and I guarantee you no refund
oh that you will find someone who loves
you and accepts you because you find the
one you love doing what you love
ie being in your purpose every single
day you see I realized this you’ve got
to know when to be active and when to be
passive you see sometimes because you
asked ladies yesterday
you’re like growl should I just wait and
sometimes it is good to really embody
that divine feminine energy which is
very passive it’s the moon energy okay
it’s the receiver the Sun is the
transmitter and masculine and feminine
energy we have them both within
ourselves right the masculine and the
feminine energy we have them both within
ourselves you have to learn how to
activate sometimes the feminine fellas
and sometimes the masculine ladies you
have to learn how to activate the
masculine and then sometimes a feminine
sometimes for example I activate the
feminine energy where I’m very relaxed
I’m very passive I let the woman do all
the talking then I’m like the Sun energy
right
I’m just diving deep I’m just talking
talking right I’m filling her cup
sometimes it is good to wait a little
bit until you really start to fill this
person’s energy to say actually do I
really want to spend time with this
person so learn how to be active and be
passive to really find someone who wants
to hang out with you and who really
loves you and accepts you for you
because sometimes ladies you’re like I
just want to be feminine energy but you
have this burning desire to talk to that
guy and you’re like is this the right
thing to do I don’t want to seem
desperate but I really like him yes you
have to activate your masculine energy
right now and start making the moves ask
him out because once again if a guy
ladies listen very closely if a guy
really likes you and you ask him out
he’s gonna be there it’s not gonna ruin
your chances in fact it’s gonna enhance
them now if you can realize this very
simply that you are enough you are
enough and that’s how to find someone
who wants to hang out with you who
accepts you and who loves you who loves
you unconditionally stop loving yourself
unconditionally and realizing you are
enough you don’t have to try and be a
character okay be a cartoon character
just to get someone to love you you are
enough it’s an honor it should be an
honor for them to be in your presence
ladies if someone looks at you if he
looks at you and doesn’t feel blessed to
have you
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well another man will be blessed to have
you his loss
you are a gem amber amber you are amber
I realized this that in all it all comes
back to that word vulnerability to find
someone who wants to hang out with you
who loves you and who accepts you learn
how to be vulnerable I pour out your
heart to them tell them how you really
feel like goodness gracious like just
say hey I’m gonna lay my soul bare to
you because I trust you once again
people only open up as much as you open
up to them slow motion this side okay so
you got to give something to get
something back and that’s how to find
someone who loves you and accepts you
sometimes it might be you you might have
to be the first one to open up to that
person pour your heart out to them tell
them that hey you really mean so much to
me and then see where it goes but
realize how to get someone to hang out
with you how to find someone to hang out
with you how to love you how to accept
you unconditionally it starts with you
and then you will naturally attract oh
your reflections whoever is meant to be
in your life will always gravitate back
towards your life so both of you can eat
beautiful grapes every single day and
then just say well so get to be a live
baby can I get a hello beautiful deep
divers we out here in the heart and
nature just no breathing in that good oz
prana baby have a beautiful day deep
divers infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace you
when someone really loves you they’ll
show up oh my gosh yeah they’re outside
of your door right now
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