Press "Enter" to skip to content

How to Find Someone Who Can Give You What You’re Looking For


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in nature baby gorgeous day
are you trying to find the one the woman
of your dreams the man of your dreams
but you’re still single
how to find someone who can give you
what you are looking for let’s just whoa
breathing in that good ass Prada baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang daddy’s home we’re back now I
got a great question from a woman who
lost this Ralph yes how can I find
someone who can give me what I’m looking
for Ralph
yes I’m kind of picky Ralph
yes really picky Ralph yes really really
really really really picky but I want to
find them Ralph how can I find someone
who could give me everything I’m looking
for deep divers does that ever happen to
you are you on the search right now
trying to find someone who can give you
what you are looking for we even had
breakfast yeah can I get a Hello so
beautiful deep divers let me share with
you what my
enter the water relationship the highest
relationship there is what’s helped me
become my greatest version love is all
you need
The Beatles told you that we know that
right now however
in a world where everybody is rushing
around it’s hard to find someone who can
give you what you are looking for
because you also might be rushing around
okay what I learn deep divers is to fill
my own cup first the greatest
relationship you can have is with
yourself slow motion this side I’ve
counseled thousands of people inspiring
millions of people thousands of messages
every single day men write to me even
the cat down the road writes to me women
write to me Ralph I’m in a relationship
I absolutely hate okay but I’m afraid to
be alone so I stay there Ralph you don’t
have to stay there to find someone who
can give you what you are looking for
you have to learn the art of filling
your own cup first the greatest
relationship you can have is with
yourself true love begins within from
the inside out not seeking validation
from the outside in
so start living from the inside out stop
really falling in love with yourself and
saying gosh I’m so beautiful that’s
right learn how to feel whole within
yourself to find someone who can give
you what you are looking for what helped
me along my journey was to learn this
that if I feel incomplete within myself
I’m always gonna be looking for someone
to complete me to give me what I’m
looking for people can only give you
what they have they can’t give you any
more than that
so what’s helped me along my journey is
to stop looking and searching for love
in the wrong places start code evading
this self love within
self and that’s how you really become
your greatest version I’ve learned this
that you have to be proactive to find
someone who can give you what you are
looking for be as proactive as you can
start going to parties conscious meetups
start putting your own message out there
so if someone can see you who you truly
are your vibe attracts your tribe more
so your lifestyle attracts your tribe
slow motion Lisa how did I find someone
how did I find someone who could give me
what I was looking for I said okay I
keep searching and that’s cool be
proactive and then be consciously
proactive to find someone who can give
you what you are looking for meaning you
find the one you love doing what you
love if you are single right now it’s
time to move into your purpose it’s time
to start doing what you love every
single day is time to start being your
true authentic self if not you will
always keep attracting the wrong people
in your life however you will learn
certain lessons you need now if we can
realize this that many of us we keep
attracting the wrong kind of person
we’re not happy with we’re like how well
how can I find someone who can give me
exactly what I’m looking for okay
it starts with being vulnerable allow
yourself to lose your ego allow yourself
to lose your mask be as much as you as
you can many of us in our society
we’ve never allowed other people to see
the real us I’m sharing every single day
okay so it’s easy for me to find my
favored person because I am Who I am a
hundred percent what you see is what you
get
however if you are living a lifestyle
where you are always pretending nobody
knows who you are
you will only attract false reflections
now define someone who can give you what
you are looking for be as much as you as
you can stop trying to pretend to be
someone you want I’m just me every
single day at the same time I’m living
in infinite abundance with over 1
million Greeks in my mouth 7 day vegan
challenge speaking of the 7 day vegan
challenge health is wealth what helped
me along my journey find someone who
could give me what I was looking for was
to realize this I had to show them what
I was eating I had to show them what I
was eating there’s a reason why I
mentioned the 7 day vegan challenge in
almost every video I make because
Brussels sprouts dates celery arugula
ginger as I eat all of these superfoods
have changed my life for the better
I’ve been a vegan for over 13 years
inspiring millions of people all around
the world to eat better protect the
animals save the animals live with
compassion do you know what that has
done for my love life tell me Ralph I
found someone who could give me exactly
what I’m looking for by 7 day vegan
challenge showing and sharing with the
world my food journey I’m never gonna
apologize for being a vegan of over 13
years this is what has changed my life
eating a plant-based diet so I’m sharing
my food journey and if someone out there
in the universe is a vegan – they’re
gonna be like oh my gosh Ralph that
video touched me so much
let’s make some babies let’s dance off
into the sunset exactly your vibe
attracts your tribe to find someone who
can give you exactly what you are
looking for you have to be bold you have
to be brave and you have to be honest
when it comes to sharing with them what
it is exactly you are eating okay I’m
attracted to people who are eating a
plant-based diet so if they tell me
about their food journey I’m gonna be
more inclined to say okay let’s go for a
day right same thing if you want to find
someone who can give you what you are
looking for because you are vegan maybe
you’re fully raw start sharing your food
journey so someone sees you and I like
oh my gosh we would we would look so
good together drinking a guava smoothie
full of vitamin C health is wealth baby
how to find someone who can give you
what you are looking for now many times
I meet people who are always searching
[Music]
sometimes the great paradox is the
moment I stop searching it all came to
me slow motion this side that’s what
happened to me when I stopped looking
for the perfect person it came to me
when I stopped saying okay I want more
subscribers I’ve got a YouTube Gold
Award that’s how it works
the moment you realize meaning nothing
gives you everything once again you have
to become you have to become complete
within yourself to find someone who can
give you what you are looking for that
is the greatest paradox ever cuz then
Ralph why would I need them
you are now not in a codependent
relationship you are whole within
yourself
therefore you meet another hole and now
two holes become the one now if we can
realize many times we are always asking
the other person we have a huge demand
and checklist trying to find the perfect
person looking for someone who is this
perfect human being I know you’re like
Ralph yes they better have this and they
better have that and they better look
like this and they better look like that
I know to find someone who can give you
what you are looking for you better ask
yourself what can I offer them to find
someone who can give you what you are
looking for ask yourself what can I give
to them to find someone who can give you
what you are looking for ask yourself
what can I invest in them for the first
time it is no longer about what they can
give you it is all about what you can
give them slow motion inside when I was
a teenager deep divers I used to say I
want the most beautiful woman in the
world she’s got to be able to love
nature like I had a huge checklist right
that was only the start of it she’s got
a lot of animals she’s got a lot of
animals she’s gotta love that sight but
I’m like okay I’m always like she’s got
to do this for me however I was so wrong
because it’s all about what you can
offer the other person right now I’m in
a very comfortable position inspiring
millions living the life of infinite
abundance I have so much to offer my
forever someone you’ve got to be in that
position to find
someone who can give you what you are
looking for when you are financially
wealthy financially independent
spiritually wealthy emotionally healthy
you will find someone who can give you
what you are looking for because once
again you are having a greater coherency
between the mind body and the soul now
if we can realize to find someone who
can give us what we are looking for give
you what you are looking for give me
what I’m looking for what I’ve learned
deep diamonds is not to settle for
anything anybody any person even a cat
down the road that does not help me
evolve to the next level slow motion
this side do not settle for anybody who
does not help you evolve to the next
level many times we want someone who
doesn’t want us back the greatest
relationships ever are reciprocal
meaning there is an equal amount of
effort both sides 50/50 one part one
person one person does not want the
other more than the other one stem is
equal it’s not like this it’s not like a
seesaw no it’s equal it’s balanced I
want you how you want me and we’re gonna
have a beautiful family so I’ve learned
these beautiful deep divers how I found
someone who could give me exactly what I
was looking for was to not settle it was
to not settle I’m like many years ago
I’m like I would rather be single and
happy and in a relationship and
miserable okay and once again just by me
being on infinite waters I naturally
attract everything I need because once
again you find the one you love doing
what you love
do you know how many people I’ve
connected with on Infinite Waters who
are amazing beautiful it’s a soul family
how to find someone who can give me what
I’m looking for I don’t settle because I
know my true worth I’ve been with people
who are angels women who are angels okay
I’ve been with beautiful Souls I’ve got
friends who are so compassionate so why
would I be with someone in a
relationship who is gonna demean me
degrade me treat me like a doormat
ladies if you’re with a guy right now
even if you with another woman whatever
your preference is who is talking down
to you fellas same thing if you’re with
a woman who’s doing the same no your
worth it’s time for you to walk out of
that door right now because someone
better is waiting for you can I get a
hello there you do not have to put up
with that you do not have to stay in a
relationship which is making you unhappy
you do not have to tolerate a life of
mediocrity now in a nutshell that’s how
I found someone who could give me what I
was looking for listen to your heart the
universe reveals his secrets to those
who dare to follow their hearts I
learned that many years ago so I said
okay someone’s energy can tell us more
about them than their words someone’s
actions can tell us more about them than
their words so stop listening to what
people tell you they will do or how they
feel about you start seeing their
actions did they come and see you did
they drive to see you did they hop on a
plane to come and be with you
to find someone who can give you what
you are looking for is time to start
listening to your heart and trusting
your own intuition to say actually this
person can give me what I’m looking for
because I have so much to offer them I’m
not gonna drain their energy
they’re not gonna drain mine we are
gonna have a sympathetic vibration we
are gonna connect in wholeness together
to become one love how to find someone
who can give you what you are looking
for ladies fellas
now by the way I get a lot of questions
Ralph I want to send you a question if
you’ve got a question the best places to
add me on instagram at infinite waters
those people get first priority as we
commence don’t try and look for your ex
in other people that’s how to find
someone who can give you what you are
looking for don’t look for a copy of
your ex time and time again I meet
people who are like Ralph I’ve been
listening to your videos for a long time
i watch one of your videos every single
day lots of people write me there
they’re like Ralph I want to find
someone who I can get on with who can
give me what I’m looking for I’ve been
single for way too long and I’m so
but they’re like Ralph I keep trying to
look for a copy of my ex because we
shared so many good moments I still
haven’t got over my ex Ralph and that’s
probably you guessed it why you can’t
move forward into a new healthy
relationship it’s time to let go and
it’s time to move forward
watch my new video on their 10 things to
let go of to move forward powerful stuff
powerful stuff now
you have to stop looking for a copy of
your ex you have to learn how to see new
relationships with new eyes
in essence don’t Perry in essence don’t
carry old baggage into a new
relationship because we don’t need that
we don’t need that we don’t need that at
last deep divers I can relate when I was
16 I was in a relationship high school
sweetheart as you do and we were dating
for a while and then when we parted ways
I was always trying to look for a copy
of my ex cuz I’m like she was so dope we
were young and in love we grew up in
school together and then every other
relationship I would try to find a copy
of my ex which wasn’t working because I
failed to see that everybody is unique
to find someone who can give you what
you are looking for realize you are
never gonna find that other person your
ex ever again because they are
irreplaceable everybody you meet is
unique you see the people we meet in
life are either our blessings or our
lessons I always say it’s always
blessings to me because everybody can
teach you something and help you get to
the next level it’s time to start seeing
new relationships with new eyes it’s
time to stop because deep divers that’s
how you give other people a chance in
relationships
this is sexology and if you are single
wanting to meet your forever flame your
twin flame your soulmate someone who you
can vibe with because love is all you
need it’s time to stop looking for a
copy of your ex it’s time to let that go
to create space for new energy to enter
into your life
slow motion this site how to find
someone who can give me what I’m looking
for we’re out there I want it right now
you got to be patient if you are single
there are seasons in this world for a
reason and it’s the same with us because
as above so below
so realize that you got to be patient
they may not be here right now but they
could be here next summer the main thing
is are you preparing yourself for the
one when you see them slow motion in
this side there was a time when I didn’t
have my together ten messages in
when guys ignore you ladies watch that
video right now love was not my number
one priority
no it wasn’t I was too busy trying to
I start to realize this profound truth
that love is the only thing worth living
for define someone who can give you what
you are looking for prepare yourself for
a great love work on yourself work on
your emotional state your mental state
your physical state get your body in
shape so when you see that forever
person you have so much more to offer
them how to find someone who can give
you what you are looking for do you have
a massive checklist oh no I do Ralph
don’t worry about it
I did – they’ve got to be like this and
they gonna be like that ladies you know
what it’s like he’s gonna be like this
and he’s got to be like that fellas you
know what it’s like she’s got to be like
this and she’s got to be like that and
so it goes on and on and on I realized
that I’m not perfect I have imperfect
perfections I’m very flawed and that’s
what actually makes me perfect if you
can do away with your checklist that’s
how to find someone who can give you
what you are looking for if you realize
everybody is flawed yes we love to
pretend on social media Instagram
YouTube that our lives is so perfect I
don’t because I’m sharing with people
how to become your greatest version okay
I have to become authentic every single
day just by the sheer nature of what I’m
doing I had to learn to find someone who
could give me what I was looking for it
was time for me to do away with my
checklist it was time for me to do away
with my checklist my demands and my
wants those four letters which screw
everyone up in a relationship I once
waa NT once creates expectation
expectation creates resistance
resistance creates suffering to find
someone who can give you what you are
looking for
go away with a checklist say hey even if
I meet the person of my dreams they
aren’t gonna be all perfect they’re
gonna have flaws things that sometimes
make me get annoyed little things they
do you got to accept the whole totality
of who they are the good yeah the bad oh
no the ugly
oh no do away with a checklist and be
realistic say actually they’re pros
outweigh their cons how to find someone
who can give you what you are looking
for be very clear about what you want
have a crystal clear clarity about what
you want okay and that’s what’s helped
me along my journey find someone who can
give me what I’m looking for I’m very
clear about what I want in people and I
tell them I say hey I want to find
people who can help me become my
greatest versions and once you realize
that need divers you just say get to be
a live baby can I get a Hello pair have
a beautiful day deep divers were just
whoa breathing in that good-ass prana
baby
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you let them cry you a river like this rain

Please follow and like us: