peace and finit waters behaving deep
once again we are out here
we’re nature breathing in that beautiful
prana baby how to drop other people’s
expectations of you look someone should
have just given you a manual as soon as
you came to Planet Earth saying no
matter what you do you’re gonna piss a
whole load of people off can I get a
Hello
I ain’t even had breakfast yet really
and truly what’s going on right I’ve got
a questioning from someone who said that
they are doing something their parents
doesn’t want them to do right they are
taking a different life path and what
their parents had envisioned for them
right and they’re wondering what should
they do I get tons of these kinds of
questions right but since this is a 7
day vegan challenge right I’ll share a
personal story with you a lot of people
used to say gosh Ralph where’d you get
your protein but you get your protein I
said don’t worry about it what do we got
here 7 day vegan challenge we’ve got
wild arugula right plant-based protein
want based protein vitamin K vitamin a
zinc full of calcium great for heart
health boosts your immune system great
for eye health makes you see better
right it does a lot for you basically I
mean saw a plant-based protein good
stuff right but a lot of people what I
used to say actually I can get protein
from plant-based sources a lot of people
looked at me pretty funny like uh-huh
and it was hard it’s hard right when
people don’t really get where you’re
coming from and I always tell people
this you don’t want to say I don’t care
what people think right because you do
right we all do we all sometimes
where our hearts on our sleeve and he
can hurt us right the cat down the road
protects me though but it hurts
sometimes right so you got to really
know why you feel this way begin to
understand in a stand and over stand why
why why you are feeling this way because
someone thinks this way about you
has this expectation for you right they
are bringing something out of you and
it’s making you feel really funny really
uncomfortable and you got to really know
why right that’s the biggest way to drop
other people’s expectations of you why
do they make me feel this way right
why okay I know why because they change
your diapers can I get a Hello that is
why right they gave you your first meal
your parents are your loyal custodians
your Guardians your watches and your
protectors who take care of you right
and that gives them an identity right so
when they say something or anyone for
that matter maybe it’s a loved one close
friend whatever right we take it close
to heart because deep down we feel they
still control us
we begin to live our lives through them
vicariously so in dropping other
people’s expectations you got to realize
that yes parents friends boyfriends
girlfriends the cat down the road they
all just want the best for you can I get
a Hello it’s just that sometimes I even
a cat down the road gets very
overprotective they still feel you’re so
small and they forget that you have a
unique mind the unique body and a unique
smile and it’s not like this right so
you got to realize that ask yourself
whose life am i living right did I come
here just to do what my parents want me
to do did I come here just to be who my
friends want me to be did I come here
you came here for a reason right we know
that much right but the reason
definitely wasn’t just to follow the
instruction kit of your parents or was
it right it all starts with realizing
this look at it this way let’s just say
you are changing into different outfits
today right let’s say okay I bought you
10 different outfits to wear one is
purple one is orange one is even red
bright red right do you know how that’s
gonna make you feel changing so many
times in different outfits during the
day right now you’re starting to feel
uncomfortable now imagine if I a close
friend who usually sees you in just
purple sees you in ten different outfits
during the day
now you think you’re going crazy I think
you’re going really crazy can I get a
hello there that’s why you gotta have a
perspective to see where they’re coming
from but also to see why you are doing
it and how it is making you feel and to
realize you are here to please yourself
mmm slow motion I talk to people all the
time who don’t love themselves they
don’t accept themselves because they’re
blended there is two other people we got
a slow motion for gears hmm slow motion
mmm they have landed there is two other
people and now their voice the hearing
has been hijacked it becomes very clear
at a certain stage in your life when you
realize that you say to yourself is this
what I want is this what I really want
to do is it you see for a lot of us
definitely not we know it doesn’t feel
good but we’re still not comfortable
with owning our weirdness you see that’s
the biggest secret to drop other
people’s expectations of you if you’re
crazy well if you’re weird well you
better start to enjoy it can I get a
Hello because if you don’t you haven’t
therefore built the right amount of
confidence to deal with other people’s
criticisms other people’s judgments and
other people stand it
people love talking about you
they love saying stuff about you but
that’s what they’re here to do because
they’re testing you to see if you are
who you say you are hmm
no slow motion is ever that was hot
right they’re testing you to see if you
are who you say you are many times I’ve
talked about proving your witness right
where you start to realize that okay
this career path this life path is
actually creating abundance for me
happiness for me right but you see a lot
of us we haven’t proved it to ourselves
that this life path works so your
parents might say go and work in a bank
come on this is what Joe did this is
what Diana did right this is what Simeon
did just random names here don’t work
right and you’re like maybe they’re
right right because it takes a lot of
work to learn how to accept yourself to
drop other people’s expectations I’ll
give you a quick tip though you have to
realize that when you can stop judging
yourself right that what you are doing
is right what you are doing is wrong
instead go with the feeling of how it
makes you feel you will you would now
get more clarity on who you are more
clarity on accepting yourself 100% and
therefore the words of other people the
words of other people you will hear them
but not be governed by them can I get a
hello there you will hear the words of
other people you won’t be governed by
them right so if you want to be an
artist dancer an architect lawyer
whatever you want to do you can do it
but at the same time you got to realize
that a lot of people may not want you to
do it because once again they have a
vision for you you got to ask yourself
whose vision are you living did you come
to Planet Earth to live they cut down
the roads vision or you did okay next
one did you come down the road to live
your next-door neighbor’s vision oh
don’t be silly
cuz what are they doing now there are no
brownie points right look at it like
this 200 years everybody is out of here
except if you’re an alien okay and let’s
just say you meet your mom or dad or
maybe a friend that told you what to do
with your life in the pearly gates right
and well everyone’s just laughing saying
uh life was a bit of a ride really but
you’re not you’re crying a bit because
you’re you realize that you wasted a lot
of your life experience trying to please
other people and live up to their
expectations
and then someone comes along saying look
there’s no brownie points can I get a
hello there because it’s all a ride it’s
all a magical journey a journey which
you’ve got to take a hundred percent
responsibility for what you do at any
given moment right you can’t blame
people unless you hand them over your
power and that’s what you’ve done that’s
what we do always we’ve got to start
learning how to reclaim our power by
realizing that hey if you go into the
timeline of what your parents did right
they probably went to a lot of clubs
they probably drank a lot they probably
did all kinds of things which you don’t
even want to know about right they did
all of those things but guess what
you weren’t there too
so realize this you don’t want to worry
about people judging you because remind
yourself you don’t judge them and you
didn’t judge them when they were making
all their mistakes hmm can I get a Hello
it’s One Life to Live we aren’t perfect
it’s trial and error you’re gonna go
through certain situations circumstances
and in a nutshell a lot of people are
gonna have a lot of things to say but
you got to ask yourself who are these
people and what are they doing who are
these people and what are they doing
what is their intention for me and that
way you move forward listen to people
but don’t be governed by their words
unless they make sense to you can we get
it do it can we get a hello can I get a
hello there please have a beautiful day
we’re out here in nature having fun
Infinity Ward is diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
once again we are out here
we’re nature breathing in that beautiful
prana baby how to drop other people’s
expectations of you look someone should
have just given you a manual as soon as
you came to Planet Earth saying no
matter what you do you’re gonna piss a
whole load of people off can I get a
Hello
I ain’t even had breakfast yet really
and truly what’s going on right I’ve got
a questioning from someone who said that
they are doing something their parents
doesn’t want them to do right they are
taking a different life path and what
their parents had envisioned for them
right and they’re wondering what should
they do I get tons of these kinds of
questions right but since this is a 7
day vegan challenge right I’ll share a
personal story with you a lot of people
used to say gosh Ralph where’d you get
your protein but you get your protein I
said don’t worry about it what do we got
here 7 day vegan challenge we’ve got
wild arugula right plant-based protein
want based protein vitamin K vitamin a
zinc full of calcium great for heart
health boosts your immune system great
for eye health makes you see better
right it does a lot for you basically I
mean saw a plant-based protein good
stuff right but a lot of people what I
used to say actually I can get protein
from plant-based sources a lot of people
looked at me pretty funny like uh-huh
and it was hard it’s hard right when
people don’t really get where you’re
coming from and I always tell people
this you don’t want to say I don’t care
what people think right because you do
right we all do we all sometimes
where our hearts on our sleeve and he
can hurt us right the cat down the road
protects me though but it hurts
sometimes right so you got to really
know why you feel this way begin to
understand in a stand and over stand why
why why you are feeling this way because
someone thinks this way about you
has this expectation for you right they
are bringing something out of you and
it’s making you feel really funny really
uncomfortable and you got to really know
why right that’s the biggest way to drop
other people’s expectations of you why
do they make me feel this way right
why okay I know why because they change
your diapers can I get a Hello that is
why right they gave you your first meal
your parents are your loyal custodians
your Guardians your watches and your
protectors who take care of you right
and that gives them an identity right so
when they say something or anyone for
that matter maybe it’s a loved one close
friend whatever right we take it close
to heart because deep down we feel they
still control us
we begin to live our lives through them
vicariously so in dropping other
people’s expectations you got to realize
that yes parents friends boyfriends
girlfriends the cat down the road they
all just want the best for you can I get
a Hello it’s just that sometimes I even
a cat down the road gets very
overprotective they still feel you’re so
small and they forget that you have a
unique mind the unique body and a unique
smile and it’s not like this right so
you got to realize that ask yourself
whose life am i living right did I come
here just to do what my parents want me
to do did I come here just to be who my
friends want me to be did I come here
you came here for a reason right we know
that much right but the reason
definitely wasn’t just to follow the
instruction kit of your parents or was
it right it all starts with realizing
this look at it this way let’s just say
you are changing into different outfits
today right let’s say okay I bought you
10 different outfits to wear one is
purple one is orange one is even red
bright red right do you know how that’s
gonna make you feel changing so many
times in different outfits during the
day right now you’re starting to feel
uncomfortable now imagine if I a close
friend who usually sees you in just
purple sees you in ten different outfits
during the day
now you think you’re going crazy I think
you’re going really crazy can I get a
hello there that’s why you gotta have a
perspective to see where they’re coming
from but also to see why you are doing
it and how it is making you feel and to
realize you are here to please yourself
mmm slow motion I talk to people all the
time who don’t love themselves they
don’t accept themselves because they’re
blended there is two other people we got
a slow motion for gears hmm slow motion
mmm they have landed there is two other
people and now their voice the hearing
has been hijacked it becomes very clear
at a certain stage in your life when you
realize that you say to yourself is this
what I want is this what I really want
to do is it you see for a lot of us
definitely not we know it doesn’t feel
good but we’re still not comfortable
with owning our weirdness you see that’s
the biggest secret to drop other
people’s expectations of you if you’re
crazy well if you’re weird well you
better start to enjoy it can I get a
Hello because if you don’t you haven’t
therefore built the right amount of
confidence to deal with other people’s
criticisms other people’s judgments and
other people stand it
people love talking about you
they love saying stuff about you but
that’s what they’re here to do because
they’re testing you to see if you are
who you say you are hmm
no slow motion is ever that was hot
right they’re testing you to see if you
are who you say you are many times I’ve
talked about proving your witness right
where you start to realize that okay
this career path this life path is
actually creating abundance for me
happiness for me right but you see a lot
of us we haven’t proved it to ourselves
that this life path works so your
parents might say go and work in a bank
come on this is what Joe did this is
what Diana did right this is what Simeon
did just random names here don’t work
right and you’re like maybe they’re
right right because it takes a lot of
work to learn how to accept yourself to
drop other people’s expectations I’ll
give you a quick tip though you have to
realize that when you can stop judging
yourself right that what you are doing
is right what you are doing is wrong
instead go with the feeling of how it
makes you feel you will you would now
get more clarity on who you are more
clarity on accepting yourself 100% and
therefore the words of other people the
words of other people you will hear them
but not be governed by them can I get a
hello there you will hear the words of
other people you won’t be governed by
them right so if you want to be an
artist dancer an architect lawyer
whatever you want to do you can do it
but at the same time you got to realize
that a lot of people may not want you to
do it because once again they have a
vision for you you got to ask yourself
whose vision are you living did you come
to Planet Earth to live they cut down
the roads vision or you did okay next
one did you come down the road to live
your next-door neighbor’s vision oh
don’t be silly
cuz what are they doing now there are no
brownie points right look at it like
this 200 years everybody is out of here
except if you’re an alien okay and let’s
just say you meet your mom or dad or
maybe a friend that told you what to do
with your life in the pearly gates right
and well everyone’s just laughing saying
uh life was a bit of a ride really but
you’re not you’re crying a bit because
you’re you realize that you wasted a lot
of your life experience trying to please
other people and live up to their
expectations
and then someone comes along saying look
there’s no brownie points can I get a
hello there because it’s all a ride it’s
all a magical journey a journey which
you’ve got to take a hundred percent
responsibility for what you do at any
given moment right you can’t blame
people unless you hand them over your
power and that’s what you’ve done that’s
what we do always we’ve got to start
learning how to reclaim our power by
realizing that hey if you go into the
timeline of what your parents did right
they probably went to a lot of clubs
they probably drank a lot they probably
did all kinds of things which you don’t
even want to know about right they did
all of those things but guess what
you weren’t there too
so realize this you don’t want to worry
about people judging you because remind
yourself you don’t judge them and you
didn’t judge them when they were making
all their mistakes hmm can I get a Hello
it’s One Life to Live we aren’t perfect
it’s trial and error you’re gonna go
through certain situations circumstances
and in a nutshell a lot of people are
gonna have a lot of things to say but
you got to ask yourself who are these
people and what are they doing who are
these people and what are they doing
what is their intention for me and that
way you move forward listen to people
but don’t be governed by their words
unless they make sense to you can we get
it do it can we get a hello can I get a
hello there please have a beautiful day
we’re out here in nature having fun
Infinity Ward is diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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