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How to Differentiate Between Your Ego and Your Higher Self


he some senate waters diving Zeke once
again we are out here and here that bird
up there in the heart and nature baby
how to differentiate from your ego and
your highest self how to tell the
difference between your ego and your
higher self okay let’s just whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby
feels so good to be alive I got a
question that came in from someone two
people actually with the same question
Ralph yes how do you know if you are in
your ego or it is actually your higher
self do you have that problem sometimes
you’re like hey hey wait a minute wait a
minute was that my ego or was that my
highest self my ego or my high self my
ego my highest self goodness gracious I
mean even at breakfast yeah can I get a
Hello let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey tell the
difference between my ego and my highest
self now the ego has got a very bad rap
in society if someone says oh you’re so
in your ego it means you’re a kind of
arrogant egotistical person is that you
no definitely not of course not right
you’re in your higher self right but I’m
here to tell you that it’s about
balancing the ego and the highest self
the ego is not negative it’s just that
you you definitely you definitely don’t
want it to rule your life like you don’t
want your ego to rule your life
I see the ego as the kind of lower
nature raw energy like the Dragon ever
watched those fairy tales and you don’t
kill the dragon
you you slay the dragon and then you
ride the dragon okay and then it can
take you to wherever you want to go
humble confidence that’s what I talk of
like humble confidence don’t just be
humble I’m so humble
be confident too and that’s okay okay
but there are some times where we’re
like is it my ego or is it my highest
self and we’re like so confused so
confused right don’t worry about it so
this is how I know the ego always wants
to be right
the ego stands for edging good out right
the ego always wants to be right it has
to be right in everything it can never
be wrong on the other hand the highest
self can be wrong it can admit it’s
false it’s shortcomings mmm
slow motion Lisa is that you you can
never ever be wrong you always have to
be right yeah it is you isn’t it it is
you you always have to have the last
word in an argument that’s the ego
okay the highest self is like just chill
just chill it doesn’t have to always be
right sometimes it could look at itself
and say actually I messed up I messed up
I messed up that’s okay you’re not a bad
the ego okay
never make the ego rule your life and
sometimes we know we’re in the ego when
we’re like I know everything I know
everything like you can’t teach me
anything because I’ve read all the books
in the world I am so smart
okay I am so clever I don’t need to
learn any more okay and then you fall on
your ass okay learn to get up again the
highest self is always learning because
the highest self is always evolving it’s
always growing it’s always expanding in
consciousness slow motion this side so I
always realized I’ve always got to learn
more and that’s how I know I’m in my
Higher Self I don’t know everything
like I’m all I’m only telling you I’m
only telling you this is what helped me
along my journey that’s all you hear
that in every single video if you’re
listening right the ego okay you know
you are in your ego when you wake up one
day and you’re like I’m living this
lifestyle Ralph it’s not serving me I
know it’s not serving me but it’s right
with this necessity that’s what we call
cognitive cognitive dissonance okay it’s
like someone who’s smoking all the time
reading the label smoking causes cancer
and they’re like I don’t care because I
know someone who’s 100 and they smoke 40
a day okay this is what we call
cognitive dissonance and sometimes I
realized long my early journey like the
lifestyle I was living wasn’t serving me
and for a long time I was in the ego to
say actually who cares like everybody’s
going to be out of here okay doesn’t
matter you only live once and then I’m
like wait a minute we are actually
immortal okay we never die because we
are energy the highest self will check
itself check yourself before you wreck
yourself okay the highest self thanks a
lot you know the highest self I had
someone passing by saying true word okay
the highest self is always about
realizing okay it better stop before he
goes overboard this
sometimes what happens we’re like we
should stop right now the ego never
wants to stop it’s like a drunk driver
the highest self is looking at the speed
limit to say actually if I go any faster
there’s going to be an accident right
so the highest self is your inner
guidance system your inner GPS hmm slow
motion this side it will guide you to
wherever you need to be I see the higher
self like your intuition your third eye
it knows what’s going to happen next it
sees things before it happens and it
will guide you to wherever you need to
be that is in your best interest the ego
will trick you to say actually go there
but the ego doesn’t care about your
well-being it only cares about its own
survival
once again the ego is not entirely
negative it was created for your
survival the ego is based around
fight-or-flight can you imagine if you
didn’t have that and a whole load of
Jaguars are running at you you would
just stand there and get eaten life you
would get eaten live right
you are in your ego and I’ve seen this
along my journey like because I’ve been
a vegan over 13 years but before that I
was in burger joints KFC eating like
fries and and just a lot of meat a lot
of dairy steaks and I know about that
life okay the ego you know you’re in
your ego when you feel you are superior
to every other life form on the planet
oh yes Ralph that cow was created for my
belly that pig was created for my belly
and that’s what I saw okay
over 13 years ago I’m like actually
these these animals are below me okay I
am the superior human being okay
then I’m like I’m so wrong because the
calcite is moving at me saying you’re
wrong you’re wrong like every life-form
and this is where the highest self comes
into play the highest self knows this
that every life-form is precious every
life-form wants to actually live and is
about self-preservation
okay cows I’ve been to a farm look in
the eyes for cow and there’s something
in there like if you look in the eyes of
a child there something in there some
people call it the sole universal
consciousness okay animals are precious
I love the cat down the road and your
higher self realizes this it’s about an
ecosystem
you see Native Americans knew this that
human beings didn’t weave the web of
creation they are part of the web of
creation slow motion this side slow
motion this side baby
[Laughter]
human beings did not weave the web of
life they are part of the web of life
and check this out so animals too okay
just because we might be stronger than
animals we’re more cunning it doesn’t
mean that we have a right to see them as
lower beings so the ego will tell you
actually wait a minute you do have a
right because the ego is about the ego
system the highest self is about the
ecosystem slow motion this side the
highest self loves all life-forms on the
planet just like itself so that’s why I
had to become a vegan over 13 years
eating a plant-based diet
people say Ralph are you healthy can I
I think that answered it okay now your
ego you know when you’re in your ego and
this is what’s helped me along my
journey because sometimes I slip into
the ego sometimes I slip into the ego
and I move back to the highest self but
your ego is never satisfied it always
wants more ladies you got one dress you
want to you want three you want four
fellas you want more and more – okay
sometimes will you’ll want more more of
this more of that you see the ego is
never satisfied because the ego is
always hungry only the heart is
satisfied this is where we come to the
highest self the highest self you know
you are in your highest self because you
walk intent like you go out to eat in an
all-you-can-eat place and you just take
one play and you’re like I don’t care if
I paid twenty dollars okay well you can
eat I’m just full right now that’s the
heart
that’s the highest self booking the egos
like actually I’m gonna eat and eat and
eat just to get my money’s worth even
though I’m full right now and I can’t
move right now and I feel sick right now
but I’m gonna stuff my face
the ego is never satisfied it’s like
I’ll tell you this when I was like even
making videos earlier and I’m like okay
I want more subscribers I want more
views I want this I want that
and I realize that’s my ego my higher
self was telling me that it doesn’t
matter about that the only thing that
matters is if you are enjoying what you
are doing so the highest self is all
about the human experience having fun
experiencing different emotions the ego
is all about winning I must win
I must compete with other people the ego
is very very competitive all my body
ladies you know what I’m talking about
my body is better than her body okay
fellas same thing that’s the ego the
highest self is about cooperation
working together not competing instead
cooperating collaborating that’s when
you know you are in the highest self the
ego craves outside recognition and
attention more than anything it wants to
be known it wants to be seen and check
this out this is something very natural
it’s not a bad thing okay because as
children you’re like mommy look at me
I’m doing a cartwheel you’re rolling
you’re doing Roly Polys and stuff and
you’re like eh okay so it’s natural to
want to be approved and loved and
respected but sometimes the ego goes
overboard and that’s why a lot of people
in the ego sometimes don’t really love
themselves enough because they need
other people to validate their existence
okay the highest self is already
validating its own existence
hmm slow motion excite thank you very
much the highest self seeks inner
approval more than outer approval where
the ego lives from the outside in ego
lifts for the outside world the highest
self the highest self lives from the
inside out so when the ego is like I
don’t care if I don’t feel good just as
long as they like me
ok the high self is like I’m going to
feel good if they like me that’s cool
that’s cool ain’t got nothing to do with
me though okay now the ego never wants
to help anybody because it’s really
really really really selfish okay
the ego is like it’s a dog-eat-dog world
you got to survive baby okay sofa
massive tornado is coming the ego is
running and probably the higher self
might run as well right look the ego
doesn’t want to help people you know
when you are in your ego if you don’t
contribute to humanity in a positive way
if you don’t want to help your neighbor
okay yes you got to love yourself first
sometimes you got to be a bit selfish
but at the same time the highest self is
where you want to help the person next
door or the cat down the road because
you see them as part of yourself in
helping them you help yourself in
helping them rise you rise at the same
time but the egos like ain’t nobody got
signs of that because I’ve got to
survive I got bills to pay
ain’t got no time for you right that’s
the ego the highest self will make time
because it realizes it realizes there is
always time it’s just a matter of
priorities okay the ego is never happy
for other people’s success wait the ego
is just as long as you don’t become more
successful than that person
just as long as you don’t become more
successful than me
you’re cool okay so the ego is never
happy for other people success like you
might tell someone oh I just got a new a
new mindset I’ve changed my life I’m
starting to eat better I’m working out
I’m going to the gym I just got married
the egos like so I don’t care why are
you telling me this
bugger oh okay that’s the ego the ego is
very defensive very defensive and
therefore nobody can be doing better
than the ego because the ego is like I
am the basically okay the highest
self wants everybody to make it the
highest self wants to see everybody
shine and the highest self call it crazy
but it’s happy when other people succeed
is that you are you happy when other
people make it or are you like oh I
don’t want them to make it anymore what
about me that’s the ego the ego is
afraid of other people making it because
the ego is very insecure the highest
self is very secure it knows itself so
it’s unique its successful therefore it
celebrates other people’s success now
the ego what happens when we are in our
ego sometimes somebody could tell us
something and we’re very defensive we
react violently that’s the ego the
highest self will always take time to
reflect and say actually wait wait a
minute wait a minute they might actually
have a point because once again the
highest self is all about evolving and
growing now the ego
always looks for differences because the
ego is all about separation and
separation is the greatest illusion ever
created in the history in the history of
planet Earth okay
the highest self knows the truth because
the highest self your crown chakra is
activated the highest self knows that
separation is an illusion any borders
around here you see any borders on
planet Earth
no so whereas the ego looks for
differences the highest self looks for
similarity slow motion this side slow
motion this side where is the ego looks
for differences the highest self looks
for similarity it’s all about connecting
people together
that’s the highest self okay the ego
will hold on to a grudge the highest
self will say actually this isn’t good
for my health I’ve got to let it slide
right so in really knowing if something
is your ego or your higher self you’ve
got to realize that your ego is all
about survival your higher self is all
about learning evolving and growing but
also not being too proud the ego is very
proud that’s why when someone is in the
ego you can’t tell them nothing the ego
never wants to listen it never wants to
take advice it knows everything the
highest self learns every single day it
is always in the process of becoming its
greatest version of correcting itself
improving itself and laughing at itself
okay
and once you know that well then you
just say Phil so get to be a live baby
can I get a hello and there you have it
we are out here in the heart of nature
how do you know when you are in the ego
or the highest self maybe you got
something to tell me okay once again
celebrate who you are love who you are
accept who you are but realize the ego
is a drunk driver your highest self will
guide you to the place you need to be
that is in your best interest
let’s just whoa breathing in that good
ass prana baby we’re out here in the
heart of nature baby infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace

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