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peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we are out here in nature
we got the bird singing everywhere
someone wrote to me saying that they’re
not sure whether they should let someone
go when they actually feel there could
be more how to decide to let someone go
when you know there’s more uh oh we got
a lot to dive into it’s just wolf
breathing in that good ass piranha baby
much love to you beautiful deep divers
out there is that you today confronted
with that big choice that decision you
got to make sure I let someone go I
don’t need them by when you know there’s
more but there could be more we even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello okay let
me share with you
wasps hello my journey I’ve been in that
situation and I’m gonna share with you
some secrets I learn one of the hardest
decisions you will ever have to make is
choosing whether or not to let someone
go or stay because you know there’s more
a lot of fuss on the planet we live in
the ego-mind
and I was for a long time until I
realized that you never want to make a
decision when you’re in the ego or when
you’re angry or when you are feeling
overwhelmed clarity comes in the heart
space slow motion inside this is
sexology water fire hot cold yin-yang
let’s start with this you got to look at
the overall value level they bring to
you what have they ever bought to you
that is of value okay because once you
are in your ego mind you will say no I
don’t need this person they don’t bring
me anything but in the hot space you can
actually have more clarity to say have
they bought me anything of value you
don’t have to like a person to respect
someone but a lot of us we have a very
hard exterior emanating from our ego
mind which phase that I am gonna
overlook everything about this person
because of one experience one moment
forgetting all the value they have
bought you so if you know in your heart
space this person is someone has bought
you some value
there’s more if not there probably isn’t
more
you see in our society a lot of us we
are living a very fast-paced lifestyle
that means the majority of our lives are
about absolutes I either like this
person or I don’t they are either in my
life or they’re not and that is the
rigid ego mind you see the water
relationship and the water mindset is
about flexibility time and time again we
see how people don’t talk to each other
for years then say oh my gosh I really
regret it because I was just so in my
ego and we were just arguing over a
peanut oh my gosh right but the ego will
always separate you only the heart can
bring you together it slow motion aside
so meditate on the overall value seven
day vegan challenge by the way shout out
to everyone doing it and always have
realized along my journey to decide to
let go of someone when you know there’s
more
ask yourself what was the food chemistry
people really reveal themselves over a
meal Epic Meal Time like what was that
like how are your conversations over a
meal sometimes we feel really awkward
eating with someone that says a lot
there’s more when you just feel so much
euphoria so elated so joyful over a
beautiful brown rice avocado salad and
you’re just talking non-stop there’s
more right but if there is zero
chemistry over food you gotta put a
question mark because food brings people
together I look at it like this when you
are making this decision this choice you
was I only with them for one reason or
were they only with me for one reason
you see many times we can talk of we can
talk of relationships friendships
interactions even meeting strangers and
we’re only with them for one reason
sometimes they got a nice backside a
nice booty sometimes they’ve got a lot
of money sometimes they’re rich or
sometimes we can use them to get
somewhere else or sometimes we actually
hello genuinely like them and genuinely
care okay but if someone is just with
you for one reason sometimes is just
because of your backside right then
that’s a surface shallow relationship a
surface connection it can’t go any
further it can’t go any further than
that but if there is a deeper connection
where it’s not just about this physical
body this shell which is is just the
illusion to be honest right there is
something more you are tracted to that
person’s energy then there’s more many
times we don’t really realize that we go
through our whole life denying how we
feel denying our emotions and that’s why
once again people separate and then when
they finally come back together
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they’re like why did we do that because
of the ego
I’m helping you not make that mistake
every single day I’m in peace
why because I realize you got to honor
your emotions the emotion emotion means
energy in motion are you thinking about
this someone like you go to bed and
you’re thinking about them but then
you’re like actually I don’t like them
well wait a minute what are your
emotions telling you right now that I
actually do care but way Ralph
I can’t admit that you are constantly
thinking about someone there’s more we
forget the people when the resonance
isn’t there but we never forget people
we never forget people we never forget
people when the resonance is strong and
that can sometimes come in our dream
state right we have a dream of them
there’s more what what I call unfinished
business now when you can learn this is
what I had to learn the hard way helping
you out here don’t be afraid to love
someone because you are afraid of being
hurt let me repeat that don’t be afraid
to love someone because you are afraid
of being hurt that’s why a lot of people
let people go and then keep overthinking
because they actually love this person
they’re just afraid of being hurt
they’re insecure and that’s fine so many
of us are insecure we’ve all been
insecure but don’t let your ego get in
the way of your heart space don’t let
your ego get in the way of your heart
space
now the frequency is lowering that’s
when you know it’s time to let that
someone go if your frequency decreases
around them if your health decreases
around them if they only bring you chaos
right if they’ve never bought you
anything of substance then it’s time for
bye-bye but you have to develop a lot of
clarity to say okay I don’t want to just
make a decision when I’m really
emotional and getting so angry right now
you want to make it in a very calm state
to decide whether or not to let someone
go when you know there’s more many times
we are around certain people and
instantly our vibration increases that’s
a keeper
Finders Keepers losers weepers right
that’s a keeper you want to hold on to
that one I talk of the emotional
expansion range now this is where we are
gonna dive deep you’re gonna start to
realize that there are people who we’re
cool with we get on with but we can’t
really be ourselves right and we’re like
I never have an argument with them Ralph
yeah that’s because your emotional
expansion range with them is very short
there are people who argue a lot but
they have a very wide emotional
expansion range meaning there’s more
because they have more depth to them
it’s easy to say hi hi how are you to
someone for nine years because you’ve
never really been through anything
right people who have been through a lot
will always have a wider emotional
expansion range meaning sometimes they
might say stuff to each other they don’t
mean sometimes they might be in the ego
it doesn’t mean you just have to let go
of that person there still could be more
right because your emotional expansion
range is showing you it’s an indicator
that you actually care about this person
because you have deeper feelings for
this person okay so you have to have a
lot of clarity to say okay am I just in
my feelings right now right yeah this
person really works me up but there’s
more because I can really express a
whole range of emotions with this person
I can actually be myself I can actually
tell them how annoyed I am how pissed
off I am and how much I love them at the
end of the day right it happens
relationships are like a house right if
a light bulb goes off you don’t buy a
new house you just replace the light
bulb buy a new one you fix it you don’t
throw everything out the baby out with
the bathwater right goodness gracious
right so there’s also the expression
range and this is once again where you
have to have a lot of clarity in the
heart space can you really talk to this
person about anything could you do that
once upon a time then there’s more you
see many times we might be with someone
and they’re great and they’re cool but
we really can’t spill the beans we can’t
allow ourselves to become vulnerable if
you allowed yourself to become
vulnerable with someone if you shared
then there was a realness level there
there’s more it doesn’t mean both of you
are gonna get married not at all but
there is
a deep appreciation both of you have or
had that’s why you allowed each other to
become vulnerable with each other right
there are people who we just can’t be
vulnerable with even though we’re cool
with them we just we don’t want to do
that but there are people who literally
open us up right there’s more if someone
has opened you up there is more now it
swings and roundabouts because a lot of
us we are in our heart space throughout
the day okay we go to work we get
shouted at and things happen and
everything sometimes falls on our head
including apples and stuff like that and
then we take it out on someone else
that’s why you need clarity you need
meditation to really say okay I can
really express myself with this person
if you are in a situation where you
can’t you’re like really close all the
time you have a filter you have to think
a lot before what you want to say then
could be that you need to let this
person go you’ve got to see the
expression level you also got to realize
this that many times you got to be
mature about it I’m still friends with
high school girlfriends right when I was
16 years old we’re still cool because as
you mature as you evolve realize the
bigger picture life is short you can
still be friends with someone even if it
didn’t work out if you both were in your
heart space to begin with if you can
both move out of the way of your massive
egos and say actually there is still
some value here some substance here
there is still something more we can
both grow and help each other doesn’t
mean we have to get married right how
many of you how many of you are still
friends with your exes how many of you
put your hand up right now
fantastic right how many of you say I’m
never gonna talk to this person again
are you always thinking about right a
few out there good gosh right
ego separation hot space unity maturity
maturity is also when someone hurts you
okay sometimes the people we hang around
could even hurt us right but you are
still able to see things from their
perspective you are now having the
bird’s-eye view and say okay I get it
maybe this person is young maybe this
person hasn’t really had the same
experiences I’ve had but I get it no
one’s perfect okay so a lot of times
it’s on us to say okay I’m deciding
should I let this person go or should I
stay a bit longer because I know there’s
more when you have the bigger picture
the clarity will come and say okay I get
it I know there’s more it’s just that I
know what this person is going through
and that’s okay too when you realize
that if you are around someone in any
period of your life right if you are
around someone in any period of your
life that takes you to places you’ve
never been before there’s more to decide
to let go of someone when you know
there’s more just ask yourself that
question have they taken me to places
where I’ve never been before
no they haven’t Ralph and it’s time to
let that person go but if they have and
you know it but you’re denying it you
are suppressing your emotions or even
repressing them acting
my you don’t even know what happened
right you got to get real with yourself
and say actually this person did take me
to places I’ve never been before there’s
more you’ve got to find out what that
more is and you can only do that when
you both come back into the heart space
and become mature about the situations
but more so learn how to honor your
feelings and then just say feel so good
to be a live baby can I get a Hello we
are out here in nature much love to all
the beautiful deep divers a beautiful
day breathing in that good ass prana
baby die deep once again stay well stay
you
[Music]
you [Music]
peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we are out here in nature
we got the bird singing everywhere
someone wrote to me saying that they’re
not sure whether they should let someone
go when they actually feel there could
be more how to decide to let someone go
when you know there’s more uh oh we got
a lot to dive into it’s just wolf
breathing in that good ass piranha baby
much love to you beautiful deep divers
out there is that you today confronted
with that big choice that decision you
got to make sure I let someone go I
don’t need them by when you know there’s
more but there could be more we even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello okay let
me share with you
wasps hello my journey I’ve been in that
situation and I’m gonna share with you
some secrets I learn one of the hardest
decisions you will ever have to make is
choosing whether or not to let someone
go or stay because you know there’s more
a lot of fuss on the planet we live in
the ego-mind
and I was for a long time until I
realized that you never want to make a
decision when you’re in the ego or when
you’re angry or when you are feeling
overwhelmed clarity comes in the heart
space slow motion inside this is
sexology water fire hot cold yin-yang
let’s start with this you got to look at
the overall value level they bring to
you what have they ever bought to you
that is of value okay because once you
are in your ego mind you will say no I
don’t need this person they don’t bring
me anything but in the hot space you can
actually have more clarity to say have
they bought me anything of value you
don’t have to like a person to respect
someone but a lot of us we have a very
hard exterior emanating from our ego
mind which phase that I am gonna
overlook everything about this person
because of one experience one moment
forgetting all the value they have
bought you so if you know in your heart
space this person is someone has bought
you some value
there’s more if not there probably isn’t
more
you see in our society a lot of us we
are living a very fast-paced lifestyle
that means the majority of our lives are
about absolutes I either like this
person or I don’t they are either in my
life or they’re not and that is the
rigid ego mind you see the water
relationship and the water mindset is
about flexibility time and time again we
see how people don’t talk to each other
for years then say oh my gosh I really
regret it because I was just so in my
ego and we were just arguing over a
peanut oh my gosh right but the ego will
always separate you only the heart can
bring you together it slow motion aside
so meditate on the overall value seven
day vegan challenge by the way shout out
to everyone doing it and always have
realized along my journey to decide to
let go of someone when you know there’s
more
ask yourself what was the food chemistry
people really reveal themselves over a
meal Epic Meal Time like what was that
like how are your conversations over a
meal sometimes we feel really awkward
eating with someone that says a lot
there’s more when you just feel so much
euphoria so elated so joyful over a
beautiful brown rice avocado salad and
you’re just talking non-stop there’s
more right but if there is zero
chemistry over food you gotta put a
question mark because food brings people
together I look at it like this when you
are making this decision this choice you
was I only with them for one reason or
were they only with me for one reason
you see many times we can talk of we can
talk of relationships friendships
interactions even meeting strangers and
we’re only with them for one reason
sometimes they got a nice backside a
nice booty sometimes they’ve got a lot
of money sometimes they’re rich or
sometimes we can use them to get
somewhere else or sometimes we actually
hello genuinely like them and genuinely
care okay but if someone is just with
you for one reason sometimes is just
because of your backside right then
that’s a surface shallow relationship a
surface connection it can’t go any
further it can’t go any further than
that but if there is a deeper connection
where it’s not just about this physical
body this shell which is is just the
illusion to be honest right there is
something more you are tracted to that
person’s energy then there’s more many
times we don’t really realize that we go
through our whole life denying how we
feel denying our emotions and that’s why
once again people separate and then when
they finally come back together
[Music]
they’re like why did we do that because
of the ego
I’m helping you not make that mistake
every single day I’m in peace
why because I realize you got to honor
your emotions the emotion emotion means
energy in motion are you thinking about
this someone like you go to bed and
you’re thinking about them but then
you’re like actually I don’t like them
well wait a minute what are your
emotions telling you right now that I
actually do care but way Ralph
I can’t admit that you are constantly
thinking about someone there’s more we
forget the people when the resonance
isn’t there but we never forget people
we never forget people we never forget
people when the resonance is strong and
that can sometimes come in our dream
state right we have a dream of them
there’s more what what I call unfinished
business now when you can learn this is
what I had to learn the hard way helping
you out here don’t be afraid to love
someone because you are afraid of being
hurt let me repeat that don’t be afraid
to love someone because you are afraid
of being hurt that’s why a lot of people
let people go and then keep overthinking
because they actually love this person
they’re just afraid of being hurt
they’re insecure and that’s fine so many
of us are insecure we’ve all been
insecure but don’t let your ego get in
the way of your heart space don’t let
your ego get in the way of your heart
space
now the frequency is lowering that’s
when you know it’s time to let that
someone go if your frequency decreases
around them if your health decreases
around them if they only bring you chaos
right if they’ve never bought you
anything of substance then it’s time for
bye-bye but you have to develop a lot of
clarity to say okay I don’t want to just
make a decision when I’m really
emotional and getting so angry right now
you want to make it in a very calm state
to decide whether or not to let someone
go when you know there’s more many times
we are around certain people and
instantly our vibration increases that’s
a keeper
Finders Keepers losers weepers right
that’s a keeper you want to hold on to
that one I talk of the emotional
expansion range now this is where we are
gonna dive deep you’re gonna start to
realize that there are people who we’re
cool with we get on with but we can’t
really be ourselves right and we’re like
I never have an argument with them Ralph
yeah that’s because your emotional
expansion range with them is very short
there are people who argue a lot but
they have a very wide emotional
expansion range meaning there’s more
because they have more depth to them
it’s easy to say hi hi how are you to
someone for nine years because you’ve
never really been through anything
right people who have been through a lot
will always have a wider emotional
expansion range meaning sometimes they
might say stuff to each other they don’t
mean sometimes they might be in the ego
it doesn’t mean you just have to let go
of that person there still could be more
right because your emotional expansion
range is showing you it’s an indicator
that you actually care about this person
because you have deeper feelings for
this person okay so you have to have a
lot of clarity to say okay am I just in
my feelings right now right yeah this
person really works me up but there’s
more because I can really express a
whole range of emotions with this person
I can actually be myself I can actually
tell them how annoyed I am how pissed
off I am and how much I love them at the
end of the day right it happens
relationships are like a house right if
a light bulb goes off you don’t buy a
new house you just replace the light
bulb buy a new one you fix it you don’t
throw everything out the baby out with
the bathwater right goodness gracious
right so there’s also the expression
range and this is once again where you
have to have a lot of clarity in the
heart space can you really talk to this
person about anything could you do that
once upon a time then there’s more you
see many times we might be with someone
and they’re great and they’re cool but
we really can’t spill the beans we can’t
allow ourselves to become vulnerable if
you allowed yourself to become
vulnerable with someone if you shared
then there was a realness level there
there’s more it doesn’t mean both of you
are gonna get married not at all but
there is
a deep appreciation both of you have or
had that’s why you allowed each other to
become vulnerable with each other right
there are people who we just can’t be
vulnerable with even though we’re cool
with them we just we don’t want to do
that but there are people who literally
open us up right there’s more if someone
has opened you up there is more now it
swings and roundabouts because a lot of
us we are in our heart space throughout
the day okay we go to work we get
shouted at and things happen and
everything sometimes falls on our head
including apples and stuff like that and
then we take it out on someone else
that’s why you need clarity you need
meditation to really say okay I can
really express myself with this person
if you are in a situation where you
can’t you’re like really close all the
time you have a filter you have to think
a lot before what you want to say then
could be that you need to let this
person go you’ve got to see the
expression level you also got to realize
this that many times you got to be
mature about it I’m still friends with
high school girlfriends right when I was
16 years old we’re still cool because as
you mature as you evolve realize the
bigger picture life is short you can
still be friends with someone even if it
didn’t work out if you both were in your
heart space to begin with if you can
both move out of the way of your massive
egos and say actually there is still
some value here some substance here
there is still something more we can
both grow and help each other doesn’t
mean we have to get married right how
many of you how many of you are still
friends with your exes how many of you
put your hand up right now
fantastic right how many of you say I’m
never gonna talk to this person again
are you always thinking about right a
few out there good gosh right
ego separation hot space unity maturity
maturity is also when someone hurts you
okay sometimes the people we hang around
could even hurt us right but you are
still able to see things from their
perspective you are now having the
bird’s-eye view and say okay I get it
maybe this person is young maybe this
person hasn’t really had the same
experiences I’ve had but I get it no
one’s perfect okay so a lot of times
it’s on us to say okay I’m deciding
should I let this person go or should I
stay a bit longer because I know there’s
more when you have the bigger picture
the clarity will come and say okay I get
it I know there’s more it’s just that I
know what this person is going through
and that’s okay too when you realize
that if you are around someone in any
period of your life right if you are
around someone in any period of your
life that takes you to places you’ve
never been before there’s more to decide
to let go of someone when you know
there’s more just ask yourself that
question have they taken me to places
where I’ve never been before
no they haven’t Ralph and it’s time to
let that person go but if they have and
you know it but you’re denying it you
are suppressing your emotions or even
repressing them acting
my you don’t even know what happened
right you got to get real with yourself
and say actually this person did take me
to places I’ve never been before there’s
more you’ve got to find out what that
more is and you can only do that when
you both come back into the heart space
and become mature about the situations
but more so learn how to honor your
feelings and then just say feel so good
to be a live baby can I get a Hello we
are out here in nature much love to all
the beautiful deep divers a beautiful
day breathing in that good ass prana
baby die deep once again stay well stay
you
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