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How to deal with TOXIC Family Members


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re out here in nature we got
the wind blowing we’re breathing in that
beautiful prong how to deal with a toxic
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or negative oh oh family member can I
we got a great question that came in
someone wrote in saying that they can’t
stand being around a certain family
member they don’t want to mention who it
is don’t worry I won’t blow your cover
but they say that person really gets on
their nerves and every time they have a
family reunion everybody stuffing their
face right you got to talk to family
members you haven’t seen in five or ten
years and everybody looks different
some people do still look the same what
happens what happens when those closest
to you growing up now become distant
strangers what happens when maybe your
brother or sister or mother or father or
your nephews and nieces really get on
your nerves just like you’re constipated
right you’re making that face what do we
do let me share with you what helped me
along my journey I always say family is
beautiful it’s wonderful to have a
cohesive family a family that supports
you and cares
that’s in an ideal world the fact still
remains many of us we are even afraid to
go home okay now when we talk of
becoming your greatest version my family
helped me become my greatest version at
the same time it wasn’t always peaches
and cream now I made a video how to stop
caring what people think I spoke about
my wonderful mother that 11 years ago I
was a bad boy all grown up
I stopped going to church she was
shocked furious because she raised me to
go to church one day I said no I don’t
want to go I want to be free how did she
take you she wasn’t impressed we had a
family affair but as those 11 years went
by look at me right now I’m doing great
I feel fantastic she sees my level
evolution and she has come to accept Who
I am today so let me tell you whenever
a family argument sometimes sometimes
time is the greatest healer because many
times our family and even friends they
only want the best for us but they don’t
realize we have to live our life right
now what happens when there is a family
member who caused you a lot of pain or
trauma in your childhood or past that’s
why I always say be careful be careful
of the children because they are the
future and we always remember that stuff
right
maybe there was a family member who used
to treat you horribly that stays with
you can you forgive them no I don’t
blame you but you have to ask yourself
how do I feel around them is it worth it
is it worth my own peace of mind for me
to keep a miserable face and screw my
face whenever I’m in the presence of
this family member of course not
so growing up there were certain family
members who I loved and there were
certain family members who I didn’t
really want to talk to a whole lot right
so whenever they would come to the house
I would run upstairs but then I would
tell myself
why why on heavens am i letting this
other person control me why am i
externalizing my power to this other
person why am i letting this other
person govern my every single move then
I realize actually I’m gonna I’m gonna
go downstairs yeah I’m gonna be
confident I’m gonna take back my power
I’m gonna be myself for a change
right and I’m not just gonna laugh when
I don’t find one of their jokes funny no
I’m gonna keep a straight face I’m gonna
tell them how I really feel I’m not
going to pretend no more and guess what
that relationship with that family
member it became so wonderful because
they got to see who I really was the
authentic side of me and once again be
careful how you treat people on your way
up because you might meet them on your
way down right everybody is changing
therefore everybody deserves a second
chance
what really freed me along my journey
was just to realize that many of us are
confused many of us on the planet are
not too well
I made a video about how to let go of
subconscious childhood trauma a lot of
us have been traumatized from our
childhood it’s just like in Alice in
Wonderland where she says am i mad
everybody’s mad here replied the cat
everybody is mad it’s a madhouse now we
all want to show to the world how
wonderful our family is but behind
closed doors sometimes we get into
arguments and we’re trying to keep up
with appearances the greatest epiphany I
realized is that just by me being more
peaceful within myself I bring more
peace within the family do you know how
just by becoming my greatest version how
this has impacted my family in such an
amazing way I’ve always been calm now
I’m super calm I’ve always been friendly
now I’m super friendly
I’m a peacemaker I love my family to
death know I love my family to life
because I want to see them shine but
what happens when certain family members
don’t support your dreams when certain
family members disapprove of your
lifestyle when certain family members
don’t care about you don’t respect you
it’s very difficult it’s not easy I’m
not going to tell you it’s easy we all
need love and support but to start
attracting love and support you’ve got
to ask yourself how are you code evading
love and support within yourself you see
there is a family beyond our family let
me explain we have a world full of
billions of people and we have a family
now we always think we have an
obligation to our family because let’s
face it when we were really hungry when
we were really young they fed us some of
them didn’t that’s why we’re really
pissed off I don’t blame you but for
most people they took care of us so many
of us feel we have a debt to pay back
many of us feel it is our duty to please
our family but at the same time you have
to ask yourself at what costs is it at
the cost of your own unhappiness
so what freed me along my journey was
realizing that many of us were living in
different time zones there are levels of
awareness there are levels of
consciousness and everybody is going to
see things in very in a very different
way you see I’m not here to live up to
my family’s expectations at the same
time I want to keep the peace but we can
only do this once we show our family who
we really are if you want to mend a
family bond maybe you’re not talking to
a certain family member
lose the pride for a change
drop it
and connect at a human level find the
human element focus on the most positive
aspects of that person as opposed to the
negative now here’s the test I want you
to visualize that person the power of
visualization how do you feel okay
they’re not in front of you but
visualize them for a second maybe you
don’t even want to think of them that
means thank them because they are sent
to help you become your greatest version
nobody I repeat nobody should have that
much power over you okay let’s go again
you’re visualizing them right feeling a
bit nervous to be anxious but the more
you do it now you’re gonna see you can
visualize them have a picture of them in
your mind and guess what they no longer
affect you
that means they no longer have power
over you nobody has power of your inner
Kingdom without your permission I always
say the family you have is not by
accident they’re gonna push you they are
going to be your heaven but also they
may be your hell or once you take back
your power start taking responsibility
you realize you are creating most of
them and when family when friends when
they don’t support you
realize that you have another family out
there me you’ve got friends who really
care
you’ve got mentors so when you don’t
have role models in the home find them
outside and then become your own role
model become your greatest fan become
your greatest supporter but always see
what you can do to become more peaceful
within yourself draw people into your
own vortex mmm let me say that again
draw people into your own vortex create
a family within yourself and the family
your family you will all have a greater
connection together and there you have
we’re in nature breathing in that
beautiful pran infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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