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How to Deal With Someone Who Left You For Someone Else


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers how’s
your day going I hope it’s going well
but did someone break up with you
unexpectedly and it’s crushing your
heart right now you can’t breathe you
can’t sleep you can’t eat how to deal
with someone who left you for someone
else let’s just whoa breathing in that
good ass piranha baby
Ralph I’m crushed that’s the message
that came in to me so I lost Ralph how
can I get over someone who has moved on
and is happily living happily ever after
with someone else okay this guy wrote to
me saying that his girlfriend broke up
with him and he’s been a month and a
half now and he still loves her he
hasn’t been able to get over it he said
she’s a vegan she’s so adorable and I’ve
tried the law of attraction I don’t know
if it’s working or not cuz I’m still in
the same predicament and I don’t know
what to do we got a whole lot to talk
about
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deep divers have you ever seen your ex
on Instagram and then seen their new
partner and think oh no they’re having
fun without me and we even had breakfast
yeah
can I get a Hello so let me share with
you what we along my journey deal deal
with someone who left me for someone
else
because it’s happened to me before okay
first and foremost let me just say this
good ass prana shots are available why
are you wearing one Ralph while I’m
waiting for mine in the post head over
to Ralph smart calm slash clothes tons
of beautiful clothing male/female I just
had to throw that in there okay I want I
want to see you kid it out now when we
talk of relationships in relationships
as we change the types of people we meet
also changes and we have to really
understand this understand this and
overstand this okay life is not static
it is forever changing people are
forever changing their minds many times
we trick ourselves into a false sense of
security when we think oh this person is
always gonna be my girlfriend or
boyfriend or husband or wife no because
we are changing they are also changing
and we have to allow the change
you see I’ve realized this never chase
give them space whoa that even rhymes
right never chase give them space
because if you’re very clingy when
someone else has left you and they’re
with someone else you’re gonna push them
even further away because you’re like
rough I really want her back exactly
well that’s why you’ve got to give her
space let her roam wild and free and
enjoy the company of someone else and if
she comes back to you that’s beautiful
if she doesn’t that’s beautiful too
because you don’t have to chase someone
who is truly meant to be in your life
mmm
yikes slow motion this side
say it again Ralph you don’t have to
chase someone who is truly meant to be
in your life save your energy so you can
go for a hike with a cat down the road
or something okay I used to chase
sometimes
and I’m like the moment I stopped
chasing what wasn’t meant for me
I became happier healthier and my life
became more fulfilling don’t chase give
them space let them miss you let them
miss you if they didn’t appreciate your
presence let them miss your absence but
they can’t miss your absence if you’re
always in their face texting them trying
to call them trying to hook up with them
again they left you for a reason and
it’s a hard pill to swallow
you got to swallow it and you got to
deal with it
okay but you’re got it sometimes ladies
you also write to me saying that your
boyfriend out of nowhere he just ended
the relationship and walked out and you
saw his new girlfriend
on Instagram and it really pissed you
off I get these kinds of messages before
breakfast okay let them miss you you
don’t need somebody who doesn’t need you
let me repeat that you don’t need
somebody who doesn’t need you so you got
it right yes I am Ralph I’m furious
annoyed it’s irritating Ralph your ego
is hurt you aren’t hurt but your ego is
hurt because the ego is all about
control she is my girlfriend he’s my
boyfriend
my wife my husband if they leave you
your ego gets damaged it’s ego death
Spirit knows we don’t own anything you
don’t own your girlfriend she is free to
do whatever she wants you don’t own your
boyfriend that’s why you got to stop
saying my for the next relationship stop
saying my girlfriend my boyfriend
because now you make them
now you make them a possession so if you
lose them of course you’re gonna feel
like you’re in LAC that’s the ego
talking to you you didn’t lose anything
cuz you’re still here
mmm slow motion this side allow yourself
to vent allow yourself to feel whatever
emotions are going through you if you
are annoyed get annoyed I’m a guardian
Ralph allow yourself to be gutted you
don’t have to Paul in a smiley face
especially when you see them with a new
person and you’re like was my enough get
a sense of humor too
that helps look how to deal with someone
who left you for someone else how could
they do that to me Ralph you’re telling
me you’re a great cook seven day vegan
challenge
I know because you’ve cooked for the cat
down the road you will never ever have
to force what is meant for you mmm what
slow motion this side you will never
ever have to force what is meant for you
you don’t have to force anything you
have to allow the flow of everything and
give people the free will to choose
where they truly want to be what is
meant for you who is meant for you will
never ever reject you who is meant for
you your soulmate your twin flame your
forever person will never reject you if
they did that wasn’t the one so keep on
moving you’re better than that
don’t look back look forward
somebody somebody out there I don’t know
where they are right now but somebody
out there is gonna give you something
you’ve never seen before and you’re
gonna give them something
never seen before but that won’t happen
if you’re still holding on to past
relationships that didn’t work out
remind yourself this who is meant for
you will never reject you and whoever is
meant to be in your life will always
gravitate back towards you okay seven
day vegan challenge now you probably you
said you’re feeling really sad oh gosh I
wish I could buy you a smoothie right
now what do you want guava
oh you’re sliding right now peach okay
pineapples high in vitamin C also
containing bro million five hundred
times more powerful than cough medicine
whoa quick facts right okay after a
breakup things can get really ugly
sometimes people say stuff okay just to
catch the other person’s attention to
bring them closer to them but it
actually does the opposite because they
actually move some further away so this
is the time this is the time where you
really want to start taking care of
yourself food-wise start eating clean
eating beautiful plant-based foods to
start feeling good on the inside because
the worst thing you can do after a
breakup is eat a hot dog he’s eating a
hot dog eat junk food okay cuz you’re
gonna feel even more crap okay I
remember when I was 15 I had a little
relationship break up I thought my whole
world was ending right oh no the world
is ending then I had a green juice and
I’m like drinking all of this spinach
this wheatgrass I’m like I feel like
Popeye okay and I felt so good inside
even though I was dealing with turmoil
on the outside it was a lot more
bearable so seven day vegan challenge
start juicing up get your Vitamix out
okay and start getting creative in the
kitchen
mixing mangoes and pears and dates and
chia seeds together am I guarantee you
you will feel better you will feel
better how to deal with somebody
who
left you for someone else and you
probably see them on social media with
them it hurts doesn’t it
I know but realize this that you have to
allow people to be free do you want to
be free yes Ralph
well allow somebody else to be free what
makes you think that this person belongs
to you and should be with you that’s the
ego talking mmm what slow motion this
side so many times we’re like Ralph I’m
just so innocent like why didn’t you why
doesn’t she want to be with me or ladies
why doesn’t he want to be with me or
whatever it is okay that’s your ego
because the ego is all about control now
it realizes it can’t control anymore and
he’s starting to get shaky baby we
control nothing can we absolutely do not
own anybody on planet Earth that’s the
biggest illusion ever and that’s why so
many people are hurt in relationships
when people move on we didn’t own them
in the first place so along my early
journey I started to learn secrets I am
very very happy I don’t miss any of my
exes I loved I love them though but I’m
not like oh we should get back together
I’m happy where I am right now and
that’s why I’ve attracted a beautiful
person in my life we can’t down the road
okay so allow people the freedom you
also crave realize somebody is not a
possession like a car okay they are free
spirit and they can be with whoever they
want we have to be mature about this now
your forever person listen very closely
we’ll never leave you that one cuz
you’re like Ralpha I thought she was the
one she’s adorable she’s vegan she she
doesn’t drink she’s I know typical vegan
girl beautiful right allow her to be
free
and true love is when you are happy when
someone else is even if you’re not with
them slow motion this side mm okay
that’s how to know if you truly love
them by the way but your forever person
will never leave you many times when
there is a breakup things get ugly words
get said which can’t be unsaid we feel
down depressed and anxious I’m here to
tell you to open your eyes I can see
clearly now
exactly you can see clearly now look at
that person over there who’s winking at
you go and check them out go out with
them because there are plenty more
dolphins in the sea do you like dolphins
by the way exactly okay so don’t limit
your options to say oh my gosh only this
this this girl was meant for me or this
guy or this woman no seven billion
people on the planet I’m sure you’re
gonna find one who’s gonna scratch your
back and rub your toes just like just
how you like it right and you’re gonna
do the same okay so if you can realize
what is God was good what is coming is
even better mm-hmm
slow motion this side but it can’t come
if your eyes aren’t open if you’re not
open to new relationships and
interactions because once again that new
person waiting to come in your life can
only come into your life when you have
released the old and you are welcoming
new energy okay so start opening your
eyes look up and say actually there is
somebody who is probably gonna be more
compatible with me and maybe my ex has
to learn some lessons with somebody else
before she comes back to me if she comes
back to me and if she doesn’t don’t
worry
because I’m not stressing about that I
would really love her to choose from her
heart space who she really wants to be
with but I’m not gonna wait for her I
got better things to do ain’t nobody got
time for that by the way
look I’ve learned this that you have to
work on yourself when you have a
relationship break up when things don’t
go your way and life seems to be ending
now is the time to start working on
yourself what are some of the things I
could have changed in the relationship
maybe I could have been more committed
maybe I took them for granted
so start going on the journey within
stop feeling like you’re a saint and
it’s the other person’s fault say
actually okay I’m gonna work on myself
so I have so much more to give to the
next person I’m in a relationship with
mmm yikes aye Caramba
slow motion inside so there you have it
my friend realize it is not the end in
fact it is only the beginning I
guarantee you you will find someone who
you’re gonna be so happy with and you’re
gonna forget about that other person cuz
you’re gonna be like oh my gosh I now
understand why that didn’t work out
because I was meant to meet this one and
then you’ll just say Phil so get to be a
beautiful deep divers it is a beautiful
they have a beautiful day
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diving deep once again stay well stay
healthy peace you what is gone was good
yeah was what is coming is even better exactly

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