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peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we’re out here in nature baby
how to deal with hurtful people and
become even stronger that’s the question
that came in and that’s a good one thank
you for writing it so clearly no
actually I devised it let’s dive into it
first of all have you been hurt in your
life by someone or something a situation
a person I have we all have at one point
in our life and a lot of us we don’t
really know how to deal with it so let’s
just breathing in that good ah sprouter
baby so we’re gonna dive into it and we
there what did we come here for else we
came here to have fun to learn more
about ourselves
and we’re gonna do that but before we
can do that we’re feeling really hurt
right now we feel offended and Ralph yes
it’s getting to the point what where I
can’t continue hmm like I don’t have any
energy Ralph
now that should not happen much loved
all the deep divers out there I’m in
Malibu staying somewhere and I’m
recording as I do now my neighbor says
can you please stop recording cuz it’s
really really early well it’s actually
only seven o’clock it’s not that early I
get up early and he’s getting really
grumpy saying look stop recording right
now you’re breaking the noise laws I’m
like what noise laws get out of here now
obviously I didn’t say that
but I was actually feeling quite hurt
because I love recording I love sharing
with you beautiful deep divers
and someone was saying stop recording so
let me share with you what helped me
deal with herbal people and become even
stronger in that situation as a
reference point I started to let this
man he was quite old okay know that I
have a right to record here so if you
have a situation you’re dealing with a
hurtful person today or something is
bothering you I’m here to tell you that
you better express yourself and that’s
what I did I was like I was like I have
a right to record here in a very comp I
see invoice and he was just hurling more
more words at me right it didn’t work
Ralph but it did why because I was
becoming more stronger
I was conserving my energy he got tired
really quickly right when you express
how you feel in a car manner to whoever
is hurting you you get your point across
more clearly slow motion this side and
that’s what I did and it started to work
but it wasn’t over cuz I went out the
next day and the same thing happened
this time I went out at 8 o’clock
give him another hour sleep right now
ladies
fellas ladies have you ever experienced
an event or have you ever met a person
that has hurt you be honest
well hands all up so quickly fellas have
you whoa hands all up so quickly Ralph
have you yeah
it’s natural this is part of life pain
is real initially we’re gonna feel the
pain we’re gonna feel the burn and it
really really hurts right now Ralph
yeah it’s painful except it pain is real
but suffering is optional so let’s just
say someone steps on your foot ouch yeah
it’s painful but after that the pain is
temporary it disappears and you can help
get on with your day now the suffering
is a choice it’s optional do you want to
choose to think about someone stepping
on your toe or do you want to get on
with the rest of your day now you see a
lot of us it’s not the pain that bothers
us
it’s the suffering it’s the ruminating
it’s the overthinking that is why we’re
having a hard time dealing with hurtful
people so what did I do
I said okay he’s telling me stuff Terfel
but I’m not gonna let this make me
suffer I’m gonna choose happiness I’m
gonna choose to be in a better state of
mind and now it was beginning to work a
whole lot better the next day go outside
he’s not there yay even the cat down the
road was celebrating right I didn’t back
down
why because I had expressed how I feel I
had expressed I had expressed how I felt
a hundred percent now seven day vegan
challenge a lot of people say Ralph she
have more recipes do you know how many
videos I’ve got up what I eat in a day
go and check that out right I’m eating a
lot of figs these days right a lot of
figs a lot of acai and a lot of almond
milk drinking that right learn from
animals that’s what’s helped me along my
journey deal with hurtful people I love
animals and if you are doing the seven
day vegan challenge you were too but
when I say learn from animals animals
very mindful human beings have their
mind full slow motion inside mmm that’s
why animals are always in the present
moment human beings we are somewhere ten
years ago or somewhere deep into the
futures we are we’re somewhere which
hasn’t even happened
right hasn’t even arrived yet it’s just
an imaginary place in our minds which is
now draining our energy when you realize
that the more mindful you are the more
your strength will grow I was very
mindful when I was dealing with that
situation and that’s what helped me
overcome it you might be going through
something might be dealing with someone
maybe at work that’s where it usually
happens someone throws you a little
comment and now you go home and you
can’t stop thinking about it I ask you
to become mindful today and that is how
you conserve your energy to grow
stronger and now that person no longer
you got to become very clear of who you
want to hang around for a long time I
didn’t realize that and I know just like
in our society a lot of us we like fast
food we’re living in a fast food culture
we want instant gratification and
entertainment but in the long run it’s
bad for us just like certain friends and
people are they really friends I don’t
think so
people we hang around they’re really bad
for us okay but we choose to hang around
them because it’s like fast food but
what about just drinking water oh it’s
so boring Ralph but it’s good for you in
the long run so what help me deal with
hurtful people was wants to become very
clear who I want to be associated with
who I want to hang around and really
choosing to say okay I’m just spreading
a lot of beautiful vibes I need to
connect with people who are doing the
exact same thing and that’s what’s
helped me along my journey now day seven
okay I’m recording and guess who comes
onto the scene is that man again saying
look I told you start recording right he
was getting really really kind of
annoyed right now and I was like okay he
is like a tornado and instead of getting
pulled into his tornado I was pulling
him into my car I was explaining look
I’m helping people
I’m just diving deep and he was like I
don’t care I’m like so thank you so much
her and he he got confused because I was
so polite even though he was becoming a
tornado that eventually I just felt I
just I just like melted him I just
melted him say together I just melted
him right and yes he got a lot calmer
after that and he was like we came to an
agreement
and then eventually it was all beautiful
but that’s the power of becoming karma
in who you are there is no rush there is
no race and the more you embody this
harmonious energy the more you will
attract it in your reality negativity
can only affect you when you are
vibrating at the same frequency you got
to rise higher slow motion inside
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negativity can only affect you when you
are vibrating at the same frequency you
gotta rise higher and that’s why what
I’ve learned most of all is that it’s a
choice you can choose to be where they
are or you can choose to rise higher
every single day we are making a choice
that’s either helping us become a
greatest version or helping us stray
away from our greatest version now when
we talk of feeling hurt what I’ve come
to realize is that a lot of the times
it’s not our problem okay if you want to
know how to deal with hurtful people
many times people are hurt themselves
they just need a hug they got nobody to
talk to nobody to hug at night they’re
not doing anything with their life more
so they are afraid of your greatness
right I used to tell people hey I want
to share I want to start inspiring
people this was years ago before I even
started infinite waters and a lot of
people were like down talking it right
down playing it like oh it doesn’t
matter
because they were afraid of my greatness
now you may have people in your life who
are afraid of your greatness so they
will say hurtful things towards you to
distract you from your true calling and
part because they are afraid of your
greatness so to become even
stronger got a shine even brighter and
don’t stop because they told you to stop
a lot of people right I’m a Pisces I’m
full of compassion the more
compassionate you are to people to
realize look their problems anglo
nothing to do with me
right it was here before I came on the
scene what they were going through I
didn’t create a lot of people take out
their frustration on us don’t be that
person
please don’t so you got a Dutch but more
so you’ve got to become conscious of who
hang around and realize a lot of people
really need to be shown compassion the
more hurtful they are to you because
that’s what they need the most you got
to take pity on them more so you got to
show mercy fill yourself with joy
when you are dealing with her whole
person or a situation that’s helpful
fill your mind with joy not with other
people’s and not with other people’s
disastrous energy not with their
frustration their chaos their madness
their disrespect it’s now time to start
filling your mind with more harmonious
salubrious energy so what I’ve come to
realize is that you have a choice you
can fill your mind with people who don’t
care about you who don’t bring you
anything they’re always there
trying to bring you a lot of drama right
they don’t focus on what you’re doing
how you’re helping the world or maybe
you’re not maybe you’re just walking
walking the dog or with the cat down the
road but they don’t focus on what’s
going good and you focus on them now you
are now in alignment with their
frequency that was me along my early
journey and then I started to fill my
mind with people who actually care I
asked you today
take out your phone let’s do it let’s do
it together I got my phone I got my s7
edge right business class look at the
names look at a name of someone who has
really touched your life call that
person right now let me call them okay
and then start filling your mind with
that person start connecting more with
that person and now you replace all of
that energy with another energy don’t
copy people in a nutshell we have to
realize that a lot of us who have been
hurt by people we start mimicking them
we start copying them we start stooping
down to their level and it’s very
tempting to do because we have mirror
neurons right let’s talk about some
neuroscience
right we
mimic people when someone smiles we just
like automatically kind of smile when
someone’s really rude to us we kind of
do the same thing but if you want to
become even stronger you have to become
an alchemist moreso a wizard and then
their energy will no longer have power
over you and you will become even
stronger you will now walk with a
greater air of confident you will now
walk with a greater air of confidence
greater air of trust and more so you
will realize that this is part of life
okay certain times the people we feel
are hurting us may actually be teaching
us something in the process we’ve got to
also take responsibility for our
feelings and take a look within and then
say feel so good to be alive baby can I
get a Hello it and now you have it in a
nutshell
we are out here breathing in that good
ass Chi that good ass prana baby have a
beautiful day diving deep once again
[Music]
you [Music]
peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we’re out here in nature baby
how to deal with hurtful people and
become even stronger that’s the question
that came in and that’s a good one thank
you for writing it so clearly no
actually I devised it let’s dive into it
first of all have you been hurt in your
life by someone or something a situation
a person I have we all have at one point
in our life and a lot of us we don’t
really know how to deal with it so let’s
just breathing in that good ah sprouter
baby so we’re gonna dive into it and we
there what did we come here for else we
came here to have fun to learn more
about ourselves
and we’re gonna do that but before we
can do that we’re feeling really hurt
right now we feel offended and Ralph yes
it’s getting to the point what where I
can’t continue hmm like I don’t have any
energy Ralph
now that should not happen much loved
all the deep divers out there I’m in
Malibu staying somewhere and I’m
recording as I do now my neighbor says
can you please stop recording cuz it’s
really really early well it’s actually
only seven o’clock it’s not that early I
get up early and he’s getting really
grumpy saying look stop recording right
now you’re breaking the noise laws I’m
like what noise laws get out of here now
obviously I didn’t say that
but I was actually feeling quite hurt
because I love recording I love sharing
with you beautiful deep divers
and someone was saying stop recording so
let me share with you what helped me
deal with herbal people and become even
stronger in that situation as a
reference point I started to let this
man he was quite old okay know that I
have a right to record here so if you
have a situation you’re dealing with a
hurtful person today or something is
bothering you I’m here to tell you that
you better express yourself and that’s
what I did I was like I was like I have
a right to record here in a very comp I
see invoice and he was just hurling more
more words at me right it didn’t work
Ralph but it did why because I was
becoming more stronger
I was conserving my energy he got tired
really quickly right when you express
how you feel in a car manner to whoever
is hurting you you get your point across
more clearly slow motion this side and
that’s what I did and it started to work
but it wasn’t over cuz I went out the
next day and the same thing happened
this time I went out at 8 o’clock
give him another hour sleep right now
ladies
fellas ladies have you ever experienced
an event or have you ever met a person
that has hurt you be honest
well hands all up so quickly fellas have
you whoa hands all up so quickly Ralph
have you yeah
it’s natural this is part of life pain
is real initially we’re gonna feel the
pain we’re gonna feel the burn and it
really really hurts right now Ralph
yeah it’s painful except it pain is real
but suffering is optional so let’s just
say someone steps on your foot ouch yeah
it’s painful but after that the pain is
temporary it disappears and you can help
get on with your day now the suffering
is a choice it’s optional do you want to
choose to think about someone stepping
on your toe or do you want to get on
with the rest of your day now you see a
lot of us it’s not the pain that bothers
us
it’s the suffering it’s the ruminating
it’s the overthinking that is why we’re
having a hard time dealing with hurtful
people so what did I do
I said okay he’s telling me stuff Terfel
but I’m not gonna let this make me
suffer I’m gonna choose happiness I’m
gonna choose to be in a better state of
mind and now it was beginning to work a
whole lot better the next day go outside
he’s not there yay even the cat down the
road was celebrating right I didn’t back
down
why because I had expressed how I feel I
had expressed I had expressed how I felt
a hundred percent now seven day vegan
challenge a lot of people say Ralph she
have more recipes do you know how many
videos I’ve got up what I eat in a day
go and check that out right I’m eating a
lot of figs these days right a lot of
figs a lot of acai and a lot of almond
milk drinking that right learn from
animals that’s what’s helped me along my
journey deal with hurtful people I love
animals and if you are doing the seven
day vegan challenge you were too but
when I say learn from animals animals
very mindful human beings have their
mind full slow motion inside mmm that’s
why animals are always in the present
moment human beings we are somewhere ten
years ago or somewhere deep into the
futures we are we’re somewhere which
hasn’t even happened
right hasn’t even arrived yet it’s just
an imaginary place in our minds which is
now draining our energy when you realize
that the more mindful you are the more
your strength will grow I was very
mindful when I was dealing with that
situation and that’s what helped me
overcome it you might be going through
something might be dealing with someone
maybe at work that’s where it usually
happens someone throws you a little
comment and now you go home and you
can’t stop thinking about it I ask you
to become mindful today and that is how
you conserve your energy to grow
stronger and now that person no longer
you got to become very clear of who you
want to hang around for a long time I
didn’t realize that and I know just like
in our society a lot of us we like fast
food we’re living in a fast food culture
we want instant gratification and
entertainment but in the long run it’s
bad for us just like certain friends and
people are they really friends I don’t
think so
people we hang around they’re really bad
for us okay but we choose to hang around
them because it’s like fast food but
what about just drinking water oh it’s
so boring Ralph but it’s good for you in
the long run so what help me deal with
hurtful people was wants to become very
clear who I want to be associated with
who I want to hang around and really
choosing to say okay I’m just spreading
a lot of beautiful vibes I need to
connect with people who are doing the
exact same thing and that’s what’s
helped me along my journey now day seven
okay I’m recording and guess who comes
onto the scene is that man again saying
look I told you start recording right he
was getting really really kind of
annoyed right now and I was like okay he
is like a tornado and instead of getting
pulled into his tornado I was pulling
him into my car I was explaining look
I’m helping people
I’m just diving deep and he was like I
don’t care I’m like so thank you so much
her and he he got confused because I was
so polite even though he was becoming a
tornado that eventually I just felt I
just I just like melted him I just
melted him say together I just melted
him right and yes he got a lot calmer
after that and he was like we came to an
agreement
and then eventually it was all beautiful
but that’s the power of becoming karma
in who you are there is no rush there is
no race and the more you embody this
harmonious energy the more you will
attract it in your reality negativity
can only affect you when you are
vibrating at the same frequency you got
to rise higher slow motion inside
[Music]
negativity can only affect you when you
are vibrating at the same frequency you
gotta rise higher and that’s why what
I’ve learned most of all is that it’s a
choice you can choose to be where they
are or you can choose to rise higher
every single day we are making a choice
that’s either helping us become a
greatest version or helping us stray
away from our greatest version now when
we talk of feeling hurt what I’ve come
to realize is that a lot of the times
it’s not our problem okay if you want to
know how to deal with hurtful people
many times people are hurt themselves
they just need a hug they got nobody to
talk to nobody to hug at night they’re
not doing anything with their life more
so they are afraid of your greatness
right I used to tell people hey I want
to share I want to start inspiring
people this was years ago before I even
started infinite waters and a lot of
people were like down talking it right
down playing it like oh it doesn’t
matter
because they were afraid of my greatness
now you may have people in your life who
are afraid of your greatness so they
will say hurtful things towards you to
distract you from your true calling and
part because they are afraid of your
greatness so to become even
stronger got a shine even brighter and
don’t stop because they told you to stop
a lot of people right I’m a Pisces I’m
full of compassion the more
compassionate you are to people to
realize look their problems anglo
nothing to do with me
right it was here before I came on the
scene what they were going through I
didn’t create a lot of people take out
their frustration on us don’t be that
person
please don’t so you got a Dutch but more
so you’ve got to become conscious of who
hang around and realize a lot of people
really need to be shown compassion the
more hurtful they are to you because
that’s what they need the most you got
to take pity on them more so you got to
show mercy fill yourself with joy
when you are dealing with her whole
person or a situation that’s helpful
fill your mind with joy not with other
people’s and not with other people’s
disastrous energy not with their
frustration their chaos their madness
their disrespect it’s now time to start
filling your mind with more harmonious
salubrious energy so what I’ve come to
realize is that you have a choice you
can fill your mind with people who don’t
care about you who don’t bring you
anything they’re always there
trying to bring you a lot of drama right
they don’t focus on what you’re doing
how you’re helping the world or maybe
you’re not maybe you’re just walking
walking the dog or with the cat down the
road but they don’t focus on what’s
going good and you focus on them now you
are now in alignment with their
frequency that was me along my early
journey and then I started to fill my
mind with people who actually care I
asked you today
take out your phone let’s do it let’s do
it together I got my phone I got my s7
edge right business class look at the
names look at a name of someone who has
really touched your life call that
person right now let me call them okay
and then start filling your mind with
that person start connecting more with
that person and now you replace all of
that energy with another energy don’t
copy people in a nutshell we have to
realize that a lot of us who have been
hurt by people we start mimicking them
we start copying them we start stooping
down to their level and it’s very
tempting to do because we have mirror
neurons right let’s talk about some
neuroscience
right we
mimic people when someone smiles we just
like automatically kind of smile when
someone’s really rude to us we kind of
do the same thing but if you want to
become even stronger you have to become
an alchemist moreso a wizard and then
their energy will no longer have power
over you and you will become even
stronger you will now walk with a
greater air of confident you will now
walk with a greater air of confidence
greater air of trust and more so you
will realize that this is part of life
okay certain times the people we feel
are hurting us may actually be teaching
us something in the process we’ve got to
also take responsibility for our
feelings and take a look within and then
say feel so good to be alive baby can I
get a Hello it and now you have it in a
nutshell
we are out here breathing in that good
ass Chi that good ass prana baby have a
beautiful day diving deep once again
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you [Music]
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