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How to Deal With Horrible People (*WARNING* – this video will change your life)


peace and finit waters diving deep once
again we are out here
we’re nature breathing in that beautiful
prana baby how to deal with horrible
people so the cat down the road always
tells me Ralph let it go Ralph let it go
Ralph let it go
and I’m like no cut down the road it’s
hard but deep down I still love you can
I get a Hello and we ain’t even had
breakfast yet right I got a question
that came in from someone who said that
they are dealing with someone who is
making them extremely uncomfortable now
the problem is they’re studying so it’s
hard right because they get they get to
see this person every single day right
so let me share with you what’s helped
me along my journey in shielding
yourself against horrible people now
since it’s a 7 day vegan challenge right
I got this a date and I love dates first
thing in the day put it in a smoothie
you’re good to go
but you see horrible people are a bit
like fast food junk food they might
taste good
they might even smell good but they’re
definitely not good for you can I get a
hello there so I always realize ask
yourself what am i eating today because
your vibe attracts your tribe when I was
eating a lot of junk food french fries
sausages and mustard with tons of
whipped cream on top don’t ask me why I
had that weird combination right I just
did I felt terrible about myself and
guess what more times than not I
surrounded myself with a load of
assholes don’t worry about it but now
I’m eating dates high in magnesium
dietary fibre they’re gonna help flush
out all of those horrible people out of
you your whole digestive horrible people
system will be flushed out clean right
but you see fast food which a lot of us
are eating we’re stuck and that echoes
into our lives in terms of who we meet
and interact with so keep a date in your
pocket can I get a hello there
now here’s where it gets kind of tricky
because a lot of people say gosh Ralph
what should i do should I turn the other
cheek
or this one or should I respond should I
be like how they are being I got a story
for you
there was this very intimidating general
and he would intimidate anyone who he
came into contact with and he became
notoriously known for being the meanest
general in the world but also the most
feared and revered now he would go to
someone and just hurl abuse at them
insults right because that’s what you
wrote in you said someone is hurting
your feelings right now so just imagine
is that general right and he would say
all kinds of words it was a word Smith
and his opponents would try and have a
jewel with him have a battle with him
and they would just get obliterated
crushed destroyed and maimed it wasn’t
it wasn’t a pretty sight at all right
and then he would keep doing that year
after year many people would challenge
him and say gosh come on let’s have a
jewel let’s have a battle let’s go word
for word and his insults were just far
too powerful so one day the mean general
was traveling and he came across an old
man and he thought well before I go to
my next destination let me just break
this old man apart so he started hurling
abuse at the old man
he forgot it was a wise old man why is
it always a wise old man
nobody knows anyway right so the old
wise man stood there like this and the
general the mean general was getting
really confused because all of his
insults he would insult people they
would react to give him more food and
then he would just destroy them but he
needed people’s food which was their
attention but you see the old wise man
didn’t say anything
he didn’t give the mean general any food
so guess what
he made the mean general eat his words
can I get a hello there and at the end
the mean general bowed down to the old
wise man and said have mercy on me and
then the old wise man slapped him get
out of here
right I put the twist at the end of the
story right so realize that you got to
make people eat their own words you got
to make people hear themselves right
many times we don’t realize that we also
have hand plainness you said that you
are sometimes upset by what people say
what people do to you and I get it all
the time right I’ve been on this journey
for a long time diving deep I’ve had to
encounter all kinds of creatures right
not even human beings creatures right
and a lot of them they come out of the
Woodworks and they will say something
which will really shake you up so it’s a
trigger it’s a catalyst for making you
act in a certain way for making you feel
bad and then you
you start screaming out loud like no how
dare you say that you see not realizing
that they are bringing something out of
you that has to be addressed
so actually you got to thank these
people hmm
slow motion hmm right because they’re
highlighting unresolved aspects of
yourself now look at it like this I used
to work in a library for a very very
long time about five years before I came
a psychologist
now here’s what happened I was a guy at
work who would say stuff and sometimes
he would say gosh Ralph you got to do
the job properly you’re not doing it
right
do this way do it that way come on do it
the other way and I’m like I’m doing it
this way that way and the other way but
it still it still is still not good
enough right so it was hard but deep
down I still love you I still love you
right that didn’t work I was furious so
just imagine someone says to you know
you’re not supposed to do it that way
right that’s the first strike you’re
like huh then they say this didn’t you
learn anything at school
that’s the strike number two you’re like
would and then they’re like silly boy
silly girl and you’re like ah and
everyone at work is looking at you like
can I get a Hello they’re right they’ve
pushed you to the limit and now you are
furious you’ve reacted you’ve now given
that person a lot of food and it is
great to express yourself 100% but
you’ve got to realize this secret now
the ocean we are infinite waters can
teach us so much so I’m on the beach and
I’m looking at the waves talking to a
good friend and I say to look at it like
this a lot of negative people jump into
the ocean but the ocean is still so
beautiful a lot of toxic people jump
into the ocean but the ocean is never
toxic it is always renewing itself
replenishing itself
rejuvenating itself and that’s why it’s
infinite waters can I get a hello there
it’s marvelous baby right so you got to
be the ocean which is the alchemist if
people throw down on you you got to ask
yourself am I gonna return the dirt or
am I gonna move more into my
authenticity am I gonna be more in my
nature and not this right because if
truth be told I’m not one for just being
silent I don’t think that works at the
same time I’m also not one just for
falling into people’s trap of me wanting
to respond to them right because I’m too
busy having fun connecting with amazing
deep divers and mermaids having naked
parties in on Mars right it’s pretty fun
come along
hey so you got to ask yourself how can I
become an alchemist how can I move more
into the truth of who I am and not
bitter not not turn into a monster right
you don’t you don’t want to become a
monster because that’s what a lot of
horrible people can make us do no no you
see nobody can make you become something
you’re not hmm slow motion
nobody can make you become something
you’re not without your own permission
focus when I first started infinite
waters very very very very very very
long time ago very long time ago what
happened a lot of people were doubting
me they were saying gosh Ralph change
your style do this what are we now close
to half a million subscribers can I get
a hello there cuz I never fell in the
trap of giving those people power
they weren’t horrible people no they
were there to test me
to bring out of me unresolved issues so
I always focus on people that serve me
that love me that give me care and give
me a nice hot massage first thing in the
day when we ain’t even had breakfast yet
right and because of that I create a
loving space of vortex just like the
ocean when you are toxic and go into the
ocean the ocean is not going to be
affected by that because the ocean is
the greatest transformer now you got to
ask yourself are you going where you are
tolerated or celebrated right a lot of
the times I don’t have time to debate
with people right I say hey life is
great we are creating abundance you go
that way I’ll go that way and we can
both get along just fine but you see a
lot of us don’t want to do that we’re
still insecure therefore those horrible
people like that because once again
horrible is a standard nice is a
standard based on your own value system
who you think is horrible could be the
nicest person in the world you may have
just wealth missed the joke can I get a
Hello
there but yes some people are very nasty
and you got to allow yourself not to
tolerate that kind of junk food look you
wouldn’t eat french fries with a whole
load of grease over it would you well
maybe you would but this is a seven day
vegan challenge baby so you want to eat
you want to eat where is it a date
that’s right so once again realize that
take a look at yourself of who you are
choosing to surround yourself it is
always a choice to invite positivity or
negativity into your life right and what
are you gonna choose I choose whoa to
breathing that good-ass prana every
single day and connect with a lot of
deep divers have a beautiful day while
here having fun infinite hood has
tithing deep once again stay well stay healthy

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