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How to Deal With Conflicts While Still Remaining In Your Peace


Pease Infinit waters diving Zeke once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in the heart of nature baby
magnificent day how to deal with
conflict while still remaining in your
peace let’s just whoa breathing in that
good a spur on a baby now that’s the
question that came in I got a question
from a woman who our Alf I’m dealing
with a little bit of conflict right now
and how can I remain in my peace how can
I stand up for myself without being so
rude but like I’m not gonna allow this
to happen Ralph I am NOT gonna allow
this to happen but I don’t know how to
deal with it cuz I’m about to flip out
Ralph I’m about to go buckwild route
whoa hold it down and we an even had
breakfast yet
can I get a hello
I know what it’s like dealing with outer
conflict sometimes it comes in the form
of situations sometimes it comes in the
forms in the forms of people right when
you meet someone and you’re like oh my
gosh
why they creating so many problems for
me and what is going through your mind
right now I want to tear them apart but
wait a minute let me just breathe I got
this I can’t deal with this so what are
we gonna do so how do I deal with it
I’ve dealt with all kinds of people I’ve
dealt with people who sometimes I’m like
why they creating problems for me is it
me or is it them then I’m like it’s them
okay what are we gonna do about it it
first starts with this you see what’s
helped me along my journey is learning
how to let the kettle boil what do I
mean by that so let’s just say you meet
someone it could be at work it could be
someone on your street and they’re
giving you bad vibes whenever you meet
them there is a conflict that arises
okay and you’re fuming you are getting
really mad right now oh okay and in your
mind you’re like actually this is
unacceptable I’m not supposed to get mad
no really get mad you gotta let the
kettle boil you really want to feel all
of those emotions going through you and
feel the madness feel the conflict feel
that feeling of being disgruntled
annoyed oh the kettle is just about the
ball oh my gosh
the kettle is boiled you see the beauty
of allowing yourself to get angry
instead of repressing the hell out of
your feelings you’ve got to let the
kettle boil there are no bad
emotions what’s say it again Ralph there
are no bad emotions emotion energy in
motion to deal with conflicts while
still remaining in your peace you’ve
gotta allow yourself to feel don’t
sugarcoat it if you are annoyed I want
you to let that kettle boil okay so now
the kettle is boiled oh my gosh I’m so
hot right now around whoa we need to
cool you off is that better
you still hot you’re still fuming this
conflict has really gotten to you that
person has really gotten to you they’ve
gotten on your nerves and now the kettle
is boiled okay you’re hot now how do you
feel right now
well Ralph I feel really angry but I
actually feel pretty good I let it out
exactly do you know how many times I
meet people who are like I’m dealing
with a conflict right now but I’m just
gonna turn to peace I’m not gonna allow
the kettle to boil and these people they
bottle it up all inside and it comes out
at the most unexpected time in the most
inconvenient place you got to let it out
okay there are no bad emotions if you
thought angry allow yourself to be angry
now once the kettle has boiled okay once
the kettle has boiled now you can start
cooling down you can stop well breathing
in that good ass piranha baby
you can stop collecting yourself to
gather greater clarity to say okay
what’s the next best move because it
doesn’t matter how angry you become it’s
not gonna change what’s taking place you
have to approach the situation you have
to now approach the person in a calm
collected manner so you don’t say
something you regret or you don’t do
something you regret okay
now how to deal with someone while still
remaining in your piece how to deal with
a conflict while still remaining in your
piece let me tell you this never been
around someone and they’re really
getting on your nerves and you’re like
oh I’m gonna play their game I’m gonna
do what they do to me right back to them
you see sometimes that can work but the
majority of times it can actually
backfire you see that is their nature
and you have to know your nature if you
live your life copying the behaviors of
other people which aren’t serving you
guess what you start morphing into their
own energy field what slow motion this
side
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you don’t want to start mimicking other
people’s behaviors and actions stay true
to your own nature start respecting your
own nature say oh I do it like this I’m
not gonna copy you even though you are a
terrible example of a human being
oh you went there oh you went there
that’s good let it out right I’m not
gonna be like you I’m better than that
I’m gonna rise past you
right because if you are playing their
game you are only as bad as them so
don’t mimic other people’s behaviors
when you are dealing with a conflict
okay how to deal with conflict while
still remaining in your peace now there
is a lot of conflict happening all
around the world okay sometimes you turn
on the TV and you see the news is full
of fear and it’s all about getting your
butt out of the matrix to stay won’t you
stay aware as we are entering this
global awakening of higher consciousness
to deal with an outer conflict to deal
with outer conflict not even just a
person just the situation in the world
you’re unhappy about while still
remaining in your peace is to realize
that you got to be calm you got to
realize this that it all starts with you
everything out there starts with you
and you have the power to change the
world by changing yourself by changing
yourself by coming into alignment with
yourself you see you can’t write other
people scripts you can’t predict the
future you don’t know what’s gonna
happen to the world okay you can’t
prevent a disaster
you can learn about your inner emotions
you can become an alchemist which is
where you make the best out of the worst
and you don’t allow external events to
govern your internal condition you have
that power stand up today are you still
sitting down don’t worry about it okay
how to deal with conflicts while still
remaining in your peace let me share
with you what’s helped me along my
journey
you see I realized when something
happens to me when I was living in
Malibu my neighbor was like stop
recording I’ve shared this story before
and I got to share it again cuz it
really upset me right stop recording I’m
trying to sleep
I’m like look I gotta inspire millions
of people I don’t care I’m trying to
sleep
right so this guy was being extremely
annoying to me and I realize I was just
reacting I’m like now I got a record
right then I realize there’s a
difference between reacting and
responding you see how you respond to a
situation literally has the power to
change the situation itself slow motion
this side
I said look I said this to him I know my
rights I’m gonna continue and I got the
cat down the road as my bodyguard don’t
mess with me and then everything turned
out to be gravy it went so well after
that right so how you respond reacting
is just like in the media an immediate
response right when you learn the longer
response of just grounding yourself whoa
breathing in that good ah spur on the
baby you can now actually think before
you act
okay so you don’t say something you
regret but also you gain a greater
clarity that’s what we want that keyword
clarity to say okay how can I deal with
the situation you gain a you gain a
greater clarity to say how can I deal
with this situation in the best manner
possible
now seven day vegan challenge you see
what’s helped me along my journey is
what I call the green magic juice
because sometimes if you are dealing
with a conflict you are eating foods
which are on the same frequency as that
conflict that means a lot of junk food
processed meats foods which aren’t
serving you okay now when we are eating
a plant-based diet when you are going
through a hard time a conflict it could
be an inner conflict it could be an
outer conflict this is the time to eat
the best foods or drink the best
smoothies I just bought a pass smoothie
right you can make your own smoothie
sometimes I use a Vitamix but some pans
in there put some apples in there put
some dandelion in there put some
spirulina in there
put some III live in there put some
coconut water in there put some peaches
in there for some cranberries in there
you catch my drift it’s a pretty awesome
smoothie baby right okay now I feel
better now this fuel these antioxidants
help me deal with the conflict in a
better way if I’m eating junk food and
I’ve got a conflict going on it’s gonna
make the conflict ten times harder
because now I’ve got foods inside of me
which are against me
you see you don’t even realize an animal
is a conscious living being if you are
constantly consuming animals it’s
payback inside they are gonna come alive
and say look you ate me I didn’t want to
die in fact I just wanted to listen to
infinite waters it’s payback time right
what goes around comes around what we
are doing to animals will be done on to
us so I had to realize I had to juice up
eat , free foods and that has helped me
deal with any conflict that arises I’m
an alchemist baby more than that I’m a
wizard oh I’m a wizard
look how to deal with conflicts while
still remaining in your peace what a
fantastic question that came through
cool them out that’s right you know you
went there that’s right
call them out expose them you you you oh
my gosh now they’re looking a bit shaky
baby
you see they want you to be silent they
want you to close your mouth they want
you to sit down and shut up you’re not
gonna do that
you’re gonna cool them out you’re gonna
confront them oh but I’m so scared Ralph
it takes practice right that guy who was
telling me not to record I confronted
him I went up to him and said look I
looked him right in the eyes have got
stuff to do I’ve got work to do don’t
disturb me this is very important he was
shook he was oh my gosh I didn’t expect
collé people out you don’t have to just
take it you can give it to how about
that you can start confronting people
let them know how you feel
learn the art of speaking your heart and
mind even if your voice shakes that’s
how to deal with conflicts don’t keep
quiet voice out how you feel say I feel
like this and I feel like that make a
bit of a show right I’m filming you
right now you’re on camera okay make a
bit of a show voice your concerns speak
your heart and mind who cares
if it doesn’t come out right at least
you got it off your chest okay learn the
art of speaking your heart and mind now
to deal with conflicts what’s helped me
along my journey is to listen to their
side listen to the other person side
okay cuz sometimes we’re like ain’t got
anything to do with me oh oh but what if
it has them what if you haven’t checked
yourself what if you haven’t looked in
the mirror you see sometimes it’s not
just what other people are doing to you
sometimes it’s what you are doing to
them because you are so perfect you are
saying so what’s helped me is to realize
I don’t know everything I’m not a saint
expect the scandal every week I got to
listen to their side so I listen to him
and I’m like maybe he has a point okay
so we we came to an agreement okay I’m
like okay I’ll record down there right
so listen to people don’t think that
it’s only about your side listen to
their side and that’s how you learn how
to become your greatest version okay
their side matters just as your side
does see what you need to work on that’s
how you deal with conflicts what do I
need to work on how can I improve as a
human being what are the unresolved
issues coming up you see sometimes if
you put a glass on a table bang the
table
if water arises there’s a lot of water
in there so what is coming out of you
what are they bringing out a few that’s
a beautiful thing because now for the
first time you are seeing what you are
made of you are seeing what is inside of
you you never ever saw before okay so to
deal with conflicts it’s time to start
looking at yourself to say okay how can
I evolve how can I become a better human
being okay because I’m not perfect there
are still so many areas I have to work
on within myself okay look at it like
this come to an agreement a peaceful
agreement is better than a violent one
okay so talk to that person make peace
maybe with that situation you see in the
world which is making you unhappy make
peace don’t make war why because war
takes a lot longer to heal from okay
it’s amazing how everything can be
resolved by just saying look I’m sorry I
messed up and they they totally they
hopefully say the same thing and then
both of you can move forward how to deal
with conflicts while still remaining in
your peace baby baby
what’s helped me along my journey is
this plain and simple don’t let it
consume you let go of thoughts no longer
serving you realize even the emotions
passing through you you don’t have to
believe each one okay to deal with
conflicts okay while still remaining in
your peace don’t let this situation or
this person consume you realize you are
better than them
and realize this that it all starts by
moving forward lifting your head up
sticking your chest out and moving
forward realize you’ve got this the
universe has your back well it did a
minute ago don’t worry about it okay
you’ve got this you will become stronger
from this experience keep moving forward
don’t focus on all of that negative
energy the negative people focus on
people who actually care about you find
a support network call them and then
that’s how you deal with conflict while
still remaining in your peace once you
realize that deep dive as well what’d
you just say they also get to be a live
and beautiful deep divers have a
beautiful day we are out here in the
heart of nature you see the Sun just
peaking peaking through right it’s a hot
day today have a beautiful day deep
divers we just whoa breathing in that
good ass prana baby infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay
healthy peace you oh what a feeling to be a live baby

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