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How to Become A Self Respecting Person


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we are out here in nature
baby in the middle of a canyon you can’t
get more nature than that how to become
a self-respecting person let’s just well
breathing in that good-ass piranha baby
we got the birds all around us deep
divers now I got a question that came in
Ralph how can I respect myself more
sometimes I feel worthless and I want to
cultivate more self-respect now I also
Ralph want other people to respect me
because sometimes people look down on me
and I ain’t even had breakfast Ralph can
alas we are about to dive deep let me
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey twelve life hacks to Kotov eight
self-respect within yourself right now
how to become a self-respecting person
if first starts with this I can relate
because along my early journey I too
like you wanted the whole world to
respect me I wanted the whole world to
validate my existence and guess what I
didn’t respect myself before the world
can respect you you have to fill your
cup you have to cultivate self-respect
within yourself mmm-hmm slow motion in
this side so every single day I’ve got a
massive mirror in my home and I’m
staring at myself and saying whoa you’re
fine okay self-love that’s how to Kotov
eight self-respect
now self-love how do you cultivate more
self-love go to the place where you find
your greatest power for me that’s in
nature that’s how I respect myself I
don’t need the world to respect me I’m
in nature that’s all that matters
so to cultivate self-respect practice
the art of self-love you can’t love
anybody until you love yourself you
can’t respect anybody until you respect
to get respect also you have to learn
how to give respect I’m always in the
comments section replying to deep divers
because you are worthy I’m not better
than anybody else because I know I
respect myself therefore I can respect
other people the psychology of a bully
is to tear people down but guess what
the bully does not love themselves they
don’t appreciate themselves but more so
they don’t accept themselves so they
want to make everybody else’s lives
miserable to Kotov eight self-respect
stop waiting for the wall to validate
your existence find a beautiful mirror
what is the second life hat to cultivate
self-respect
now within yourself it starts with this
to become a self-respecting person don’t
tolerate people who don’t support you I
keep a closed circle just birds and
flies and bees around me pretty much and
the cat down the road I don’t have a lot
of friends to be honest and that’s how I
cultivate a lot of self-respect you see
don’t just be around people for the sake
of well being around people don’t
surround yourself with people
who don’t support you they don’t root
for you
they don’t wish you well they’re not
motivating you they’re not bringing
anything fresh into your life you see
self-respecting people never tolerate
people who don’t support them they
always are around people who are rooting
for them which boosts their own
self-respect because we are not alone if
you’ve got people who are on your side
it can lead you into more self
respecting behavior if you are around
people who they whisper behind your back
they talk behind your back not good
energy
right so Kotov a ting self-respect is
all about choosing your social circle
wisely because we become like the people
we surround ourselves with most often
now what’s the third life hack to become
a self-respecting person you see
self-respecting people never say oh it’s
just about the money over there peace of
making lots of money is not a
prerequisite for getting a lot of
self-respect or having a big mansion is
not a prerequisite for getting a lot of
self-respect
self-respecting people know this they
prioritize self-care it’s at the top of
the list therefore it is more important
than making other people money they
don’t even know working for a company
you’re getting a small piece of change
someone else is making far more money
than you self-respecting people take
care of themselves right now I’m
chilling in the heart of nature baby in
the middle of a canyon and it feels so
good to be alive I’m practicing the art
of self-respect through self-love by
coming to my natural habitat by coming
to my natural habitat I’m not saying oh
it’s all about the money I need to work
work no I don’t I just need to be in
nature and everything will take care of
itself because I am prioritizing my
self-care what is the fourth life hack
to cultivate self-respect
now what’s helped me along my journey
plain and simple is this 7 day vegan
challenge when it comes to food we all
have different food behaviors shout out
to everybody on snapchat I see your
awesome food habits I’m here to tell you
beautiful deep divers if you are a vegan
like I am that’s just a label by the way
be proud
I’m so proud the seven day vegan
challenge is inspiring millions of
people to eat better I’m cultivating
self-respect because I’m not saying oh
I’m afraid to be a vegan no no no I’m
proud and I’m always gonna talk about it
because it’s transformed my life in the
most serene way if you are a vegetarian
I’m here to tell you be proud
I too was one but I transitioned to a
more plant-based diet okay but it’s okay
it’s okay to be a vegetarian if you are
a meat-eater I’m here to tell you it’s
okay if you are working your way to
start eating healthier avoid the
processed meats it’s okay don’t be so
hard on yourself
right because self-respecting people
acknowledge where they are knowing that
they still have a way to go before they
finally end up where they know they are
meant to be the food journey is a
process I didn’t just wake up saying oh
I don’t want to eat animals I too was a
meat-eater
then I became a vegetarian then I
realized actually animals are truly
sentient beings and well they just might
want to live too just like you right so
I’ve learned that eating a plant-based
diet I can get all my protein from
plant-based sources rule my iron from
plant-based sources over 64 billion
animals are killed every single year so
I realize by me having compassion and
treating animals with respect I am now
Kota vaiting self respect within myself
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slow motion this side what’s the fifth
lifehack how to become a self-respecting
person we are out here chillin in
Topanga I love Topanga my second home
baby that’s what happens when you Kotov
a self respect you come to the best
nature spaces and places in the entire
world
now walk away
you see self-respecting people never
stay in environments which don’t
compliment their highest frequency to
become a self-respecting person walk
away from environments not serving you
walk away from people where the vibe
feels are kind of off you don’t have to
be there you see self-respecting people
don’t settle for mediocre interactions
medium self-respecting people go for the
best friendships relationships because
if you respect yourself you realize you
are worthy for the best kind of living
right now I’m living in infinite
abundance every single day I can do
whatever I want I can do what I want to
cuz I respect myself to know I’m worthy
for this kind of life if I meet someone
and the vibe feels off trust your vibes
they don’t lie neither does the cat down
the road walk away you’re not weak
you’re just knowing you’re just knowing
right now what your soul needs right and
that’s how to cultivate self-respect
right now what is the sixth
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life hack to become a self-respecting
person self-respecting people never stay
in a job which is not good for their
health right they don’t do that because
life is short you see we live in a
clique we live in a flash of light don’t
worry deep divers I too used to work in
a shoddy job which was not serving me
and then I said wait a minute what’s the
point of me being here I’m disrespecting
myself to say actually no that’s why I
said no I’m not gonna stay in a job
which makes me feel worthless where I
have people trying to talk down on me
I’m gonna I’m gonna become my own boss
baby oh I’m gonna become my own boss and
nobody can tell me to be quiet
self-respecting people choose a career a
life path a job which promotes their
wellness and health and that is why they
are always in the process of becoming
their greatest version what is the
seventh life hack to become a
self-respecting person don’t idly nod
yeah to a conversation you are not
interested in and don’t worry deep
divers I used to do that all the time
I’m a Pisces very receptive water sign
and the beauty of the Piscean energy is
that we we we give everybody a chance we
we listen to everybody and sometimes as
a child I’m like 11 years old and people
are just telling me things and I’m like
then I’m 15 I’m doing the same thing
then I’m 18 I’m doing the same thing
just listening yeah yeah yeah but not
really into it it wasn’t till I was 65
just wasn’t till I was like 21 which I
said actually I found my voice you see
self-respecting people are learning how
to find their voice and they’re not just
idling nodding along yeah the
conversations which bore them to death
be real to yourself don’t say no when
you want to say yes don’t say yes when
you want to say no find your voice and
that’s what self-respecting people are
doing every single day what is the
eighth baby baby beautiful way lifehack
to become a self-respecting person
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ghosting in psychology we call ghosting
being a ghost ghosting is where you are
in the midst of someone who is very
negative sometimes very annoying
sometimes very angry a very angry person
and the only way to respond because
you’ve tried silence right and then
you’re like actually let me say a few
words you try a few words you’re like
let me let me actually tell them what
they’re doing which isn’t right then
you’re like actually let me go back to
silence and that’s what we call ghosting
sometimes people don’t deserve your
words
that’s what self-respecting people know
I remind myself back in the day I used
to be around someone who was very
argumentative and I would argue – not
realizing fire creates more fire I had
to learn how to be water and I’m water
anyway I’m Pisces or I had to really
move into my Piscean energy and just be
a ghost like ghosting
well you just ignore someone totally
because you realize they are now gonna
have to eat their words how did that
taste right
that’s what self-respecting people do
what’s the night hack self-respecting
people do
what do they know how do they cultivate
self-respect right now they have stopped
justifying okay their actions
you don’t need to explain to everybody
what you’re doing I went to Brazil
straight off to university
I’m like mom I’m going to Brazil she’s
like why I say I’m going to Brazil mom
actually I said I’m going fast ie baby
look if you are around someone and you
feel you always need to explain yourself
express yourself they’re like why did
you choose that life path why are you
doing this why are you doing that and
you’re always like I’m doing this
because I’m doing that because sometimes
you can lose your own self-respect your
own self-confidence right so self
respecting people don’t have to always
justify their actions they don’t have to
start explaining to people why they’re
doing similar to what Ralph smart is
doing and just like well breathing in
that good ass Prada baby you don’t need
to justify your actions and that’s what
self respecting people know oh so well
what is the tenth life hack to become a
self-respecting person what’s helped me
along my journey deep divers is this
break other people’s expectations break
their expectations shatter them like
glass
your parents want you to do this your
parents want you to do this
break their expectations that’s what
self-respecting people do nobody said it
was easy no it’s not easy of course it’s
not you are gonna have to upset a lot of
people you see self respecting people
are strong they know that this life part
they’ve chosen
they are gonna meet a lot of adversity
parents trying to pull you parents
trying to pull you in this direction
friends trying to pull you in that
direction self respecting people stay
grounded they they
hold their ground okay and they break
other people’s expectations I said many
years ago to become your greatest
version you have to learn how to let go
slow-motion inside you see what are
making videos I’m doing what I want what
I like what I love and if you love it
too that’s beautiful but I’m not here
just to please you I’m pleasing myself
first and that’s what self-respecting
people do so break are the people’s
expectations and that’s how you
cultivate self-respect right now what is
the 11th magnificent way to cultivate
self-respect right now become your
greatest version deep divers if you are
always pacifying yourself indulging over
consuming things which aren’t good for
you
toxic substances heavy alcohol
and you know you’re not even in your
right mind that’s not what
self-respecting people do you see
self-respecting people don’t get
addicted or have substance addiction or
alcohol addiction they stay in their
right mind they’ve got to stay focused
because when you are focused you can
cultivate self-respect
many times we hide behind substances and
alcohol consumption to run away from how
we really feel right so stop trying to
pacify yourself with an overconsumption
of alcohol or whatever it is okay
because self-respect comes from self
care what let me say that again
self-respect emanates it comes from self
care so take care of yourself and what
is the twelve lifehack to become a
self-respecting person we are in the
middle of a Canyon right now baby now
control your narrative you see what’s
helped me along my journey this is so
powerful control your narrative meaning
that this is the life I chose and this
is my narrative it doesn’t have to be
like yours because once again everyone
has a different narrative everybody is
seeing planet Earth in a totally
different way so take control of your
narrative this is the life I want to
live because your mom has another
narrative for you the cat down the road
has another narrative for you your
friends have another narrative for you
even random strangers have another
narrative for you and you’re like please
stop like can I just control my own
narrative that’s what you got to do and
that’s how you start cultivating self
respect within yourself take control of
your own narrative it’s your life not
this well when you realize that you’ll
just say should we go really loud
let’s see how loud we can do it we’ll
say what deep divers one to feel so good
to be a live baby can I get a Hello
hey that was pretty loud we are out here
having fun baby in the heart and nature
baby just whoa breathing in that good
ass prana have a beautiful day deep
divers chilling in Topanga as we do well
here
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you are ESP
ect
you know what it means to the cat down the road

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