How to Be A Heartbreaker

he’s infinite waters diving deep once
again this is sexology water fire hot
cold yin-yang I received two questions
one from a woman who she was dating a
guy and their relationship came to an
end and she saw he was with another
woman they had pictures on Facebook I
told you about Facebook and she deleted
him but at the same time she is
wondering how to get over this and also
another question from another woman
dealing with a similar theme which is
all about she’s just broken up with her
boyfriend but she feels angry she feels
frustrated he’s a heartbreaker how to be
a heartbreaker is where you don’t show
your emotions to someone who you’ve been
with us so long but you have to ask
yourself do you want to be a
heartbreaker to someone else because in
relationships what happens is many of us
we carry past energies into our next
relationship therefore in healing our
heart we have to make peace with that
person even if they were a so-called
heartbreaker and also we have to see
that no one can make us feel a certain
way without our permission no one can
break our hearts they are not that
powerful even if you have deleted him
from Facebook you are still thinking
about him in your mind
he hasn’t gone anywhere to you he is
still a heartbreaker he is mean he is
with another woman and he is not showing
that compassion but at the same time in
healing your heart of that from all of
that frustration that anger we have to
take a more mature approach because we
have to see that if we are angry that
anger has to pass through you first
before it reaches that other person if
that person is not concerned about you
why should you be concerned about that
person why are we spending so much time
it’s hard to move on we shouldn’t just
deny our feelings we should sit with our
feelings we should move more into these
so-called negative feelings until they
no longer become negative when we see
that all along it is our focus which has
been causing the pain our thoughts how
we are reacting to them if we are in
resistance to the thoughts we have about
this so-called breakup this is what’s
causing the pain and suffering but once
we can let go of this resistance see why
you are holding on because maybe you
it was unfinished business but then we
have to see that if it was meant to be
it would be because that person would
still want to find you they are a
heartbreaker but guess what they can’t
break your heart unless you allow them
so just realize there are plenty more
amazing people out there when one leaves
another one comes we’re here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy