he’s infinite waters diving deep once
again we got the beautiful wind
massaging our face we’re out here in
nature baby whoa breathing in that good
ass Prada how to stop attracting a
coca-cola relationship a lot of people
message me every single day I get over a
thousand questions and about 50% of
those questions are about relationships
and someone asks how can they stop
attracting the wrong mate we an even had
breakfast yet can I get a hello yeah so
I’m gonna share with you what’s helped
me along my journey move into water
relationships right now because there is
the coca-cola relationship which is the
toxic relationship the karmic
relationship and there is the water
relationship which is about soul mates
and Twin Flames now I love my early
journey all I was attracting was
coca-cola relationships and these are
the 10 secrets to stop attracting a
coca-cola relationship the first secret
is that you see we don’t meet people by
accident it’s either a lesson or a
slow motion inside so if you are in a
relationship right now ask yourself this
is this relationship a lesson or a
blessing if it’s not a blessing then
it’s a coca-cola relationship that you
are attracting so I realized that I was
ending up in relationships where I was
learning so much about myself and that’s
why I was attracting this relationship
in my life at this specific time because
I have lessons to learn
ever been around somebody who’s in a
relationship and they keep complaining
about that person and you’re like why
the hell are you with them and they’re
like I don’t know because they have
lessons to learn so once you learn the
lesson solution now you begin to move
into the water relationship the second
secret that helped me to start
attracting coca-cola relationships was
to realize you got to stop blaming
people like whoever you are with right
now stop blaming that person or maybe
you’re single
okay stop blaming yourself stop blaming
that person because now you actually
reclaim your power thus pushing you
further into a water relationship we
stay in coca-cola relationships and
toxic relationships when it’s always
tit-for-tat your ways blaming each other
in essence you are as bad as each other
that’s why you both need each other okay
so I realize this along my journey and I
was like okay I get it the moment I stop
blaming that person for where I found
myself then I just realized I had the
power and I was choosing to be in this
slow-motion this side so on us how do I
know I’m dating a psychopath that’s a
great question but I always say once
again you’ve got to stop blaming that
person you are in a relationship with
you have chosen to be there you said
okay sometimes he gets angry once again
you are choosing to enter that contract
because that’s what a relationship is
you don’t have to be there but if you
are there there are lessons to be
learned what’s the third secret that
helped me to stop attracting coca-cola
relationships intuition ever walk into a
room and get a sense that you
shouldn’t be in there because it’s on
fire ah run outside right now we meet
people they always say the first meeting
sets off a lasting impression and I meet
certain people and instantly I get a
vibe about this person now let’s just
say you want Kota vaiting greater
intuition you are going to keep meeting
people who don’t have your best
interests at hand because you want
intuitive enough in essence you are in
slow motion aside I was in so many
relationships for the wrong reason
sometimes I get it we are in
relationships because it’s convenient
what I call relationships of convenience
II sometimes you can’t afford the rent
so you got to stay with someone
sometimes they look so good that you
just want to wake up to their face but
they don’t make you feel good once again
you’ve chosen looks over feels ok it’s
all about the feeling first and then the
looks second so for me it was about
intuition to say okay is this a heart
based relationship do I feel it in my
heart or do I feel it in my wallet do I
feel it in my mind my ego you see the
coca-cola relationship is ego based
because what happens when we are in our
ego we defend we attack defense and
attack we justify we prove so to stop
attracting a coca-cola relationship
yourself is that all I’m worth
do I have to always prove myself to this
person don’t they trust me you’re better
than that and that’s when you start to
move in the direction of a water
relationship now intuition is everything
the more intuitive you get
you will ask yourself okay yeah I get
this vibe about this person is there any
hope of evolution together yeah there is
great then walk off into the sunset
wonderful what’s the fourth secret that
helped me to stop attracting a coca-cola
relationship and start moving towards a
water relationship is knowing what you
want most people don’t know what they
want so they settle they end up with the
wrong person which in essence is
actually helping them learn more about
themselves and that’s what happened to
me along my journey I didn’t really know
what I want I didn’t really know what I
wanted because I didn’t even know who I
was I meet people every single day who
say I don’t want to be single Ralph so
they end up with a person they’re always
complaining about I say it’s better to
be single than keep tearing my era like
with your complaining right don’t do
that so what helped me along my journey
was to say I’ve got to know what I want
but before I can know what I want I got
to know myself so to stop attracting a
coca-cola relationship coming to nature
baby start meditating more to say okay
what is it I actually want from a
relationship what are my core needs what
are my core needs and is this other
person providing me with core needs a
more so more so am i providing myself
with my core needs because the greatest
relationship you can have begins with
yourself now the fifth secret that
helped me to stop attracting a coca-cola
relationship was to honor my needs 7 day
vegan challenge I realized that I used
to date when I used to eat when I used
to eat a lot of meat I was going out
with all meat eaters which was fine at
the time and then when I was
transitioning to become a vegan moving
towards a plant-based diet my
relationship was going through a rocky
stage because
I was trying to influence the other
person to get them to eat like me and it
wasn’t happening and I get so many
people messaging me saying they’re doing
the seven day vegan challenge and their
partner is still on other diet and it’s
really difficult sometimes of course
it’s going to be so when I was actually
dating a vegan for the first time I
noticed the total difference and it was
only because I started to honor my needs
you see if you don’t honor your needs
chances are you’re gonna end up in a
cook color relationship based on the
diet for instance if you are eating a
plant-based diet and they’re still
eating bacon it’s going to be hard
because once again the water
relationship is about resonance
especially when it comes to eating so if
you’ve got a bowl of kale I’ve got a
bowl of kale if you are eating
cranberries I’ve got a load of
cranberries in my hand right now
offering them to you take them take eat
them eat right what’s number six
expression many people in toxic
relationships in karmic relationships in
coca-cola relationships have very little
expression meaning they don’t really
express themselves fully to that person
they’re with they’re hiding they have a
lot of secrets and that was me along my
early journey when I started to move
into the water relationship it was only
because I was learning how to express
myself even more expression is all about
authenticity authenticity is where you
move out of the ego because the ego once
again it’s all about defending itself
wearing a musk so to stop attracting a
coca-cola relationship learn to express
yourself more and if that person doesn’t
accept you for who you are
bounce by we’re back okay what’s number
seven evolution now what helped me along
my journey was this ask yourself
how much can I evolve with this person
many people they lie to themselves every
single day in a relationship I did when
I was in a relationship and it wasn’t
going anywhere and I’m like this is cool
no it’s not I had to get real and the
cat down the road was like Ralph get
real this relationship isn’t doing
anything for you and the longer you hold
on to a toxic coca-cola relationship the
more you miss the opportunity to be in a
relationship that helps you become your
greatest version slow motion this side
[Music]
so evolution is everything like the
person you are with or if you’re single
the person who you want to be with ask
yourself how are we going to look like
in like 10 years
can I see myself with this person are
they a good father a good mother that’s
what you got to be thinking of for the
water relationship the coca-cola
relationship is like oh my gosh they’ve
got a great body that short-term baby
that’s why a lot of people are screwed
over because they went for the bait
relationships are a lot deeper than that
you got to start thinking of the
spiritual connection both of you have
more so the heart connection now let’s
talk about the eight secret that helped
me to stop attracting a coca-cola
relationship and that is to be more
transparent transparency is like where
you’re going to be like a crystal clear
glass of water and I’m gonna be able to
see right through you so can you see
through this person you are with or is
it looking really murky right now I love
my early journey I didn’t know the
person who I was with right and it
didn’t feel good it felt very
uncomfortable and I didn’t know I had a
choice to be with someone where I could
get more transparency with but it was
because I didn’t really know who I was I
wasn’t transparent with myself so what
helped me to stop attracting a
: was to become the energy I wanted to
attract within that person and it
happened and then I started to see wait
for it wait for it exactly what is it
exactly my reflection my reflection can
I get a hello there if you aren’t
transparent within yourself you are
gonna see a distorted image of yourself
in another person if you can see
yourself clearly your values what you
represent when you see someone you will
instantly recognize your reflection
number nine honesty
now honesty is difficult because let’s
face it none of us Saints all of us
including me has got a dirty little
secret we’re not exposing that’s fine
even a cat down the road has a dirty
secret when I talk of honesty it’s not
about being a saint it’s just about
being honest with yourself to say okay
is this all I’m worth most times in
relationships we’re not honest with
ourselves let alone the other person if
you’re not honest with yourself and your
feelings saying okay am I happy here
that’s all you got to say am I happy
here
forwards am i happy here if the answer’s
no what are you doing there
because you see you begin to move into
the water relationship when the answers
hell yes
like it’s got to be a hell yeah no I
don’t know you’re looking a bit shaky
baby okay that’s how I knew I was in a
coca-cola relationship because I wasn’t
even sure of what I felt
water relationship is where you
absolutely know you feel fantastic they
bring out the best in you and you bring
out the best in them and lastly number
ten is what I call appreciation what
helped me along my journey was to
realize this I was with a person who
wasn’t really appreciating me a hundred
percent
they weren’t really supporting me on my
mission here on planet Earth
okay and to stop attracting that kind of
relationship you only want to be around
a person who is going to be your
personal cheerleader and guess what you
are going to be their personal
cheerleader you’re going to be happy for
their success and upset are their
sadness and those are the people who you
should hold dear to your heart because
those are the people who only have a cat
about you I mean everybody else didn’t
care so that is the secret the water
relationship is surrounding yourself
with someone who really appreciates you
who doesn’t really want to change you or
wants to grow with you and then both of
you say feels so good to be a live baby
can I get a Hello hey we are out here is
so beautiful and windy and beautiful and
hot at the same time whoa breathing in
that good ass Prada have a beautiful day
infinitely deep once again stay well
you
you [Music]
again we got the beautiful wind
massaging our face we’re out here in
nature baby whoa breathing in that good
ass Prada how to stop attracting a
coca-cola relationship a lot of people
message me every single day I get over a
thousand questions and about 50% of
those questions are about relationships
and someone asks how can they stop
attracting the wrong mate we an even had
breakfast yet can I get a hello yeah so
I’m gonna share with you what’s helped
me along my journey move into water
relationships right now because there is
the coca-cola relationship which is the
toxic relationship the karmic
relationship and there is the water
relationship which is about soul mates
and Twin Flames now I love my early
journey all I was attracting was
coca-cola relationships and these are
the 10 secrets to stop attracting a
coca-cola relationship the first secret
is that you see we don’t meet people by
accident it’s either a lesson or a
slow motion inside so if you are in a
relationship right now ask yourself this
is this relationship a lesson or a
blessing if it’s not a blessing then
it’s a coca-cola relationship that you
are attracting so I realized that I was
ending up in relationships where I was
learning so much about myself and that’s
why I was attracting this relationship
in my life at this specific time because
I have lessons to learn
ever been around somebody who’s in a
relationship and they keep complaining
about that person and you’re like why
the hell are you with them and they’re
like I don’t know because they have
lessons to learn so once you learn the
lesson solution now you begin to move
into the water relationship the second
secret that helped me to start
attracting coca-cola relationships was
to realize you got to stop blaming
people like whoever you are with right
now stop blaming that person or maybe
you’re single
okay stop blaming yourself stop blaming
that person because now you actually
reclaim your power thus pushing you
further into a water relationship we
stay in coca-cola relationships and
toxic relationships when it’s always
tit-for-tat your ways blaming each other
in essence you are as bad as each other
that’s why you both need each other okay
so I realize this along my journey and I
was like okay I get it the moment I stop
blaming that person for where I found
myself then I just realized I had the
power and I was choosing to be in this
slow-motion this side so on us how do I
know I’m dating a psychopath that’s a
great question but I always say once
again you’ve got to stop blaming that
person you are in a relationship with
you have chosen to be there you said
okay sometimes he gets angry once again
you are choosing to enter that contract
because that’s what a relationship is
you don’t have to be there but if you
are there there are lessons to be
learned what’s the third secret that
helped me to stop attracting coca-cola
relationships intuition ever walk into a
room and get a sense that you
shouldn’t be in there because it’s on
fire ah run outside right now we meet
people they always say the first meeting
sets off a lasting impression and I meet
certain people and instantly I get a
vibe about this person now let’s just
say you want Kota vaiting greater
intuition you are going to keep meeting
people who don’t have your best
interests at hand because you want
intuitive enough in essence you are in
slow motion aside I was in so many
relationships for the wrong reason
sometimes I get it we are in
relationships because it’s convenient
what I call relationships of convenience
II sometimes you can’t afford the rent
so you got to stay with someone
sometimes they look so good that you
just want to wake up to their face but
they don’t make you feel good once again
you’ve chosen looks over feels ok it’s
all about the feeling first and then the
looks second so for me it was about
intuition to say okay is this a heart
based relationship do I feel it in my
heart or do I feel it in my wallet do I
feel it in my mind my ego you see the
coca-cola relationship is ego based
because what happens when we are in our
ego we defend we attack defense and
attack we justify we prove so to stop
attracting a coca-cola relationship
yourself is that all I’m worth
do I have to always prove myself to this
person don’t they trust me you’re better
than that and that’s when you start to
move in the direction of a water
relationship now intuition is everything
the more intuitive you get
you will ask yourself okay yeah I get
this vibe about this person is there any
hope of evolution together yeah there is
great then walk off into the sunset
wonderful what’s the fourth secret that
helped me to stop attracting a coca-cola
relationship and start moving towards a
water relationship is knowing what you
want most people don’t know what they
want so they settle they end up with the
wrong person which in essence is
actually helping them learn more about
themselves and that’s what happened to
me along my journey I didn’t really know
what I want I didn’t really know what I
wanted because I didn’t even know who I
was I meet people every single day who
say I don’t want to be single Ralph so
they end up with a person they’re always
complaining about I say it’s better to
be single than keep tearing my era like
with your complaining right don’t do
that so what helped me along my journey
was to say I’ve got to know what I want
but before I can know what I want I got
to know myself so to stop attracting a
coca-cola relationship coming to nature
baby start meditating more to say okay
what is it I actually want from a
relationship what are my core needs what
are my core needs and is this other
person providing me with core needs a
more so more so am i providing myself
with my core needs because the greatest
relationship you can have begins with
yourself now the fifth secret that
helped me to stop attracting a coca-cola
relationship was to honor my needs 7 day
vegan challenge I realized that I used
to date when I used to eat when I used
to eat a lot of meat I was going out
with all meat eaters which was fine at
the time and then when I was
transitioning to become a vegan moving
towards a plant-based diet my
relationship was going through a rocky
stage because
I was trying to influence the other
person to get them to eat like me and it
wasn’t happening and I get so many
people messaging me saying they’re doing
the seven day vegan challenge and their
partner is still on other diet and it’s
really difficult sometimes of course
it’s going to be so when I was actually
dating a vegan for the first time I
noticed the total difference and it was
only because I started to honor my needs
you see if you don’t honor your needs
chances are you’re gonna end up in a
cook color relationship based on the
diet for instance if you are eating a
plant-based diet and they’re still
eating bacon it’s going to be hard
because once again the water
relationship is about resonance
especially when it comes to eating so if
you’ve got a bowl of kale I’ve got a
bowl of kale if you are eating
cranberries I’ve got a load of
cranberries in my hand right now
offering them to you take them take eat
them eat right what’s number six
expression many people in toxic
relationships in karmic relationships in
coca-cola relationships have very little
expression meaning they don’t really
express themselves fully to that person
they’re with they’re hiding they have a
lot of secrets and that was me along my
early journey when I started to move
into the water relationship it was only
because I was learning how to express
myself even more expression is all about
authenticity authenticity is where you
move out of the ego because the ego once
again it’s all about defending itself
wearing a musk so to stop attracting a
coca-cola relationship learn to express
yourself more and if that person doesn’t
accept you for who you are
bounce by we’re back okay what’s number
seven evolution now what helped me along
my journey was this ask yourself
how much can I evolve with this person
many people they lie to themselves every
single day in a relationship I did when
I was in a relationship and it wasn’t
going anywhere and I’m like this is cool
no it’s not I had to get real and the
cat down the road was like Ralph get
real this relationship isn’t doing
anything for you and the longer you hold
on to a toxic coca-cola relationship the
more you miss the opportunity to be in a
relationship that helps you become your
greatest version slow motion this side
[Music]
so evolution is everything like the
person you are with or if you’re single
the person who you want to be with ask
yourself how are we going to look like
in like 10 years
can I see myself with this person are
they a good father a good mother that’s
what you got to be thinking of for the
water relationship the coca-cola
relationship is like oh my gosh they’ve
got a great body that short-term baby
that’s why a lot of people are screwed
over because they went for the bait
relationships are a lot deeper than that
you got to start thinking of the
spiritual connection both of you have
more so the heart connection now let’s
talk about the eight secret that helped
me to stop attracting a coca-cola
relationship and that is to be more
transparent transparency is like where
you’re going to be like a crystal clear
glass of water and I’m gonna be able to
see right through you so can you see
through this person you are with or is
it looking really murky right now I love
my early journey I didn’t know the
person who I was with right and it
didn’t feel good it felt very
uncomfortable and I didn’t know I had a
choice to be with someone where I could
get more transparency with but it was
because I didn’t really know who I was I
wasn’t transparent with myself so what
helped me to stop attracting a
: was to become the energy I wanted to
attract within that person and it
happened and then I started to see wait
for it wait for it exactly what is it
exactly my reflection my reflection can
I get a hello there if you aren’t
transparent within yourself you are
gonna see a distorted image of yourself
in another person if you can see
yourself clearly your values what you
represent when you see someone you will
instantly recognize your reflection
number nine honesty
now honesty is difficult because let’s
face it none of us Saints all of us
including me has got a dirty little
secret we’re not exposing that’s fine
even a cat down the road has a dirty
secret when I talk of honesty it’s not
about being a saint it’s just about
being honest with yourself to say okay
is this all I’m worth most times in
relationships we’re not honest with
ourselves let alone the other person if
you’re not honest with yourself and your
feelings saying okay am I happy here
that’s all you got to say am I happy
here
forwards am i happy here if the answer’s
no what are you doing there
because you see you begin to move into
the water relationship when the answers
hell yes
like it’s got to be a hell yeah no I
don’t know you’re looking a bit shaky
baby okay that’s how I knew I was in a
coca-cola relationship because I wasn’t
even sure of what I felt
water relationship is where you
absolutely know you feel fantastic they
bring out the best in you and you bring
out the best in them and lastly number
ten is what I call appreciation what
helped me along my journey was to
realize this I was with a person who
wasn’t really appreciating me a hundred
percent
they weren’t really supporting me on my
mission here on planet Earth
okay and to stop attracting that kind of
relationship you only want to be around
a person who is going to be your
personal cheerleader and guess what you
are going to be their personal
cheerleader you’re going to be happy for
their success and upset are their
sadness and those are the people who you
should hold dear to your heart because
those are the people who only have a cat
about you I mean everybody else didn’t
care so that is the secret the water
relationship is surrounding yourself
with someone who really appreciates you
who doesn’t really want to change you or
wants to grow with you and then both of
you say feels so good to be a live baby
can I get a Hello hey we are out here is
so beautiful and windy and beautiful and
hot at the same time whoa breathing in
that good ass Prada have a beautiful day
infinitely deep once again stay well
you
you [Music]
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