peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again this is sexology water fire
hot cold yin-yang how to approach with
no props no mobile phones nothing just
you yourself what happens when you see
an attractive woman the type that might
cause you’d have a car accident what
happens when you see a handsome man do
you a just stand there and stare do you
be walk away
do you see go and talk to them or do you
D pull out your phone would you like to
ask the audience or phone a friend when
we talk about approaching someone we are
attracted to I always say first of all
love yourself a hundred percent because
the greatest relationship we can have is
with ourselves whenever we want
something from someone we feel anxious
we get that panic heart palpitations why
because we are focusing on taking
something instead of giving something so
when we see someone if we leave a
compliment it does wonders when we see
that we don’t have to have a big car to
be attractive we don’t have to have
those extra high heels no we have to see
that everything we need lies within us
the reason why many people experience
anxiety when approaching someone they
are attracted to is because there is
hierarchy we feel that someone is better
us so to solve this we have to see
everyone as equal so you see an
attractive woman a handsome man and then
you see another man or another woman who
is not so attractive but your heart
doesn’t beat when you see the ones who
aren’t so attractive so why is your
heart beating now the reason why your
heart is beating is because you feel
inferior to that person you have placed
them on a pedestal more so you think
that they have something you don’t have
so there is desperation it’s almost I
use the analogy of a million pounds or
dollars being on the road and you come
across it oh my gosh what happens if I
don’t get it right now so there is so
much pressure that we fall in the in
action and we need a prop to make us
feel comfortable so you’re reading a
newspaper but you don’t care about the
newspaper you just have it there so it
looks like you’re doing something we
have to see that when you see that you
are it’s everything you desire in that
person lies within yourself when you see
that person as your reflection instead
of a stranger then it becomes easy to
approach anyone because you accept
yourself a hundred percent you love
yourself a hundred percent and that’s
why when we talk of relationships it is
very easy to find the one you love
doing what you love because there is no
effort many of us we play with our phone
so it looks like we are doing something
but we fail to see all of this causes
more anxiety why because there is a
delay in the communication so when we
see whatever you focus on gross if we
are staring at someone we are attracted
to they grow bigger so they become a
giant and we become a dwarf so when we
just move into the radical action be
direct if you see someone you are
attracted to plunge yourself into the
moment jump right in and be yourself be
playful have fun and see that there is
nothing that anybody can give you you
don’t already have it’s all in you the
love that you seek externally is the
love that you are searching for
internally think about it many times we
say okay how come the bad boys get the
the way we feel we deserve to be treated
so a lot of the times if you are
yourself and someone does not appreciate
that it doesn’t matter because there are
plenty more fishes in the sea once we
can tap into the authenticity of who we
are it frees us and it allows for a
greater self-expression as your
self-expression increases your self-love
increases and you can talk to anybody a
lot of us we feel anxious because we are
not breathing deep from the base of our
spines we are not practicing meditation
which is absorbing ourselves into the
present moment the more we practice
these exercises we feel calm collected
and we feel that it’s ok we feel that we
are adequate we are good enough because
when we are not breathing deep from our
diaphragm our spine we feel we are short
of air so that’s why when you’re talking
to someone you’re running out of words
you don’t know what to say you get a
mind blank when you are calm the right
words come out of your mouth then many
of us we play games in relationships
when we are approaching someone in fact
you see someone you are attracted to and
you say excuse me do you know where the
toilet is yeah it’s over there
you see what you’ve just done you have
just ended a meaningful conversation
because what you really wanted to say is
that I love you and your face is amazing
more so you inspire me you see you
haven’t tried it but instead we thought
we would be smart and use a prop excuse
me does your mobile phone have Wi-Fi
connection around here oh yes it does
that’s it but when you ask a deeper
question you get a deeper response that
is the secret of how to approach with no
props you have to love yourself you have
to have trust in yourself which is a
hundred percent confidence
remember what have you got to lose
because if you don’t do it now you may
never see this person again that is the
difference between people that take the
risk to talk to someone their heart is
pushing them towards they see that we
live in a flash of light so we have to
do it we have to have fun and we have to
realize that it’s not that serious
because even if we do talk to them there
are so many levels of attraction the
physical attraction is only one level
there is the mental attraction
the emotional attraction and when you
taking and stripping off the layers of
someone’s ego their musk and you dive
into their heart and you share this
beautiful love energy you will have an
even greater more amazing expensive
experience here on planet earth instead
of searching for love become your own
attraction I remember when I was single
those days those cold nights but at the
same time I was working on becoming the
greatest version of myself but there was
a time where I did feel inadequate I
used to cut my hair a lot and just feel
that if I got the right shape that I
could attract any woman in the world and
what’s funny is that once I started
growing my hair once I started to leave
it to grow and accepting myself a
hundred percent it was at that moment I
started to form the most beautiful
relationships in the world that’s plural
and I just say relationships yes because
I’m even in a relationship with you
watching this your heart expands to
everyone resonating on the same
frequency as yourself many of us when we
rely on external objects to give us a
sense of worth we only deceive ourselves
when we can stop code evading that
self-love by going to the place where we
find our greatest power by eating
beautiful plant-based foods so we can
raise our frequency
it can give us a boost of energy then we
see that we don’t have to approach with
props we can just go as we are and you
put a smile on your face just to see
that you are worthy when we talk of
approaching someone you are attracted to
it’s all about love and respect we want
the respect from someone else instead of
searching for love and respect we must
start code evading love and respect
within ourselves because nobody can
respect you more than you respect
yourself and it doesn’t matter what
clothes you have what shoes you have on
confidence can’t be found in a book or
shop confidence is found in going on the
journey with them we have to see that we
have everything within us that is the
secret to approaching anyone in the
world many of us we feel frustrated when
we see someone and we can’t talk to them
that is the most uncomfortable feeling
in the world fear false evidence
appearing real anger emanates from fear
fear is separation separation is the
foundation of all our fears so when we
can start living more in our heart space
tuning into our emotions by reconnecting
back to nature you just breathe and it
becomes very easy to talk to anyone you
feel attracted to when we are living in
our mind we are judging we are analyzing
analysis is paralysis we have to absorb
ourself into the present moment and we
can only do this when we let go of
preconceived ideas of who people are
because once we start talking to them we
find out an entirely different story you
will be surprised I was we are here in
nature is the love season infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
once again this is sexology water fire
hot cold yin-yang how to approach with
no props no mobile phones nothing just
you yourself what happens when you see
an attractive woman the type that might
cause you’d have a car accident what
happens when you see a handsome man do
you a just stand there and stare do you
be walk away
do you see go and talk to them or do you
D pull out your phone would you like to
ask the audience or phone a friend when
we talk about approaching someone we are
attracted to I always say first of all
love yourself a hundred percent because
the greatest relationship we can have is
with ourselves whenever we want
something from someone we feel anxious
we get that panic heart palpitations why
because we are focusing on taking
something instead of giving something so
when we see someone if we leave a
compliment it does wonders when we see
that we don’t have to have a big car to
be attractive we don’t have to have
those extra high heels no we have to see
that everything we need lies within us
the reason why many people experience
anxiety when approaching someone they
are attracted to is because there is
hierarchy we feel that someone is better
us so to solve this we have to see
everyone as equal so you see an
attractive woman a handsome man and then
you see another man or another woman who
is not so attractive but your heart
doesn’t beat when you see the ones who
aren’t so attractive so why is your
heart beating now the reason why your
heart is beating is because you feel
inferior to that person you have placed
them on a pedestal more so you think
that they have something you don’t have
so there is desperation it’s almost I
use the analogy of a million pounds or
dollars being on the road and you come
across it oh my gosh what happens if I
don’t get it right now so there is so
much pressure that we fall in the in
action and we need a prop to make us
feel comfortable so you’re reading a
newspaper but you don’t care about the
newspaper you just have it there so it
looks like you’re doing something we
have to see that when you see that you
are it’s everything you desire in that
person lies within yourself when you see
that person as your reflection instead
of a stranger then it becomes easy to
approach anyone because you accept
yourself a hundred percent you love
yourself a hundred percent and that’s
why when we talk of relationships it is
very easy to find the one you love
doing what you love because there is no
effort many of us we play with our phone
so it looks like we are doing something
but we fail to see all of this causes
more anxiety why because there is a
delay in the communication so when we
see whatever you focus on gross if we
are staring at someone we are attracted
to they grow bigger so they become a
giant and we become a dwarf so when we
just move into the radical action be
direct if you see someone you are
attracted to plunge yourself into the
moment jump right in and be yourself be
playful have fun and see that there is
nothing that anybody can give you you
don’t already have it’s all in you the
love that you seek externally is the
love that you are searching for
internally think about it many times we
say okay how come the bad boys get the
the way we feel we deserve to be treated
so a lot of the times if you are
yourself and someone does not appreciate
that it doesn’t matter because there are
plenty more fishes in the sea once we
can tap into the authenticity of who we
are it frees us and it allows for a
greater self-expression as your
self-expression increases your self-love
increases and you can talk to anybody a
lot of us we feel anxious because we are
not breathing deep from the base of our
spines we are not practicing meditation
which is absorbing ourselves into the
present moment the more we practice
these exercises we feel calm collected
and we feel that it’s ok we feel that we
are adequate we are good enough because
when we are not breathing deep from our
diaphragm our spine we feel we are short
of air so that’s why when you’re talking
to someone you’re running out of words
you don’t know what to say you get a
mind blank when you are calm the right
words come out of your mouth then many
of us we play games in relationships
when we are approaching someone in fact
you see someone you are attracted to and
you say excuse me do you know where the
toilet is yeah it’s over there
you see what you’ve just done you have
just ended a meaningful conversation
because what you really wanted to say is
that I love you and your face is amazing
more so you inspire me you see you
haven’t tried it but instead we thought
we would be smart and use a prop excuse
me does your mobile phone have Wi-Fi
connection around here oh yes it does
that’s it but when you ask a deeper
question you get a deeper response that
is the secret of how to approach with no
props you have to love yourself you have
to have trust in yourself which is a
hundred percent confidence
remember what have you got to lose
because if you don’t do it now you may
never see this person again that is the
difference between people that take the
risk to talk to someone their heart is
pushing them towards they see that we
live in a flash of light so we have to
do it we have to have fun and we have to
realize that it’s not that serious
because even if we do talk to them there
are so many levels of attraction the
physical attraction is only one level
there is the mental attraction
the emotional attraction and when you
taking and stripping off the layers of
someone’s ego their musk and you dive
into their heart and you share this
beautiful love energy you will have an
even greater more amazing expensive
experience here on planet earth instead
of searching for love become your own
attraction I remember when I was single
those days those cold nights but at the
same time I was working on becoming the
greatest version of myself but there was
a time where I did feel inadequate I
used to cut my hair a lot and just feel
that if I got the right shape that I
could attract any woman in the world and
what’s funny is that once I started
growing my hair once I started to leave
it to grow and accepting myself a
hundred percent it was at that moment I
started to form the most beautiful
relationships in the world that’s plural
and I just say relationships yes because
I’m even in a relationship with you
watching this your heart expands to
everyone resonating on the same
frequency as yourself many of us when we
rely on external objects to give us a
sense of worth we only deceive ourselves
when we can stop code evading that
self-love by going to the place where we
find our greatest power by eating
beautiful plant-based foods so we can
raise our frequency
it can give us a boost of energy then we
see that we don’t have to approach with
props we can just go as we are and you
put a smile on your face just to see
that you are worthy when we talk of
approaching someone you are attracted to
it’s all about love and respect we want
the respect from someone else instead of
searching for love and respect we must
start code evading love and respect
within ourselves because nobody can
respect you more than you respect
yourself and it doesn’t matter what
clothes you have what shoes you have on
confidence can’t be found in a book or
shop confidence is found in going on the
journey with them we have to see that we
have everything within us that is the
secret to approaching anyone in the
world many of us we feel frustrated when
we see someone and we can’t talk to them
that is the most uncomfortable feeling
in the world fear false evidence
appearing real anger emanates from fear
fear is separation separation is the
foundation of all our fears so when we
can start living more in our heart space
tuning into our emotions by reconnecting
back to nature you just breathe and it
becomes very easy to talk to anyone you
feel attracted to when we are living in
our mind we are judging we are analyzing
analysis is paralysis we have to absorb
ourself into the present moment and we
can only do this when we let go of
preconceived ideas of who people are
because once we start talking to them we
find out an entirely different story you
will be surprised I was we are here in
nature is the love season infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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