peace and finit waters diving deep once
again we are out here basking in the Sun
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
baby how to approach men or women
without freezing up feeling shy this
goes out to the young lady who wrote in
to me saying that she kissed a guy on
the cheek and then ran off
like she asked how to stop feeling so
awkward in relationships and we an even
had breakfast yet can I get a Hello you
might be approaching someone you might
be dating them even married to them yet
still might feel really awkward get
really shy okay I’m gonna share with you
what’s helped me along my journey now it
starts with this this is not a wedding
and you aren’t giving a speech oh thank
goodness for that
yes I realize this every single day that
if you are nervous around people then
you have to put a question mark to say
okay why and many times it’s because we
actually feel we’re giving a wedding
speech right the universe gives us what
we are ready for at the exact time we
slow motion this side so be grateful
that you feel so awkward right now
because it’s showing you what you need
to work on
growing up I was nervous my whole life
right when you’re approaching people
even if you’re in a relationship you
don’t know what to say you messing up
words
oh she shouldn’t have said that you
already did too late but it’s okay
because you live to see another day and
you can now work on yourself even more
what’s helped me along my journey is to
realize this that we often
feeling awkward approaching someone
because we have created this story of
how they should be we finally get to
them realize it’s totally different from
the movies this is not a fairy tale now
your heart is racing okay so what I
always tell people is that stop grading
people have you ever noticed that you
only feel anxious around people that you
are really attracted to not people who
you want and this only is because you
you have graded that person you have
said okay you are a ten you are a nine
and that person over there is a three
that’s why you feel so calm and
comfortable around them if you see every
single being on planet Earth that’s the
same you stop grading them and you start
just saying actually I am worthy to be
in the presence of anyone in vice-versa
okay now seven day vegan challenge I’ve
always found that offering fruit can be
a great way to initiate conversation
right I had to throw fruit in there
right give them a mango food is where
conversation begins no food no
conversation many times we approach
someone or we’re in a relationship with
someone because we want something we
want to take something from them we
forget about what we have to give to
them what we can offer them right and
that’s when we that’s what we really
loosen up when we’re like okay I got so
much to give this person I don’t want to
take anything from you I just came just
to say hi right what’s next look at it
like this many times you’re around
someone and you’re staring at them for a
long time you are staring at this person
even if you’re in a relationship with
them that’s why you have these awkward
silences because you don’t know what to
say right you’re staring at them staring
at them and staring at them
that’s creepy stop staring at them right
the longer you stare at someone without
saying anything that’s probably why you
kissed him on the cheek and then ran off
because we’re always thinking we’re
always upstairs
to really have a more fluid dynamic
connection with someone instead of
staring at them start interacting with
them right at the moment you start
interacting with them you feel a lot
karma you feel more relaxed okay and a
great way to do this is to realize that
people are just people they’re probably
just the shy and feeling as awkward as
you right now so the least you could do
is well stop staring at them okay and
then I have the ten second rule I’ve
spoken about this before you’ve got 10
seconds to interact with this person to
talk to this person to realize that you
are worthy to be in their presence 10
seconds because if you leave it more
than 10 seconds chances are you’re never
gonna do it a lot of us we’re there for
like 30 minutes so all of this anxiety
is building up the tension is building
up the nerves are getting even Wilder
okay it’s gonna be a lot harder now and
that’s why you were probably waiting for
such a long time kissed him on the cheek
and then ran off because you didn’t know
what to do now
in our society a lot of women are told
that it’s the guy hat the guy has to do
everything literally everything that’s
not fair confident women out there are
very assertive too they make moves too
right so you gotta even let go of that
programming that you’ve been told that
guys have got to do all the work and
that’s why you probably nervous right
now
no no no everybody’s got to pull their
weight right but it starts by asking
deep questions like ask them what
happened to you or four years old whoa
you see that’s how you get to really
know someone once you open someone up
even if you’re in a relationship with
them they start to open up more to you
you open up more to them you feel more
relaxed you feel more at peace you start
being giggling and now you just like
both on the slinks how did that happen
what happens though when it’s really
tight and tense shallow shallow
questions right and that’s fine what I
always tell people is this keep it
simple but deep most people when they
meet people if they’re approaching a man
or a woman or even if you’re in a
relationship they give them their whole
background story you nobody got time for
that right you don’t have to do that but
you can talk about the here and now what
is actually happening I’ve got these
beautiful leaves flying around me right
and then you can go in with a deep
question right but you don’t have to
just go in with your background story
yeah work here I in this amount cuz
that’s just like oh I don’t need that
right now I’m just here trying to relax
on the beach trying to relax in nature
and then you’re telling me your whole
life story but you want to tell me that
in like two minutes cuz I gotta go right
now bye Oh
hold your horses we are right back here
okay what have you got to lose I found
this to be great help even along my
journey look most people you meet on
your soulmate news flash okay they’re
just coming into your life and then
they’re passing right out we think that
every single person we meet is our
soulmate or is the one don’t gas
yourself up that much right so you’ve
got nothing to lose it might work out it
could be the one it might not be so when
you develop that mindset instantly you
feel so much comma but you see it’s all
about what you do before you approach a
man or a woman or even if you are in a
relationship if there is a lot of
awkwardness that awkward silence how can
you be more comma before you get to that
point right
I remember growing up when I was 1516
approaching ladies I was always shy and
nervous and I realized it was because I
was already anxious before that point I
was confused lost didn’t know where I
was going in life right and that’s what
happened so whoa when you are getting
high off that good ass Prada when you
are exercising when you are feeling
better about yourself
you are gonna be feeling good enough to
be around anybody slow motion in this
side we often feel everybody is looking
at us the spotlight is on us and certain
times you have to realize this you want
the only one feeling awkward if you are
feeling awkward guess what you are
making me feel awkward so just by you
being karma you are helping that other
person to relax right realize people are
just people they probably took a dump
this morning just like you after eating
some apricots don’t worry about it right
but ask yourself ask yourself this am I
gonna let my nerves stop me from meeting
from maybe meeting the man of my dreams
young lady the woman of my dreams young
man right you got to take your chances
and that can only happen when you
develop her in a calm and say look I’ve
got nothing to lose they’re just a human
being like me I’m gonna take them off
the pedestal I’m gonna see them I level
and then I’m gonna say feel so good to
hey have a beautiful day you got nothing
to worry about
and it happens it’s natural getting high
off the good ass prana infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we are out here basking in the Sun
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
baby how to approach men or women
without freezing up feeling shy this
goes out to the young lady who wrote in
to me saying that she kissed a guy on
the cheek and then ran off
like she asked how to stop feeling so
awkward in relationships and we an even
had breakfast yet can I get a Hello you
might be approaching someone you might
be dating them even married to them yet
still might feel really awkward get
really shy okay I’m gonna share with you
what’s helped me along my journey now it
starts with this this is not a wedding
and you aren’t giving a speech oh thank
goodness for that
yes I realize this every single day that
if you are nervous around people then
you have to put a question mark to say
okay why and many times it’s because we
actually feel we’re giving a wedding
speech right the universe gives us what
we are ready for at the exact time we
slow motion this side so be grateful
that you feel so awkward right now
because it’s showing you what you need
to work on
growing up I was nervous my whole life
right when you’re approaching people
even if you’re in a relationship you
don’t know what to say you messing up
words
oh she shouldn’t have said that you
already did too late but it’s okay
because you live to see another day and
you can now work on yourself even more
what’s helped me along my journey is to
realize this that we often
feeling awkward approaching someone
because we have created this story of
how they should be we finally get to
them realize it’s totally different from
the movies this is not a fairy tale now
your heart is racing okay so what I
always tell people is that stop grading
people have you ever noticed that you
only feel anxious around people that you
are really attracted to not people who
you want and this only is because you
you have graded that person you have
said okay you are a ten you are a nine
and that person over there is a three
that’s why you feel so calm and
comfortable around them if you see every
single being on planet Earth that’s the
same you stop grading them and you start
just saying actually I am worthy to be
in the presence of anyone in vice-versa
okay now seven day vegan challenge I’ve
always found that offering fruit can be
a great way to initiate conversation
right I had to throw fruit in there
right give them a mango food is where
conversation begins no food no
conversation many times we approach
someone or we’re in a relationship with
someone because we want something we
want to take something from them we
forget about what we have to give to
them what we can offer them right and
that’s when we that’s what we really
loosen up when we’re like okay I got so
much to give this person I don’t want to
take anything from you I just came just
to say hi right what’s next look at it
like this many times you’re around
someone and you’re staring at them for a
long time you are staring at this person
even if you’re in a relationship with
them that’s why you have these awkward
silences because you don’t know what to
say right you’re staring at them staring
at them and staring at them
that’s creepy stop staring at them right
the longer you stare at someone without
saying anything that’s probably why you
kissed him on the cheek and then ran off
because we’re always thinking we’re
always upstairs
to really have a more fluid dynamic
connection with someone instead of
staring at them start interacting with
them right at the moment you start
interacting with them you feel a lot
karma you feel more relaxed okay and a
great way to do this is to realize that
people are just people they’re probably
just the shy and feeling as awkward as
you right now so the least you could do
is well stop staring at them okay and
then I have the ten second rule I’ve
spoken about this before you’ve got 10
seconds to interact with this person to
talk to this person to realize that you
are worthy to be in their presence 10
seconds because if you leave it more
than 10 seconds chances are you’re never
gonna do it a lot of us we’re there for
like 30 minutes so all of this anxiety
is building up the tension is building
up the nerves are getting even Wilder
okay it’s gonna be a lot harder now and
that’s why you were probably waiting for
such a long time kissed him on the cheek
and then ran off because you didn’t know
what to do now
in our society a lot of women are told
that it’s the guy hat the guy has to do
everything literally everything that’s
not fair confident women out there are
very assertive too they make moves too
right so you gotta even let go of that
programming that you’ve been told that
guys have got to do all the work and
that’s why you probably nervous right
now
no no no everybody’s got to pull their
weight right but it starts by asking
deep questions like ask them what
happened to you or four years old whoa
you see that’s how you get to really
know someone once you open someone up
even if you’re in a relationship with
them they start to open up more to you
you open up more to them you feel more
relaxed you feel more at peace you start
being giggling and now you just like
both on the slinks how did that happen
what happens though when it’s really
tight and tense shallow shallow
questions right and that’s fine what I
always tell people is this keep it
simple but deep most people when they
meet people if they’re approaching a man
or a woman or even if you’re in a
relationship they give them their whole
background story you nobody got time for
that right you don’t have to do that but
you can talk about the here and now what
is actually happening I’ve got these
beautiful leaves flying around me right
and then you can go in with a deep
question right but you don’t have to
just go in with your background story
yeah work here I in this amount cuz
that’s just like oh I don’t need that
right now I’m just here trying to relax
on the beach trying to relax in nature
and then you’re telling me your whole
life story but you want to tell me that
in like two minutes cuz I gotta go right
now bye Oh
hold your horses we are right back here
okay what have you got to lose I found
this to be great help even along my
journey look most people you meet on
your soulmate news flash okay they’re
just coming into your life and then
they’re passing right out we think that
every single person we meet is our
soulmate or is the one don’t gas
yourself up that much right so you’ve
got nothing to lose it might work out it
could be the one it might not be so when
you develop that mindset instantly you
feel so much comma but you see it’s all
about what you do before you approach a
man or a woman or even if you are in a
relationship if there is a lot of
awkwardness that awkward silence how can
you be more comma before you get to that
point right
I remember growing up when I was 1516
approaching ladies I was always shy and
nervous and I realized it was because I
was already anxious before that point I
was confused lost didn’t know where I
was going in life right and that’s what
happened so whoa when you are getting
high off that good ass Prada when you
are exercising when you are feeling
better about yourself
you are gonna be feeling good enough to
be around anybody slow motion in this
side we often feel everybody is looking
at us the spotlight is on us and certain
times you have to realize this you want
the only one feeling awkward if you are
feeling awkward guess what you are
making me feel awkward so just by you
being karma you are helping that other
person to relax right realize people are
just people they probably took a dump
this morning just like you after eating
some apricots don’t worry about it right
but ask yourself ask yourself this am I
gonna let my nerves stop me from meeting
from maybe meeting the man of my dreams
young lady the woman of my dreams young
man right you got to take your chances
and that can only happen when you
develop her in a calm and say look I’ve
got nothing to lose they’re just a human
being like me I’m gonna take them off
the pedestal I’m gonna see them I level
and then I’m gonna say feel so good to
hey have a beautiful day you got nothing
to worry about
and it happens it’s natural getting high
off the good ass prana infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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