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How to ACCEPT the Imperfect YOU 100% (Powerful!)


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we are out here in nature baby
beautiful deep divers can you hear those
birds all around us that means it’s
gonna be a good day but are you a
perfectionist you don’t feel good enough
are you trying too hard you got this
idea of having the perfect image how to
accept the imperfect you let’s just whoa
breathing in that good ass piranha baby
I’ve got a question that came in Ralph
how can I accept myself I’m a
perfectionist and it’s really getting to
me because I know I’m deeply flawed it’s
just that I have this tendency to start
showing the whole world like how perfect
my life is on the outside but on the
inside it’s a totally different story
Ralph and we even had breakfast yeah can
I get a hello
oh you’re not pulling up to people’s
cars and then taking selfies with them
right
Hey look at my rolls-royce right renting
out plain studios okay look let me see
focus you was helped me along my journey
I realize I am NOT perfect and I love
that it allows me to be human so many of
us in our society we are caught up we
are caught up with this idea of being
perfect whatever that is I have no idea
right this ideal to reach by society to
be loved by people but is it really you
so I’m on the beach the day before
yesterday
and what happens I’m talking to a good
friend and we’re like when you are
constantly striving to be perfect
you become sick and that’s what’s
happened in our society so many of us
are sick because we’re trying to be
perfect we’re trying to become something
which we are not so I realized screw
that I might as well just be myself
now the steps I took to get here were as
follows
I realized that perfectionism is a
recipe for disaster
because life is not perfect there are
cars going by this way there is a beach
that way it’s full of contrasts so I
realize this I can accept my imperfect
self by realizing that letting go of
perfectionism is good for my health
[Music]
slow motion inside
I used to be such a perfectionist I
couldn’t really accept myself always
tried to get it right I would lose sleep
couldn’t meet it was terrible even the
cat down the road was worried for me
ever since I stopped caring so much
about everything my life began to flow a
whole lot better I can actually sleep at
night I’m on time to be proud of your
mistakes are you afraid to show the
world your mistakes look the reason why
so many deep divers are still diving
deep with infinite waters is because
they know Ralph isn’t perfect you
remember you remember the time baby when
I was in my garden with a massive afro
right go back and watch my old videos so
people have seen my whole journey right
so I used to just where I used to just
where I used to just wear like a black
shirt for like years simple because I
realize a beautiful thing is never
perfect right just simple stuff now I
wear indigo every mistake is a stepping
stone to help you become your greatest
version mistake show us how not to do
something why would you want to hide
that yes so many of us are caught up in
showing the world on social media Hey
look at me what is it really you
so I’ve realized that hey show people
your mistakes in fact guess what it
actually inspires people a whole lot
more that’s how you accept the imperfect
you realize that when you are proud of
the lessons learned
coz each one of us has gone through some
crazy each one of us has a valuable
resource called experience and you can
pass on your wisdom to other people you
can say hey when I was 15 I did some
dumb
I’m imperfect there are no Saints on
planet earth the last one left in a
helicopter so that’s how you accept the
imperfect you start loving yourself okay
start loving yourself stop loving your
struggle how you came from nothing to
something I love my early days my humble
days that’s what I call them okay when I
when I was just starting out in my
garden you remember when I had the
massive afro right didn’t know what I
was doing
okay it was fun I was so innocent I’m
not innocent anymore right be in love
with your struggle that’s how you accept
the imperfect you realize everyone you
meet has gone through something which
has changed them forever
nobody is as perfect as they appear even
on social media even all of those
photoshopped images you see on Instagram
and Facebook nobody lives like that okay
behind the scenes people are totally
different how do I know this because
they tell me all their problems and
consultations that’s another story so I
start to realize that hey
no one has it all figured out I
definitely don’t okay so I realize it’s
okay to go through the struggle and show
people that hey I make mistakes I’m
still learning every single day I’m
still evolving but even despite that I
still made it out right I still made it
out of that tight condition and I’m
pulled and I pulled through right that’s
how you accept the imperfect you you
took the worst thing then turned it into
the best thing and now you’re in nature
right seven day vegan challenge now I
love pineapple juice is full of vitamin
C power elf your life is so perfect
you’re just drinking pineapple juice no
I used to drink coca-cola all day Fanta
sprite fizzy drink soda
it was terrible my teeth I thought they
were gonna run away right I used to eat
hamburgers and potato chips and just
terrible food full of grease yeah lots
of grease I used to eat that stuff right
sugary foods right I was no Satan when
when it came to eating I was no saint
right that’s how you accept the
imperfect you you
reflect on how bad you used to eat and
then you share that wisdom with other
people and you’re like hey you don’t
want to make the mistakes I made okay
but you see I’ve changed my life for the
better because now I’m stuffing my mouth
full of blueberries full of vitamin C
okay but I’m showing you I didn’t no way
just to eat blueberries just being
honest now how to accept the imperfect
cue ladies do you sometimes judge every
little part of your body it’s not good
enough fellas do you do the same thing
I’ve realized this you have to love one
floor at a time slow motion this side
but Ralph you seem so perfect do you
have any flaws Ralph is there something
you don’t like about yourself well for a
long time I didn’t like myself I used to
stare in the mirror at school and think
gosh I don’t want to be myself I want to
be someone else okay so I had to learn
to fall in that fall in love or rise in
love baby that’s better with the image I
saw in the mirror now I absolutely love
myself because I’ve learned to realize
my flaws are what make me I’m happy with
my what I call perfect imperfections
look at it like this deep divers that
toe of yours which sticks out a bit
funny it gives you a bit of character
the universe was like hey I want to make
every single human being totally
different so let me let me do a little
experiment let me make like cuff a
birthmark on her butt and make his ears
a bit big and it’s so fun right
we aren’t this body we are the
primordial life force energy beneath him
no slow motion so I’ve realized I’m not
just saying okay I’m just this body I’m
so much more than that
how can your energy be flawed think
about that
okay and what you think is flawed in you
there is someone who is absolutely
guaranteed gonna love it they’re gonna
be like can I massage your feet I don’t
like my feet don’t be like can I massage
it right I’m a Pisces I’m connected to
my feet look I’ve realized this that you
have to surround yourself with people
who don’t judge you for being different
right now I’m near Malibu California
down that way you have Venice Beach and
I am always in Venice a lot of the times
and people are just doing whatever they
want and it’s so freeing it’s so
liberating that’s how you accept the
imperfect you when I’m in the UK I’m in
Camden Town a lot okay Camden is
fantastic a lot of people with tattoos
they’re like Ralph you want to get one
I’m like if I get one I’m gonna get
infinite waters right on my butt so
that’s how you accept the imperfect you
hang around people who love your witness
who love when you talk nonsense to them
that’s what you call real friendship and
they’re not bothered by it
how to accept the imperfect you hand
around people how about this deep divers
hang around people who are less
fortunate than you right so I complain
sometimes a lot I’m no saint and then
I’m like wait a minute
I’ve lived in so many different
countries I’ve lived in Sierra Leone for
one year I’ve lived in Brazil I’ve lived
in so many different European countries
I’ve seen people with a lot of money and
people with nothing so I realized when
I’m around people who have less than me
it allows me to say actually let me
throw perfectionism out of the window
I’m thinking of perfectionism right now
some people are just thinking about how
to survive how about that right some
people are looking for their next meal
okay some people haven’t even got a roof
over their head
so to accept the imperfect you realize
once again life is not perfect
the earth has many problems and you are
also going to have many problems but the
secret is to become an alchemist and
love your flaws so now they love you
back I’ve realized this that you have to
realize it’s never gonna be good enough
I used to make videos and think cut cut
now I do videos in one take one take I’m
like if a helicopter comes up let it
come if the cat down the road comes into
the frame let it come whatever happens
happens
I’m releasing a resistance baby that’s
how I accept the imperfect me I’m like
it’s never gonna be good enough heard
that song by lee linkin park you tried
so hard but in the end it doesn’t even
matter
right so I’ve realized that no matter
how hard you try sometimes you’re not
gonna be satisfied so be content with
what you have and that’s how you accept
the imperfect you I’ve learned this
along my journey deep divers you have to
get real when you are truly real with
yourself you’re like okay I get it if
I’m honest with myself what is
perfection am I really trying to love
myself or am I really trying to fit in
to ditch perfection to accept the
imperfect you stop trying to fit in
don’t you realize I work in Photoshop
too I can manipulate you and you can
look like Cinderella ladies just
airbrush right they don’t even look like
that they don’t even look like they
don’t even look like that in the
magazines I know cuz I did it for them
I’m bad like that right they don’t even
look like that we spent five hours on
that picture love you without makeup
ladies love you fellows without big
muscles except the imperfect Q how about
this can you imagine a world where we
never saw people’s bodies and we only
saw their energy how about how about
loving yourself for everything that’s
not physical about yourself that’s how
you accept being perfect being perfect
to you that’s how I accept being perfect
me I’m like okay I may not have the
biggest muscles in the world but at
least I can say this so good to be a
and that’s how to accept the imperfect
you have a beautiful day deep divers
ditch perfection throw it out of the
window who needs it
we don’t need it we don’t need it we
don’t need it we’re just whoa breathing
in that good a spur on a baby
realize you are good enough have a
beautiful day
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you you
don’t have to be perfect to have fun
just be you [Music]

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