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How Not To Be Perfect


he’s infinite waters diving deep once
again here we are in nature how not to
be perfect are you a perfectionist it’s
never enough even if I gave you the
whole world you will never be satisfied
perfection is great because it helps us
to strive for the best it helps us to
aim higher and to tap into our infinite
potential however many people who are
perfectionists to the extreme it can
actually hinder them which is irony in
the long run so we have to have that
balance of healthy perfectionism
perfectionism can be a curse if we’re
not careful perfectionism can drive us
crazy and up the wall it can leave many
of us pulling out our hair and it can
turn into a great obsession I’m a
self-confessed perfectionist I was
nowadays I let everything flow because I
realize being carefree is being
stress-free a plane just flew above me I
should have stopped the video to
rerecord but forget about it because
we’re not gonna be a perfection miss
today no some signs you may be a
perfectionist you’re spending hours and
hours on a project and it’s not complete
and you keep spending more time and more
time and more time and it’s draining
your energy and another sign you’re not
satisfied never satisfied it doesn’t
matter how much time you spend on a
project and as well a lot of
perfectionists they always want to put
additional things into whatever they’re
doing and they over clutter things and a
lot of this can drive us bonkers in the
process because we feel no matter how
hard we try it’s just not good enough
what I found on my journey is that there
are five ways how not to be perfect
perfect coming from the Latin perfectas
meaning complete so number one let go of
expectations remember you can’t please
everyone
most of our actions emanate from the
desire to please other people instead of
doing it from our heart we’re striving
to be liked by everyone to be loved by
everyone to be accepted by everyone you
have to accept yourself 100% you have to
love yourself 100% and that is how not
to be perfect and you will feel so much
more freer lighter happier overall how
you do something is far more important
than what you do how do you feel when
you are doing something are you stressed
are you anxious
are you in love with what you’re doing
that is how not to be perfect
the secret is enjoying the process as
opposed to the destination
because we find our true power within
the moment instead of the future most of
us are projecting into the future we
want to please people we want to live up
to their value system and therefore we
will never be satisfied because we can
never please the entire world if you can
show me the secret we have to please
ourselves we have to love ourselves
because everything is based on how we
see the world that is the only thing
that matters the perception we have of
ourselves is greater than the perception
other people have of us let go
stop being perfect because everything is
perfect that’s the great paradox right
there remember it’s okay to be weird to
be bizarre to be eccentric this is how
not to be perfect where people have more
fun whenever you are trying to fit in
when you are attempting to be perfect
all the time
we’re people we are all weird once you
see this and you see that nobody is
seeing reality in the same way that
allows you to not be perfect and embrace
who you are a hundred percent to see
that you are having a unique experience
everyone came here for a different life
purpose for a different journey so we
have to embrace our journey and start
smiling once again number two this is a
big one we have to remember that
mistakes helped us grow many people who
are so in their minds I have to be
perfect at everything I do
don’t want to make any mistakes
forgetting that it’s our mistakes which
help us grow and help us evolve to a
higher level
number three less is more
this is how not to be perfect see a lot
of times when we’re doing things we feel
adding things will help us instead when
we take things out of certain things
we’re doing we see everything is fine
when we’re not attempting always to fill
in the space all the time when we’re not
always trying to think too hard when we
let everything flow it’s all about
tapping into our infinite flow and less
is more you feel it opens you up when
you can just see if it’s not required if
it’s not necessary forget about it we
don’t have to give ourselves a headache
because relaxation is what we are stress
is what we think we should be number
four set yourself a time limit
myself being a graphic designer as well
as a psychologist and a VFX artist
whenever I’m in After Effects or
Photoshop I’m spending hours and hours
on something this was years ago and I
realized I’m going crazy so a great way
I found how not to be perfect is if I’m
doing a project for any client I’m only
gonna spend a certain amount of time on
it I’m gonna give myself a one-hour
deadline and if I don’t finish it too
bad and when you do that you can
actually realize that what you think is
not perfect in essence is perfect that’s
a great paradox everything is perfect we
have to allow ourselves the expression
of freedom this is where we see that
everything is beautiful the way it is
yes perfection helps us Excel to a
greater degree we have to embrace it but
we have to know where to draw the line
observe nature that is the secret of how
everything in nature moves in a band
flow nature is resourceful in essence
nature is the Grand Alchemist and it
shows us more and more how not to be
perfect every single day because nature
always takes a shortcut if you’ve ever
seen a waterfall or how water flows down
a river it’s effortless
therefore it uses the smallest amount of
energy possible nature does not waste
anything so a lot of us when we are
striving for perfection we have to ask
ourselves what are the trade-offs how
much energy am I using
to achieve this desired outcome is it
worth in the long run because when we
talk about how not to be perfect we have
to see most of us we spend all our
energy on something when in essence we
can actually separate our energy by
doing different things instead of
spending five hours on something you can
half it and spend your time on something
else go to the beach to go for a dance
have free time is beautiful to push
ourselves to the limits because we are
infinite beings anything is possible but
we have to ask ourselves why are we
doing what we are doing how will this
impact my life more so how will it
impact someone else’s life that is how
not to be perfect because many of the
things we wrap our minds in doing what
becomes of them I remember doing
projects silly things and it was a waste
of time and some things which I didn’t
spend a lot of time but I had a lot of
passion for that impacted more people
and it helped me grow so when we talk of
how not to be perfect we have to see
that spending a lot of time on something
does not necessarily mean it will be
better
no remember to have fun on this life
experience you don’t have to be perfect
except yourself
doesn’t matter what your body is like
once you love yourself and realize that
we have to get back into divine
alignment we have to know thyselves we
have to love ourselves and we have to
not take ourselves so seriously because
that’s why so many of us
we become perfectionists because we
always are judging ourselves instead of
tapping into the flow
the irony of perfectionism to the
extreme is that it prevents us from
being our best because we’re always
worried about the outcome instead of
how not to be perfect do not
procrastinate many of us who are caught
up in procrastination we’re always
waiting for the perfect moment and guess
what it never comes I found this on my
journey every moment is perfect because
in essence there is only now
let go embrace what you think are your
flaws
many people say I don’t look good enough
they’re not happy about their appearance
when you say that to yourself you will
never be satisfied when you say the
source of life the Creator whatever you
believe in created me in a beautiful way
you begin to let go of perfection you
see that the images you’re being shown
on TV are they really a true
representation of beauty because beauty
is in the eye of the beholder
everything is based on interpretation
nobody is seeing things in the same way
and that goes back to when we see how
you can’t please everyone no two people
are seeing things in the same way
therefore if you create something and
someone doesn’t like it I guarantee you
someone else will love it
because that’s how it goes in the
universe some people hate it some people
love it let go have a dance around let
go of fear that is how not to be perfect
fear is false evidence appearing real to
not be perfect you need balls of steel
if you’re a man if you’re a woman you
also need balls of steel you have to go
for it become fear less that is how to
not be perfect it does not matter what
other people think there is nothing
wrong with striving for perfection
because in this action in this moment we
can actually reach a higher level
however when it takes over our lives it
can become a problem in essence it can
actually stunt our growth and
development we’re out here not being
perfect just enjoying the moment is
beautiful
breathe let go
forget perfection throw it out of the
window because whatever we do is perfect
nature is perfect our flaws are perfect
stay being the best you can be by
letting go by surrendering to your
authenticity enjoy life live in the
moment because there is only now do it
now go for it that moment you’re
dreaming off may not come infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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