‘Gosh You’ve Changed’ what to do when people say that to you

peas and Finnick waters diving deep once
again gosh you’ve changed what to do
when people say that to you we’ve got a
questioning from someone asking how to
deal with people who say you’ve changed
it’s now missing with their mind they’re
self-conscious even though they say
they’re in their authenticity they don’t
wanna have to go around explaining
themselves to everyone any advice
let me share with you what’s helped me
along my journey go back and watch my
earlier videos I don’t look the same no
I don’t talk the same no back then I
wasn’t saying can I get a Hello when
people say you’ve changed take it as a
compliment
because they are right we are all
changing life is about change
look the metamorphosis we go through
things we become stronger we grow you’ve
probably gone to you nieces and nephews
house and you remember them when they
were like four five and now they’re 18
they’re taller than you they have
changed you’ve changed damn right I’ve
changed I’m taller than you what are you
gonna do about it
change is the only constant in the
universe but you have to ask yourself
what intent are they coming with what is
their true intention behind the famous
you’ve changed
is it coming from a positive place are
they trying to raise you up or are they
trying to bring you down I say when you
first start nobody cares when they see
you growing they’re like can we hang out
or you’ve changed goodness
you never used to be like this what
happened to you and that’s an old
psychological trick because many people
who say that they want to control you
you see we fear change in other people
when we haven’t seen the change within
ourselves here we’re like crabs in a
bucket sometimes people are trying to
pull you down because you’re rising up
you go in places you’re blossoming
you’re blooming what can you do about
that
at the same time when you show
compassion you realize many times it’s
not personal because your true friends
the people who have always been close to
you they know of course you’ve changed
they were with you through the change
but people strangers people who you
never really had a deep connection with
to begin with they were just spectators
in your life they say you’ve changed
sometimes it can come off as really
judgmental but you see true friends
don’t judge you they support you they
listen to you they’re there for you in
the most difficult times at the same
time listen because
there could still be a message in there
for you to hear ask yourself okay
they have just told me I’ve changed how
do I feel about that is your blood
beginning to boil are you feeling very
defensive her angry that’s okay
because when you see how you feel
internally you can now see what they are
stirring up in you so thank them because
they are messengers to help you become
your greatest version we are constantly
being tested from people all around us
but you have to ask yourself once again
am I gonna let it stop me we are energy
having a human experience at our core we
don’t change but through experiences we
do every single moment we’re getting a
new experience it’s beautiful isn’t it
many times though people have this
picture of us what I call the
freeze-frame it’s got nothing to do with
us
sorry about that sometimes people
picture you based on an image they have
created within their minds what happens
when you move away from that they say
gosh you’ve changed because you are now
breaking down their belief system so you
have to remind yourself that you can’t
please everyone and you can’t take
everything personally all you can do is
take a hundred percent responsibility
for your internal condition show
compassion
empathize but don’t let it drain you the
reason why showing compassion is so
important is because many people who are
coming at you maybe in a negative way
really are hurting deep within you can’t
fight fire with fire
you can’t fight negativity with
negativity you’ve got to rise up higher
than that because if you fall into the
booby trap you see the universe is
constantly testing us through people
they’re being sent into our lives and
sometimes people just say hmm what can I
do to press your buttons I know you’ve
changed used to be so kind once used to
give me all your money
now you’re really awkward about them do
you have a sense of humor me I don’t
take myself seriously why because I know
that life is about enjoying yourself
I’ve been doing this for a long time so
I’ve met all kinds of creatures
beautiful people I connect with every
single day
thank you love you guys some people say
you’ve changed Ralph
you’ve changed infinite waters I say
thank you so have you haven’t we all
that’s what we’re here for right because
whenever you stop whenever you’re
stagnant in the same position how can
growth take place change is the key
catalyst to becoming our greatest
versions do you know how thankful I am
I’ve changed
a lot of us we don’t remember where we
came from good gracious we don’t even
want to remember those days cold nights
no running water
well there was you just didn’t return it
properly but now look at you you’re
shining you’ve got so much energy I’ve
changed all the time where I had very
low confidence levels about 10 years ago
why because I wasn’t eating right my
diet wasn’t right I didn’t see myself
with unconditional positive regard but
you see when you know thyself
when you develop supreme confidence
which means to trust yourself a hundred
percent I guess what you’re gonna change
you are gonna go through the
metamorphosis we’re gonna go so far that
people won’t even recognize you you
won’t even recognize yourself because we
are constantly changing change is
evolution remind yourself what people
say about you is not your business it’s
got nothing to do with you it’s got
everything to do with them how they
perceive you you should be more
concerned with how you see yourself
because as long as you are upset with
what someone has said gosh you’ve
changed what happened to you now
what happens you now become doubtful
you don’t trust yourself you lose
balance energy motivation clarity but
you see when you realize it’s all a game
I can come to you right now and say
you’ve changed I don’t like that but
what if I say you’ve changed continue
changing can you see my intention there
so the key thing is to see where
people’s intention is you’ve changed
could be the most amazing compliment in
the world
be thankful but if people are acting
like crabs in a bucket wait for me then
you have to create a positive energetic
boundary become mindful become conscious
of who you are spending your time with I
only surround myself with movers and
shakers elevators and people that are
going places the reason why I’ve
connected with so many amazing people
around the world is because well I just
love them so much because whenever you
are trying to uplift people you don’t
try you are uplifting people what
happens you create a reciprocal
relationship you create a positive space
many people write to me every single day
thousands of people saying that they’ve
gone off to this school to study this
they’ve become an architect just from
watching some of my videos about
becoming the greatest version of you
self for me I say gosh
you’ve changed well done because I can
see them growing just like I’m growing
I’m evolving I’m always looking for
something new something fresh something
exciting so just remind yourself that
change is always a wonderful thing but
never allow the behavior of others to
disturb your inner peace the power lies
within yourself to govern your internal
condition surround yourself with amazing
people have fun enjoy nature but most of
all stay well stay healthy we are here infinite waters