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Can’t We Just Both Get Along—Relationships Gone Wild…Sexology!


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again sexology water fire hot cold yin
yang and we’re out with a special guest
Shirou and house I’m good I’m good and
relationships I’ve been doing psychology
for so long and we need feminine energy
to tell us what women really want can’t
we both get along why do you think so
many men and women just can’t get along
that’s a really good question I think a
lot of people at some point we have to
contemplate the answer why can’t we get
along and I think that the sense of
disharmony or disconnect that men and
women have in relationships is really a
reflection to a lot of disharmony that’s
taking place on a lot of other different
levels
I think also it has to do with the fact
that we have accumulated so much trauma
and pain and that is what has shaped our
perception of the so called I mean even
our language we say the opposite we’re
cementery yeah if I proceeded against
each other from the very beginning even
through our language saying the opposite
sex
compliment that and I think a lot of it
is really it is beyond what we even have
experience in our life science
generation knowledge it’s been
accumulated even some of what we think
of as cast on wisdom from generation to
generation I think sometimes further
contributes to that miss understanding
we have of one another
it’s like as women even like some
communities of societies like the elder
one anything this is how you deal with
the man this is how you win the heart of
the road this is how you make a man stay
away from you a lot of it a lot of that
has come from a place of like really
seeing the complimentary sex as it’s
like different entity that we need
figure out right because I’ve been doing
sexology for so long and it’s just one
big thing so many women say their wounds
they have so much energy they’re holding
a lot of past energies from
relationships even in my own
relationships I’ve been in I realize
that even for a lot of men as well
there’s so much repression and how do
you think a lot of us can just free
ourselves from that lots of energy and
that rigidness so many people have in
relationships well in my own personal
experience why can’t we just get it’s
like I forget audition comes up I think
it’s it’s um I’ve I mean I’ve seen in my
own personal journey and just speaking
and looking at other women we tend to
hold a lot of tension in our womb even
like whenever we feel angry or sad we
feel that part of us
like literally tense it tenses up and we
hold in a lot of that anger and
sometimes I think it’s not even it’s not
just about not speaking out or
expressing what’s on your mind but
sometimes we even like that self
conversation you know just talking to
ourselves just processing people
we think if we just rant about it or if
we just talk then it’s out of our system
do you think that diet has a part to
play in terms of women’s health men’s
health men talk about sexuality and
sexuality in terms of just the
interaction are we male and female of
course diet is a very important aspect
of it how we how we dress our lifestyle
I mean it’s very fast-paced work
oriented lifestyle does not account for
the fact that women need certain time
exactly and diet lifestyle here career
driven attitude in a lot of different
societies that does not account the fact
that women and men need that time to
like decompress online
we go on accumulating a lot in the class
the benefit on me even just beyond the
physical level of like different
because so many of us we think
everything is just 3d I can’t see and
touch it then it doesn’t exist yeah and
I feel a lot of women they have this
kind of inner knowing in their intuition
yes but also we disconnected from that
in a way so it’s sort of like it’s it is
kind it’s trying to communicate some
your authority but we often try and
suppress it we think and also the
society how we’ve been socialized is
like we don’t don’t say I feel like I
feel this don’t really I think say I
think that I know so I believe but
feeling really it is something that I’m
sex is dirty right sex is like if you
have your menstrual cycle well even if
men who are masturbating when they grown
up these things are seen as kind of
filthy and dirty we don’t talk about
them on the tables yeah so do you feel
when you look at women’s menstrual cycle
do you feel that the movement has a part
to play and what significance do you
think it of course and I see it I mean
naturally is from I I don’t I don’t have
a wound
that’s why people when they say do
sexology videos on the wound this is
Evans automail yeah um well I think it’s
of course I mean it goes in in sync with
the cycle of the Moon and and everything
in nature but when we disconnect or when
we’re living in a sense of disharmony
then we lose touch with that and we
start to also see it as something that’s
dreadful and it’s it’s stopping me from
being active and
and I have this zero pain and cramping
and what do I do and we’ve you know and
of course conventional medicine has
added another layer of like okay well
this is PMS you know this is why you’re
acting this way you’re feeling this way
your emotions your hormones rather than
seeing at the time of cleansing and
regeneration and really shedding of the
old
I spoke to a lot of different women who
say think of every cycle you have as as
this opportunity or chance where one
plot step to Deb and the old enough
what doesn’t serve you is leaving your
body it’s really
it’s time to cleanse and regenerate and
it’s all a matter of perspective if you
look if you start to look at it with
shame and things like oh this is
dreadful then even I think you start to
change things on a cellular level where
you know you’re not manifesting because
in mailing in male and female
relationships one thing I see is that
we’re being sold false images of what
women are of what males are you have
these magazines women all glamorous
airbrushed and a lot of them you’re
flicking through the pages in your
lights no no woman looks like that you
know how do you feel like so many women
I’ve come into contact with they always
feel pressure I’ve got to put on makeup
I’ve got to be this kind of woman with
no flaws and a lot of guys also have
really the wrong impression of a lot of
grooming they meet they feel they’re
gonna be that is Playboy dinner and it
and I think sometimes we really
underestimate the significance of what
happens when we feed our senses to
certain images like when we feed our
eyes with constantly images that don’t
really match up with with the
so much it builds up this pressure and
tension between men and women so my own
personal experience and I post a lot of
women what the women want – you got so
people wouldn’t know what do women want
the women want the guy with the big
muscles and the vans and then because
people always say the nice guy is always
free plus you know and it’s always the
bad boys who get the hottest women and
and women are attracted to treat the
mean keeping keen mentality I think I
mean a lot of those expression when
saying really like further add to that
whole mystery and also I know a lot of
women are looking for some I think as
men and women were all yearning for the
same things ultimately and looking for
it all so I um what is the same thing a
sense of harmony and getting along I
mean of course there’s a lot of women
say they always end up with the same guy
and they they just wanna they don’t know
why they keep ending up it is about this
continuous sorry again I think as women
we this happen I’m moved often and for
men as well is because whenever we leave
a relationship we
with all these realizations about the
relationship but it really some a lot of
them has very little to do with us and
more to do with the other person you
know like we come out of a relationship
and say yeah it didn’t work out the
person was a jerk insensitive
cheated with a view Civ this is that I
think the relationship with ourselves
first
yes exactly person former you got your
own ring Mary you’re so fast yeah and
that’s the thing I think if we if we
always come up come up with realizations
about the other person but not so much a
sense of inner reflection and realizing
why we attracted this in the first place
and I know a lot of women struggle with
that notion if you say if you say oh you
attracted this a lot of women may feel
very hurt or defensive and say what do
you mean I attracted a jerk does that
mean that I that I’m that way that I’m
insensitive and that that is not what it
means
it it really what is what it is I see
even painful abusive relationships as an
opportunity for growth
so you attract the person and they’re
mirroring to you something within your
size it could be even a sense of lack of
self-love or not knowing how much you
really work and so that person is just
sort of playing it under a magnifying
right well there’s just so much we can
go on and on but it’s beautiful this is
the family and energy because I’m always
doing sexology and this is no complaints
this is the feminist energy
room priestess all of these yeah this is
how it is infinite waters beautiful
Shireen diving deep once again

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