peace and finis waters diving deep once
again this is sexology water fire hot
cold yin yang where are they how to find
a good woman how to find a good man they
are all taken over fifty percent of the
emails I receive are based around
relationships and all of us we find
ourselves in three categories we are
either single we are in a relationship
all we have just ended a relationship
and I have been in all three of these
categories and what’s helped me along my
journey if we go to the first one being
single many of us being single is a
conscious choice because it allows us to
work on ourselves it allows us to become
the greatest versions of ourselves and
it is beautiful when you see people who
are single and they are smiling you
wonder wow do they have someone keeping
them warm at night however many of us
who are single we are searching for
someone
till desperation we are on sites online
dating sites we are looking at people’s
profiles oh I love your face we are
buying the latest clothes would all of
this help us get the one we truly love
what I found along my journey is that
when I was single the greatest thing I
learned was that you have to work on
yourself a hundred percent you find the
one you love doing what you love in
relationships once we see we attract
what we are as we change the types of
people we meet
also changes how do I find a good man
how do I find a good woman I want I want
the universe does not give us what we
want the universe gives us what we are
once we remember this we relax because
we have to ask ourselves does the shoe
fit it does the shoe fit many of us we
see someone and we do everything we can
to make them notice us
but there is nothing you can do or say
that will bring someone closer to you
because everything is based on vibration
it doesn’t matter how many cars you have
or if you are a millionaire the mind
might care but the heart doesn’t care
because the heart only wants what it is
resonating with and that is why we have
to realize that we have to embrace
ourselves we have to realize the
greatest relationship we can have is
with ourselves and once we go into our
passion naturally we become a magnet of
attraction because in essence we become
the source of our own happiness the
second stage is we get into a
relationship so now we have found
someone who is resonating on the same
frequency as us I talk off the water
relationship which is where we develop
transparency and intimacy with each
other where we realize that we share
similar passions we share a similar
lifestyle but more so it is where we
allow other people to become the
greatest versions of themselves we don’t
force people to become
like us that is what I call the
coca-cola relationship where it becomes
toxic the water relationship is all
about space before during and after how
do we know she’s the one or he’s the one
I found that it’s about moving past mind
based connection into a heart based
connection we have to feel it in our
core we have to become intimate with our
hospice because once we can close our
eyes and still be in love with this
person then it’s real we have to realize
many of us will on these social network
sites and we’re searching for our future
partner but a lot of us were just on the
surface to really dive deep and get
intimate we have to ask the big
questions what music do you like what is
your belief system the mindset what kind
of food do you like because food and
love go together have you heard that
song there is so much expansion that can
happen just through that connection
alone also we have to realize that it is
when we see that we can grow with this
person because relationships are based
on expansion that is why many people
will leave a relationship because there
is nowhere else to go the expansion is
finished it’s done so we always have to
be growing we have to be watering the
plant planting those seeds that we can
harvest when the time is ready five
principles to a great relationship which
has helped me along my journey
communication
we have to bear our emotions on our
sleeves we have to talk to the person we
are with you don’t hear people ending
their relationship saying that we had
the most wonderful conversations all the
time some people do but a lot of the
times it is because there is a
communication breakdown we have to
listen as well because only once we
listen can we see where the other person
is coming from many of us were
distracted we don’t even have time for
ourselves how can we have time for
someone else
we don’t even love ourselves how can we
love someone else
number two is appreciation if you have a
beautiful partner right now stand up
because you are fortunate that they have
come into your life at this amazing
moment in history that you can share and
you can both help each other along the
journey but we have to ask ourselves
what are we doing to make that person
still feel special are we writing
letters are we making them beautiful
food we have to make that effort we have
to put our words into action passion do
we still feel the same a lot of the time
is a spark you can die out so we have to
rekindle the fire can you remember the
first time you met there were
butterflies in your stomach you had this
surge of energy
your face was glimmering because you are
entering the unknown no expectations
okay some of us we have big expectations
but there was a new chapter a new
opening a new beginning so therefore we
have to reinvent our relation
ships we have to shed our skin trust can
we trust the person we are with because
if there is no trust there is no
relationship there is no expansion
because Trust is about opening up you
can look at that woman in the streets
you can look at that man no problem
because there is no fear you don’t trust
someone the moment you are prisoner to
your own fear
so as we begin to love ourselves Trust
becomes our second nature and the last
principle is having fun once we can make
each other love the relationship can
last forever we have to become our own
entertainment you don’t have to go to
the movies you can make your own film
I’m not talking about a sex tape you can
do that too for private viewing we have
to begin to laugh keep alive the inner
child within us and we find our
relationships blossom the moment we
begin not taking things so seriously not
controlling the situation but breathing
and becoming one with each other
relationships are like a wave they are
dynamic they are contracting they are
expanding so we have to realize that it
takes work being in a relationship we
have to prepare ourselves for hard times
for challenging situations and that is
why it is so beautiful to develop total
body awareness breathing right deep from
our diaphragm from the base of our
spines eating right to cultivate a
beautiful equilibrium within ourselves
because
we have to see that many of us the
reason why our relationships become
shaky is because relationships are huge
mirrors they show us our darkest shadow
or our brightest light therefore
everyone in a relationship we are with
is a teacher so we have to thank them
but at times they are showing us things
we don’t want to look at we’ve never
taken the time to look at we have to
remind ourselves also that nobody
belongs to us many of us we have this
ownership attitude you are mine know
along my journey once I realize this
they freed me because I said you can
talk to anybody you want love is the
greatest universal truth we have to let
love guide us not fear once we can see
steps we are climbing the ladder to
ultimately learn more about ourselves
that is why it is so amazing to be in a
relationship we have to ask ourselves
are we focusing on what we want or are
we focusing on what we fear are we
looking at the negatives of a
relationship or are we focusing on the
positives because what you focus on
grows and the last stage is breaking up
the relationship is coming to an end how
do we deal with this your heart feels
crushed but wait a minute we have to ask
ourselves what words are we using to
describe our current state because it’s
all our mindset if you say my heart is
broken
you have to be very careful because
words are thoughts and thoughts turn off
or on the biochemistry within our body
that is why a lot of people suffer from
depression once they have left a
turbulent relationship a lot my journey
parting ways what I’ve found which is
changed my life forever is that there
are other versions of ourselves out
there it is not the end of the world in
fact it is the start of something
phenomenal because now we can take what
we’ve learned from the previous
relationship into the next relationship
we can grow stronger and a lot of the
times it is the self love which gets us
through whenever you allow someone else
to give you value you lose confidence if
we have ended a relationship we have to
be confident within ourselves which is
about trusting ourselves nobody can give
you confidence that begins once we go on
the journey within we have to take a
hundred percent responsibility for our
internal condition and once we can we
realize that getting over someone in a
relationship becomes easier because we
realize that this is part of one tiny
chapter of the grand story just the tiny
part tiny it doesn’t define who you are
it’s about loving yourself feeling free
and seeing that relationships are based
on how we see ourselves because that is
the true relationship your perception of
how you see yourself everything after
that was fall into place
just make sure
you love yourself a hundred percent we
are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again this is sexology water fire hot
cold yin yang where are they how to find
a good woman how to find a good man they
are all taken over fifty percent of the
emails I receive are based around
relationships and all of us we find
ourselves in three categories we are
either single we are in a relationship
all we have just ended a relationship
and I have been in all three of these
categories and what’s helped me along my
journey if we go to the first one being
single many of us being single is a
conscious choice because it allows us to
work on ourselves it allows us to become
the greatest versions of ourselves and
it is beautiful when you see people who
are single and they are smiling you
wonder wow do they have someone keeping
them warm at night however many of us
who are single we are searching for
someone
till desperation we are on sites online
dating sites we are looking at people’s
profiles oh I love your face we are
buying the latest clothes would all of
this help us get the one we truly love
what I found along my journey is that
when I was single the greatest thing I
learned was that you have to work on
yourself a hundred percent you find the
one you love doing what you love in
relationships once we see we attract
what we are as we change the types of
people we meet
also changes how do I find a good man
how do I find a good woman I want I want
the universe does not give us what we
want the universe gives us what we are
once we remember this we relax because
we have to ask ourselves does the shoe
fit it does the shoe fit many of us we
see someone and we do everything we can
to make them notice us
but there is nothing you can do or say
that will bring someone closer to you
because everything is based on vibration
it doesn’t matter how many cars you have
or if you are a millionaire the mind
might care but the heart doesn’t care
because the heart only wants what it is
resonating with and that is why we have
to realize that we have to embrace
ourselves we have to realize the
greatest relationship we can have is
with ourselves and once we go into our
passion naturally we become a magnet of
attraction because in essence we become
the source of our own happiness the
second stage is we get into a
relationship so now we have found
someone who is resonating on the same
frequency as us I talk off the water
relationship which is where we develop
transparency and intimacy with each
other where we realize that we share
similar passions we share a similar
lifestyle but more so it is where we
allow other people to become the
greatest versions of themselves we don’t
force people to become
like us that is what I call the
coca-cola relationship where it becomes
toxic the water relationship is all
about space before during and after how
do we know she’s the one or he’s the one
I found that it’s about moving past mind
based connection into a heart based
connection we have to feel it in our
core we have to become intimate with our
hospice because once we can close our
eyes and still be in love with this
person then it’s real we have to realize
many of us will on these social network
sites and we’re searching for our future
partner but a lot of us were just on the
surface to really dive deep and get
intimate we have to ask the big
questions what music do you like what is
your belief system the mindset what kind
of food do you like because food and
love go together have you heard that
song there is so much expansion that can
happen just through that connection
alone also we have to realize that it is
when we see that we can grow with this
person because relationships are based
on expansion that is why many people
will leave a relationship because there
is nowhere else to go the expansion is
finished it’s done so we always have to
be growing we have to be watering the
plant planting those seeds that we can
harvest when the time is ready five
principles to a great relationship which
has helped me along my journey
communication
we have to bear our emotions on our
sleeves we have to talk to the person we
are with you don’t hear people ending
their relationship saying that we had
the most wonderful conversations all the
time some people do but a lot of the
times it is because there is a
communication breakdown we have to
listen as well because only once we
listen can we see where the other person
is coming from many of us were
distracted we don’t even have time for
ourselves how can we have time for
someone else
we don’t even love ourselves how can we
love someone else
number two is appreciation if you have a
beautiful partner right now stand up
because you are fortunate that they have
come into your life at this amazing
moment in history that you can share and
you can both help each other along the
journey but we have to ask ourselves
what are we doing to make that person
still feel special are we writing
letters are we making them beautiful
food we have to make that effort we have
to put our words into action passion do
we still feel the same a lot of the time
is a spark you can die out so we have to
rekindle the fire can you remember the
first time you met there were
butterflies in your stomach you had this
surge of energy
your face was glimmering because you are
entering the unknown no expectations
okay some of us we have big expectations
but there was a new chapter a new
opening a new beginning so therefore we
have to reinvent our relation
ships we have to shed our skin trust can
we trust the person we are with because
if there is no trust there is no
relationship there is no expansion
because Trust is about opening up you
can look at that woman in the streets
you can look at that man no problem
because there is no fear you don’t trust
someone the moment you are prisoner to
your own fear
so as we begin to love ourselves Trust
becomes our second nature and the last
principle is having fun once we can make
each other love the relationship can
last forever we have to become our own
entertainment you don’t have to go to
the movies you can make your own film
I’m not talking about a sex tape you can
do that too for private viewing we have
to begin to laugh keep alive the inner
child within us and we find our
relationships blossom the moment we
begin not taking things so seriously not
controlling the situation but breathing
and becoming one with each other
relationships are like a wave they are
dynamic they are contracting they are
expanding so we have to realize that it
takes work being in a relationship we
have to prepare ourselves for hard times
for challenging situations and that is
why it is so beautiful to develop total
body awareness breathing right deep from
our diaphragm from the base of our
spines eating right to cultivate a
beautiful equilibrium within ourselves
because
we have to see that many of us the
reason why our relationships become
shaky is because relationships are huge
mirrors they show us our darkest shadow
or our brightest light therefore
everyone in a relationship we are with
is a teacher so we have to thank them
but at times they are showing us things
we don’t want to look at we’ve never
taken the time to look at we have to
remind ourselves also that nobody
belongs to us many of us we have this
ownership attitude you are mine know
along my journey once I realize this
they freed me because I said you can
talk to anybody you want love is the
greatest universal truth we have to let
love guide us not fear once we can see
steps we are climbing the ladder to
ultimately learn more about ourselves
that is why it is so amazing to be in a
relationship we have to ask ourselves
are we focusing on what we want or are
we focusing on what we fear are we
looking at the negatives of a
relationship or are we focusing on the
positives because what you focus on
grows and the last stage is breaking up
the relationship is coming to an end how
do we deal with this your heart feels
crushed but wait a minute we have to ask
ourselves what words are we using to
describe our current state because it’s
all our mindset if you say my heart is
broken
you have to be very careful because
words are thoughts and thoughts turn off
or on the biochemistry within our body
that is why a lot of people suffer from
depression once they have left a
turbulent relationship a lot my journey
parting ways what I’ve found which is
changed my life forever is that there
are other versions of ourselves out
there it is not the end of the world in
fact it is the start of something
phenomenal because now we can take what
we’ve learned from the previous
relationship into the next relationship
we can grow stronger and a lot of the
times it is the self love which gets us
through whenever you allow someone else
to give you value you lose confidence if
we have ended a relationship we have to
be confident within ourselves which is
about trusting ourselves nobody can give
you confidence that begins once we go on
the journey within we have to take a
hundred percent responsibility for our
internal condition and once we can we
realize that getting over someone in a
relationship becomes easier because we
realize that this is part of one tiny
chapter of the grand story just the tiny
part tiny it doesn’t define who you are
it’s about loving yourself feeling free
and seeing that relationships are based
on how we see ourselves because that is
the true relationship your perception of
how you see yourself everything after
that was fall into place
just make sure
you love yourself a hundred percent we
are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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