peace infinite waters diving deep once
again five ways you’ve been making life
harder than it has to be can I get a
Hello hey what happens when we give
ourselves so much work to do we human
beings are funny creatures we always
love having lots to do but at what cost
I’m gonna share with you what helped me
along my journey get more clarity reduce
stress and here are some of the ways we
are making life harder and it starts
with the ifs and the winds how many of
us say if I got that job promotion all
my problems would have disappeared but
wait a minute how can your problems
disappear if you haven’t dealt with them
in the first place they’re not just
gonna magically disappear so we should
be able to deal with our problems right
now in the present moment wherever we
are some people say if I was famous I
would have no problems if I had five
million dollars I would be different
maybe but at the same time that is only
one level because you have to change
yourself from the inside out not from
the outside in some people say when the
Sun is out I am gonna feel so much
better
and that’s true but we have to stop
creating God in turn whether i love the
rain i love the sun i see that they are
both essential by saying when and if if
is associated to the past if I had known
so relax when is associated with the
future because once again it allows us
not to step into that radical action as
a secret so I let go of the ifs and wins
to not make life harder then it is also
another tool in becoming your greatest
version is to stop comparing yourself to
other people because that’s what makes
life harder than it has to be so you see
someone and you say no no I should have
that body you see someone and say no I
should live there you see someone and
say I’m not happy with who I am so I
want to be them what happens when we do
that
now we disregard who we are in the
attempts of being someone else this
causes an awful lot of problems down the
road because now you have a lack of self
love for yourself but also we fall into
the illusion of competition we fall into
the illusion of separation and we fail
to see that life is about contrast I am
not in competition with anyone and the
secret to not be in competition is to
accept yourself a hundred percent people
say okay how do you do it create your
own signature certain singers you know
how come because they’re smart they are
creating their own blueprint once you
are attempting to be like someone else
now you are becoming a clone so for me
what’s help me is to always be original
and that makes life a whole lot easier
I’m inspired by so many different people
but at the same time I always honor my
uniqueness and what I have to bring to
the table the third tool is what we call
in psychology when you ascribe in 10 now
ascribe means to credit in 10 is
meaning so what happens when you feel
what everyone is doing is in response to
you what happens now you don’t receive
that email the alarm goes off now
someone doesn’t call you back you feel
that it’s got something to do with you I
talked of happy people as being in
balance as being in equilibrium and the
only reason they can do that is because
they don’t take everything personally I
don’t and it gives you so much freedom
when you realize that look so many
people right now are dealing with so
much but when you ascribe in 10 to feel
a certain way about someone else’s
behavior once again we fall into that
illusion that we can control what other
people are doing and that control
creates the resistance the resistance
creates the discomfort and the
discomfort creates the unhappiness but
happiness is where we let go of
resistance so we realize that hey it’s
got nothing to do with me I’m sorry and
that allows you just to flow just to
step into the rhythm and just to be on
the fourth tool is when you let fear be
your guide don’t come to me for fear
because I don’t sell thin I’m sorry now
many people who want to create a lot of
shock attention they want to create a
massive story they use fear because they
know that affects you at a visceral
level emotionally that is why so many of
us are drawn to fear because it’s coming
from the our complex far brain what we
call the reptilian part of our brains
which is a very low frequency but it is
very accessible to each and every one of
us but what happens when you let fear
guide you now we start to make life
harder than it is because once again we
focus all our attention towards
something negative you see what’s
happening in the media it’s full of fear
so now fear becomes the addiction and
what happens
we begin to become desensitized we begin
to become disconnected not only from
ourselves but from the world around us
so I don’t let fear rule I say let love
guide you not fair and now life becomes
more fluid in essence life takes on a
realizing to have a lighter heart it is
the heavy heart that actually makes our
life harder than it is when you are
holding on to grudges I say it’s not
about forgiving people for their sake
it’s about forgiving people for your
sake to have a lighter heart why because
that promotes wellness Health and more
abundance in your life many of us we’re
holding on so tight that now we can’t
move we become paralyzed you can forgive
it doesn’t mean you have to forget
that’s a secret but heavy heart is also
when we play it safe when we are afraid
of taking risks I realize that life is
never going to be smooth sailing in
essence it is about looking at the tree
of life which is full of curves that in
essence is life
we have to be ready and able to ride the
waves that way we become stronger to
overcome the obstacles that come our way
that way life doesn’t have to be harder
than it is we are here loosen up Ralph
smile it’s not a crime year infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again five ways you’ve been making life
harder than it has to be can I get a
Hello hey what happens when we give
ourselves so much work to do we human
beings are funny creatures we always
love having lots to do but at what cost
I’m gonna share with you what helped me
along my journey get more clarity reduce
stress and here are some of the ways we
are making life harder and it starts
with the ifs and the winds how many of
us say if I got that job promotion all
my problems would have disappeared but
wait a minute how can your problems
disappear if you haven’t dealt with them
in the first place they’re not just
gonna magically disappear so we should
be able to deal with our problems right
now in the present moment wherever we
are some people say if I was famous I
would have no problems if I had five
million dollars I would be different
maybe but at the same time that is only
one level because you have to change
yourself from the inside out not from
the outside in some people say when the
Sun is out I am gonna feel so much
better
and that’s true but we have to stop
creating God in turn whether i love the
rain i love the sun i see that they are
both essential by saying when and if if
is associated to the past if I had known
so relax when is associated with the
future because once again it allows us
not to step into that radical action as
a secret so I let go of the ifs and wins
to not make life harder then it is also
another tool in becoming your greatest
version is to stop comparing yourself to
other people because that’s what makes
life harder than it has to be so you see
someone and you say no no I should have
that body you see someone and say no I
should live there you see someone and
say I’m not happy with who I am so I
want to be them what happens when we do
that
now we disregard who we are in the
attempts of being someone else this
causes an awful lot of problems down the
road because now you have a lack of self
love for yourself but also we fall into
the illusion of competition we fall into
the illusion of separation and we fail
to see that life is about contrast I am
not in competition with anyone and the
secret to not be in competition is to
accept yourself a hundred percent people
say okay how do you do it create your
own signature certain singers you know
how come because they’re smart they are
creating their own blueprint once you
are attempting to be like someone else
now you are becoming a clone so for me
what’s help me is to always be original
and that makes life a whole lot easier
I’m inspired by so many different people
but at the same time I always honor my
uniqueness and what I have to bring to
the table the third tool is what we call
in psychology when you ascribe in 10 now
ascribe means to credit in 10 is
meaning so what happens when you feel
what everyone is doing is in response to
you what happens now you don’t receive
that email the alarm goes off now
someone doesn’t call you back you feel
that it’s got something to do with you I
talked of happy people as being in
balance as being in equilibrium and the
only reason they can do that is because
they don’t take everything personally I
don’t and it gives you so much freedom
when you realize that look so many
people right now are dealing with so
much but when you ascribe in 10 to feel
a certain way about someone else’s
behavior once again we fall into that
illusion that we can control what other
people are doing and that control
creates the resistance the resistance
creates the discomfort and the
discomfort creates the unhappiness but
happiness is where we let go of
resistance so we realize that hey it’s
got nothing to do with me I’m sorry and
that allows you just to flow just to
step into the rhythm and just to be on
the fourth tool is when you let fear be
your guide don’t come to me for fear
because I don’t sell thin I’m sorry now
many people who want to create a lot of
shock attention they want to create a
massive story they use fear because they
know that affects you at a visceral
level emotionally that is why so many of
us are drawn to fear because it’s coming
from the our complex far brain what we
call the reptilian part of our brains
which is a very low frequency but it is
very accessible to each and every one of
us but what happens when you let fear
guide you now we start to make life
harder than it is because once again we
focus all our attention towards
something negative you see what’s
happening in the media it’s full of fear
so now fear becomes the addiction and
what happens
we begin to become desensitized we begin
to become disconnected not only from
ourselves but from the world around us
so I don’t let fear rule I say let love
guide you not fair and now life becomes
more fluid in essence life takes on a
realizing to have a lighter heart it is
the heavy heart that actually makes our
life harder than it is when you are
holding on to grudges I say it’s not
about forgiving people for their sake
it’s about forgiving people for your
sake to have a lighter heart why because
that promotes wellness Health and more
abundance in your life many of us we’re
holding on so tight that now we can’t
move we become paralyzed you can forgive
it doesn’t mean you have to forget
that’s a secret but heavy heart is also
when we play it safe when we are afraid
of taking risks I realize that life is
never going to be smooth sailing in
essence it is about looking at the tree
of life which is full of curves that in
essence is life
we have to be ready and able to ride the
waves that way we become stronger to
overcome the obstacles that come our way
that way life doesn’t have to be harder
than it is we are here loosen up Ralph
smile it’s not a crime year infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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