peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we are here we’ve got a lot to
talk about
can I get a hello there we’ve been
missing sexology water fire hot cold
Ian yang so I receive a lot of questions
every single day and sometimes I think
oh it’s gonna be a food question no it’s
going to be a question about the power
of the human mind and imagination no
subject love subject relationship
boyfriend crazy girlfriend crazy help me
I need help i need help we can help each
other I have seen that relationships are
a great way to become your greatest
version it can also make you crazy and
make you want to pull out all of your
hair but it’s worth it in the end you
will be smiling so number one I always
remind myself along my journey that how
you feel about yourself is reflected all
throughout your relationship the moment
I started to embrace myself more my
relationship became marvelous when I
never loved myself I couldn’t see beyond
that a lot of us we may have a low
self-esteem we may not see ourselves in
a positive regard this then loses into
our relationship I say love yourself
first close your eyes
wrap your arms around your shoulders and
say I love you and then tell me what
happens
because that love will now move out into
your relationship making it more
harmonious it all starts I’ve seen with
realizing the attraction should always
start with ourselves you have to find
yourself sexy handsome because once you
start to doubt yourself now we are
looking for validation from someone else
how do I look you look fabulous but it
doesn’t matter how do you see yourself
that’s the most important thing you
should say I look fabulous say it
together number two is the seven levels
of Attraction because a lot of us we
become forgetful in relationships and I
remind myself let’s go through them
really quickly number one is the
appearance you see someone you say gosh
they’re gorgeous
they’re handsome I like their shoulders
I like her but but that can only take
you so far because that is the outer
shell yes it is important but at the
same time it is not the truth of who
they are you have the personality which
is the second level of Attraction this
is what they show to us you have a very
happy person they’re smiling they’re
full of joy you want to take them home
with you you may have a sad person all
the time
but the personality is the persona which
is a mask so that is not the truth of
who they are then we can go on to
expression how comfortable are you
expressing yourself to them because
communication is the key to a great
relationship can you tell them all of
your secrets do you get bored of talking
to them or do you never want to hang up
hmm
and then transparency it’s all about how
honest we are with that person when they
can see you like crystal clear glass
they can see through you that’s amazing
because now your relationship has a new
level of integrity honor a lot of us we
fall in love then we fall out of love
then we fall in love and can’t get up
again it’s like a wave but honesty does
wonders and then the fifth level is all
about the heart base connection not
seeing this person I just said it person
not seeing this being but feeling them
that is the heart base connection a lot
of us we are connecting only mentally we
are not connecting through our heart
space and that’s where the true
connection lies the mind based
connection is more about fear what can
you get from that being instead of what
you can
give so go on to number six and the
levels of Attraction is value when both
of you share a similar value now the
relationship can blossom to infinite
Heights do you share a similar lifestyle
do you love to eat the same foods
because a lot of us we don’t even know
this about our partner I say the water
relationship is where we encourage the
other being to become their greatest
version the Coca Cola relationship is
where we want them to become like us an
exact replica a clone so there’s now two
of us the water relationship is about
holding the space it is not about
control it is about allowing and that is
where value comes into place and the
seventh level is evolution when you see
this person can you learn from them can
you grow with them because evolution is
all about seeing the potential certain
times you meet someone and you say stop
right there let’s not get into it any
further but there are certain times
where you meet someone and you see we
can grow together we can have a family
because relationships serve as mirrors
reflecting back to us our brightest
light or our darkest shadow and that’s
why through this evolution we see that
if we are with someone who we can
constantly expand with then it is a
beautiful thing number three what I
remind myself
because I could get alone is when it
comes to relationships people change a
lot of us we are changing our mind every
single second I want this I won that
change is the only constant in the
universe so why do we think our
relationship is not going to change a
lot of people say well when we first got
into the relationship it was amazing
there were fireworks I was full of
passion now I am trying to rekindle an
old flame what’s happening people change
because they go through experiences
which influence their belief system so I
am aware that throughout a relationship
we have to see that people’s values
their perspectives their perceptions
that is all changing all the time but
the secret I’ve discovered of a
wonderful relationship is where both
people are changing at the same time
because when it’s like this or like that
wait a minute you’re leaving me behind
and also it is about having an
understanding in standing over standing
that not everyone you are with will be
with you forever
sometimes they are just there to show
you more about yourself
I say relationships are a wonderful
place to learn more about yourself when
I was single I was praying to meet
someone and I finally did then I said oh
boy I have a lot to learn about myself
help me
it’s a wonderful thing sometimes people
need to be with someone else to help
them evolve just like you do as well
number four is okay many of us we say a
walk in the park I have discovered that
relationships are not a walk in the park
because first of all nobody is perfect
we are all working on ourselves so a lot
of us we have so many expectations of
the other person to be perfect all the
time but ask yourself are you perfect no
so are you going to give up at the first
hurdle I’ve been in relationships where
I said enough is enough because there
was too much complaining nagging do this
do that I’m like you do it but I have
discovered the water relationship is a
walk in the park
because when the two become one when you
have that perfect synthesis
that is the love connection and because
of that there is constant watering
meaning your relationship is thriving
because you are giving it the
ingredients it needs to sustain itself
water lots of water sunlight lots of
sunlight you are treating it with care
love joy and there is a trust there is
fun it’s excitement you’re like two
children lost in the woods no
marshmallows but you’re having fun so I
have seen that when we can become more
honest with ourselves to realize that
yes relationships take work but at the
same time water relationships are energy
generating not energy depleting
therefore we are worthy of a
relationship that can help us become our
greatest version that is a must
standard and number five I remind myself
always every single day I write it down
the greatest relationship secret I have
discovered the key I remind myself that
you could be in a room with a hundred
people you find attractive but still
they don’t hold that key
to open you up on all levels mentally
emotionally physically relationships are
based on resonance you can’t force love
many try many fail is this Shakespeare
no okay love I have seen is a mutual
agreement and the key when someone opens
you up on all levels they are now
holding the space they are allowing for
you to become your true greatness
they are accepting you 100% they are not
judging what you do because in essence
they are you and it’s the classic case
of does the shoe fit you’re squeezing
your feet but the shoe doesn’t want to
have any of them because the true love
is a perfect fit it’s not that
everything is going to be peaches and
cream but it is one way you feel
comfortable in expressing the truth of
who you are a hundred percent and a lot
of us were in a relationship but there
are still secrets and secrets are lies
the key is where you love yourself a
hundred percent the other person loves
themselves a hundred percent but
energetically both of you are in the
same frequency
many of us in relationships feel that we
can buy someone their attention we can
shower them with beautiful gifts trips
all around the world and they will love
us when I talk of the key which is the
heart based connection the question is
do you have the key to my heart
sometimes you can be with someone but
they can be with someone else and they
are more expressive they are more open
because that person they are with holds
a key but ultimately there is someone
that we will meet who holds the ultimate
key that must start with ourselves first
because once we have embodied this Union
and integrated all aspects of ourselves
now we will recognize that person
instantly we will feel different around
them we will start to go like this and
say yeah many times people try to
manipulate other people in relationships
but with the key this is not something
that you can buy from a shop you have to
be common that’s why I always say there
is nothing that you can say or do that
will bring someone closer to you it’s
like that song it was written in the
stars destiny cannot be faked destiny
is the magic of the universe surrender
to it and just allow the beauty of life
to unravel right in front of your eyes
poetry class for you people say I don’t
have time but we all have time if we
want to create it the question is though
do we want to give our time to someone a
lot of us don’t why because they are not
holding the key to a hub once you are
the perfect fit once the key goes in you
unlock someone they are not embarrassed
around you they feel comfortable and
calm now you have all the time in the
world for them and because of this the
relationship can grow it can thrive it
can become more complete and that is
what we are all striving for that’s what
I’m striving for synthesis where
everything fuses together the masculine
and the feminine principles you got to
love people ask how will I know when
someone holds the key to my heart I say
in this heart based connection fear
disappears which is false evidence
appearing real we say we have to argue
we have the fuss we have to fight we
have to rip each other apart just
show each other how much we care I say
the water relationship is solution
orientated relationship so when you are
talking it is coming from a place of
love instead of a place of blame because
it’s all about both people sharing the
responsibility more so it is energy
generating you’re laughing when you’re
talking about something serious that is
how to know that person holds the key to
your heart you can feel it and there is
not a trace of regret in your heart and
mind I say it is wonderful to be in a
relationship if you are single
don’t worry use that time to work on
yourself because when you meet that
person you are gonna get right out of
your chair and say thank you baby
and then slowly sit back down so there
you have it the love connection
love love love we are here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
again we are here we’ve got a lot to
talk about
can I get a hello there we’ve been
missing sexology water fire hot cold
Ian yang so I receive a lot of questions
every single day and sometimes I think
oh it’s gonna be a food question no it’s
going to be a question about the power
of the human mind and imagination no
subject love subject relationship
boyfriend crazy girlfriend crazy help me
I need help i need help we can help each
other I have seen that relationships are
a great way to become your greatest
version it can also make you crazy and
make you want to pull out all of your
hair but it’s worth it in the end you
will be smiling so number one I always
remind myself along my journey that how
you feel about yourself is reflected all
throughout your relationship the moment
I started to embrace myself more my
relationship became marvelous when I
never loved myself I couldn’t see beyond
that a lot of us we may have a low
self-esteem we may not see ourselves in
a positive regard this then loses into
our relationship I say love yourself
first close your eyes
wrap your arms around your shoulders and
say I love you and then tell me what
happens
because that love will now move out into
your relationship making it more
harmonious it all starts I’ve seen with
realizing the attraction should always
start with ourselves you have to find
yourself sexy handsome because once you
start to doubt yourself now we are
looking for validation from someone else
how do I look you look fabulous but it
doesn’t matter how do you see yourself
that’s the most important thing you
should say I look fabulous say it
together number two is the seven levels
of Attraction because a lot of us we
become forgetful in relationships and I
remind myself let’s go through them
really quickly number one is the
appearance you see someone you say gosh
they’re gorgeous
they’re handsome I like their shoulders
I like her but but that can only take
you so far because that is the outer
shell yes it is important but at the
same time it is not the truth of who
they are you have the personality which
is the second level of Attraction this
is what they show to us you have a very
happy person they’re smiling they’re
full of joy you want to take them home
with you you may have a sad person all
the time
but the personality is the persona which
is a mask so that is not the truth of
who they are then we can go on to
expression how comfortable are you
expressing yourself to them because
communication is the key to a great
relationship can you tell them all of
your secrets do you get bored of talking
to them or do you never want to hang up
hmm
and then transparency it’s all about how
honest we are with that person when they
can see you like crystal clear glass
they can see through you that’s amazing
because now your relationship has a new
level of integrity honor a lot of us we
fall in love then we fall out of love
then we fall in love and can’t get up
again it’s like a wave but honesty does
wonders and then the fifth level is all
about the heart base connection not
seeing this person I just said it person
not seeing this being but feeling them
that is the heart base connection a lot
of us we are connecting only mentally we
are not connecting through our heart
space and that’s where the true
connection lies the mind based
connection is more about fear what can
you get from that being instead of what
you can
give so go on to number six and the
levels of Attraction is value when both
of you share a similar value now the
relationship can blossom to infinite
Heights do you share a similar lifestyle
do you love to eat the same foods
because a lot of us we don’t even know
this about our partner I say the water
relationship is where we encourage the
other being to become their greatest
version the Coca Cola relationship is
where we want them to become like us an
exact replica a clone so there’s now two
of us the water relationship is about
holding the space it is not about
control it is about allowing and that is
where value comes into place and the
seventh level is evolution when you see
this person can you learn from them can
you grow with them because evolution is
all about seeing the potential certain
times you meet someone and you say stop
right there let’s not get into it any
further but there are certain times
where you meet someone and you see we
can grow together we can have a family
because relationships serve as mirrors
reflecting back to us our brightest
light or our darkest shadow and that’s
why through this evolution we see that
if we are with someone who we can
constantly expand with then it is a
beautiful thing number three what I
remind myself
because I could get alone is when it
comes to relationships people change a
lot of us we are changing our mind every
single second I want this I won that
change is the only constant in the
universe so why do we think our
relationship is not going to change a
lot of people say well when we first got
into the relationship it was amazing
there were fireworks I was full of
passion now I am trying to rekindle an
old flame what’s happening people change
because they go through experiences
which influence their belief system so I
am aware that throughout a relationship
we have to see that people’s values
their perspectives their perceptions
that is all changing all the time but
the secret I’ve discovered of a
wonderful relationship is where both
people are changing at the same time
because when it’s like this or like that
wait a minute you’re leaving me behind
and also it is about having an
understanding in standing over standing
that not everyone you are with will be
with you forever
sometimes they are just there to show
you more about yourself
I say relationships are a wonderful
place to learn more about yourself when
I was single I was praying to meet
someone and I finally did then I said oh
boy I have a lot to learn about myself
help me
it’s a wonderful thing sometimes people
need to be with someone else to help
them evolve just like you do as well
number four is okay many of us we say a
walk in the park I have discovered that
relationships are not a walk in the park
because first of all nobody is perfect
we are all working on ourselves so a lot
of us we have so many expectations of
the other person to be perfect all the
time but ask yourself are you perfect no
so are you going to give up at the first
hurdle I’ve been in relationships where
I said enough is enough because there
was too much complaining nagging do this
do that I’m like you do it but I have
discovered the water relationship is a
walk in the park
because when the two become one when you
have that perfect synthesis
that is the love connection and because
of that there is constant watering
meaning your relationship is thriving
because you are giving it the
ingredients it needs to sustain itself
water lots of water sunlight lots of
sunlight you are treating it with care
love joy and there is a trust there is
fun it’s excitement you’re like two
children lost in the woods no
marshmallows but you’re having fun so I
have seen that when we can become more
honest with ourselves to realize that
yes relationships take work but at the
same time water relationships are energy
generating not energy depleting
therefore we are worthy of a
relationship that can help us become our
greatest version that is a must
standard and number five I remind myself
always every single day I write it down
the greatest relationship secret I have
discovered the key I remind myself that
you could be in a room with a hundred
people you find attractive but still
they don’t hold that key
to open you up on all levels mentally
emotionally physically relationships are
based on resonance you can’t force love
many try many fail is this Shakespeare
no okay love I have seen is a mutual
agreement and the key when someone opens
you up on all levels they are now
holding the space they are allowing for
you to become your true greatness
they are accepting you 100% they are not
judging what you do because in essence
they are you and it’s the classic case
of does the shoe fit you’re squeezing
your feet but the shoe doesn’t want to
have any of them because the true love
is a perfect fit it’s not that
everything is going to be peaches and
cream but it is one way you feel
comfortable in expressing the truth of
who you are a hundred percent and a lot
of us were in a relationship but there
are still secrets and secrets are lies
the key is where you love yourself a
hundred percent the other person loves
themselves a hundred percent but
energetically both of you are in the
same frequency
many of us in relationships feel that we
can buy someone their attention we can
shower them with beautiful gifts trips
all around the world and they will love
us when I talk of the key which is the
heart based connection the question is
do you have the key to my heart
sometimes you can be with someone but
they can be with someone else and they
are more expressive they are more open
because that person they are with holds
a key but ultimately there is someone
that we will meet who holds the ultimate
key that must start with ourselves first
because once we have embodied this Union
and integrated all aspects of ourselves
now we will recognize that person
instantly we will feel different around
them we will start to go like this and
say yeah many times people try to
manipulate other people in relationships
but with the key this is not something
that you can buy from a shop you have to
be common that’s why I always say there
is nothing that you can say or do that
will bring someone closer to you it’s
like that song it was written in the
stars destiny cannot be faked destiny
is the magic of the universe surrender
to it and just allow the beauty of life
to unravel right in front of your eyes
poetry class for you people say I don’t
have time but we all have time if we
want to create it the question is though
do we want to give our time to someone a
lot of us don’t why because they are not
holding the key to a hub once you are
the perfect fit once the key goes in you
unlock someone they are not embarrassed
around you they feel comfortable and
calm now you have all the time in the
world for them and because of this the
relationship can grow it can thrive it
can become more complete and that is
what we are all striving for that’s what
I’m striving for synthesis where
everything fuses together the masculine
and the feminine principles you got to
love people ask how will I know when
someone holds the key to my heart I say
in this heart based connection fear
disappears which is false evidence
appearing real we say we have to argue
we have the fuss we have to fight we
have to rip each other apart just
show each other how much we care I say
the water relationship is solution
orientated relationship so when you are
talking it is coming from a place of
love instead of a place of blame because
it’s all about both people sharing the
responsibility more so it is energy
generating you’re laughing when you’re
talking about something serious that is
how to know that person holds the key to
your heart you can feel it and there is
not a trace of regret in your heart and
mind I say it is wonderful to be in a
relationship if you are single
don’t worry use that time to work on
yourself because when you meet that
person you are gonna get right out of
your chair and say thank you baby
and then slowly sit back down so there
you have it the love connection
love love love we are here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
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