peas and fennel waters diving deep once
again we are here first of all I want to
say a big thank you if you’re a deep
diver if you dive deep into infinite
waters you are appreciated right now
things are just growing even beyond my
own wildest expectations and I want to
tell you can I get a hello how to
discover your gift your calling we got a
question in from Anna how you doing
today Anna she wrote in saying that she
is studying she’s in the final years of
her degree in interior design and
equipment now she’s scratching her head
because she’s not sure if this is her
true calling her true purpose in life
she is feeling confused she’s not
motivated growing up she was into
crystals now she’s into Reiki she wants
to explore traditional acupuncture
Chinese medicine but she’s not sure she
wants to know how does one go about
finding their true purpose she wants to
help people but she doesn’t know where
to start let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey now a lot of
people think I just got a camera and
started to talk no I am answering this
question because I know what you’re
going through over a decade ago I was in
exactly the same position I was
finishing off my degree in psychology
criminology as well so it was a lot of
work it was hard
it wasn’t easy I graduated I went on to
go and work with people with ADHD or
Chisholm fantastic experience in a
school for many years it was fun but at
the same time I had a voice in the back
of my head in the back of my mind saying
Ralph the clock is ticking you need to
follow your true calling today because
it’s now or never
so visualization technique for you Anna
imagine you only have 24 hours left what
are you gonna do you see many of us we
wouldn’t be where we are if we only had
24 hours we would then move to where a
heart
really desired to be but just like the
Buddha said the problem is the problem
is you think you have time I always say
you can learn you can gather experience
from whatever you’re going through you
have to first know your core needs you
have to know what you want now right now
there are so many distractions me
personally I always have loved
psychology at the same time what I’m
doing now helping people become their
greatest version all around the world I
didn’t study for this and it’s taken me
over a decade to begin to discover the
gift you see many of us all around the
world we are on the bridge okay in the
middle of the bridge wondering which way
to go many of us are at the cross
so are we going to go left are we going
to go right or are we just gonna stand
there and then see what happens there is
a reason why a lot of people don’t know
what to do because we have spent a whole
life
living living up to other people’s
expectations no no we have spent a whole
life
placing expectations on ourselves so
once you begin to take off all of these
external expectations you have of
yourself now you begin to discover your
true core needs there are once and there
answer it without guilt without an
apology and then move towards it every
single day you see many people think is
hard and you’re right it’s very
difficult to follow your heart
to discover the gift why because you are
going to be doubted you are even going
to doubt yourself you’re going to start
out with nothing and you have to build
but it’s one block at a time builds a
pyramid when you realize
you have a talent but you see talent is
nothing without passion so the real
question should be how do we cultivate
passion when we are studying I was
studying taking exams every single day I
was passing with flying colors but I
wasn’t really passionate about it my
passion lied in helping other people
become their greatest versions but you
can’t help other people if you haven’t
started with yourself first so what did
I do
I started to change my thoughts I
started to change the words I was using
and I started to realize the infinite
what do you hold value in what are your
values and is it in alignment with what
you are doing now see many of us we go
to a job but we’re not happy that’s
gonna cause a lot of stress and in that
state you are not becoming your greatest
version what I’m doing every day look I
work on Saturday I work every single day
but guess what it’s not work it’s a
lifestyle when you fuse your work with
your lifestyle your values your morals
your principles you’re laughing because
the more you move into your true calling
you realize it will be the very thing
that saves your life it will be the very
thing that allows you to love yourself a
hundred percent it will help you create
abundance that’s what’s happened to me
along my chin every day I’m connecting
with millions of amazing people the love
is real I’m seeing it firsthand
but it wasn’t always like this
okay I’m not going to sit here and tell
you it was all peaches and cream there
were days where I thought hmm maybe I
should just give it all up but I had the
motivation from realizing rome wasn’t
built in a day you are in a beautiful
place why because you have a choice when
you have a choice it’s one of the most
amazing feelings in the world because
you now have the power to become the
architect of your own reality you’ve got
friends but you also have people who are
going to take you away from discovering
your gift when I was discovering my gift
which is helping people helping myself
as well I had many people who said
that’s rubbish
that wouldn’t get you far but now look
who’s laughing right because when people
see the impact you’re making they’re
like can we hang out but when you first
start you’re not going to see a lot of
people around when you are moving into
holistic health you also got to ask
yourself
are your goals too big so instead of
goals what do I do
I create themes you don’t want to say
okay I want to help millions of people
tomorrow that’s way too much pressure
for you you want to take one step at a
time
very simple themes maybe I’m gonna start
some Reiki in my local community start
small first and then expand but more so
you have to ask yourself do I believe in
myself do I trust myself a hundred
percent today many times is fear which
keeps are stuck at any time I can go and
work as a criminologist I can go back to
working with people with autism ADHD no
problem because I’m qualified but I’m
doing what I love
plus I’m infusing all the wisdom I have
from my education so when you are doing
your interior design see what creative
ways what you can collect from all of
your studies to incorporate it into your
future vision right but if it’s making
you ill sick you have to ask yourself
how much do I value myself okay the
secret of success is attributing value
the things that matter mmm let me say
that again the secret of success is
attributing value to things that matter
I realize we are living in a matrix
you’ve heard me talk about it
and even if we were to live a thousand
years 2,000 years
nanotechnology guys it’s still only a
drop in the ocean of infinity so all we
have is now are we gonna continue with a
life that makes us feel small or are we
going to move in the direction of our
true calling because any direction you
are going in you are building up
momentum if you are very plugged into a
system which is not serving you guess
what you are now reinforcing it into
your subconscious mind therefore it
becomes harder to break the longer
you’ve been doing something the harder
it is to break that habit so a habit is
a way to live so the real question
should be how can I change my habit to
discover the gift the way of life I
realize I had to stop letting go of
everything which was holding me back
friends certain songs I used to listen
to they were fun
but I realized they didn’t have my best
interests at hand I had a mentor
I studied around my subject I practice
every single day present tense
right because I love it
love what you do every single day and
you never have to work a day in your
life if you are studying and it’s not
really resonating with you if you are
working in a job and it’s not really
resonating with you you got to start
seriously reevaluating the lifestyle
you’re living if you respect accept and
love yourself 100% this is not a game so
to discover the gift always remind
yourself to find your core needs honor
your talents find your passion start
realizing you can do anything let go all
the obstacles in your way
practice daily but more so surround
yourself with people that love and
respect you and they see the gift in you
and then just share it with the world
share it baby
and everything you give out is gonna
come right back to you let love guide
you not fear go for it
no time to wait have a wonderful day
we’re here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
again we are here first of all I want to
say a big thank you if you’re a deep
diver if you dive deep into infinite
waters you are appreciated right now
things are just growing even beyond my
own wildest expectations and I want to
tell you can I get a hello how to
discover your gift your calling we got a
question in from Anna how you doing
today Anna she wrote in saying that she
is studying she’s in the final years of
her degree in interior design and
equipment now she’s scratching her head
because she’s not sure if this is her
true calling her true purpose in life
she is feeling confused she’s not
motivated growing up she was into
crystals now she’s into Reiki she wants
to explore traditional acupuncture
Chinese medicine but she’s not sure she
wants to know how does one go about
finding their true purpose she wants to
help people but she doesn’t know where
to start let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey now a lot of
people think I just got a camera and
started to talk no I am answering this
question because I know what you’re
going through over a decade ago I was in
exactly the same position I was
finishing off my degree in psychology
criminology as well so it was a lot of
work it was hard
it wasn’t easy I graduated I went on to
go and work with people with ADHD or
Chisholm fantastic experience in a
school for many years it was fun but at
the same time I had a voice in the back
of my head in the back of my mind saying
Ralph the clock is ticking you need to
follow your true calling today because
it’s now or never
so visualization technique for you Anna
imagine you only have 24 hours left what
are you gonna do you see many of us we
wouldn’t be where we are if we only had
24 hours we would then move to where a
heart
really desired to be but just like the
Buddha said the problem is the problem
is you think you have time I always say
you can learn you can gather experience
from whatever you’re going through you
have to first know your core needs you
have to know what you want now right now
there are so many distractions me
personally I always have loved
psychology at the same time what I’m
doing now helping people become their
greatest version all around the world I
didn’t study for this and it’s taken me
over a decade to begin to discover the
gift you see many of us all around the
world we are on the bridge okay in the
middle of the bridge wondering which way
to go many of us are at the cross
so are we going to go left are we going
to go right or are we just gonna stand
there and then see what happens there is
a reason why a lot of people don’t know
what to do because we have spent a whole
life
living living up to other people’s
expectations no no we have spent a whole
life
placing expectations on ourselves so
once you begin to take off all of these
external expectations you have of
yourself now you begin to discover your
true core needs there are once and there
answer it without guilt without an
apology and then move towards it every
single day you see many people think is
hard and you’re right it’s very
difficult to follow your heart
to discover the gift why because you are
going to be doubted you are even going
to doubt yourself you’re going to start
out with nothing and you have to build
but it’s one block at a time builds a
pyramid when you realize
you have a talent but you see talent is
nothing without passion so the real
question should be how do we cultivate
passion when we are studying I was
studying taking exams every single day I
was passing with flying colors but I
wasn’t really passionate about it my
passion lied in helping other people
become their greatest versions but you
can’t help other people if you haven’t
started with yourself first so what did
I do
I started to change my thoughts I
started to change the words I was using
and I started to realize the infinite
what do you hold value in what are your
values and is it in alignment with what
you are doing now see many of us we go
to a job but we’re not happy that’s
gonna cause a lot of stress and in that
state you are not becoming your greatest
version what I’m doing every day look I
work on Saturday I work every single day
but guess what it’s not work it’s a
lifestyle when you fuse your work with
your lifestyle your values your morals
your principles you’re laughing because
the more you move into your true calling
you realize it will be the very thing
that saves your life it will be the very
thing that allows you to love yourself a
hundred percent it will help you create
abundance that’s what’s happened to me
along my chin every day I’m connecting
with millions of amazing people the love
is real I’m seeing it firsthand
but it wasn’t always like this
okay I’m not going to sit here and tell
you it was all peaches and cream there
were days where I thought hmm maybe I
should just give it all up but I had the
motivation from realizing rome wasn’t
built in a day you are in a beautiful
place why because you have a choice when
you have a choice it’s one of the most
amazing feelings in the world because
you now have the power to become the
architect of your own reality you’ve got
friends but you also have people who are
going to take you away from discovering
your gift when I was discovering my gift
which is helping people helping myself
as well I had many people who said
that’s rubbish
that wouldn’t get you far but now look
who’s laughing right because when people
see the impact you’re making they’re
like can we hang out but when you first
start you’re not going to see a lot of
people around when you are moving into
holistic health you also got to ask
yourself
are your goals too big so instead of
goals what do I do
I create themes you don’t want to say
okay I want to help millions of people
tomorrow that’s way too much pressure
for you you want to take one step at a
time
very simple themes maybe I’m gonna start
some Reiki in my local community start
small first and then expand but more so
you have to ask yourself do I believe in
myself do I trust myself a hundred
percent today many times is fear which
keeps are stuck at any time I can go and
work as a criminologist I can go back to
working with people with autism ADHD no
problem because I’m qualified but I’m
doing what I love
plus I’m infusing all the wisdom I have
from my education so when you are doing
your interior design see what creative
ways what you can collect from all of
your studies to incorporate it into your
future vision right but if it’s making
you ill sick you have to ask yourself
how much do I value myself okay the
secret of success is attributing value
the things that matter mmm let me say
that again the secret of success is
attributing value to things that matter
I realize we are living in a matrix
you’ve heard me talk about it
and even if we were to live a thousand
years 2,000 years
nanotechnology guys it’s still only a
drop in the ocean of infinity so all we
have is now are we gonna continue with a
life that makes us feel small or are we
going to move in the direction of our
true calling because any direction you
are going in you are building up
momentum if you are very plugged into a
system which is not serving you guess
what you are now reinforcing it into
your subconscious mind therefore it
becomes harder to break the longer
you’ve been doing something the harder
it is to break that habit so a habit is
a way to live so the real question
should be how can I change my habit to
discover the gift the way of life I
realize I had to stop letting go of
everything which was holding me back
friends certain songs I used to listen
to they were fun
but I realized they didn’t have my best
interests at hand I had a mentor
I studied around my subject I practice
every single day present tense
right because I love it
love what you do every single day and
you never have to work a day in your
life if you are studying and it’s not
really resonating with you if you are
working in a job and it’s not really
resonating with you you got to start
seriously reevaluating the lifestyle
you’re living if you respect accept and
love yourself 100% this is not a game so
to discover the gift always remind
yourself to find your core needs honor
your talents find your passion start
realizing you can do anything let go all
the obstacles in your way
practice daily but more so surround
yourself with people that love and
respect you and they see the gift in you
and then just share it with the world
share it baby
and everything you give out is gonna
come right back to you let love guide
you not fear go for it
no time to wait have a wonderful day
we’re here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
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