peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we are out here in nature
shout out to the deep divers people who
write to me saying Ralph yes you are
always sharing with people and I love
that thank you so much for your videos
they’ve helped me out morale yes who
helps you if you need anything don’t
hesitate to vent to me to call me to
message me thank you so much I will take
your offer up on that right if I have to
I love you deep divers baby what you
probably have to go through before you
breathing in that good ass prana baby
okay we have a lot to dive into is that
you out there because someone wrote to
me saying that should it be this hard in
finding someone special like they are
going through a lot of trials and
tribulations and sometimes as beautiful
then it’s like this it’s like a wave
mean even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello we have a lot to dive into so let
me share with you what’s helped me along
my journey 11 things you’ll probably go
through before finding that special
someone and the first thing is please
ever seen those doormats please leave
shoes right here outside have you seen
these doormats around that say please
leave egos and shoes right here outside
we don’t need your ego in here right now
now I’ve spoken about the coca-cola
relationship being the toxic
relationship which a lot of us find
ourselves in and this is really the
karmic relationship where we really
learn so much about ourselves and really
come to work on ourselves even more
because people highlight what we really
really really really really really
really need to work on and the water
relationship which is the more
harmonious relationship and even in that
relationship you are still learning even
more about yourself what happens is is
this you is this you out there when you
find someone special but you realize
your ego is just so humongous it’s just
so huge right now that is actually
preventing you from connecting with that
person I found along my early journey
like if you want to connect with someone
special you got to leave your ego
outside because an ego is a three-letter
word that can destroy a 12-letter word
called a relationship slow motion this
side doing the little finger roll there
okay and I’ve seen it there were times
all of my early journey when I was in my
ego and I realized this actually stopped
me from connecting with amazing people
or finding someone special and the
moment I be gay the moment I began to
become more aware of my ego I started to
realize that ego get outside right had
to move more into my heart space and
then I started to connect with
one special so wash yourself today are
you always living upstairs because the
ego will trick you into believing that
you are someone that you are totally not
it moves you out of your true
authenticity it moves you to become a
person who you are not it moves you into
pretending and pretending is not who we
truly are even though a lot of us are
professional pretenders right so leave
the ego outside the second thing is this
before finding that someone special you
will probably go through denial a lot of
us we found our soul mate
we found our twin flame but we are in
deep denial it starts like this due to
past circumstances and situations and
past relationships past interactions and
whatnot
you’ve been hut I get it and you will do
whatever you can to not go through that
same experience so you don’t want to
feel how you feel right that’s the
paradox right now the more you don’t
want to feel is the more you actually
feel what helped me along my journey was
to learn how to feel without being
afraid of being hurt let me repeat that
learn how to feel without being afraid
the people who wear their hearts on
their sleeves right you might think oh
my gosh that’s so terrible these are the
people around that get hurt the most not
at all these are the most vulnerable
people they are the most strongest
people because it takes more strength to
become vulnerable through your
vulnerability you will find someone
special the more vulnerable you are and
can really just open up to someone is
the more you will find someone special
but once again you got to get through
that massive ego of yours it’s hard hard
cut down the road what is it hard
exactly you just heard it from the cat
down the road what’s the third thing
you’ll probably go through before
finding that special someone I talk of
power dynamics right and in the Kokkola
relationship the Coca Cola relationship
we are seeing that everybody wants to be
in control okay in the relationship in
the connection and it’s not going to
work like that you see someone’s got to
give
someone’s got to become yielding men of
power women of power you got to go
through that first before you find that
special someone I remember when I was
working in my first job I had a
girlfriend at the time and it was
beautiful but I realize my ego was
coming into play and also I was so set
on this vision and dream and that’s
out there listen very closely you may be
dating a guy and a lot of women write to
me every single day saying that my guy
isn’t showing me enough attention I’ll
do a video on that but ladies let me
just simplify it for you this is because
you are dealing with a man of power who
is set on his vision who is set on
fulfilling the dream until he does that
he won’t give you a hundred percent
attention guys same thing if you are
dealing with a woman of power a very
ambitious woman same thing and I
realized that the more I was fulfilling
the dream what we call
self-actualization I could now connect
with someone special why because I was
investing a hundred percent of my energy
into that connection
you see you might be with someone right
now who’s saying oh I love you but at
the same time in their own lives they
haven’t made anything of themselves they
know this subconsciously so they can’t
give you everything when they have
started to work on their dream a bit
more then you will find and you are as
well the water relationship will start
coming into fruition a whole lot more so
you have to go through that the men of
power and women of power and you have to
actualize what’s the fourth thing seven
day vegan challenge a lot of people are
saying Ralph it’s changed my life
that’s beautiful to hear at least be on
the same food page can we can we at
least be on the same food page cuz I
realize I had to go through that before
I really
found someone special because my whole
life I was just connecting with people
and they were special but you see as we
change the types of people we meet also
changes slow motion this side as we
change the types of people we meet also
changes as you change your food diet the
types of people you meet will also
change I’ve been a vegan for over 12
years because of that I’ve met entirely
different people and a lot of us don’t
like Tom and Jerry we don’t realize that
I meet people and I met someone a long
time ago who was even she was a raw
foodist I said here’s some orange juice
she’s like it’s pasteurized I said what
she wouldn’t drink it I respected that
being on the same food page is key I
love animals
over 500,000 animals are killed every
single hour in the United States of
America we got to do better than that I
played my part now if I see someone else
who holds the same sentiment who shows
the same care of the same same care and
loved animals
we’re gonna get along just fine
right so ask yourself are we both on the
same food page because if you’re not
gonna be very hard to have a deeper
connection with that person the fifth
thing you probably have to go through
before finding that special someone is
to make priorities
prioritize write make make them make
them a priority a lot of us we have a
lot of priorities we don’t have a
priority and I realize this along my
early journey we get caught up you see a
lot of us were going through so many
things I’m gonna do another video on
Twin Flames and soulmates
but a lot of us we get caught up in the
whirlwind of what we call life that
four-letter word which is pretty much
like a roller coaster ride and it’s
beautiful is fantastic but a lot of us
we have so many different obligations
every single day certain people are
studying they got a lot of exams to
think about certain people are working
in jobs where they don’t they don’t even
have time for themselves let alone
someone special
now that was me along my le journey I
used to work long hours what I call the
vampire shift where are my fangs right
now right had no time for even myself
let alone to connect with someone in a
special way and then I started to free
up more time I started to scratch my
head and say wait a minute what is most
important Ralph then I said okay I get
it
health love happiness family health love
happiness family health love happiness
family you get it right that’s so
important but you see up until that
point I used to make other stuff my
priorities like how other people would
see me and all of this irrelevant stuff
then I started to put connecting with
someone special on the priority list
right so you got to ask yourself is that
a priority for me because a lot of us we
we say it is but our actions
don’t prove that we say it is but we
don’t invest in that we say it is but we
haven’t created a lifestyle around that
to make it important to us I have to do
that
people say Ralph you’re always sharing
videos see ya guess what I’m living the
dream right I just have to make a video
a month and I’m good set for life but I
love to do this so I’ve got time the
health love happiness and family that’s
what you have to realize before you
connect with someone special number six
okay
talking of priorities compromise right
work together we got to come to what I
call the water relationship agreement
where we say okay you see do you want to
know what makes the water relationship
flow so beautifully like this like that
right cuz Co color relationship is like
– shhh no I’m not playing a game right
now Shh no no okay just flow water
relationship it’s because people work
things out they to give and take they’re
like okay you’ve got to do this okay I
get it
let’s work together coca-cola
relationship the toxic relationship is
all about absolutes right if I don’t
have it this way well it’s not going to
work that’s why it becomes very toxic
water relationship once again is very
yielding it’s flexible meaning if two
people are connecting together and one
one person one person has to work even
if it’s long hours they’ll say okay
let’s make a day for ourselves that we
just hang out they work together
therefore it becomes more flowing
so that’s what I realize I have to go
through before connecting with someone
special and that’s what will play out in
all of our lives learning how to work
things out instead of just being so
rigid and so absolute and so definite
okay well I don’t have it this way then
it’s over
it’s not gonna work be flexible show me
some show show me some yoga right now
right
flexible what’s number seven to learn
how to appreciate someone now a lot of
the times we don’t appreciate people
until they are no longer there
that was me along my early journey I had
to realize that and that’s what you
might have to go through before you find
that someone special to actually
appreciate them when they are there
right and appreciation can be done in
many ways I say daily watering is a
great way now if you don’t water
something it begins to wither away I had
to realize that appreciation is the glue
that holds people together period
whether it’s a friendship whether it’s
your husband your wife right your
children the cat down the road we love
you deep divers say we love you to the
cat down the road right now okay thanks
say thanks write great appreciation is
the glue that holds relationships
together friendships together family and
friends together and you’ve got to
really realize the importance of
appreciation appreciating someone number
eight what you have to go through this
is a huge one is trust trust means to
love actually right if there is no trust
there is no love you see before we can
actually find that someone special what
I had to realize along my early journey
was that you got to really trust that
person but before you can trust that
person you got to start trusting
yourself
you got to realize the greatest
relationship you can have is with
yourself I trust myself
therefore I’m connecting with someone
I’ve got to trust them too and I can do
that because I’m so confident in Who I
am to trust means to be confident from
the Latin confident we’ll come to that
later
so before you find that someone special
you got to be confident in yourself you
got to be confident because if you want
insecurity start arising you start once
again living in the ego mind you start
living in the ego mind which is one of
fear doubt and disbelief the water
relationship is about wholehearted trust
not that you have to be a doormat not
that you have to be someone who turns a
blind eye but it’s someone who respects
someone enough to stay look I trust you
you got you got this you got it you got
it you got it
great okay it is flowing it is not
possessive it is kind it is not gonna
put you in a cage it sets you free when
you trust someone they respect you even
slow motion is like when you trust
someone they respect you more and they
open up to you even more number nine
communicate talk to me a lot of people
break down the lines of communication
and what you may have to go through
before finding that someone special is
to open up the
lines of communication certain times we
block people when we are angry we say I
never want to talk to you but deep down
we actually do we actually love this
person but our ego has got in the way
and this ego will convince you that
you’re doing the right there
oh you just fell over I told you right
so I had to learn along my early Jen you
got to open up the lines of
communication to connect with someone
special you got to be able to talk to
them call them and meet them physically
and also just to realize that even if
you can’t meet them talk to them call
them you can’t do that
write them a letter text them write do
whatever you can to keep the lines of
communication open and to show them how
much they really matter to you no
relationship is perfect you know there’s
this meme which there’s an old couple
and they’re like how did your
relationship last for 70 years and
they’re like because we’re from the age
where if something was broken you didn’t
throw it out you fixed it okay
number 10 be silly
right when you are silly around someone
you start finding someone special if you
can’t become silly around someone it’s
gonna be very hard before you before you
find that someone special you’re gonna
have to be very vulnerable gonna have to
be very silly have you ever been around
someone where you’re just saying stuff
and you’re like I don’t care because I
know this person is not going to judge
me they’re not gonna hold it against me
okay and that’s what I started to see
along my early journey that look if you
are around someone where you can just
totally open up you’re both silly to
each other okay then that’s very very
very very very very special person but
if you can’t do that gonna have to go
through the silly phase right the silly
phase that’s right get silly
a number eleven is what I call you may
have to go through the consciousness
page right are you both on the same
consciousness page before you meet that
someone special you see a lot of us
we’re living in this 3d on a very
surface level and there’s not anything
you can do about if someone else is on
that level of a very surface level we
are talking about past lives from
previous incarnations there are no
accidents in this dimension whoever we
are connecting with with either known in
a past life they’re here to help us
assist assist us in this incarnation so
what I started to realize is that the
more I connected with someone on the
same page the more this person I saw how
special they were right but if both of
you are on different consciousness which
means awareness pages it’s going to be
very difficult so just remind yourself
before you find that someone special
become more aware who you are that will
give you more clarity of what you
actually want in your life become more
aware of who you are that will give you
more clarity of what you are worthy for
in your life have a beautiful day feel
so good to be a live baby can I get a
hello
hey well here in nature breathing in
that good ah sprout a baby infinite
diving deep once again stay well stay
you
you [Music]
once again we are out here in nature
shout out to the deep divers people who
write to me saying Ralph yes you are
always sharing with people and I love
that thank you so much for your videos
they’ve helped me out morale yes who
helps you if you need anything don’t
hesitate to vent to me to call me to
message me thank you so much I will take
your offer up on that right if I have to
I love you deep divers baby what you
probably have to go through before you
breathing in that good ass prana baby
okay we have a lot to dive into is that
you out there because someone wrote to
me saying that should it be this hard in
finding someone special like they are
going through a lot of trials and
tribulations and sometimes as beautiful
then it’s like this it’s like a wave
mean even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello we have a lot to dive into so let
me share with you what’s helped me along
my journey 11 things you’ll probably go
through before finding that special
someone and the first thing is please
ever seen those doormats please leave
shoes right here outside have you seen
these doormats around that say please
leave egos and shoes right here outside
we don’t need your ego in here right now
now I’ve spoken about the coca-cola
relationship being the toxic
relationship which a lot of us find
ourselves in and this is really the
karmic relationship where we really
learn so much about ourselves and really
come to work on ourselves even more
because people highlight what we really
really really really really really
really need to work on and the water
relationship which is the more
harmonious relationship and even in that
relationship you are still learning even
more about yourself what happens is is
this you is this you out there when you
find someone special but you realize
your ego is just so humongous it’s just
so huge right now that is actually
preventing you from connecting with that
person I found along my early journey
like if you want to connect with someone
special you got to leave your ego
outside because an ego is a three-letter
word that can destroy a 12-letter word
called a relationship slow motion this
side doing the little finger roll there
okay and I’ve seen it there were times
all of my early journey when I was in my
ego and I realized this actually stopped
me from connecting with amazing people
or finding someone special and the
moment I be gay the moment I began to
become more aware of my ego I started to
realize that ego get outside right had
to move more into my heart space and
then I started to connect with
one special so wash yourself today are
you always living upstairs because the
ego will trick you into believing that
you are someone that you are totally not
it moves you out of your true
authenticity it moves you to become a
person who you are not it moves you into
pretending and pretending is not who we
truly are even though a lot of us are
professional pretenders right so leave
the ego outside the second thing is this
before finding that someone special you
will probably go through denial a lot of
us we found our soul mate
we found our twin flame but we are in
deep denial it starts like this due to
past circumstances and situations and
past relationships past interactions and
whatnot
you’ve been hut I get it and you will do
whatever you can to not go through that
same experience so you don’t want to
feel how you feel right that’s the
paradox right now the more you don’t
want to feel is the more you actually
feel what helped me along my journey was
to learn how to feel without being
afraid of being hurt let me repeat that
learn how to feel without being afraid
the people who wear their hearts on
their sleeves right you might think oh
my gosh that’s so terrible these are the
people around that get hurt the most not
at all these are the most vulnerable
people they are the most strongest
people because it takes more strength to
become vulnerable through your
vulnerability you will find someone
special the more vulnerable you are and
can really just open up to someone is
the more you will find someone special
but once again you got to get through
that massive ego of yours it’s hard hard
cut down the road what is it hard
exactly you just heard it from the cat
down the road what’s the third thing
you’ll probably go through before
finding that special someone I talk of
power dynamics right and in the Kokkola
relationship the Coca Cola relationship
we are seeing that everybody wants to be
in control okay in the relationship in
the connection and it’s not going to
work like that you see someone’s got to
give
someone’s got to become yielding men of
power women of power you got to go
through that first before you find that
special someone I remember when I was
working in my first job I had a
girlfriend at the time and it was
beautiful but I realize my ego was
coming into play and also I was so set
on this vision and dream and that’s
out there listen very closely you may be
dating a guy and a lot of women write to
me every single day saying that my guy
isn’t showing me enough attention I’ll
do a video on that but ladies let me
just simplify it for you this is because
you are dealing with a man of power who
is set on his vision who is set on
fulfilling the dream until he does that
he won’t give you a hundred percent
attention guys same thing if you are
dealing with a woman of power a very
ambitious woman same thing and I
realized that the more I was fulfilling
the dream what we call
self-actualization I could now connect
with someone special why because I was
investing a hundred percent of my energy
into that connection
you see you might be with someone right
now who’s saying oh I love you but at
the same time in their own lives they
haven’t made anything of themselves they
know this subconsciously so they can’t
give you everything when they have
started to work on their dream a bit
more then you will find and you are as
well the water relationship will start
coming into fruition a whole lot more so
you have to go through that the men of
power and women of power and you have to
actualize what’s the fourth thing seven
day vegan challenge a lot of people are
saying Ralph it’s changed my life
that’s beautiful to hear at least be on
the same food page can we can we at
least be on the same food page cuz I
realize I had to go through that before
I really
found someone special because my whole
life I was just connecting with people
and they were special but you see as we
change the types of people we meet also
changes slow motion this side as we
change the types of people we meet also
changes as you change your food diet the
types of people you meet will also
change I’ve been a vegan for over 12
years because of that I’ve met entirely
different people and a lot of us don’t
like Tom and Jerry we don’t realize that
I meet people and I met someone a long
time ago who was even she was a raw
foodist I said here’s some orange juice
she’s like it’s pasteurized I said what
she wouldn’t drink it I respected that
being on the same food page is key I
love animals
over 500,000 animals are killed every
single hour in the United States of
America we got to do better than that I
played my part now if I see someone else
who holds the same sentiment who shows
the same care of the same same care and
loved animals
we’re gonna get along just fine
right so ask yourself are we both on the
same food page because if you’re not
gonna be very hard to have a deeper
connection with that person the fifth
thing you probably have to go through
before finding that special someone is
to make priorities
prioritize write make make them make
them a priority a lot of us we have a
lot of priorities we don’t have a
priority and I realize this along my
early journey we get caught up you see a
lot of us were going through so many
things I’m gonna do another video on
Twin Flames and soulmates
but a lot of us we get caught up in the
whirlwind of what we call life that
four-letter word which is pretty much
like a roller coaster ride and it’s
beautiful is fantastic but a lot of us
we have so many different obligations
every single day certain people are
studying they got a lot of exams to
think about certain people are working
in jobs where they don’t they don’t even
have time for themselves let alone
someone special
now that was me along my le journey I
used to work long hours what I call the
vampire shift where are my fangs right
now right had no time for even myself
let alone to connect with someone in a
special way and then I started to free
up more time I started to scratch my
head and say wait a minute what is most
important Ralph then I said okay I get
it
health love happiness family health love
happiness family health love happiness
family you get it right that’s so
important but you see up until that
point I used to make other stuff my
priorities like how other people would
see me and all of this irrelevant stuff
then I started to put connecting with
someone special on the priority list
right so you got to ask yourself is that
a priority for me because a lot of us we
we say it is but our actions
don’t prove that we say it is but we
don’t invest in that we say it is but we
haven’t created a lifestyle around that
to make it important to us I have to do
that
people say Ralph you’re always sharing
videos see ya guess what I’m living the
dream right I just have to make a video
a month and I’m good set for life but I
love to do this so I’ve got time the
health love happiness and family that’s
what you have to realize before you
connect with someone special number six
okay
talking of priorities compromise right
work together we got to come to what I
call the water relationship agreement
where we say okay you see do you want to
know what makes the water relationship
flow so beautifully like this like that
right cuz Co color relationship is like
– shhh no I’m not playing a game right
now Shh no no okay just flow water
relationship it’s because people work
things out they to give and take they’re
like okay you’ve got to do this okay I
get it
let’s work together coca-cola
relationship the toxic relationship is
all about absolutes right if I don’t
have it this way well it’s not going to
work that’s why it becomes very toxic
water relationship once again is very
yielding it’s flexible meaning if two
people are connecting together and one
one person one person has to work even
if it’s long hours they’ll say okay
let’s make a day for ourselves that we
just hang out they work together
therefore it becomes more flowing
so that’s what I realize I have to go
through before connecting with someone
special and that’s what will play out in
all of our lives learning how to work
things out instead of just being so
rigid and so absolute and so definite
okay well I don’t have it this way then
it’s over
it’s not gonna work be flexible show me
some show show me some yoga right now
right
flexible what’s number seven to learn
how to appreciate someone now a lot of
the times we don’t appreciate people
until they are no longer there
that was me along my early journey I had
to realize that and that’s what you
might have to go through before you find
that someone special to actually
appreciate them when they are there
right and appreciation can be done in
many ways I say daily watering is a
great way now if you don’t water
something it begins to wither away I had
to realize that appreciation is the glue
that holds people together period
whether it’s a friendship whether it’s
your husband your wife right your
children the cat down the road we love
you deep divers say we love you to the
cat down the road right now okay thanks
say thanks write great appreciation is
the glue that holds relationships
together friendships together family and
friends together and you’ve got to
really realize the importance of
appreciation appreciating someone number
eight what you have to go through this
is a huge one is trust trust means to
love actually right if there is no trust
there is no love you see before we can
actually find that someone special what
I had to realize along my early journey
was that you got to really trust that
person but before you can trust that
person you got to start trusting
yourself
you got to realize the greatest
relationship you can have is with
yourself I trust myself
therefore I’m connecting with someone
I’ve got to trust them too and I can do
that because I’m so confident in Who I
am to trust means to be confident from
the Latin confident we’ll come to that
later
so before you find that someone special
you got to be confident in yourself you
got to be confident because if you want
insecurity start arising you start once
again living in the ego mind you start
living in the ego mind which is one of
fear doubt and disbelief the water
relationship is about wholehearted trust
not that you have to be a doormat not
that you have to be someone who turns a
blind eye but it’s someone who respects
someone enough to stay look I trust you
you got you got this you got it you got
it you got it
great okay it is flowing it is not
possessive it is kind it is not gonna
put you in a cage it sets you free when
you trust someone they respect you even
slow motion is like when you trust
someone they respect you more and they
open up to you even more number nine
communicate talk to me a lot of people
break down the lines of communication
and what you may have to go through
before finding that someone special is
to open up the
lines of communication certain times we
block people when we are angry we say I
never want to talk to you but deep down
we actually do we actually love this
person but our ego has got in the way
and this ego will convince you that
you’re doing the right there
oh you just fell over I told you right
so I had to learn along my early Jen you
got to open up the lines of
communication to connect with someone
special you got to be able to talk to
them call them and meet them physically
and also just to realize that even if
you can’t meet them talk to them call
them you can’t do that
write them a letter text them write do
whatever you can to keep the lines of
communication open and to show them how
much they really matter to you no
relationship is perfect you know there’s
this meme which there’s an old couple
and they’re like how did your
relationship last for 70 years and
they’re like because we’re from the age
where if something was broken you didn’t
throw it out you fixed it okay
number 10 be silly
right when you are silly around someone
you start finding someone special if you
can’t become silly around someone it’s
gonna be very hard before you before you
find that someone special you’re gonna
have to be very vulnerable gonna have to
be very silly have you ever been around
someone where you’re just saying stuff
and you’re like I don’t care because I
know this person is not going to judge
me they’re not gonna hold it against me
okay and that’s what I started to see
along my early journey that look if you
are around someone where you can just
totally open up you’re both silly to
each other okay then that’s very very
very very very very special person but
if you can’t do that gonna have to go
through the silly phase right the silly
phase that’s right get silly
a number eleven is what I call you may
have to go through the consciousness
page right are you both on the same
consciousness page before you meet that
someone special you see a lot of us
we’re living in this 3d on a very
surface level and there’s not anything
you can do about if someone else is on
that level of a very surface level we
are talking about past lives from
previous incarnations there are no
accidents in this dimension whoever we
are connecting with with either known in
a past life they’re here to help us
assist assist us in this incarnation so
what I started to realize is that the
more I connected with someone on the
same page the more this person I saw how
special they were right but if both of
you are on different consciousness which
means awareness pages it’s going to be
very difficult so just remind yourself
before you find that someone special
become more aware who you are that will
give you more clarity of what you
actually want in your life become more
aware of who you are that will give you
more clarity of what you are worthy for
in your life have a beautiful day feel
so good to be a live baby can I get a
hello
hey well here in nature breathing in
that good ah sprout a baby infinite
diving deep once again stay well stay
you
you [Music]
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