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11 Things You’ll Probably Go Through Before Discovering Your Purpose


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peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we are out here in nature
we got the birds singing for us just for
today no everyday they do that breathing
in that good aspirin a baby do you know
what you are supposed to be doing on
planet Earth
you yes you I have a lot of people
writing to me saying that they’re lost
they don’t know what their purpose is
and I’ve been there and it’s I get it I
get it because you’ve just been studying
you got a lot of expectations on you
right now and you’re like what am I
doing here and we even had breakfast yet
can I get a Hello so I’m gonna share
with you what helped me along my journey
wake up every single day and really have
a fun time 11 things you’ll probably go
through before discovering your purpose
oh we got a lot to talk about what is
the first thing let’s dive straight into
it our jobs job means just over broke
that’s okay though odd jobs are jobs
which you don’t mind doing
but your heart is not really in it is
that you out there working just to get
by but your heart isn’t really in it and
I was doing that for a long long time
and I realized I had to go through that
before I actually discovered what I came
here to do you see life didn’t come with
a manual hey Rebecca hey
Thomas hey Michael this is what you’re
here to do no it didn’t come with that
so guess what what a lot of us we’re
gonna have to work in so many different
kinds of jobs I’m gonna have a pretty
long employment history or none at all
because we don’t want to do that before
we actually discover what we came here
to do I’m here to tell you that it’s
okay it’s okay to work in odd jobs I
used to work in restaurants in retail in
hospitals in all over the place you
could find me okay I was working since I
was 16 right in fact since I was younger
than that I was doing paper round right
I got inspired by Bart Simpson write
paper round yeah but that was an odd job
right I definitely know that that’s not
what I came here to do but I had to go
through that to get to where I am right
now now you might find yourself in the
same predicament
you got babies to feed and you’re
working somewhere you don’t want to your
heart isn’t in it
but it’s a means right it’s not the end
once you have that mindset that will
help you deal with it right and
realizing every day that this is not the
end I’m not gonna live my whole life
here right but you might have to go
through a few odd jobs the second thing
I realize I had to go through before I
discovered my purpose was I had to lose
this doubt that I wasn’t worthy to live
the life I had always dreamed of which
is Ralph which is to pretty much do
whatever I want every single day and
help people become their greatest
version well guess what I’m doing it but
you see for a long time
I thought that’s impossible
how when where who had a lot of
questions like when is this gonna happen
we have a lot of doubt so many of us
that’s why we are where we find
ourselves because we don’t really think
it’s possible because we haven’t seen it
and a lot of us we’re gonna have to go
through that hole what I call the
doubting period where we gonna be
getting up falling down getting up
falling oh my gosh
getting up falling down getting kind of
good exercise for you doubt is natural
I’m here to tell you doubt is natural in
fact doubt just means you are getting
slow motion in this side chances are if
you don’t have a lot of doubts you are
very content and that’s great but
chances are you are living in your
comfort zone
you see doubt arises when we know we are
worthy of something more we just don’t
know how to get there or how to do it
but we really want it so I started to
see doubt as a healthy thing if I’m
having a lot of doubts about doing
something at least I’m thinking about
doing something right feeling nervous
right now
you feeling really uncomfortable that’s
good because oftentimes when we have a
lot of doubt it means something great is
about to happen or you are gonna stop
something great from happening you got a
choice what is the third thing you’ll
probably go through before discovering
your purpose
now do you complain a lot I use someone
who loves to complain about the weather
it’s too hot then it cools down is too
complaining you might have to go through
a whole lot of complaining I used to
know someone who would always complain a
lot that someone was me and I would
complain about not living the life I
know I came here to live and I realized
what I would complain I would feel a
little bit better then I realized wait a
minute I’m still here then I realized
complaining only works if you’re gonna
actually do something about it slow
motion this side complaining only works
if you’re gonna do something about it
because a lot of us we just complain I
don’t like this I don’t like that and
then we’re still standing where we’re
standing move around a bit after you
complain doesn’t world good the whole
thing 7 day vegan challenge by the way
people on snapchat who are sending me
delicious food and making me hungry all
throughout the day don’t do that like a
least share some acai
some all of those dishes you’re making
like share some with us with us deep
divers skipping lunch that’s what you’ll
probably have to go through before
discovering your purpose
I realized that okay I’m qualified went
to university at 17 okay I’m working now
yay no I don’t even have time to finish
this food right in front of me this III
live blue-green algae right the most
nutrient-dense food on the planet this
beautiful pineapple right in front of me
this mangosteen high in vitamin C no I
don’t have time to eat that because
before I found my purpose I would be
literally skipping lunches in fact has
this ever happened to you maybe you’re
working somewhere or maybe you’re not
but you’re just so busy that when you’re
supposed to take lunch you don’t you get
so preoccupied so consumed that you
actually skip lunch you skip eating all
of those delicious foods until you
actually slow down right now I never
skip lunch right because I’m doing what
I know I came here to do the fifth thing
you’ll probably go through before
finding and discovering your purpose is
what I call the investment you might be
really afraid of investing like I talked
to some people
there was a finger who spent 80 thousand
on singing lessons as a young child
80,000 that’s a lot of money who does
that someone who really someone who
really wants to live their dream or who
pet whose parents want me to live that
dream right that’s a huge investment but
you see most of us in society we’re not
ready to make that kind of investment I
definitely wasn’t so I realized this
before I could actually discover my true
purpose and live it every single day
you got to invest in him I remember
skating you know my friends had a new
skateboard and I’m like I want a new
skateboard but I’m like gosh it’s too
expensive at the time right then I
actually bought a new skateboard and I
was priming my subconscious mind to say
I am worthy for the best you see before
you discover your purpose you got to
start learning how to prime your
subconscious mind to say look before I
even started making videos that had a
really rubbish camera and I’m like if I
want to do this let me at least do it
properly so I actually bought a camera
over 1,000 it costs over $1,000 right
probably closer to $2,000 at a time and
it was really expensive but I realized
it helped me discover my true purpose
because it showed what I was willing to
look out for the investment slow motion
this side you gotta be able to put that
money up when it comes to your dream now
material objects right it’s also about
your time as an investment your energy
you are investing your energy into what
it is you want number six you gotta
become clear about what it is you want
clarity is everything a lot of us we say
okay I like to do this I like to do that
that isn’t enough what Ralph that isn’t
enough liking is not enough you got to
start loving you got to have what I call
mental concise clarity mental concise
clarity to say this is what I am gonna
do on planet earth and no nobody told me
to do it it’s just what I feel there is
no manual that comes with you when you
are born so that means we have all the
answers within us there is no manual
that comes with you when you are born
which means we have all the answers we
need within us and I started to realize
this that okay what is it I really love
Isle of freedom Isle of feeling happy I
love meeting people I love going to the
beach so I built my hope
life around those deep passions votes
those deep desires those deep loves that
I had and I didn’t feel guilty about it
if you like doing whatever it is you
love to do don’t feel guilty about it
but you might have to go through that
whole guilty phase right I’m not sure
that’s okay it happens but just realize
that you will go through that stage of
not having enough clarity of what it is
you came here to do until eventually you
say I’m not gonna feel guilty anymore
for what I really love to do and that’s
a secret the seventh thing you’ll
probably have to go through before
finding and discovering your purpose
what helped me was to realize I was
going through a lot of not only
scratching my head I used to look at
other people’s lives is that you out
there looking at other people’s lives
and saying my life will never be that of
course it won’t because you want them
okay spoiler alert I realize along my
journey that when we talk of purpose
many of us will have to go through
nagging parents okay that’s number seven
nagging parents who compare you to other
people now you see they’ve been doing
this since you were really young
saying look at your friends they’re
doing their homework right so we have a
lot of outside influences always
comparing us to other people now you are
gonna have to go through that before you
really discover your purpose not their
purpose for you your purpose for you
dealing with not only nagging family
members who are like you should be
working here you should be doing this
with your life and they compare you to
what the next door neighbor’s children
are doing and you don’t even hang around
those children you didn’t when you were
small now they’re really grown up right
and they’re like making you feel bad
about it so I started to realize okay I
gotta start ignoring everybody and
seeing it like this that yes parents
they do wish us well they do have our
best interests at hand sometimes but not
all the times right and that’s the
secret to really discovering your
purpose silence everyone and start to
listen to yourself
number eight what I started to realize
was this that you have to trust yourself
even though it scares you that’s what
you’ll have to go through before
discovering your purpose learning how to
trust yourself even though it scares you
and I realize this that you see a lot of
us deep down we know what it is we want
but we don’t trust ourselves and we
don’t trust ourselves because we haven’t
seen it done and I started to trust
myself a lot more that okay how do you
trust yourself around this very very
very simple way is to run away from
everybody around you and start to build
your confidence muscle that’s right
confidence muscle building right and
that’s how I started to discover my
purpose number nine is that what you may
have to go through before you discover
your purpose is a lot of restless
nights’
we often think that it’s gonna be smooth
sailing and a lot of the times I realize
that even if you found your purpose
there are still so many ups and downs
it’s like a whole juggling act and when
I realize that even if you found your
purpose there are ups and downs imagine
what happens when you don’t and when
you’re not living your purpose there are
still ups and downs so I realize this
part of it but you see the more you do
it because you love to do it
the easier and the more bearable the ups
and downs become but before you actually
find it
whatever it is your purpose is there are
gonna be a lot of restless nights a lot
of insomnia may come into may come into
your life right because if your heart is
not really in something subconsciously
you don’t want to wake up and do that
something now every single day I jump
out of bed why because I love what I’m
doing number 10 you will have to go
through friends who don’t understand
your dreams people who don’t understand
what you want to do but you’ll be
telling them about your vision and
they’ll be like huh
and I realize this that don’t tell
somebody what you want to do until you
actually do it like I used to talk about
you know I want to start inspiring
people and at the time I was just
working in a bakery no like oh okay so I
realize this that you don’t want to talk
too much about what you’re gonna do but
before you find your purpose you might
fall into that trap you just want to do
it move all your energy into what you
want to do number eleven what you well
you’ll probably go through before
discovering your purpose is focusing on
everything that will probably go wrong
in your life right now
on focusing on everything that isn’t
working in your life right now
now you don’t deserve it yeah whole long
list and what actually did it for me why
I actually helped me discover my purpose
was to to use all of that energy I was
focusing and I was spending on my fears
and I put it
into my dreams and day by day it will
pay off one step at a time
you will start to realize that that’s
all you need you don’t want to overwhelm
yourself because that’s what might
happen before you find your purpose you
might be Modi tusky now I realize this
secret take one step at a time but more
so start where you are don’t try to do
everything at once try to do one thing
at a time and everything will take care
of itself
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slow motion this side and then just say
feel so good to be a live baby can I get
a Hello I’m a beautiful day we’re out
here in nature in dive deep once again
stay well stay healthy
you
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