P some Senate water diving deep once
again we are out here in the heart of
nature baby we got leaves swaying
everywhere feel so good to be alive ten
ways to get love to flow into your life
let’s just whoa breathing in that
good-ass prana baby so when it’s a
little windy this is like the best time
to do a video because it adds to the
cinematic effect so as promised I said I
was going to answer the second question
so I was making a video day before
yesterday and I got stopped infinite
waters is that you yes No okay it is me
right and the second question they asked
was this the two ladies that stopped me
how do you get love to flow into your
life and that’s a great question are you
having a hard time to get love to flow
into your life I’m asking you the cat
down the road got a problem for you
because it was a problem for me for a
long time and then I realize it’s a
massive secrets a lot of people say I
want love and we Neve in had breakfast
yet can I get a Hello okay so I’ve seen
along my journey the greatest paradox of
love is that
those that give love actually get the
most love back
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slow motion inside love is in the air
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang we’re back daddy’s home
now I meet a lot of people who say Ralph
I just want people to love me I want
love Ralph why haven’t I found the one
Ralph ladies say Ralph yes why haven’t I
found the perfect guy why can’t I find a
decent guy guys tell me Ralph why can’t
I find a decent lady ladies say why
can’t I find another lady guys say why
can’t I find another guy what the hell
is going on people can’t find love these
days right so let me share with you some
secrets I’ve learned how to get love to
flow into your life the first secret way
to get love to flow into your life is to
bend and then become whole within
yourself you see I’ve seen it along my
journey for a long time I remember when
I was a teenager and I would be like
hands open somebody love me please love
me and the love never came sometimes you
got to say look I don’t care about it
anymore I’m gonna stop searching and
just hope the cat down the road
lands on your leg okay because sometimes
the more you search for love the more
realize this that actually once you once
you stop searching for love
you realize that love begins with
self-love which begins with yourself
first you’ve got to learn how to fill
your own cup first before you start
putting out your cup and saying hey fill
my cup you see so many of us when we
talk of relationships dating finding the
one you want someone to sweep you off
your feet you’re only going to meet a
frog don’t worry about it okay when it
comes to finding the one so many of us
we’ve been programmed by cartoons and
movies that we’re going to meet someone
in a castle somewhere
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ain’t no castles around here you just
might meet someone in nature we have
this expectation and we have this
entitlement that we should find the
perfect person but we’ve never ever
many of us are half looking for another
and that other half you’re searching for
is also hot so we are two incomplete
hard and I saw it along my journey
growing up I don’t I had a lot of
anxiety growing up I used to have panic
attacks on the train Oh help me right
and the cat down the road came to my
rescue thank goodness for that
and I was just searching please love me
but I wasn’t happy a hundred percent
within myself I was fragmented detached
from my emotions so if you want to get
love to flow into your life stop
connecting with your true emotions the
energy in motion start to become whole
within yourself start to cultivate the
self love that’s the love nobody else
can give you when you say I love myself
I love my skin is so chocolatey baby
okay
I know you love chocolate don’t lie okay
I love my body because nobody else has
this body like me I love the way I walk
I love the way I talk you find one
positive attribute about yourself
one beautiful quality and you keep
focusing on it every single day that’s
how to cultivate self-love and then you
start becoming whole within yourself and
now you are able to see someone else who
has also become whole I’ve seen it along
my journey like once you start loving
yourself a little bit more love begins
to come into your life that’s why
sometimes you might see someone who’s
very proud of themselves they love
themselves and all of a sudden they’ve
got all of these people surrounding them
or all of these leaves surrounding them
right
become whole within yourself first fill
your own cup
what is the second way to get love to
flow into your life
what help me along my journey is this
you see isn’t this funny oh my days so
many times in life we are chasing
someone who is also chasing someone else
how about that are you chasing someone
right now you’re in love with someone
and they’re in love with someone else
this is what we call the great love
triangle
you see people always want what they
can’t have
ladies right now open your phone
you got it open good open the inbox of
your text messages there’s a guy right
there okay who’s always texting you
you’ve ignored him and you are waiting
for the guy that ignores you this is how
about that you see how the mind works is
very funny
we always want what we can’t have and I
realize along my journey I used to like
go after girls growing up who were like
untouchable oh my gosh because I’m like
I want to see if I can get with them and
that’s what ladies that’s what you do
too you’re like I want to see if I can
get that guy because he’s not paying me
any attention he just walked past me and
there’s a guy who’s really good to me
but he’s giving me too much attention
and I don’t like that I want to chase
love is elusive sometimes okay true love
is never elusive though its ever-present
in actuality it is the truth true love
is the truth that permeates everything
it always wins yes there is polarity but
ultimately the love vibration rules
planet Earth so I’ve seen that you got
to stop chasing people who are chasing
someone else because their attention is
not on you to get love to flow into your
life stop paying attention the people
that actually care about you how about
that who actually take time to message
you those are the people who are giving
you that love energy and if you give it
back to them you now create the love
connection so many times people are left
miserable tired confuse because they are
chasing someone who doesn’t even care
about them who isn’t even concerned
about them is that happening to you
right now you got to start taking
responsibility to say actually no more
chasing okay it’s time for me to connect
with someone who honors me and I’m going
to honor them you don’t have to chase
something let things naturally flow to
you it’s not that you have to be so
passive right you don’t have to be so
passive but to get love to flow into
your life you got to realize you don’t
have to use a lot of force all right you
don’t have to try and squeeze your feet
into the shoe right like you don’t have
to do that
you got to let it flow naturally and
that will be the one that’s meant for
you what is the third way to get love to
flow into your life
baby baby what’s helped me along my
journey is this be ready okay be ready
and when I say be ready you see a lot of
us think okay I actually I actually want
love I want love but it’s not love we
want because sometimes when love comes
on our doorstep we’re like actually help
us because love is about commitment it’s
about honesty it’s about loyalty okay
Ralph I didn’t sign up for this you got
to be ready are you ready for this and I
had to ask myself this question for a
lot of time I was definitely not ready
because I hadn’t done the inner work I
didn’t know who I was why even the cat
so I’m learned now how I started to get
more love to flow into my life was to
really start embodying the love
frequency by doing the inner work and
becoming ready for love you got to
become ready for love like this leaf is
so ready for love right now it’s
unbelievable be ready for love so when
you actually meet someone you’re going
to give them a hundred percent you’re
going to give them your mind body and
soul and they’re going to do the same
now you become the twins
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slow motion inside for a long time I
wasn’t ready for love because I was
studying I was in university I was
working I didn’t have time for love you
see growing up in school you don’t say
okay I just want to love I just want to
find the perfect partner you see most
people say I want to be a scientist an
architect a doctor a lawyer
song with a PhD okay only few people say
I just want to find love okay those are
the cute people right should we give
them a clap okay this is so I’ve Latin
it’s that you got to make time for love
you’ve got to make time for love and you
gotta you have to do the inner work to
be ready to receive love can you take a
compliment
you are so beautiful look at you you’re
glowing
I love the amber like Thanks
are you ready to receive a compliment
some people don’t feel worthy to receive
compliments that’s why love stays away
you’re so amazing thank you so much take
the compliment I’m giving it to you
be ready do the inner work work on
yourself
look that time when you’re single I’m
working right you’re single work on
yourself when I’ve been single I’m
working on myself
even when I’m not I’m working on myself
period emotionally mentally and
physically you got to work on yourself
so you can give so much more to that
special someone or the cat down the road
what is the fourth way to get love to
flow into your life now what’s helped me
along my journey is this to be in your
purpose even if leaves are in the way
okay you got to be in your purpose and
how I how I’ve seen like the importance
of this is unbelievable in my life
because you see there’s a statement a
woman loves a guy in uniform you heard
that before why is that because it shows
that this guy is about something okay
the guy is doing stuff he’s moving he’s
going places because he’s focused on a
vision he is focused on his dream okay
and that’s so attractive that’s how to
start getting love to flow into your
life be in your mission okay and it’s
what I call men and women of purpose
that’s how to get love to flow into your
life because now searching for love is
not the primary objective you now allow
wooh you now allow love to flow into
your life just like you allow those
leaves the flow party okay when you are
in your mission you take the pressure
off to say okay I’ve got to find them
the one you find the one you love doing
what you love slow motion in its eyes
now what I’ve realized is this you see I
do a lot of relationship counseling I’ve
spoken to a lot of couples and I’ve even
seen it in my own life you see when I
was like 16 years old 17 years old so
magical right here it’s like a like a
magical fairy tale okay when I was like
16 years old what happened I started to
realize this that
the secret is ladies you might see a guy
because I’ve got like people that watch
my videos from like 0 to 120 ok ladies
you’re like oh I met this guy Ralph okay
he’s like 18 he’s so cool but he just
doesn’t have time for me you see ladies
if you are meeting someone in their
prime between like 18 to 30 or even bit
beyond that okay they’re going to be
very focused on their mission and it’s
up to them to start making time but you
got to realize this and this is what I
told the two ladies that stopped me is
that you got to find someone who is
established who’s already kind of
fulfilled a major dream that’s how to
really get love to flow into your life
because now they have even more
attention to give you they now even have
more commitment to give you they now
even have more life experience to give
you you see look right now we’re living
in a whole new world where there is a
lot of choice a lot of options so what’s
helped me along my journey is I’m always
looking for someone that’s kind of
already manifested something in their
life they know who they are they’ve got
a strong sense of self so keep your eyes
open for someone who has a strong sense
of self and they’re in their mission and
they know themselves right that’s how to
really get love to flow into your life
what’s the fifth way to get love to flow
into your life seven day vegan challenge
shout out to everyone who is doing the
seven days vegan challenge the world’s
largest a lot of people eating a lot of
cherries by the way it’s strawberry
season ok you see those massive lorries
with strawberries in the back ok I
bought something yesterday no I didn’t
look I’ve learned this if you eat better
you feel better you feel more attractive
you feel more desirable and that’s how
to get love to flow into
life simply by changing your diet I’ve
been eating a plant-based diet been a
vegan for over 13 years I feel healthier
I I have the confidence to look people
straight in the eyes and say actually I
am worthy to be in your presence because
I just ate a delicious mango no nananana
okay and I see it all the time I’m
attracted someone who takes care of
their body by consuming premium foods or
GAD includes their eating to live
they’ve placed a lot of importance on
foods that is super attractive and once
you start eating healthier foods your
fruit and your veg you automatically
have more confidence and now you become
like a magnet of attraction and that’s
how to really get love to flow into your
life start taking care of your body by
consuming better foods when I was eating
a lot of junk foods it’s like I felt
really greasy because I would be eating
a lot of fried foods and when I would
meet someone it’s like I felt guilty
because I’m like do I really want to
share this junk food I just ate with
them and now because I’ve just like ate
a lot of acai I’m like yeah come and
share some siu with me come and share
come and share some acai with me baby
let’s go to Brazil right now let’s do it
let’s go let’s go
that’s good what is the sick way to get
love to flow into your life what helped
me along my journey is to realize this
you see what so many people are
searching for honesty yes loyalty
definitely commitment yes trust yes but
really respect ladies what do you want
from a guy respect guys what do you want
from ladies respect we are all searching
for respect but you see before you can
get respect and get love to flow into
your life you’ve got to learn how to
slow motion aside now I learn that and
I’m like okay I get it I get it I get it
that’s how to get love to flow into your
life respect yourself and love will
follow you got a whole new demeanor
about you right now a different cadence
you’re walking differently you’re
respecting yourself because of your
lifestyle and that’s how to get loved to
flow into your life there was a time
when I didn’t respect myself even when I
used to work in jobs which was serving
me being around people who weren’t
serving me and therefore I didn’t have
respect for myself so when I would meet
someone it was hard for them to respect
me but they definitely respected the cat
down the road and once I had this like
air of confidence like essentially I am
somebody I don’t know who yet I thought
it’d say I believe in myself I can do
amazing things life is incredible
because I say so just like that and I
started to give myself more credit
that’s how to actually start respecting
yourself and then you will see that once
you feel good about yourself on the
inside once you respect yourself you’re
dressing better you’re feeling better
you will get love to flow into your life
the question is well can you handle it
just a lot of love baby we ain’t playing
any games here we nee vinod breakfast
yet
okay what is the seventh way to get love
to flow into your life
what help me along my journey is this
accept yourself and love will follow so
a lot of people know by now that I
accept myself 100% but if you follow
these videos you also you will also know
that I used to have a lot of panic
attacks because I didn’t accept who I
was I would stare into the mirror and
say I’m not good enough
I don’t like myself for some strange
reason because of my programming I’m
like okay I’m born I was born with a
chip on my shoulder life is against me
I’m a victim of circumstance
love me everyone just disappeared right
now except the cat down the road it was
the only one that stood by me okay so
I’ve left me if you’re going to accept
yourself I love the skin I’m in I love
the body I’m in I love connecting
inspiring deep divers having a blast
I love that I’ve been able to live my
dream inspire millions of people and
travel the world and just sit on the
beach all day okay can we do that we can
do it we can do it okay that’s good
accept yourself that’s how to get love
to flow into your life I meet a lot of
people so beautiful so handsome they’re
like oh my gosh Ralph I’m not good
enough for my partner I’m not good
enough that’s why I’ve been single for
18 years okay don’t worry about it you
are good enough once you start saying
actually I’m pretty awesome I’m pretty
awesome I accept myself
I accept my skin color
I accept how I was born even if I’m sure
or I’m tall even if I’ve got six toes or
four fingers I accept myself even if I
wear really cool clothes or sometimes I
don’t sometimes I just go out naked I
accept myself
free the nipple ladies I accept myself I
act I accept myself that I’m so
different
everybody’s going this way while I’m
swaying this way because of the wind
listen accept yourself you see the power
of accepting yourself is that once you
accept yourself you actually help other
people to accept themselves
slow motion inside I receive a lot of
messages from people who are like Ralph
you’ve actually given me the permission
to be myself because when I see you and
you just say this can I get a Hello it
just makes it seem like it’s okay for me
to be pretty weird around thanks a lot
keep doing it because now I can actually
be myself you see the more you move into
the truth of who you are the more
authentic you become the more love will
flow into your life because you now help
other people to relax they feel
comfortable around you
they now accept themselves around you
because they’re like okay they’re not
always going to judge me so they can
make and relax right that’s how to get
love to flow into your life now what is
the eighth way to get love to flow into
your life baby baby be vulnerable oh
that is like huge be vulnerable like
nothing is sexier than vulnerability and
authenticity for vulnerability first if
you are vulnerable guys listen to this
ladies love when you just open up don’t
hold me baby this happened oh come here
like they love that stuff
ladies guys love when you’re like so
sensitive and feminine they love it
trust me I do anyway okay I’ll talk to
myself look be vulnerable in a world
where so many people are so hard all the
time
they’re like I got to be tough I got to
be strong that actually creates a
separation that is not the truth of who
we are we are very sensitive all of us
it’s just that we’ve been hurt and once
you’ve been hurt maybe from a past
relationship you begin to close yourself
off from other people to get love to
flow into your life you’ve got to learn
the power of vulnerability you got to
learn how to
with someone your dirty secrets and your
beautiful secrets you got to tell them
things that you don’t tell other people
you got to lay your soul bathroom right
bare your soul for them tell them stuff
beep stuff have a deep conversation with
them talk about the fifth dimension
now aliens are soon coming to Planet
Earth because so many people are on
their smartphone what the hell is going
on be vulnerable
show them your light sides but also your
shadow sides you see one of the greatest
ways I’ve seen along my journey to
attract love into your life is to learn
how to show your shadow size to someone
accept your shadow size as well as your
light size because if someone loves you
for your shadow aspects your shadow
personality they’ll definitely love you
for your life size okay you don’t always
want to be perfect around people you
don’t always want to dress up and wear
an indigo suit and a pocket square and
the amber don’t do that wait a minute
look be yourself okay sometimes you got
to dress down because I learn this like
going on a date sometimes you just we’re
just we’re jogging bottoms and if that
person accepts you if they accept you in
judging bottoms they’re gonna accept you
in whatever a beautiful indigo attire
whatever I remember when I used to make
videos you remember with the massive
afro with just the black shirt in my
garden you know the v-neck you know the
one okay just simple but the message was
so powerful let people fall in love with
your soul more than your body with your
message more than just this shell right
show them the depth of who you are by
allowing yourself to become vulnerable
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slow motion this side okay what is the
night way to get love to flow into your
life ego is not your amigo the
three-letter word that destroys a 12
letter word called a relationship look
along my LE journey I love my early
journey my ego screwed up a lot of
relationships yes it’s not your amigo
and then I learned how to remove the ego
when I’m with someone
okay the ego isn’t entirely bad
sometimes you need a bit of the ego but
you got to know when to bring it out and
when to put it away okay you’re with the
love of your life the ego doesn’t need
to be around because when when two
beautiful people connect to each other
the ego dissolves okay when people are
in a twin flame relationship there is no
ego even when people are in a soulmate
relationship there is no ego okay so the
ego is not your amigo if you want to
really get love to flow into your life
remove your ego when you are with them
because it’s not going to help you out
the ego creates separation and
separation is the greatest illusion ever
created it now creates the two instead
of the one and we’re all about
connecting reconnecting with a one it’s
about the oneness oneness is the
universal truth in existence so I’ve
learned that when I started to practice
just
calming the ego say ego no good go to
the back right now ain’t nobody got time
for that
okay I started to get more love I
started to get a lot to flow into my
life baby okay you create better
connections with people when the ego is
not there why because people are not
scared to be who they truly are when you
are in the ego love stays away from you
ain’t nobody got time for that once once
you once you are very open and you put
love first let love guide you not fear
love just flows oh it’s going to flow
baby’s going to flow and then you’re
going to have a massive party okay cool
love party Ralph’s ma is a DJ so I’ve
learned this like that’s like such an
easy way as well to get love flow into
your life just say ego get back okay and
then watch how just your day-to-day
interactions improve like I’ve connected
with so many people because I’ve learned
that the ego is not your amigo you’ve
got to treat people with respect we’re
all somebody amazing even the cat down
the road thank you so much what is the
ten way to get love to flow into your
life now what’s helped me along my
journey is they then then then make love
a top priority you see a lot of us we
have a lot of priorities we don’t have a
slow motion this life but wait Ruth I’m
gonna go to work I’ve got to study
around I don’t have time okay you do
have time if it is a priority a lot of
people say I’m so busy route my
girlfriend I just don’t have time for
her my wife my husband my boyfriend I’m
so busy nobody is so busy it’s just a
matter of priority and I’ve learned this
the hard way along my journey because I
was always like hey I’m pretty busy
right now I remember when I was like 19
20 I was like in a relationship and I’m
like gosh I got to do something honey
I got to do this go to do that we
stopped saying honey I’m a vegan hey I
love honey the smell of honey but I
don’t eat honey look realize this that
once you make love a priority to say
actually I’m going to focus on how
important the love connection is every
single day you could have tons of money
but what good is that if you don’t have
the love of your life there to share it
with you
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slow motion inside I don’t want to be a
lonely billionaire uh-uh right there’s
going to be like eight children I’m
gonna have an African village
look I’ve learned me that you got to
make love a priority and the secret is
you got to slow everything down that’s
what really helped me along my journey
you got to slow down they actually let
me think about it okay
what better feeling is there when you
hug someone you love like Ferrari is
cool but hugging that special someone is
just like oh my gosh you can’t buy that
you can’t like say you can’t actually I
go into a shop and say I want to buy a
hug from the one from the you know I
want to buy a hug from the one that was
meant for me you can’t do that so this
is a once in a lifetime experience we
got to stop paying attention to like how
precious the love connection is how
important the love connection is and
I’ve seen that like right now love the
love connection is at the forefront
because I’ve already achieved so much
actually I still got more to do but I’m
not going to be busy right so once you
start to make love a top priority you
will get more love to flow into your
life and then you’ll just stay they also
get to be a live baby can I get a hello
there I’m alive okay there you have it
we are out here in the heart of nature
have a beautiful day deep divers were
just well
breathing in that good off prana well
here baby
infinite waters diving deep once again they will stay healthy peace you
again we are out here in the heart of
nature baby we got leaves swaying
everywhere feel so good to be alive ten
ways to get love to flow into your life
let’s just whoa breathing in that
good-ass prana baby so when it’s a
little windy this is like the best time
to do a video because it adds to the
cinematic effect so as promised I said I
was going to answer the second question
so I was making a video day before
yesterday and I got stopped infinite
waters is that you yes No okay it is me
right and the second question they asked
was this the two ladies that stopped me
how do you get love to flow into your
life and that’s a great question are you
having a hard time to get love to flow
into your life I’m asking you the cat
down the road got a problem for you
because it was a problem for me for a
long time and then I realize it’s a
massive secrets a lot of people say I
want love and we Neve in had breakfast
yet can I get a Hello okay so I’ve seen
along my journey the greatest paradox of
love is that
those that give love actually get the
most love back
[Music]
slow motion inside love is in the air
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang we’re back daddy’s home
now I meet a lot of people who say Ralph
I just want people to love me I want
love Ralph why haven’t I found the one
Ralph ladies say Ralph yes why haven’t I
found the perfect guy why can’t I find a
decent guy guys tell me Ralph why can’t
I find a decent lady ladies say why
can’t I find another lady guys say why
can’t I find another guy what the hell
is going on people can’t find love these
days right so let me share with you some
secrets I’ve learned how to get love to
flow into your life the first secret way
to get love to flow into your life is to
bend and then become whole within
yourself you see I’ve seen it along my
journey for a long time I remember when
I was a teenager and I would be like
hands open somebody love me please love
me and the love never came sometimes you
got to say look I don’t care about it
anymore I’m gonna stop searching and
just hope the cat down the road
lands on your leg okay because sometimes
the more you search for love the more
realize this that actually once you once
you stop searching for love
you realize that love begins with
self-love which begins with yourself
first you’ve got to learn how to fill
your own cup first before you start
putting out your cup and saying hey fill
my cup you see so many of us when we
talk of relationships dating finding the
one you want someone to sweep you off
your feet you’re only going to meet a
frog don’t worry about it okay when it
comes to finding the one so many of us
we’ve been programmed by cartoons and
movies that we’re going to meet someone
in a castle somewhere
[Music]
ain’t no castles around here you just
might meet someone in nature we have
this expectation and we have this
entitlement that we should find the
perfect person but we’ve never ever
many of us are half looking for another
and that other half you’re searching for
is also hot so we are two incomplete
hard and I saw it along my journey
growing up I don’t I had a lot of
anxiety growing up I used to have panic
attacks on the train Oh help me right
and the cat down the road came to my
rescue thank goodness for that
and I was just searching please love me
but I wasn’t happy a hundred percent
within myself I was fragmented detached
from my emotions so if you want to get
love to flow into your life stop
connecting with your true emotions the
energy in motion start to become whole
within yourself start to cultivate the
self love that’s the love nobody else
can give you when you say I love myself
I love my skin is so chocolatey baby
okay
I know you love chocolate don’t lie okay
I love my body because nobody else has
this body like me I love the way I walk
I love the way I talk you find one
positive attribute about yourself
one beautiful quality and you keep
focusing on it every single day that’s
how to cultivate self-love and then you
start becoming whole within yourself and
now you are able to see someone else who
has also become whole I’ve seen it along
my journey like once you start loving
yourself a little bit more love begins
to come into your life that’s why
sometimes you might see someone who’s
very proud of themselves they love
themselves and all of a sudden they’ve
got all of these people surrounding them
or all of these leaves surrounding them
right
become whole within yourself first fill
your own cup
what is the second way to get love to
flow into your life
what help me along my journey is this
you see isn’t this funny oh my days so
many times in life we are chasing
someone who is also chasing someone else
how about that are you chasing someone
right now you’re in love with someone
and they’re in love with someone else
this is what we call the great love
triangle
you see people always want what they
can’t have
ladies right now open your phone
you got it open good open the inbox of
your text messages there’s a guy right
there okay who’s always texting you
you’ve ignored him and you are waiting
for the guy that ignores you this is how
about that you see how the mind works is
very funny
we always want what we can’t have and I
realize along my journey I used to like
go after girls growing up who were like
untouchable oh my gosh because I’m like
I want to see if I can get with them and
that’s what ladies that’s what you do
too you’re like I want to see if I can
get that guy because he’s not paying me
any attention he just walked past me and
there’s a guy who’s really good to me
but he’s giving me too much attention
and I don’t like that I want to chase
love is elusive sometimes okay true love
is never elusive though its ever-present
in actuality it is the truth true love
is the truth that permeates everything
it always wins yes there is polarity but
ultimately the love vibration rules
planet Earth so I’ve seen that you got
to stop chasing people who are chasing
someone else because their attention is
not on you to get love to flow into your
life stop paying attention the people
that actually care about you how about
that who actually take time to message
you those are the people who are giving
you that love energy and if you give it
back to them you now create the love
connection so many times people are left
miserable tired confuse because they are
chasing someone who doesn’t even care
about them who isn’t even concerned
about them is that happening to you
right now you got to start taking
responsibility to say actually no more
chasing okay it’s time for me to connect
with someone who honors me and I’m going
to honor them you don’t have to chase
something let things naturally flow to
you it’s not that you have to be so
passive right you don’t have to be so
passive but to get love to flow into
your life you got to realize you don’t
have to use a lot of force all right you
don’t have to try and squeeze your feet
into the shoe right like you don’t have
to do that
you got to let it flow naturally and
that will be the one that’s meant for
you what is the third way to get love to
flow into your life
baby baby what’s helped me along my
journey is this be ready okay be ready
and when I say be ready you see a lot of
us think okay I actually I actually want
love I want love but it’s not love we
want because sometimes when love comes
on our doorstep we’re like actually help
us because love is about commitment it’s
about honesty it’s about loyalty okay
Ralph I didn’t sign up for this you got
to be ready are you ready for this and I
had to ask myself this question for a
lot of time I was definitely not ready
because I hadn’t done the inner work I
didn’t know who I was why even the cat
so I’m learned now how I started to get
more love to flow into my life was to
really start embodying the love
frequency by doing the inner work and
becoming ready for love you got to
become ready for love like this leaf is
so ready for love right now it’s
unbelievable be ready for love so when
you actually meet someone you’re going
to give them a hundred percent you’re
going to give them your mind body and
soul and they’re going to do the same
now you become the twins
[Music]
slow motion inside for a long time I
wasn’t ready for love because I was
studying I was in university I was
working I didn’t have time for love you
see growing up in school you don’t say
okay I just want to love I just want to
find the perfect partner you see most
people say I want to be a scientist an
architect a doctor a lawyer
song with a PhD okay only few people say
I just want to find love okay those are
the cute people right should we give
them a clap okay this is so I’ve Latin
it’s that you got to make time for love
you’ve got to make time for love and you
gotta you have to do the inner work to
be ready to receive love can you take a
compliment
you are so beautiful look at you you’re
glowing
I love the amber like Thanks
are you ready to receive a compliment
some people don’t feel worthy to receive
compliments that’s why love stays away
you’re so amazing thank you so much take
the compliment I’m giving it to you
be ready do the inner work work on
yourself
look that time when you’re single I’m
working right you’re single work on
yourself when I’ve been single I’m
working on myself
even when I’m not I’m working on myself
period emotionally mentally and
physically you got to work on yourself
so you can give so much more to that
special someone or the cat down the road
what is the fourth way to get love to
flow into your life now what’s helped me
along my journey is this to be in your
purpose even if leaves are in the way
okay you got to be in your purpose and
how I how I’ve seen like the importance
of this is unbelievable in my life
because you see there’s a statement a
woman loves a guy in uniform you heard
that before why is that because it shows
that this guy is about something okay
the guy is doing stuff he’s moving he’s
going places because he’s focused on a
vision he is focused on his dream okay
and that’s so attractive that’s how to
start getting love to flow into your
life be in your mission okay and it’s
what I call men and women of purpose
that’s how to get love to flow into your
life because now searching for love is
not the primary objective you now allow
wooh you now allow love to flow into
your life just like you allow those
leaves the flow party okay when you are
in your mission you take the pressure
off to say okay I’ve got to find them
the one you find the one you love doing
what you love slow motion in its eyes
now what I’ve realized is this you see I
do a lot of relationship counseling I’ve
spoken to a lot of couples and I’ve even
seen it in my own life you see when I
was like 16 years old 17 years old so
magical right here it’s like a like a
magical fairy tale okay when I was like
16 years old what happened I started to
realize this that
the secret is ladies you might see a guy
because I’ve got like people that watch
my videos from like 0 to 120 ok ladies
you’re like oh I met this guy Ralph okay
he’s like 18 he’s so cool but he just
doesn’t have time for me you see ladies
if you are meeting someone in their
prime between like 18 to 30 or even bit
beyond that okay they’re going to be
very focused on their mission and it’s
up to them to start making time but you
got to realize this and this is what I
told the two ladies that stopped me is
that you got to find someone who is
established who’s already kind of
fulfilled a major dream that’s how to
really get love to flow into your life
because now they have even more
attention to give you they now even have
more commitment to give you they now
even have more life experience to give
you you see look right now we’re living
in a whole new world where there is a
lot of choice a lot of options so what’s
helped me along my journey is I’m always
looking for someone that’s kind of
already manifested something in their
life they know who they are they’ve got
a strong sense of self so keep your eyes
open for someone who has a strong sense
of self and they’re in their mission and
they know themselves right that’s how to
really get love to flow into your life
what’s the fifth way to get love to flow
into your life seven day vegan challenge
shout out to everyone who is doing the
seven days vegan challenge the world’s
largest a lot of people eating a lot of
cherries by the way it’s strawberry
season ok you see those massive lorries
with strawberries in the back ok I
bought something yesterday no I didn’t
look I’ve learned this if you eat better
you feel better you feel more attractive
you feel more desirable and that’s how
to get love to flow into
life simply by changing your diet I’ve
been eating a plant-based diet been a
vegan for over 13 years I feel healthier
I I have the confidence to look people
straight in the eyes and say actually I
am worthy to be in your presence because
I just ate a delicious mango no nananana
okay and I see it all the time I’m
attracted someone who takes care of
their body by consuming premium foods or
GAD includes their eating to live
they’ve placed a lot of importance on
foods that is super attractive and once
you start eating healthier foods your
fruit and your veg you automatically
have more confidence and now you become
like a magnet of attraction and that’s
how to really get love to flow into your
life start taking care of your body by
consuming better foods when I was eating
a lot of junk foods it’s like I felt
really greasy because I would be eating
a lot of fried foods and when I would
meet someone it’s like I felt guilty
because I’m like do I really want to
share this junk food I just ate with
them and now because I’ve just like ate
a lot of acai I’m like yeah come and
share some siu with me come and share
come and share some acai with me baby
let’s go to Brazil right now let’s do it
let’s go let’s go
that’s good what is the sick way to get
love to flow into your life what helped
me along my journey is to realize this
you see what so many people are
searching for honesty yes loyalty
definitely commitment yes trust yes but
really respect ladies what do you want
from a guy respect guys what do you want
from ladies respect we are all searching
for respect but you see before you can
get respect and get love to flow into
your life you’ve got to learn how to
slow motion aside now I learn that and
I’m like okay I get it I get it I get it
that’s how to get love to flow into your
life respect yourself and love will
follow you got a whole new demeanor
about you right now a different cadence
you’re walking differently you’re
respecting yourself because of your
lifestyle and that’s how to get loved to
flow into your life there was a time
when I didn’t respect myself even when I
used to work in jobs which was serving
me being around people who weren’t
serving me and therefore I didn’t have
respect for myself so when I would meet
someone it was hard for them to respect
me but they definitely respected the cat
down the road and once I had this like
air of confidence like essentially I am
somebody I don’t know who yet I thought
it’d say I believe in myself I can do
amazing things life is incredible
because I say so just like that and I
started to give myself more credit
that’s how to actually start respecting
yourself and then you will see that once
you feel good about yourself on the
inside once you respect yourself you’re
dressing better you’re feeling better
you will get love to flow into your life
the question is well can you handle it
just a lot of love baby we ain’t playing
any games here we nee vinod breakfast
yet
okay what is the seventh way to get love
to flow into your life
what help me along my journey is this
accept yourself and love will follow so
a lot of people know by now that I
accept myself 100% but if you follow
these videos you also you will also know
that I used to have a lot of panic
attacks because I didn’t accept who I
was I would stare into the mirror and
say I’m not good enough
I don’t like myself for some strange
reason because of my programming I’m
like okay I’m born I was born with a
chip on my shoulder life is against me
I’m a victim of circumstance
love me everyone just disappeared right
now except the cat down the road it was
the only one that stood by me okay so
I’ve left me if you’re going to accept
yourself I love the skin I’m in I love
the body I’m in I love connecting
inspiring deep divers having a blast
I love that I’ve been able to live my
dream inspire millions of people and
travel the world and just sit on the
beach all day okay can we do that we can
do it we can do it okay that’s good
accept yourself that’s how to get love
to flow into your life I meet a lot of
people so beautiful so handsome they’re
like oh my gosh Ralph I’m not good
enough for my partner I’m not good
enough that’s why I’ve been single for
18 years okay don’t worry about it you
are good enough once you start saying
actually I’m pretty awesome I’m pretty
awesome I accept myself
I accept my skin color
I accept how I was born even if I’m sure
or I’m tall even if I’ve got six toes or
four fingers I accept myself even if I
wear really cool clothes or sometimes I
don’t sometimes I just go out naked I
accept myself
free the nipple ladies I accept myself I
act I accept myself that I’m so
different
everybody’s going this way while I’m
swaying this way because of the wind
listen accept yourself you see the power
of accepting yourself is that once you
accept yourself you actually help other
people to accept themselves
slow motion inside I receive a lot of
messages from people who are like Ralph
you’ve actually given me the permission
to be myself because when I see you and
you just say this can I get a Hello it
just makes it seem like it’s okay for me
to be pretty weird around thanks a lot
keep doing it because now I can actually
be myself you see the more you move into
the truth of who you are the more
authentic you become the more love will
flow into your life because you now help
other people to relax they feel
comfortable around you
they now accept themselves around you
because they’re like okay they’re not
always going to judge me so they can
make and relax right that’s how to get
love to flow into your life now what is
the eighth way to get love to flow into
your life baby baby be vulnerable oh
that is like huge be vulnerable like
nothing is sexier than vulnerability and
authenticity for vulnerability first if
you are vulnerable guys listen to this
ladies love when you just open up don’t
hold me baby this happened oh come here
like they love that stuff
ladies guys love when you’re like so
sensitive and feminine they love it
trust me I do anyway okay I’ll talk to
myself look be vulnerable in a world
where so many people are so hard all the
time
they’re like I got to be tough I got to
be strong that actually creates a
separation that is not the truth of who
we are we are very sensitive all of us
it’s just that we’ve been hurt and once
you’ve been hurt maybe from a past
relationship you begin to close yourself
off from other people to get love to
flow into your life you’ve got to learn
the power of vulnerability you got to
learn how to
with someone your dirty secrets and your
beautiful secrets you got to tell them
things that you don’t tell other people
you got to lay your soul bathroom right
bare your soul for them tell them stuff
beep stuff have a deep conversation with
them talk about the fifth dimension
now aliens are soon coming to Planet
Earth because so many people are on
their smartphone what the hell is going
on be vulnerable
show them your light sides but also your
shadow sides you see one of the greatest
ways I’ve seen along my journey to
attract love into your life is to learn
how to show your shadow size to someone
accept your shadow size as well as your
light size because if someone loves you
for your shadow aspects your shadow
personality they’ll definitely love you
for your life size okay you don’t always
want to be perfect around people you
don’t always want to dress up and wear
an indigo suit and a pocket square and
the amber don’t do that wait a minute
look be yourself okay sometimes you got
to dress down because I learn this like
going on a date sometimes you just we’re
just we’re jogging bottoms and if that
person accepts you if they accept you in
judging bottoms they’re gonna accept you
in whatever a beautiful indigo attire
whatever I remember when I used to make
videos you remember with the massive
afro with just the black shirt in my
garden you know the v-neck you know the
one okay just simple but the message was
so powerful let people fall in love with
your soul more than your body with your
message more than just this shell right
show them the depth of who you are by
allowing yourself to become vulnerable
[Music]
slow motion this side okay what is the
night way to get love to flow into your
life ego is not your amigo the
three-letter word that destroys a 12
letter word called a relationship look
along my LE journey I love my early
journey my ego screwed up a lot of
relationships yes it’s not your amigo
and then I learned how to remove the ego
when I’m with someone
okay the ego isn’t entirely bad
sometimes you need a bit of the ego but
you got to know when to bring it out and
when to put it away okay you’re with the
love of your life the ego doesn’t need
to be around because when when two
beautiful people connect to each other
the ego dissolves okay when people are
in a twin flame relationship there is no
ego even when people are in a soulmate
relationship there is no ego okay so the
ego is not your amigo if you want to
really get love to flow into your life
remove your ego when you are with them
because it’s not going to help you out
the ego creates separation and
separation is the greatest illusion ever
created it now creates the two instead
of the one and we’re all about
connecting reconnecting with a one it’s
about the oneness oneness is the
universal truth in existence so I’ve
learned that when I started to practice
just
calming the ego say ego no good go to
the back right now ain’t nobody got time
for that
okay I started to get more love I
started to get a lot to flow into my
life baby okay you create better
connections with people when the ego is
not there why because people are not
scared to be who they truly are when you
are in the ego love stays away from you
ain’t nobody got time for that once once
you once you are very open and you put
love first let love guide you not fear
love just flows oh it’s going to flow
baby’s going to flow and then you’re
going to have a massive party okay cool
love party Ralph’s ma is a DJ so I’ve
learned this like that’s like such an
easy way as well to get love flow into
your life just say ego get back okay and
then watch how just your day-to-day
interactions improve like I’ve connected
with so many people because I’ve learned
that the ego is not your amigo you’ve
got to treat people with respect we’re
all somebody amazing even the cat down
the road thank you so much what is the
ten way to get love to flow into your
life now what’s helped me along my
journey is they then then then make love
a top priority you see a lot of us we
have a lot of priorities we don’t have a
slow motion this life but wait Ruth I’m
gonna go to work I’ve got to study
around I don’t have time okay you do
have time if it is a priority a lot of
people say I’m so busy route my
girlfriend I just don’t have time for
her my wife my husband my boyfriend I’m
so busy nobody is so busy it’s just a
matter of priority and I’ve learned this
the hard way along my journey because I
was always like hey I’m pretty busy
right now I remember when I was like 19
20 I was like in a relationship and I’m
like gosh I got to do something honey
I got to do this go to do that we
stopped saying honey I’m a vegan hey I
love honey the smell of honey but I
don’t eat honey look realize this that
once you make love a priority to say
actually I’m going to focus on how
important the love connection is every
single day you could have tons of money
but what good is that if you don’t have
the love of your life there to share it
with you
[Music]
slow motion inside I don’t want to be a
lonely billionaire uh-uh right there’s
going to be like eight children I’m
gonna have an African village
look I’ve learned me that you got to
make love a priority and the secret is
you got to slow everything down that’s
what really helped me along my journey
you got to slow down they actually let
me think about it okay
what better feeling is there when you
hug someone you love like Ferrari is
cool but hugging that special someone is
just like oh my gosh you can’t buy that
you can’t like say you can’t actually I
go into a shop and say I want to buy a
hug from the one from the you know I
want to buy a hug from the one that was
meant for me you can’t do that so this
is a once in a lifetime experience we
got to stop paying attention to like how
precious the love connection is how
important the love connection is and
I’ve seen that like right now love the
love connection is at the forefront
because I’ve already achieved so much
actually I still got more to do but I’m
not going to be busy right so once you
start to make love a top priority you
will get more love to flow into your
life and then you’ll just stay they also
get to be a live baby can I get a hello
there I’m alive okay there you have it
we are out here in the heart of nature
have a beautiful day deep divers were
just well
breathing in that good off prana well
here baby
infinite waters diving deep once again they will stay healthy peace you
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