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10 Tricks to Not Make It Personal


peas and thinit waters diving deep once
again doing a little nature dance what
beautiful day breathing in the good oz
gorgeous prana are you taking everything
so personally recently why how to stop
making things like personal it happens I
know so I’ve got ten tricks I gonna help
you out we’ve got a whole lot to talk
about
it’s unbelievable and we an even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello that’s
the question that came in so I’m gonna
share with you what helped me along my
journey to stop making everything so
personal I get it
someone didn’t respond to an email and
now you want to throw them out of the
window no I don’t do that chill you
don’t want to chill okay let’s dive into
it so a long time ago I read a book
called The Four Agreements
which was great and the four agreements
were be impeccable with your word don’t
take anything so personally because it’s
never personal don’t make assumptions
and always do your best by Don Miguel
Ruiz fantastic as a deep diver as
someone who helps people become their
greatest version I’ve got ten tricks
Tom to not make it personal really put
put it down before you throw that book
or something just put it down okay let’s
start with the first trick you see the
first trick is that it’s not always
about you
you see you think everything people do
is in response to you because you’re so
selfish you’re so egotistical you’re so
self-centered that was me
not you don’t worry about it yes we
always feel the whole world revolves
around us why so that’s why if anybody
does something we think it’s because
they are going
at us when really that’s not the case
okay
so realize this secret it’s not always
about you like pipe down okay what’s the
second trick to not make it personal
every single human being you see is
going through something you know nothing
about so be kind always that’s what
helped me along my journey sometimes I
would say things to somebody like why
didn’t you call me why didn’t you pick
up the phone I didn’t realize they were
going camping they didn’t even have a
phone
goodness gracious but you’re jumping to
conclusions
you are jumping to conclusions because
you don’t even know what people are
going through so that will help you not
take it personal realize someone might
be they may not even have a phone they
may not even have internet okay that’s
why they didn’t respond to you what’s
the third secret is that I was raised to
eat this I was raised to eat dairy
chicken eggs beef pork just like we are
raised to think in certain ways we’re
also raised to eat in different ways so
before I started the seven day vegan
challenge I would take it personally
that okay this person is eating like
this no they don’t know any better right
I stuffed strawberries in my mouth
because it works for me but if someone
else doesn’t do it if they’re not doing
the seven day vegan challenge it’s
nothing personal it’s just how they were
raised
to us the fourth trick to not make it
personal baby every single human being
is going at their own pace sometimes we
like to scratch your head and say why
like why are they doing this to me
because you see every single human being
has a different level of awareness
consciousness evolution going on to the
fifth trick you got to realize this
whole universe is built on resonance
resonance means returning to sound re
going back Sona Sona sound returning
back to sound so when you have everybody
singing in tune you have a beautiful
harmony when they’re not singing in tune
well it’s terrible
what the hell are you singing about by
the way okay so we want the harmony and
sometimes we don’t get the harmony
that’s why we start taking things
personally but what if I told you that
person is not in harmony because they
are just on a different frequency it’s
hey put down the books put it put it out
you put it up good the sick trick to not
make it personal chill chill hold me
back Ralph I’m holding you back right
now like just chill you killed
okay let’s go for it is to stop
ascribing intent we ascribe intent
what is that Ralph it is when you think
what anybody does is because of you what
they do is because of you
once again we make assumptions someone
didn’t come to your party you think
because well they obviously don’t like
me no they had a better party to go to
they got lost goodness gracious you live
in the middle of the woods how the hell
that are they gonna find you baby okay
so the happiest people in the world are
people who never ascribe intent they say
look if you don’t want to come to my
party well I can’t help you cuz my party
is like amazing I don’t know about you
but we’re having a great time
we could write number seven is that you
see there is always a deeper reason for
someone else’s actions you see how
people treat you has nothing to do with
you it has everything to do with them
slow motion this side when I realize
that it set me free I said can I get a
Hello do you know how much suffering is
caused because we don’t realize there’s
a deeper reason for someone else’s
behavior a lot of people stop holding
grudge contests and matches they don’t
speak to someone for seven years and
seven months
goodness gracious it’s a long time isn’t
it people are going through stuff trust
me if someone wants to contact you or go
to your party they will but sometimes
it’s not about you because they don’t go
maybe they just dealing with their own
journey a lot of people have been
through trauma I’m a psychologist I know
what I’m talking about I’m a counselor
I’m a deep diver I’m an infinite being
I’m sorry who loves the cat down the
road we know what we’re talking about
okay people are going through stuff on
the planet there’s always a deeper
reason so don’t take it personal number
eight
we are lessons to each other you see
that’s why we were created like the
universe was like okay you’re gonna be a
lesson to that person and that person is
gonna be a lesson to you
it’s nothing personal look at the
universe like a University no slow
motion there we are here to learn so who
are we gonna learn with oh I get it yeah
other people are gonna be our teachers
and we’re gonna be their teachers so we
crash into people to learn certain
lessons to discover more about ourselves
they sometimes bring up unresolved
issues within ourselves that we’ve got
to take a look at so in essence we’ve
got to thank these people for
highlighting aspects of ourselves we
don’t want to take a look at it’s not
personal though it’s just look at it
like this the universe’s way of saying
you have some lessons to learn with this
person it’s not personal though at all
because you don’t even know them you
what’s number night the ninth trick to
not make it personal is to realize this
sometimes just sometimes it has
everything to do with them this time I
realize alone my early journey for
instance I would be trying to drop
knowledge on people like hey this is
about the third eye and Indigo’s and
they were like what the hell are you
talking about I was talking to the wrong
crowd and they weren’t listening look
it wasn’t personal once again they won
on that frequency and that’s fine
because we started infinite waters baby
and this channel is growing at a
phenomenal rate I don’t even know what
to do with it
goodness gracious we are connecting with
amazing we are connecting with amazing
beings daily so the people who weren’t
listening that’s fine we don’t even need
people right now because the right
people will get the message when the
student is ready the wizard will appear
or the cat down the road it’s not that
personal and the tenth trick to not make
it personal is to realize this life is
short in two hundred years you’re gonna
be out of here nobody’s even gonna
remember who you were well actually
there might depending yeah they’ll
remember you you’re the one that went
skinny-dipping in whoa it got it went
viral that video goodness gracious
they’ll definitely remember you but for
the rest of us no they won’t
well they probably will because you’re
pretty cool but in five hundred years
people start to forget in a thousand
years people start to forget you see we
live in a flash of light Buddha said the
problem is you think you’ve got time
there is no time to stop taking
everything so personal look an example
is like this can you remember what you
were doing five years ago on March 13 at
5:22 p.m. what no I don’t exactly my
point made everything is forever
changing so this person who may have
offended you by next week they will have
changed they would have changed
completely just like you would have
changed
a year from now they would have even
changed more they might even be married
have children goodness gracious
be starting the seven day vegan
challenge for all I know let’s just say
fifty years from now they probably won’t
even look the same or have wrinkles or
maybe not because they’re eating a lot
of acai come on but let’s say a hundred
years from now you may not even see them
where the hell do you go right
life is short we are immortal though and
people are like Ralph you got to do a
video on reincarnation
shall I I’m gonna do it we’ll do it
we’ll probably do it this week at you
we’re just having fun
life is short it’s never as personal as
you think so once again before you start
jumping to conclusions and making
assumptions just realize chill everybody
is gonna be out of here in the next 300
years Wow
that’s something to think about have a
beautiful day baby whoa breathing in
that good ass prana I’ll leave you with
this if you are someone who is thinking
and focusing on people not serving you
why not for a change focus on people who
actually care about you and who are
always there start taking that
personally our beautiful day in Phoenix
getting high diving deep once again stay well stay healthy you

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