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10 Things You Do That Doesn’t Make You A Bad Person


peace and finit waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in nature baby I hope your day is
going good but do you feel like a bad
person because your doing certain things
in life yes I do Ralph I feel really
guilty well I’m here to tell you don’t
10 things you do that doesn’t mean
you’re a bad person let’s just whoa
breathing in that good ass Prada baby
deep divers do you sometimes feel like a
bad person yes Ralph why because because
I offend everybody Ralph I’m just a bad
person Ralph okay okay if you’ve got a
question add me on Instagram right now
at infinite waters somebody wrote to me
saying that they always feel like a bad
person with everything they do like
people awesome to go out and they say no
and they’re like I’m a bad person Ralph
we even had breakfast yet Ralph can I
get a hello so beautiful deep divers let
me share with you us helped me along my
journey ten things I do you do that
doesn’t mean you’re a bad person the
first thing you know is calling people
out on their it doesn’t mean
you’re a bad person like calling people
out confronting people actually shows
you’ve got confidence okay like calling
people out who have disrespected you
means you are standing up for yourself
slow motion this life
you don’t have to be aggressive about it
but you want here to suffer in silence
and it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person
if you actually check somebody you tell
them how you really feel you call them
out if you feel you’re being mistreated
it actually means that for once you’re
finding the courage to be you okay and
that is something to be proud of okay a
lot of a lot of times we haven’t got the
courage to call people out okay if you
do be thankful what is the second thing
you do that doesn’t mean you’re a bad
person
you set healthy energetic boundaries
okay you set healthy energetic
boundaries you’re like no no no you want
to go out
no why not no come on no yes you have
found that confidence to say no when it
was so hard to say that okay setting
healthy energy boundaries is so
important especially if you’re an empath
okay it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person
and once you realize that you’ll find
more confidence saying no or saying yes
if you really want to like setting
energy boundaries doesn’t mean you’re a
bad person it only means that you are
protecting your well-being slow motion
this side
what is the third thing you do that
doesn’t mean you’re a bad person walk
away from anything that is no longer
serving you
that means crappy conversations and
shabby ask people it doesn’t mean you’re
a bad person
it just means that you know your true
Worth you know what you want and you
don’t want to waste time on something
and somebody not serving you and it
doesn’t mean they’re a bad person either
it just means both of your energies
aren’t compatible and you’re not gonna
make babies unfortunately doesn’t mean
you’re a bad person okay if you’re
learning how to walk away from what is
no longer serving you if you are giving
a pass on toxic people people who make
you feel miserable it doesn’t mean you
are a bad person
it means you are finding out who you
really are and honoring it what is the
fourth thing you do that doesn’t mean
you’re a bad person you sell stuff by
the way buy my t-shirt Ralph’s smart
calm slash clothes oh my gosh I’m
selling something yeah you got it and
buy my book as well
Ralph’s smart calm slash the book it’s a
great book oh my gosh I can’t believe it
Ralph
know if you do that you’re not a bad
person
you’re just a smart person because
everybody is selling you something and
it’s okay to sell even the universe is
selling you that good ass prana baby
that’s why you know breathing it up
the universe is like the universe
created business on the law of exchange
breathing is an energetic transaction
what go easy on them Ralph slow motion
this slide okay it doesn’t mean you’re a
bad person because you want to grow and
expand money is just energy okay so if
you are starting a business you’re
acquiring finances it doesn’t mean
you’re a bad person okay
the cut down the road loves you yes it
does what’s the fifth thing you do that
doesn’t mean you’re a bad person seven
day vegan challenge you turn down
invitations because that’s dinner
invitations mind you that’s lunch
invitations mind you that’s breakfast
invitations mind you with papaya dates
mangoes okay if the vibe is off doesn’t
mean you’re a bad person and sometimes
you even turn down invitations if
peoples food values don’t align with
yours you’re doing the seven day vegan
challenge how many times have you been
eating with a friend and they haven’t
really been honoring animals and you’re
like I got to go but I don’t want to be
a bad person
no you’re not a bad person it’s just
that you care so much about animals and
that’s okay I’ve done it many times okay
sometimes I turn down dinner invitations
dinner parties because I’m like what’s
the menu like if I don’t agree with it
I’m not going gonna party with a cat
down the road what’s the sick thing you
do that doesn’t make
you a bad person you end relationships
which you know are not good for your
peace of mind slow motion this side
that’s right you end those relationships
really early sometimes you just
disappear out of the blue just to
protect your sanity because if someone
is gaslighting you deep divers like
projecting their energy onto you blaming
you for everything making it seem like
you going crazy oh you’re just imagining
things in your head they’re a narcissist
a psychopath you don’t need that we
don’t need that we don’t need that we
don’t either
exactly so it doesn’t mean you’re a bad
person if you cut those relationships
prematurely off to say no no more all I
know my worth don’t go where you are
tolerated go where you are celebrated
slow motion this side okay if you are
leaving a relationship right now because
it’s not good for your mental health
good on you well done the cat down the
road is is cheering you on
what’s the seventh thing you do that
doesn’t mean you’re a bad person
you use your life savings on self-care
okay you actually go for that massage do
you know I want it to be a masseuse I’m
good at massages right I was actually
gonna do physiotherapy then I’m like now
let me do psychology oh the same thing
we’re all about healing baby if you are
using your life savings on self-care
going on a holiday just once again to
protect your peace of mind it doesn’t
mean you’re a bad person
because you actually use money to take
care of yourself your health you
actually use money to whoa that that
billion Whole Foods is so much whole
paycheck doesn’t mean you’re a bad
person it just means you’re a smart
person because you realize your health
should be your greatest investment what
yikes a Caramba slow-motion aside
self-care please more self-care please
more self-love please more
self-acceptance please it doesn’t mean
you’re a bad person it just means that
now is your time now it’s your time to
viii baby baby thing you do that doesn’t
mean you’re a bad person
you sometimes mysteriously disappear
into the woods all alone to recharge
your energy from energy vampires it
doesn’t mean you’re antisocial or you’re
a bad person it just means you’re really
smart because you know if you stay
around certain people they’re gonna
drain you dry okay sometimes being alone
is actually how you find yourself
reconnect with yourself you start to
love yourself even more okay you’re not
a bad person if you want some me time
sometimes I’m like I need some me time
I’m always sharing with infinite waters
people but sometimes you can just find
me alone in Lanikai Beach out here in
Hawaii nobody no not even the cat down
the road just me myself and I and some
dolphins yes all alone lonely yeah I’m
all alone right I’m not a bad person
though cuz I’m being antisocial I’m just
realizing that actually I need some me
time and you need some me time too you
need to recharge those batteries baby
they’re running out low what’s the ninth
thing you do that doesn’t mean you’re a
bad person
[Music]
you’re not listening to your parents all
the time I’m a bad person Ralph no
you’re not a bad person I love my mom my
sister the cat down the road aunties and
uncles everybody close to me but
sometimes they gave me advice which my
heart wasn’t really feeling like hey
just go and keep studying and I’m like
no I already graduated I’m trying to get
out of the matrix right now
I said no oh my gosh I’m just gonna do
what I want mom and she supported that
she’s a really cool mom by the way I’ll
do a video with her soon right I love my
mom
love your moms love moms like love love
women period right I’m like no I’m gonna
follow my own heart I’m gonna do it my
way I did it my way yes I did it my way
new album coming soon shout out to Frank
Sinatra a great song by the way look you
aren’t a bad person if you stopped
listening you are not a bad person
if you’ve stopped listening to certain
family members because you’re now doing
what your heart craves for
slow motion inside you are a very wise
person because once again the universe
reveals its secrets to those who dare to
follow the hearts the universe reveals
its secrets to those who dare to follow
their hearts setting up infinite waters
I’m like it could work it might not work
but I’m always optimistic it probably
will but it was a gamble cuz I could
have just stayed working with people
with ADHD autism I love to do that but
I’m like I know there is more to life I
really want to stop taking this thing to
the next level and a lot of people were
like Ralph it probably won’t work out my
mom believed in me my mom believed in me
the cat down the road believed in me but
I was a bit doubtful as well I’m like oh
maybe won’t work then I’m like actually
probably will but I still had other
people around me saying Ralph just get a
regular nine-to-five okay but I believed
enough in myself okay it doesn’t mean
I’m a bad person because I ignored
everybody and I listened to myself it
actually means I’m a smart person
because it worked out in the end
what’s the tenth thing we got some dogs
over there coming they’re gonna make a
lot of noise right
what’s the tenth thing you do that
doesn’t mean you’re a bad person
[Music]
many times what happens Society wants us
to be this and wants us to be that
you’ve stopped following society’s rules
their orders and you’ve started to
really become more intuitive and find
your own path of doing what you love
every single day Society will tell you
to do this unmoor money you’re not a bad
person if you reject everything society
tells you to do it means you’re now
honoring the truth who you really are
yikes slow motion this side so beautiful
deep divers the next time you think
you’re a bad person realize you’re not a
bad person you’re just somebody who’s
really learning to love themselves and
become their greatest version and once
you realize that deep dynasts once you
realize that deep divers well we’ll just
say Phil so get to be a live baby can I
get a hello beautiful deep divers were
just whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby have a beautiful day deep
divers infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace you
know you’re not a bad person you’re actually a pretty cool person

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