peace infinite waters diving deep once
again it is such a hot day beautiful day
– what breathing in that good oz prana
baby how’s your ego do you have a big
ego or a small one how to stop your ego
taking over running your life oh don’t
worry about it I’m gonna share with you
ten amazing tricks to not make your ego
spoil you that have helped me along my
journey a lot of people write to me
saying Ralph I think my egos growing
incredibly big and we even had breakfast
yet can I get a Hello
the head don’t worry about it what is
the ego what are we talking about this
is what’s helped me along my journey the
ego is a set of collected stories
written by you about yourself and other
people which separate you from the truth
that we are all connected what
say it again well the ego is a set of
collected stories written by you about
yourself and other people which blinds
you from the truth that we are all
connected so separation is the greatest
illusion ever created and the ego is the
master of creating separation so what’s
helped me along my journey is finding
different ways to put the ego in check
no the ego is not negative no it’s not
positive it is what it is
but the problem is go back to when you
were a child right
you are so connected even with animals
maybe you were stroking the dog you were
stroking the cat down the road there was
no separation you would play with
different children of different colors
and shades and tones no problem but all
of a sudden you’re growing up and you’re
like I don’t like you because you look
different oh I’m better than you because
I have a better car I live in this
massive house so let’s start with the
first trick to not make your ego spoil
you oh yeah baby
never assume assumptions make bad
conclusions you see the ego lives in the
past that’s why it collects stories
about you and who other people are for
instance along my early journey I used
to always make assumptions I would see
someone walking down the road and I
would say this person is like that
that’s the ego because the ego lives in
memory lives in the past it says I don’t
need to learn anything else and then you
get a really rude awakening because then
that person opens their mouth and you’re
like I can’t believe they just said that
I can’t believe they just did that they
have now shattered your entire paradigm
of who you thought they were okay so a
lot of the times we assume who people
are we don’t even know we just go off
assumptions and that was me all on my
early journey and every day I’m still
working when we talk of becoming your
greatest version I found that to not
make your ego spoil you stop assuming
who you are and who other people are
chill what’s the second amazing trick to
not make your ego spoil you power you
see the ego loves power it loves to be
in charge it says I am the center I am
everything and the whole universe is me
okay yes we all think like that a lot of
the times we’re so self-absorbed and
along my early journey I found myself
falling into that trap of power you see
a lot of the times we want status we
want to go to these swanky parties and
we want to be seen
that’s beautiful but there’s a
difference between self-love and ego
taking over you see ego taking over as
well we become very narcissistic where
only we can shine only we get the
spotlight when you practice self-love
you love yourself that you want other
people to do the same like you’re like
everybody can shine right now we’re
nature baby yes so to not make your ego
spoil you what help me along my journey
was to say hey power like owning land
what is that about we’re the only
species who believe we can actually own
a piece of land go figure
like do we really feel we’re gonna take
this piece of land with us when we’re
out of here come on what’s number three
what is the egos food along my early
journey I was very drawn to fear false
evidence appearing real and I realize
that is what the ego feeds on fear ah
don’t worry about it okay so I stopped
feeding my ego fear okay and then my ego
transformed totally you see because a
lot of us even look at your plate right
now seven day vegan challenge we are
eating fear pain tortured animals
therefore we are eating ego we become it
because because we say let’s face it
this animal was created for me alone and
I am superior once again it’s ego
and that’s the trap I was falling in and
now I just wake up with a bunch of
grapes in my mouth and it feels so good
so ask yourself are you eating ego who
are you eating life are you eating
someone who wanted to live who would
have run away at any moment they could
have had but you held them down ok so
it’s about not feeding the ego with fear
even through the images you’re seeing in
the media I say let love guide you not
fear and it’s not easy to do because
fear is what the ego loves it is so it
is so addicted to fear drama gossip but
the higher frequency is always love that
is what will set you free let’s talk
about number 4 to not make your ego
spoil you what’s helped me along my
journey is to let go of control have you
ever been in a situation where you’re
trying to control how other people
respond and the harder you try the more
they’re not responding to you it sucks
doesn’t it yes because you see the ego
really believes it can actually control
how other people behave how they think
so it’s a control freak like really the
biggest control freak you will ever see
in your entire life so what helped me
along my early journey was to say I
control nothing externally to me I don’t
control how other people see me one
minute they love you then they don’t and
then they love you again what they love
to cut down the road again ok so we are
in control the ego loves to be in
control it is a control freak and that
is why a lot of people they become
consumed by their ego because they
really feel their money can buy people
they feel their status can buy people
they feel if they live in a certain area
they are better than other people once
again it goes back to control which is a
big big illusion so once you
lose this neat control everything comes
to you
mm slow motion that sight what’s number
five okay we’re starting to dance let’s
go to a carnival baby yes I went to a
carnival in Salvador Bahia Brazil
amazing place back you know seven
amazing time okay when you go to a
carnival the ego is like oh my gosh what
am I doing here because you see that’s
when the ego starts to Humble itself
when you are just in your room you feel
it’s all about you you see when you’re
in a carnival everyone’s dancing the
spotlight isn’t on you you are seeing or
even sometimes at the beach right
sometimes you go onto the beach like
right now it’s summer it’s hot people
out and about and then you realize oh my
gosh I’m really not the center of the
universe anymore because there’s
hundreds of people all around me and
they’re smiling and laughing and
goodness gracious oh my gosh what am I
gonna do about it okay
so go to a carnival once you step
outside of your comfort zone you realize
that it’s not always about you you
realize that it’s never been about you
all the time but more so you realize
that life is happening everywhere even
when you weren’t there
and that really liberate cyou okay we
get consumed by the ego when we don’t go
to carnivals when we don’t go to
gatherings and events and festivals
because then we actually think that our
perspective is the only perspective
there is in the entire universe which
couldn’t be further from the truth
what’s number six baby talk to me
okay check this out a lot of the times
I’m going through my room sometimes I
see an old photo of myself I say oh my
goodness yeah I was smiling like that
but I was very free I even look at the
pictures and I was with all the children
and there is no ego like it is now in so
many of our lives because we didn’t even
have anything to prove back then it’s
not like I’ve got more money than you or
I live here because we’re just like
chilling with our parents and stuff so
once you take out what I call the old
photo album look at yourself
and then look at yourself right now and
say goodness gracious I’ve changed
that’s beautiful but have you become
more consumed by your ego the ego is the
mosque the persona which in ancient
Greece they would talk through a mosque
in a theatre which was the first kind of
acting and it’s a persona through sound
okay / through Sona sound they’re
talking through the mosque but you see a
lot of us we still feel we are in the
act when we have to move more into being
someone wrote to me saying gosh instead
of awards for acting I wish there were
awards for being mm-hmm so emotion that
say can I get a Hello so it’s children
we are being we are so in the moment we
are so carefree and there is nothing to
defend you see a lot of the times we
become consumed by the ego because we
are trying to defend a certain belief my
god is better than your God my country
is better than your country my race is
better than your race you see all of
these are separations created from the
ego because the ego can only live
through being superior but as children
you didn’t have that because once again
you don’t have all of these programs
from the matrix therefore you are so
free you’re so cool but also you just
want to play in stuff and play on the
swings so I always say what’s helped me
along my journey bring out the old photo
album and look at yourself for like ten
minutes maybe 20 minutes and then just
breathe and say well that is my true
authentic self you see once you
reconnect back to your true authenticity
the ego takes the back seat okay what’s
number 7 to not make your ego spoil you
what’s helped me along my journey is to
find the common bond in your connections
yeah there are a lot of differences what
are you wearing by the way goodness
gracious
okay yeah but underneath all of that
there is a heart connection which
connects every single human being on the
planet and you only find that through
compassion you realize that we are so
much more alike than we are different
and I realize that because I I travel a
lot I go to different countries and I
just see that human beings what are we
done like we don’t even need borders we
don’t need all of these artificial
constructs I’m waiting for the world
passport mmm slow motion that’s I
imagine a world possible how much easier
that would be because we are all one
anyway so once you start finding the
common bond between other people you
start to realize that actually human
beings are pretty amazing we are so
amazing if we can see the truth of the
gains we have created through separation
I want to be better than you no no no
everybody can shine and yes love
yourself to life not to bet love
yourself to light how about that okay
but also look for the common bond you
share with someone else and that really
puts the ego it makes the ego take a
back seat
what’s number eight to not make your ego
spoil you what helped me along my
journey was once again it’s not always
about you but respect that everybody you
meet is a universe unto themselves that
means you are literally a mini universe
and once I realized that I had a light
bulb moment to say I have no business
imposing my universe on someone else
like your universe is totally cool I
meet people really weird people I’m
really weird too and I’m like your
universe is so amazing I’m just like wow
that’s really your universe you see once
you practice the art of that of
respecting that everybody is a universe
onto themselves the ego takes a backseat
because once again the ego now realizes
it’s not just about me life is infinite
and therefore because life is infinite
so many people are having their own
different version of reality also it
means that there isn’t one definitive
truth about what reality is like
everybody is literally creating their
entire universe once you realize that
you’re like okay I’m good live and let
live baby you do you and I’ll do me but
you see when two universes colliding
beautiful harmony now you are more in
alignment with the truth because we were
all one tiny self to begin with then we
evolved and then we separated and then
we actually forgot that we actually were
one self to begin with how about that
okay so yes what’s number nine now a lot
of people talk really dirty about the
ego the ego is so negative it’s so bad
no no in becoming your greatest version
what’s helped me along my journey is to
realize that I love the ego what yes
because the ego can actually be the
catalyst
for helping you become your greatest
version like the ego for me is like the
cheerleader its cheering you on to move
more into your higher self if you can
see the ego from a different perspective
a lot of people say the ego is so
negative let me destroy the ego you
don’t want to destroy the ego you want
to make the ego work for you do you know
that sometimes I’m about to do a skating
trick and I’m like I call upon my ego I
say ego please help me do this skating
trick and the egos like you can do it
you were born to do you are born to do
this
you’ve been doing this your whole life
is so egotistical now now I’m getting
the confidence and I’m doing and I’m
like thanks ego then I’m back to being
humble again okay it’s what I call
humble confidence did a whole video on
it so when you realize you don’t want to
kill the ego you want to use the ego as
an ally realize that the ego can become
ego can become a wonderful cheerleader
but you want your ego okay you want your
ego you want this image you’re not this
mosque you are so much more than that
and then you realize okay I can use the
ego when I want and then put it away
when I don’t need it so it’s a very
handy tool kind of like your MacBook Pro
what’s number 10 an amazing trick to not
make your ego spoil you become present
you see the ego lives in the past’s a
lot of people say I did this five years
ago yeah five years ago but what’s
happening right now talk to me you see
the ego loves to rest on its laurels do
you know that last week I did so much
I’ve got so many achievements so many
degrees once again it gets stuck in the
past past achievements but also future
goals the ego loves to talk about what
its gonna do oh I’m gonna do this I’m
gonna do that but only in the present
does the ego begin to dissolve that’s
why when you are in love baby when
you’re in the love connection when
you’re kissing when the two souls become
one
and the babies pop out goodness gracious
is a beautiful sight there is no ego
because you realize you are both present
to each other for once in your life
you’ve stopped thinking about yourself
you move from the mind to the heart
space that’s why when you are in love
when you’re rising in love with someone
else
the ego just is very quiet because the
truth is that you now start to really
see practically how you are all
connected okay and that’s beautiful well
once you are present you are so into
here and now that you’re only focused
okay right now I’m recording this video
well breathing in that good ass Prada
and it feels fantastic I’m not thinking
about the puss not the future hasn’t
happened here the past already come and
gone
but right now and now the ego has a
surrender because now the ego has no
control oh my goodness doesn’t know what
to do
it’s panicking having panic attacks
anxiety attacks and now you’re just like
chilling you just so relaxed okay
so once you become present maybe through
meditation one of the greatest ways to
do it go into nature and just go like ah
do whatever works for you that’s what
works for me so once again the ego is
not negative it’s not positive it is
what you make it and it can be used as
an ally to help you become your greatest
version but you want your ego you are so
much more okay and that’s what’s helped
me along my journey so have a beautiful
day today we’re out here in nature is so
hot about to go to the beach look and
breathe in that good ass product getting
high infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again it is such a hot day beautiful day
– what breathing in that good oz prana
baby how’s your ego do you have a big
ego or a small one how to stop your ego
taking over running your life oh don’t
worry about it I’m gonna share with you
ten amazing tricks to not make your ego
spoil you that have helped me along my
journey a lot of people write to me
saying Ralph I think my egos growing
incredibly big and we even had breakfast
yet can I get a Hello
the head don’t worry about it what is
the ego what are we talking about this
is what’s helped me along my journey the
ego is a set of collected stories
written by you about yourself and other
people which separate you from the truth
that we are all connected what
say it again well the ego is a set of
collected stories written by you about
yourself and other people which blinds
you from the truth that we are all
connected so separation is the greatest
illusion ever created and the ego is the
master of creating separation so what’s
helped me along my journey is finding
different ways to put the ego in check
no the ego is not negative no it’s not
positive it is what it is
but the problem is go back to when you
were a child right
you are so connected even with animals
maybe you were stroking the dog you were
stroking the cat down the road there was
no separation you would play with
different children of different colors
and shades and tones no problem but all
of a sudden you’re growing up and you’re
like I don’t like you because you look
different oh I’m better than you because
I have a better car I live in this
massive house so let’s start with the
first trick to not make your ego spoil
you oh yeah baby
never assume assumptions make bad
conclusions you see the ego lives in the
past that’s why it collects stories
about you and who other people are for
instance along my early journey I used
to always make assumptions I would see
someone walking down the road and I
would say this person is like that
that’s the ego because the ego lives in
memory lives in the past it says I don’t
need to learn anything else and then you
get a really rude awakening because then
that person opens their mouth and you’re
like I can’t believe they just said that
I can’t believe they just did that they
have now shattered your entire paradigm
of who you thought they were okay so a
lot of the times we assume who people
are we don’t even know we just go off
assumptions and that was me all on my
early journey and every day I’m still
working when we talk of becoming your
greatest version I found that to not
make your ego spoil you stop assuming
who you are and who other people are
chill what’s the second amazing trick to
not make your ego spoil you power you
see the ego loves power it loves to be
in charge it says I am the center I am
everything and the whole universe is me
okay yes we all think like that a lot of
the times we’re so self-absorbed and
along my early journey I found myself
falling into that trap of power you see
a lot of the times we want status we
want to go to these swanky parties and
we want to be seen
that’s beautiful but there’s a
difference between self-love and ego
taking over you see ego taking over as
well we become very narcissistic where
only we can shine only we get the
spotlight when you practice self-love
you love yourself that you want other
people to do the same like you’re like
everybody can shine right now we’re
nature baby yes so to not make your ego
spoil you what help me along my journey
was to say hey power like owning land
what is that about we’re the only
species who believe we can actually own
a piece of land go figure
like do we really feel we’re gonna take
this piece of land with us when we’re
out of here come on what’s number three
what is the egos food along my early
journey I was very drawn to fear false
evidence appearing real and I realize
that is what the ego feeds on fear ah
don’t worry about it okay so I stopped
feeding my ego fear okay and then my ego
transformed totally you see because a
lot of us even look at your plate right
now seven day vegan challenge we are
eating fear pain tortured animals
therefore we are eating ego we become it
because because we say let’s face it
this animal was created for me alone and
I am superior once again it’s ego
and that’s the trap I was falling in and
now I just wake up with a bunch of
grapes in my mouth and it feels so good
so ask yourself are you eating ego who
are you eating life are you eating
someone who wanted to live who would
have run away at any moment they could
have had but you held them down ok so
it’s about not feeding the ego with fear
even through the images you’re seeing in
the media I say let love guide you not
fear and it’s not easy to do because
fear is what the ego loves it is so it
is so addicted to fear drama gossip but
the higher frequency is always love that
is what will set you free let’s talk
about number 4 to not make your ego
spoil you what’s helped me along my
journey is to let go of control have you
ever been in a situation where you’re
trying to control how other people
respond and the harder you try the more
they’re not responding to you it sucks
doesn’t it yes because you see the ego
really believes it can actually control
how other people behave how they think
so it’s a control freak like really the
biggest control freak you will ever see
in your entire life so what helped me
along my early journey was to say I
control nothing externally to me I don’t
control how other people see me one
minute they love you then they don’t and
then they love you again what they love
to cut down the road again ok so we are
in control the ego loves to be in
control it is a control freak and that
is why a lot of people they become
consumed by their ego because they
really feel their money can buy people
they feel their status can buy people
they feel if they live in a certain area
they are better than other people once
again it goes back to control which is a
big big illusion so once you
lose this neat control everything comes
to you
mm slow motion that sight what’s number
five okay we’re starting to dance let’s
go to a carnival baby yes I went to a
carnival in Salvador Bahia Brazil
amazing place back you know seven
amazing time okay when you go to a
carnival the ego is like oh my gosh what
am I doing here because you see that’s
when the ego starts to Humble itself
when you are just in your room you feel
it’s all about you you see when you’re
in a carnival everyone’s dancing the
spotlight isn’t on you you are seeing or
even sometimes at the beach right
sometimes you go onto the beach like
right now it’s summer it’s hot people
out and about and then you realize oh my
gosh I’m really not the center of the
universe anymore because there’s
hundreds of people all around me and
they’re smiling and laughing and
goodness gracious oh my gosh what am I
gonna do about it okay
so go to a carnival once you step
outside of your comfort zone you realize
that it’s not always about you you
realize that it’s never been about you
all the time but more so you realize
that life is happening everywhere even
when you weren’t there
and that really liberate cyou okay we
get consumed by the ego when we don’t go
to carnivals when we don’t go to
gatherings and events and festivals
because then we actually think that our
perspective is the only perspective
there is in the entire universe which
couldn’t be further from the truth
what’s number six baby talk to me
okay check this out a lot of the times
I’m going through my room sometimes I
see an old photo of myself I say oh my
goodness yeah I was smiling like that
but I was very free I even look at the
pictures and I was with all the children
and there is no ego like it is now in so
many of our lives because we didn’t even
have anything to prove back then it’s
not like I’ve got more money than you or
I live here because we’re just like
chilling with our parents and stuff so
once you take out what I call the old
photo album look at yourself
and then look at yourself right now and
say goodness gracious I’ve changed
that’s beautiful but have you become
more consumed by your ego the ego is the
mosque the persona which in ancient
Greece they would talk through a mosque
in a theatre which was the first kind of
acting and it’s a persona through sound
okay / through Sona sound they’re
talking through the mosque but you see a
lot of us we still feel we are in the
act when we have to move more into being
someone wrote to me saying gosh instead
of awards for acting I wish there were
awards for being mm-hmm so emotion that
say can I get a Hello so it’s children
we are being we are so in the moment we
are so carefree and there is nothing to
defend you see a lot of the times we
become consumed by the ego because we
are trying to defend a certain belief my
god is better than your God my country
is better than your country my race is
better than your race you see all of
these are separations created from the
ego because the ego can only live
through being superior but as children
you didn’t have that because once again
you don’t have all of these programs
from the matrix therefore you are so
free you’re so cool but also you just
want to play in stuff and play on the
swings so I always say what’s helped me
along my journey bring out the old photo
album and look at yourself for like ten
minutes maybe 20 minutes and then just
breathe and say well that is my true
authentic self you see once you
reconnect back to your true authenticity
the ego takes the back seat okay what’s
number 7 to not make your ego spoil you
what’s helped me along my journey is to
find the common bond in your connections
yeah there are a lot of differences what
are you wearing by the way goodness
gracious
okay yeah but underneath all of that
there is a heart connection which
connects every single human being on the
planet and you only find that through
compassion you realize that we are so
much more alike than we are different
and I realize that because I I travel a
lot I go to different countries and I
just see that human beings what are we
done like we don’t even need borders we
don’t need all of these artificial
constructs I’m waiting for the world
passport mmm slow motion that’s I
imagine a world possible how much easier
that would be because we are all one
anyway so once you start finding the
common bond between other people you
start to realize that actually human
beings are pretty amazing we are so
amazing if we can see the truth of the
gains we have created through separation
I want to be better than you no no no
everybody can shine and yes love
yourself to life not to bet love
yourself to light how about that okay
but also look for the common bond you
share with someone else and that really
puts the ego it makes the ego take a
back seat
what’s number eight to not make your ego
spoil you what helped me along my
journey was once again it’s not always
about you but respect that everybody you
meet is a universe unto themselves that
means you are literally a mini universe
and once I realized that I had a light
bulb moment to say I have no business
imposing my universe on someone else
like your universe is totally cool I
meet people really weird people I’m
really weird too and I’m like your
universe is so amazing I’m just like wow
that’s really your universe you see once
you practice the art of that of
respecting that everybody is a universe
onto themselves the ego takes a backseat
because once again the ego now realizes
it’s not just about me life is infinite
and therefore because life is infinite
so many people are having their own
different version of reality also it
means that there isn’t one definitive
truth about what reality is like
everybody is literally creating their
entire universe once you realize that
you’re like okay I’m good live and let
live baby you do you and I’ll do me but
you see when two universes colliding
beautiful harmony now you are more in
alignment with the truth because we were
all one tiny self to begin with then we
evolved and then we separated and then
we actually forgot that we actually were
one self to begin with how about that
okay so yes what’s number nine now a lot
of people talk really dirty about the
ego the ego is so negative it’s so bad
no no in becoming your greatest version
what’s helped me along my journey is to
realize that I love the ego what yes
because the ego can actually be the
catalyst
for helping you become your greatest
version like the ego for me is like the
cheerleader its cheering you on to move
more into your higher self if you can
see the ego from a different perspective
a lot of people say the ego is so
negative let me destroy the ego you
don’t want to destroy the ego you want
to make the ego work for you do you know
that sometimes I’m about to do a skating
trick and I’m like I call upon my ego I
say ego please help me do this skating
trick and the egos like you can do it
you were born to do you are born to do
this
you’ve been doing this your whole life
is so egotistical now now I’m getting
the confidence and I’m doing and I’m
like thanks ego then I’m back to being
humble again okay it’s what I call
humble confidence did a whole video on
it so when you realize you don’t want to
kill the ego you want to use the ego as
an ally realize that the ego can become
ego can become a wonderful cheerleader
but you want your ego okay you want your
ego you want this image you’re not this
mosque you are so much more than that
and then you realize okay I can use the
ego when I want and then put it away
when I don’t need it so it’s a very
handy tool kind of like your MacBook Pro
what’s number 10 an amazing trick to not
make your ego spoil you become present
you see the ego lives in the past’s a
lot of people say I did this five years
ago yeah five years ago but what’s
happening right now talk to me you see
the ego loves to rest on its laurels do
you know that last week I did so much
I’ve got so many achievements so many
degrees once again it gets stuck in the
past past achievements but also future
goals the ego loves to talk about what
its gonna do oh I’m gonna do this I’m
gonna do that but only in the present
does the ego begin to dissolve that’s
why when you are in love baby when
you’re in the love connection when
you’re kissing when the two souls become
one
and the babies pop out goodness gracious
is a beautiful sight there is no ego
because you realize you are both present
to each other for once in your life
you’ve stopped thinking about yourself
you move from the mind to the heart
space that’s why when you are in love
when you’re rising in love with someone
else
the ego just is very quiet because the
truth is that you now start to really
see practically how you are all
connected okay and that’s beautiful well
once you are present you are so into
here and now that you’re only focused
okay right now I’m recording this video
well breathing in that good ass Prada
and it feels fantastic I’m not thinking
about the puss not the future hasn’t
happened here the past already come and
gone
but right now and now the ego has a
surrender because now the ego has no
control oh my goodness doesn’t know what
to do
it’s panicking having panic attacks
anxiety attacks and now you’re just like
chilling you just so relaxed okay
so once you become present maybe through
meditation one of the greatest ways to
do it go into nature and just go like ah
do whatever works for you that’s what
works for me so once again the ego is
not negative it’s not positive it is
what you make it and it can be used as
an ally to help you become your greatest
version but you want your ego you are so
much more okay and that’s what’s helped
me along my journey so have a beautiful
day today we’re out here in nature is so
hot about to go to the beach look and
breathe in that good ass product getting
high infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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