peas and Finnick waters diving deep once
again we are out here baby in the heart
of nature whoa breathing in that good
ass prana baby ten secret ways
self-absorbed people silence you but why
Ralph I have no idea they just want to
get on your nerves I got a question that
came in from someone who asks this how
can they spot a narcissistic person they
are hanging around someone who they feel
is very narcissistic maybe even a
psychopath a sociopath and this person
is heartless ruthless cold and it’s
making them feel very uncomfortable what
can they do about it oh we an even had
okay we have a lot to dive into put your
hand up if you are a self-absorbed
person don’t be shy what about a
narcissist don’t be shy either
psychopath sociopath okay so I’m gonna
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey become more aware of narcissists
sociopaths Psychopaths and some of the
manipulative waves manipulative ways
they use every single day to silence
people okay and why there’s nothing to
fear right
we aren’t victims of circumstance we are
co-creators of our reality slow motion
that side now before we start let’s just
talk about the word narcissist right
when we think of a self-absorbed person
probably think of someone taking a
selfie for like 10 hours right
I just taking it taking it taking it
right okay you gotta look at the ancient
Greek story of it right great great
great Greek writer his famous work
metamorphosis you had echo and narcissus
now narcissus was a very handsome guy
who was walking in the forest and he was
approached by echo this mountain nymph
and echo was like I just feel he’s so so
beautiful and handsome right but
narcissus didn’t want to hear that he
was like sorry echo and echo got really
heartbroken okay and then narcissus went
to a river and then he saw himself in
the water and he actually fell in love
with his reflection right and afterwards
actually you have to share love so he
just spent the rest of his days there
and eventually took himself out of here
now
are you a narcissus are you in love with
your reflection what about a sociopath
this is someone who is very anti-social
right a lot of the times they always
have to win no empathy a lack of empathy
no compassion it’s always about them
psychopaths emanating from the Greek
psyche spirit pathos suffering spirits
suffering these are people who sometimes
very violent towards people who don’t
even feel other people exist right who
are very cunning and use a lot of
manipulation to get whatever they want
okay now what are we gonna do about this
water solution so let’s look at the ten
secret ways self-absorbed people silence
you
start with the first one
many self-absorbed people by the way I
feel we’ve all been a bit self-absorbed
okay I have you definitely have right
okay what happens when someone says you
are imagining everything in your head
this often happens in relationships
sometimes we’re just chilling and then
you might have a little discussion and
then you bring up something and then
they tell you you are making it up like
that is your crazy imagination once
again you see many self-absorbed people
are never wrong they are always right
therefore they will often tell you you
are imagining things
they will often make you seem like you
are the crazy one you are the one with
all the problems mean oh I’m a saint
right they never take responsibility
it’s always your phone so the solution
here once again is to always realize
that you
on a victim of circumstance you can
change your life at any time got to be
very mindful of all the people in your
life because they’re here to actually
teach you something
why are you around these people you have
a choice to be around people that will
tell you you want imagining things right
actually you got a point there feels
fantastic
goodness gracious was the second secret
way self-absorbed people silence you
projection many times we are round
people who are very self-absorbed and
they often project their feelings onto
you for instance if they are feeling sad
they will say you’re so sad you made me
feel sad or if they made a mistake
they’ll say you did it okay they project
all their undesirable traits onto you
how great is that
so the solution
if there is a person like that in your
life sometimes it can even happen at
work where the boss tells you like you
are so terrible because you made this
mistake no actually you did it you got
to stand up for yourself you got to
realize you have power okay you don’t
have to be a silent sheep you can roar
like a lion right expression is what the
narcissists the sociopaths and the
Psychopaths fear the most when you start
to speak for yourself when you start to
stand up for yourself now you become
your greatest version and they’re like
oh my goodness they get a shock right
you are worthy what’s the third
secretive way self-absorbed people
silence you and you don’t even know it
okay just kidding just kidding just
kidding like they insult you they hurl
abuse at you and then afterwards they
just say it was just a joke but a lot of
truth is said in jest slow motion that
side many times self-absorbed people
they will shout at you scream at you
tell you all kinds of horrible things
and then to cover themselves they’ll
just say I was just kidding it was just
a joke why you overreacting that keyword
overreacting right that’s what a lot of
sociopaths do a lot of psychopaths do
people like the Joker right that’s why
it’s called the Joker
get it right so you got to realize that
the solution for this is to say actually
once again communicate your feelings say
actually I don’t find this that funny
okay and then they’ll be like oh
actually right because a lot of the
times were very silent and you don’t
want to be silent you want to learn once
again to express how you feel that’s the
power of vulnerability the strongest
people in the world are the most
vulnerable because it takes more
strength to be open than it does to be
closed slow motion that side and also to
stop absorbing that frequency they are
emitting you can also have a sense of
humor yourself to say actually I’m not
going to allow this person to take away
my peace of mind my joy my happiness but
actually I’m actually gonna show them a
mirror of themselves because you see how
we treat other people say so much about
ourselves okay so if someone is hurling
insults at you constantly to the extreme
what does this say about them it
obviously means that they don’t they
don’t see themselves in a high regard
okay so you are worthy what’s the fourth
secret way self-absorbed people
silence you
seven day vegan challenge oh yes okay so
you are eating your papaya you’re eating
your mango you’re eating delicious foods
and they’re like eh what is that like
they mock your weird strange eating
habits now I was with a good friend and
she’s like a fully raw vegan okay like
fully raw totally and she was like she
doesn’t even drink like pasteurize
orange juice and I was like oh my
goodness that’s really strange because I
love like obviously cold-press orange
juice is a lot better because it’s not
heated so the enzymes don’t get
denatured but I was like that’s a bit
strange but you see a self-absorbed
person in that situation the
narcissistic sociopathic psychopath
would actually take the piss out of you
completely and say oh my gosh you’re so
strange you’re so crazy
right they mock your eating habits so
the solution is to say actually why am i
around this person I am worthy of so
much more
and then come and hang out with me baby
let’s go to a strawberry farm right now
what’s the fifth secret way
self-absorbed people silence you
and you don’t even know it they blame
you for absolutely everything everything
everything it wasn’t me it was you ever
been around someone always who always
always points the finger at you yes
that’s a very self-absorbed being now
once again I used to be like that for a
bit I used to point the finger once you
once you point a finger at someone
you’ve got three more pointing right
back at you slow motion that site okay
self-absorbed people never want to take
responsibility the psychopath who has no
empathy who can’t feel other people’s
emotions doesn’t have any responsibility
because they don’t know what they’ve
done wrong the sociopath so people often
ask what’s the difference between
psychopath sociopath no narcissists okay
let’s break it down very quickly
Psychopaths a lot of people it’s more
geared towards genetic disposition okay
just very aggressive very cold and
heartless sociopath is more nurture how
they were raised
okay that’s why they’re very sometimes
antisocial they show no compassion and a
narcissist is just someone who is so in
love with their reflection they miss
echo how do you think that makes echo
feel goodness gracious
okay so
they are always blaming you now what’s
the solution let’s just say I blame you
for everything what are you going to do
about it
you got a once again realize that you
don’t have to be around this person let
me say that again you don’t have to be
around this person a lot of people are
in relationships or they have friends
who are always blaming them now ah yeah
I got this friend who always blames me
no spoiler alert they aren’t your friend
can I get a Hello but the cat down the
road is okay so realize you are worthy
of so much more
what’s the sick secret way self-absorbed
people silence you and you don’t even
know it
you don’t even know it they love to
bring up your past
now many psychopaths sociopaths and
extreme narcissists we use a lot of
manipulation will always dig up your
past always and what they will do is
that they will actually like highlight
certain things you’ve told them about
your past and keep bringing it up like
oh yeah but do you remember like five
years ago when this happened to you and
you’re not perfect like they always will
point out your flaws okay that’s once
again what they use to silence you to
take away your expression so how do you
get your expression back what’s the
solution
you got to realize this we become like
the people we surround ourselves with
most often many times we are around
sociopaths Psychopaths extreme
narcissists because we still want them
to validate our existence you got to
learn how to start validating your own
existence
slow motion that side you got to learn
how to connect with those who remind you
who you are and just go to the beach
with them my let’s all go let’s all go
what’s the seventh secret way
self-absorbed people
silence you they use your past against
you you tell them certain things about
your past maybe you’ve been an intimate
relationship with someone they’ve moved
on then they try and expose you right
psychopaths sociopaths and narcissists
will always try to expose you that is a
key that is a key trait okay as a
psychologist as someone who’s taught so
many people that’s what they love to do
to silence you so they could bring up
your past
– always once again make themselves seem
superior like they’re perfect okay what
are you gonna do about this because
we’re all about solutions in becoming a
greatest version you have to realize you
want your past anymore your past doesn’t
define you so when a very self-absorbed
person does that they bring up your past
and use it against you to silence you
just say hey my past doesn’t define me
my past does not define me but also
realize that sometimes you can even air
out your dirty laundry like I have I say
look I was in a mental institute for 30
days 2006 okay you can’t use that
against me now slow motion that site I
said when I used to make early videos I
was very nervous but now I’m really
confident you can’t use it against me
now I’m not perfect okay okay okay
right so expose yourself but realize
once again these people aren’t worth
being around you want to realize this
the secret of becoming your greatest
version is to let go of anything and
anyone no longer serving you you’re
better than that
what’s the eighth secret way
self-absorbed people silence you they
tried to silence you they always make
themselves seem better than you okay
ever been around someone who is always
so focused on winning many times you
find self-absorbed
narcissists Psychopaths and sociopaths
when you play a lot of sports and there
is someone on the team who is so adamant
and fixated on winning they will do
anything at any cost to win even if it
means punching you and slapping you
across the face
ouch okay it’s win win win win win I
must win you will lose okay so they
always want to appear better than you
they are up here you are down they’re up
here you’re down there so what’s the
solution if you are around this person
who is trying to silence you like that
I’m better than you just say no we’re
all equal because we are all connected
but you don’t even have to explain
yourself you don’t have to justify
yourself to very self-absorbed people
you just have to walk away from them
because by you being there and arguing
with them you are giving them food slow
motion that side
you take away their food by choosing not
to be around them any longer
what’s the night secret way
self-absorbed people
silence you okay many times we’re around
certain people and what happens they say
I made you without me
you will be anything and this happens a
lot of the times in relationships that’s
why a lot of relationships end in
divorce
thank goodness goodness gracious all
don’t write they are like some people
are like I made you without you
you won’t be anything without me and
then two weeks later they see you
smiling on the beat to someone else and
they’re like oh my goodness
right so they always try to tell you
that hey you’re nothing without me I
make you the solution is not to believe
that because if you believe that because
if you believe that then you fall into
their trap you’ve got to realize that
actually there are so many other people
who love respect and appreciate me I’m
not gonna surround myself with someone
who just demeans me who belittles me and
who makes me feel inferior all the time
and that is how you reclaim your power
that is how you become your greatest
highly
self-absorbed narcissists sociopaths
Psychopaths
turn your words around right they will
change everything around they will act
like you didn’t even say that okay so
they are masters at controlling what you
say rearranging what you say and
convincing you that you don’t even know
what you’re talking about they don’t
want to hear it because once again they
can’t hear it they can’t feel you what’s
the solution now I’ve been around a lot
of narcissists I used to work with a guy
who was just heartless ruthless cold and
what freed me was to say I am NOT a
victim I get it
everybody is going through stuff but I’m
not going to be a trash can people to
dump their litter on okay and when I
would say stuff at work he would like
say no you didn’t you said this I’m like
no I said that so what I have what I did
was to say okay I’m gonna stand in front
of this person I’m not gonna back down
you see
highly self-absorbed narcissists
Psychopaths and sociopaths would love
you to run away
they would love you to be silent because
once again their whole job is to take
away your voice so you’ve got to stand
up to them and say no actually I said
this don’t disappear hold your ground
breathing that good ass prana baby feel
so good to be alive baby can I get a
Hello and that is how you free yourself
from these people and have a beautiful
day we’re out here we’re nature baby
well breathing in that good ass product
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we are out here baby in the heart
of nature whoa breathing in that good
ass prana baby ten secret ways
self-absorbed people silence you but why
Ralph I have no idea they just want to
get on your nerves I got a question that
came in from someone who asks this how
can they spot a narcissistic person they
are hanging around someone who they feel
is very narcissistic maybe even a
psychopath a sociopath and this person
is heartless ruthless cold and it’s
making them feel very uncomfortable what
can they do about it oh we an even had
okay we have a lot to dive into put your
hand up if you are a self-absorbed
person don’t be shy what about a
narcissist don’t be shy either
psychopath sociopath okay so I’m gonna
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey become more aware of narcissists
sociopaths Psychopaths and some of the
manipulative waves manipulative ways
they use every single day to silence
people okay and why there’s nothing to
fear right
we aren’t victims of circumstance we are
co-creators of our reality slow motion
that side now before we start let’s just
talk about the word narcissist right
when we think of a self-absorbed person
probably think of someone taking a
selfie for like 10 hours right
I just taking it taking it taking it
right okay you gotta look at the ancient
Greek story of it right great great
great Greek writer his famous work
metamorphosis you had echo and narcissus
now narcissus was a very handsome guy
who was walking in the forest and he was
approached by echo this mountain nymph
and echo was like I just feel he’s so so
beautiful and handsome right but
narcissus didn’t want to hear that he
was like sorry echo and echo got really
heartbroken okay and then narcissus went
to a river and then he saw himself in
the water and he actually fell in love
with his reflection right and afterwards
actually you have to share love so he
just spent the rest of his days there
and eventually took himself out of here
now
are you a narcissus are you in love with
your reflection what about a sociopath
this is someone who is very anti-social
right a lot of the times they always
have to win no empathy a lack of empathy
no compassion it’s always about them
psychopaths emanating from the Greek
psyche spirit pathos suffering spirits
suffering these are people who sometimes
very violent towards people who don’t
even feel other people exist right who
are very cunning and use a lot of
manipulation to get whatever they want
okay now what are we gonna do about this
water solution so let’s look at the ten
secret ways self-absorbed people silence
you
start with the first one
many self-absorbed people by the way I
feel we’ve all been a bit self-absorbed
okay I have you definitely have right
okay what happens when someone says you
are imagining everything in your head
this often happens in relationships
sometimes we’re just chilling and then
you might have a little discussion and
then you bring up something and then
they tell you you are making it up like
that is your crazy imagination once
again you see many self-absorbed people
are never wrong they are always right
therefore they will often tell you you
are imagining things
they will often make you seem like you
are the crazy one you are the one with
all the problems mean oh I’m a saint
right they never take responsibility
it’s always your phone so the solution
here once again is to always realize
that you
on a victim of circumstance you can
change your life at any time got to be
very mindful of all the people in your
life because they’re here to actually
teach you something
why are you around these people you have
a choice to be around people that will
tell you you want imagining things right
actually you got a point there feels
fantastic
goodness gracious was the second secret
way self-absorbed people silence you
projection many times we are round
people who are very self-absorbed and
they often project their feelings onto
you for instance if they are feeling sad
they will say you’re so sad you made me
feel sad or if they made a mistake
they’ll say you did it okay they project
all their undesirable traits onto you
how great is that
so the solution
if there is a person like that in your
life sometimes it can even happen at
work where the boss tells you like you
are so terrible because you made this
mistake no actually you did it you got
to stand up for yourself you got to
realize you have power okay you don’t
have to be a silent sheep you can roar
like a lion right expression is what the
narcissists the sociopaths and the
Psychopaths fear the most when you start
to speak for yourself when you start to
stand up for yourself now you become
your greatest version and they’re like
oh my goodness they get a shock right
you are worthy what’s the third
secretive way self-absorbed people
silence you and you don’t even know it
okay just kidding just kidding just
kidding like they insult you they hurl
abuse at you and then afterwards they
just say it was just a joke but a lot of
truth is said in jest slow motion that
side many times self-absorbed people
they will shout at you scream at you
tell you all kinds of horrible things
and then to cover themselves they’ll
just say I was just kidding it was just
a joke why you overreacting that keyword
overreacting right that’s what a lot of
sociopaths do a lot of psychopaths do
people like the Joker right that’s why
it’s called the Joker
get it right so you got to realize that
the solution for this is to say actually
once again communicate your feelings say
actually I don’t find this that funny
okay and then they’ll be like oh
actually right because a lot of the
times were very silent and you don’t
want to be silent you want to learn once
again to express how you feel that’s the
power of vulnerability the strongest
people in the world are the most
vulnerable because it takes more
strength to be open than it does to be
closed slow motion that side and also to
stop absorbing that frequency they are
emitting you can also have a sense of
humor yourself to say actually I’m not
going to allow this person to take away
my peace of mind my joy my happiness but
actually I’m actually gonna show them a
mirror of themselves because you see how
we treat other people say so much about
ourselves okay so if someone is hurling
insults at you constantly to the extreme
what does this say about them it
obviously means that they don’t they
don’t see themselves in a high regard
okay so you are worthy what’s the fourth
secret way self-absorbed people
silence you
seven day vegan challenge oh yes okay so
you are eating your papaya you’re eating
your mango you’re eating delicious foods
and they’re like eh what is that like
they mock your weird strange eating
habits now I was with a good friend and
she’s like a fully raw vegan okay like
fully raw totally and she was like she
doesn’t even drink like pasteurize
orange juice and I was like oh my
goodness that’s really strange because I
love like obviously cold-press orange
juice is a lot better because it’s not
heated so the enzymes don’t get
denatured but I was like that’s a bit
strange but you see a self-absorbed
person in that situation the
narcissistic sociopathic psychopath
would actually take the piss out of you
completely and say oh my gosh you’re so
strange you’re so crazy
right they mock your eating habits so
the solution is to say actually why am i
around this person I am worthy of so
much more
and then come and hang out with me baby
let’s go to a strawberry farm right now
what’s the fifth secret way
self-absorbed people silence you
and you don’t even know it they blame
you for absolutely everything everything
everything it wasn’t me it was you ever
been around someone always who always
always points the finger at you yes
that’s a very self-absorbed being now
once again I used to be like that for a
bit I used to point the finger once you
once you point a finger at someone
you’ve got three more pointing right
back at you slow motion that site okay
self-absorbed people never want to take
responsibility the psychopath who has no
empathy who can’t feel other people’s
emotions doesn’t have any responsibility
because they don’t know what they’ve
done wrong the sociopath so people often
ask what’s the difference between
psychopath sociopath no narcissists okay
let’s break it down very quickly
Psychopaths a lot of people it’s more
geared towards genetic disposition okay
just very aggressive very cold and
heartless sociopath is more nurture how
they were raised
okay that’s why they’re very sometimes
antisocial they show no compassion and a
narcissist is just someone who is so in
love with their reflection they miss
echo how do you think that makes echo
feel goodness gracious
okay so
they are always blaming you now what’s
the solution let’s just say I blame you
for everything what are you going to do
about it
you got a once again realize that you
don’t have to be around this person let
me say that again you don’t have to be
around this person a lot of people are
in relationships or they have friends
who are always blaming them now ah yeah
I got this friend who always blames me
no spoiler alert they aren’t your friend
can I get a Hello but the cat down the
road is okay so realize you are worthy
of so much more
what’s the sick secret way self-absorbed
people silence you and you don’t even
know it
you don’t even know it they love to
bring up your past
now many psychopaths sociopaths and
extreme narcissists we use a lot of
manipulation will always dig up your
past always and what they will do is
that they will actually like highlight
certain things you’ve told them about
your past and keep bringing it up like
oh yeah but do you remember like five
years ago when this happened to you and
you’re not perfect like they always will
point out your flaws okay that’s once
again what they use to silence you to
take away your expression so how do you
get your expression back what’s the
solution
you got to realize this we become like
the people we surround ourselves with
most often many times we are around
sociopaths Psychopaths extreme
narcissists because we still want them
to validate our existence you got to
learn how to start validating your own
existence
slow motion that side you got to learn
how to connect with those who remind you
who you are and just go to the beach
with them my let’s all go let’s all go
what’s the seventh secret way
self-absorbed people
silence you they use your past against
you you tell them certain things about
your past maybe you’ve been an intimate
relationship with someone they’ve moved
on then they try and expose you right
psychopaths sociopaths and narcissists
will always try to expose you that is a
key that is a key trait okay as a
psychologist as someone who’s taught so
many people that’s what they love to do
to silence you so they could bring up
your past
– always once again make themselves seem
superior like they’re perfect okay what
are you gonna do about this because
we’re all about solutions in becoming a
greatest version you have to realize you
want your past anymore your past doesn’t
define you so when a very self-absorbed
person does that they bring up your past
and use it against you to silence you
just say hey my past doesn’t define me
my past does not define me but also
realize that sometimes you can even air
out your dirty laundry like I have I say
look I was in a mental institute for 30
days 2006 okay you can’t use that
against me now slow motion that site I
said when I used to make early videos I
was very nervous but now I’m really
confident you can’t use it against me
now I’m not perfect okay okay okay
right so expose yourself but realize
once again these people aren’t worth
being around you want to realize this
the secret of becoming your greatest
version is to let go of anything and
anyone no longer serving you you’re
better than that
what’s the eighth secret way
self-absorbed people silence you they
tried to silence you they always make
themselves seem better than you okay
ever been around someone who is always
so focused on winning many times you
find self-absorbed
narcissists Psychopaths and sociopaths
when you play a lot of sports and there
is someone on the team who is so adamant
and fixated on winning they will do
anything at any cost to win even if it
means punching you and slapping you
across the face
ouch okay it’s win win win win win I
must win you will lose okay so they
always want to appear better than you
they are up here you are down they’re up
here you’re down there so what’s the
solution if you are around this person
who is trying to silence you like that
I’m better than you just say no we’re
all equal because we are all connected
but you don’t even have to explain
yourself you don’t have to justify
yourself to very self-absorbed people
you just have to walk away from them
because by you being there and arguing
with them you are giving them food slow
motion that side
you take away their food by choosing not
to be around them any longer
what’s the night secret way
self-absorbed people
silence you okay many times we’re around
certain people and what happens they say
I made you without me
you will be anything and this happens a
lot of the times in relationships that’s
why a lot of relationships end in
divorce
thank goodness goodness gracious all
don’t write they are like some people
are like I made you without you
you won’t be anything without me and
then two weeks later they see you
smiling on the beat to someone else and
they’re like oh my goodness
right so they always try to tell you
that hey you’re nothing without me I
make you the solution is not to believe
that because if you believe that because
if you believe that then you fall into
their trap you’ve got to realize that
actually there are so many other people
who love respect and appreciate me I’m
not gonna surround myself with someone
who just demeans me who belittles me and
who makes me feel inferior all the time
and that is how you reclaim your power
that is how you become your greatest
highly
self-absorbed narcissists sociopaths
Psychopaths
turn your words around right they will
change everything around they will act
like you didn’t even say that okay so
they are masters at controlling what you
say rearranging what you say and
convincing you that you don’t even know
what you’re talking about they don’t
want to hear it because once again they
can’t hear it they can’t feel you what’s
the solution now I’ve been around a lot
of narcissists I used to work with a guy
who was just heartless ruthless cold and
what freed me was to say I am NOT a
victim I get it
everybody is going through stuff but I’m
not going to be a trash can people to
dump their litter on okay and when I
would say stuff at work he would like
say no you didn’t you said this I’m like
no I said that so what I have what I did
was to say okay I’m gonna stand in front
of this person I’m not gonna back down
you see
highly self-absorbed narcissists
Psychopaths and sociopaths would love
you to run away
they would love you to be silent because
once again their whole job is to take
away your voice so you’ve got to stand
up to them and say no actually I said
this don’t disappear hold your ground
breathing that good ass prana baby feel
so good to be alive baby can I get a
Hello and that is how you free yourself
from these people and have a beautiful
day we’re out here we’re nature baby
well breathing in that good ass product
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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