see some senate waters diving deep once
again we are out here in nature baby
first thing in the day gorgeous weather
ten rules of a relationship oh we’re
about to dive really deep let’s just
whoa breathing in that good osprey Oh
baby
this is sexology daddy’s home we’re back
what a fire hot cold yin-yang now I get
thousands of messages from beautiful
deep divers every single day about
relationships ralph is my girlfriend
ralph is my boyfriend it’s my husband
it’s my wife everybody always has
something to say about their
relationship put your hand up if you’ve
ever had a problem with your
relationship okay all hands are going up
right now I see I mean even at breakfast
yeah can I get a hello
[Music]
let me share with you us help me along
my journey the ten rules of a
relationship now I talk of two kinds of
relationships you have the water
relationship which is the harmonious
relationship very transparent very
authentic you feel at peace with that
person and then there is the coca-cola
relationship the very toxic relationship
that’s the relationship you really want
to duck from like this you just dodged
the bullet thank goodness for that okay
the first rule of a relationship that’s
helped me along my journey is to stay
faithful now let’s face it a lot of us
we have a hard time dealing with
commitment I did for a long time along
my early journey and what it boiled down
to was that I realized that being
general
ship was not a top priority for me and
being in a relationship on a
subconscious level is not a top priority
for a lot of people look at it like this
when you are really really really really
young at school you don’t say okay I
just want to be in love as a profession
you’re like okay I want to be a doctor I
want to be a scientist I want to be a
rapper I want to I want to do something
with my life and I want to be in love as
well right I want to find my prince
ladies right I want to find my princess
fellas right okay but it’s really it’s
really not at the top priority so many
of us during our relationships a
relationship we find it very hard to be
committed because we have other
priorities you see a lot of us we have a
lot of priorities we don’t have a
priority what helped me along my journey
with the water relationship was being
committed when you are committed nothing
is sexier than commitment slow motion
aside stand by me stand by me baby be my
ride-or-die fight for me right hold me
back so I realized that staying faithful
is the number one rule of a relationship
and that means you have to be committed
to that person in the heart now here’s
where it gets a little bit it gets a
little bit tricky because the water
relationship is not something you can
force you see everyone will eventually
end up with who they are meant to be
with we can’t force a relationship even
if you really really really want to be
with someone and they really want to be
with you if it’s not meant to be it’s
just not going to happen that’s why a
lot of people are with someone but
they’re thinking of the cat down the
road oh yes you
thinking of someone else you’re
physically with them but your heart is
somewhere else when you allow your heart
to be with someone in a very natural and
pure way you find that you now enter the
water relationship so stay faithful stay
committed that’s the number one rule
that’s helped me of a relationship right
what’s the second rule of a relationship
make someone feel like they are wanted
for goodness sakes I see time and time
again what happens a lot of people they
feel neglected
and that’s why a lot of relationships
they become toxic they move into the
coca-cola relationship because when
people feel neglected they start to do
all kinds of crazy stuff right when they
feel loved you create more harmony
within the relationship now check this
out when people feel like they are
wanted they open up more to you and that
means you got to appreciate people you
got to be proud to be with someone like
I’m proud of you baby lift them up and
say baby I love you
and then put them down gently right be
proud to be with that person celebrate
them celebrate like you just won the
lottery
you just won $10.00 great 10 euros great
right now you just won 100 million yeah
that’s how you should be celebrating
them even more than that when you
neglect people which can happen once
again when you are not committed to
someone based on your priorities then
people begin to drift apart when you
make someone feel like they are wanted
and that can happen by just being there
for them emotionally not just saying
okay let’s sleep together and all of
that that’s only the physical connection
that’s common
the mental and the heart connection is
rare
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slow motion aside so make someone feel
like they wanted what’s the third rule
of a relationship that’s helped me along
my journey okay know this so many times
we don’t respect people respect people
respect that person you are with even
when they are not around how about that
meaning you don’t start gossiping about
someone you supposedly love to someone
else right you don’t start trash-talking
them remind yourself that you are
choosing to be with this person I get
thousands of emails long essays about
how bad this person’s partner is and I’m
thinking wait a minute you are choosing
to be with them and that’s why a lot of
relationships fall apart because people
once again they’re concealing how they
really feel but when they’re not
together then they have so much to say
about them you really want to learn how
to communicate to that person in a very
authentic way and respect that person
don’t laugh at them I know what they’re
wearing is pretty funny right now but
still respect them respect them don’t
try to make them feel small what happens
in so many relationships as time goes on
you see when you first meet someone
everything is beautiful okay because
you’re dressed up you’ve got you’ve got
the turquoise going like nice baby right
but as time goes on you got to wake up
to them no makeup
you just roll out of bed okay now you
get to really know someone and sometimes
it can get pretty ugly sometimes you
might have a little argument first thing
in the day when you ain’t even had
breakfast yet but
that’s what you have to go through to
make the relationship stronger you see
as time goes on in a relationship you
begin to see people’s true colors and as
you begin to see people’s true colors
you begin to realize you begin to
realize okay is this what I really want
you ask yourself this question and if
you can respect someone when they’re
just themselves you find that your
relationship will become more harmonious
the authenticity we’ve got to respect
people’s authenticity we can’t expect
the glimmering lights all the time
sometimes look you just have to respect
how they are not trying to change them
right a lot of people a lot of people
right want to start to change people
ladies say Ralph I want to change this
guy I can change him around I can change
him
now you can’t his old mother couldn’t
even change him what makes you think
you’re gonna change him you have to
accept people as they are realize that
people are evolving anyway even if you
don’t want them to but you have to
realize that you got to respect people
and you respect people by accepting who
they are honoring who they are and
celebrating who they are without always
trying to change them around because
that’s really a pain in the butt
what is the fourth relationship rule now
what’s helped me along my journey is to
realize this you’ve got to be able to
have a conversation with your special
being and say okay what do I tolerate
what do you tolerate what is good good
what is no no some people don’t like you
flooding one relationship I was in when
I was younger this my partner at the
time didn’t want me to look any other
woman I’m like what
huh right and that relationship didn’t
last long because I’m a very free spirit
the water relationship is not about
possession it is about appreciation but
at the same time I’ve been in
relationships where we both come to what
I call the mutual agreement where we say
okay this is what I tolerate this is
what I don’t tolerate and that’s
beautiful some people are like don’t
flirt with other people just don’t do
that and then we can have the best night
ever
oh baby okay right look you’ve got to
meet each other halfway and that’s why
the greatest relationship you can have
is with yourself when you form that
relationship with yourself you now meet
your reflection
therefore you are with someone who
shares the same values as you do and
then it’s just smooth sailing from there
whoops
you just slip don’t worry about it okay
what’s the fifth rule of a relationship
what helped me along my journey seven
day vegan challenge let’s talk about it
make time for someone that’s right I
don’t have time make time for someone
make time to eat with someone nothing is
sexier than authenticity nothing is
sexier than both of you stuffing
avocados in each other’s mouths how sexy
is that now your shirt is like stain
don’t worry about it okay I realized
this that the water relationship for me
is about making quality time even if
you’re working I know what it’s like you
busy make 30 minutes take 30 minutes go
out with that special someone and take
them out on a meal on me and the cat
down the road and say baby let’s just
eat and celebrate this beautiful
plant-based meal drink a nice cacao
smoothie put some chia seeds on
talk maca powder even a little bit of
vanilla right and you’re both going to
form a deeper chemistry because intimacy
is really created over food if music be
the food of love play on baby
Shakespeare for you right so I realized
that food and love go together and when
we talk of just eat with someone like
you got to eat every single day and
what’s helped me in the water
relationship I’ve been in is to eat with
someone you don’t have to go to a fancy
restaurant bring a pack lunch I’ll make
it for you what do you want we got some
brown rice okay avvocato okay want some
seaweed on the side okay what else I’ll
make you some homemade homemade curry
okay what else some spinach oh we got it
we got it feet we got it for you I’m
gonna make two packed lunches for both
of you right and now you’re gonna find
that oh my gosh I get it we can just
talk and talk have deep conversations
over this beautiful meal and now the
food is gone where did it go nobody
knows what is a sixth rule of a
relationship communication without
communication there is no relationship
now check this out we are living in the
Information Age the beautiful Age of
Aquarius where everybody
well not everybody but a lot of people
especially deep divers are awakening to
the truth of who they are that’s why I’m
getting thousands of messages that’s why
I’m getting thousands of messages on
relationships Ralph my third I just
opened I don’t know how to tell my
boyfriend he doesn’t understand what I’m
going through right now real I don’t
know what I can deal with it okay okay
right so when you’re awakening your
relationship is going to change more so
the communication dynamic is going to
change
check this out after my awakening my
relationship shifted because the person
I was with at the time didn’t understand
when I was saying
hey my third eye is opening i’m
decalcifying my pineal gland no one like
what are you talking about right then I
met someone who actually got me and we
just made beautiful babies
right so if you can remind yourself this
that communication is key without
communication there is no relationship
ladies you write to me all the time
saying Ralph my boyfriend just doesn’t
open up he’s a macho man he doesn’t talk
to me okay
so long fellas and ladies to to not
suppress how you feel
communicate how you feel to that special
someone because the more people know
people aren’t natural mind reader’s I am
and the cat down the road is but not
everyone else is right so you got to
talk how you’re feeling right that’s an
essential rule of a relationship
what’s the seventh rule of a
relationship baby baby what helped me
along my relationship and I admit I’ve
screwed up some great relationships
because of my ego the ego is a
three-letter word that can destroy a
12-letter word called a relationship
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slow motion inside but guess what I have
had a beautiful relationship because I
realized and I learnt from my early
teenage years to remove the ego from a
relationship you see the water
relationship is where the ego dissolves
that’s what we call the merchant’s where
the two become one can I get a hello
there you see the ego is the mask the
mask is the persona in ancient Greece
they used to talk to a mask and say I
see the cat down the road right that’s
acting that was early form of acting but
check this out when you are with someone
you don’t have to act
you just have to be there for you don’t
have to put on an act you don’t have to
appear like the Macho Man guys to your
woman I’m so tough look at me look at my
muscles you don’t have to do that ladies
you don’t have to put on an act either
you don’t even have to overdress just go
casual right and you’re going to find
that the more you begin to remove your
ego and the other person does the same
you realize now you don’t have to
pretend
in essence both of you move into your
true authenticity now you have the
sympathetic vibration this is where both
of you are vibrating towards each other
and then you just hug each other and
then you just dance into the sunset
together and I write a book about both
of you right what is the eighth rule of
a relationship that’s helped me along my
journey trust more please trust more
trust more I’ve been in relationships
where people have been very insecure and
I get it sometimes I’m insecure too
they’re like I’m so insecure I don’t
trust you I don’t trust anyone you see
I’ve learned along my journey that if
you don’t trust yourself you’re never
gonna trust anybody else you see part of
the water relationship which is the
harmonious relationship is that you
learn how to trust people ladies write
to me all the time saying Ralph my guy
doesn’t trust me he’s always so
possessive and guess what Ralph I’m
getting a divorce
oh don’t worry about it right you got to
trust people if you really want to know
if someone really loves you you let the
bird out of the cage if it comes back it
was yours
mmm slow motion this side now if it
flies off well it wasn’t yours and it’s
never going to come back don’t worry
about it right so realize that you can’t
force a relationship you can’t force
really
a relationship is something that
happens in a very pure and simple way
and it happens through trust you’ve got
to learn how to trust someone
wholeheartedly every single day now what
support support me that’s all I ever
asked for baby just support me in my
mission just stand by me because they
always say behind every successful man
there’s the cat down the road behind him
right there’s a successful there is a
successful woman behind him famous for
every successful woman there’s a
successful cat down the road behind her
I realized this that you got to support
people in their mission and I’ve seen
being in a water relationship that’s
what helps the relationship grow support
look ladies learn this you are gonna
fall in love with a guy okay and what
draws you to this guy is his ambition
he’s so focused in his purpose but you
see as time goes on he’s gonna have to
choose between you and his mission but
down the line he realizes he doesn’t
have to choose
he just needs your support in the
mission he’s going to be able to do his
job even better and he’s going to be
able to love you even better you see
what happens is that you meet a guy
ladies and what happens you see him
working all the time making power moves
and you’re like he’s neglecting me Ralph
no it’s not he’s just focused on his
mission you need to support that guy
same guys you need to support that woman
so what I call men of purpose women of
purpose the more you support them then
they open up to you they’re like okay
you’ve been supporting me this is the
least I can do like they lift you up on
their back and they take you for a long
walk like thank you baby you supported
me I’m supporting you right now
ouch my shoulders
me right so support people that’s the
ninth rule of a relationship and what is
the tenth rule of a relationship the
tenth rule of a relationship that’s
helped me along my journey now check
this out
vulnerability now the great psychologist
brené Brown talked about that the power
of vulnerability I can attest that
vulnerability is probably the number one
secret of a relationship
in fact vulnerability is the glue that
holds a relationship together
check this out you meet people all the
time every single day you meet people
sometimes hiking on the beach wherever
it is in this in the mall in the
supermarket but you don’t really know
them so you’re just like hi hi hi when
you really know someone you open up you
allow yourself to be vulnerable to that
person and they allow themselves to be
vulnerable to you through vulnerability
you start sharing your dirt your dark
grimy secrets right and guess what
that’s what makes the relationship even
sweeter because now both of you you
don’t have this fear about trying to be
perfect all the time right you just let
it go
you just free yourself from all of that
like tension and you share beautiful
secrets you talk about what you did when
you’re 5 years old and they talk about
what they did that time when they stole
those cookies out of the jar and now
you’re laughing you also talk about your
fears your insecurities your aspirations
also your imperfections you see only
through vulnerability can you show
someone what I call your perfect
imperfections because so many of us we
want to appear like with with we’ve all
got it figured out and then we we land
on our us right not fun so learn to be
vulnerable with someone I’ve done it
along my journey and that’s why even if
you’re no longer with that person they
gravitate back towards you because they
realize it was real
it was you both allowed each other to be
you both allowed each other to be
vulnerable to each other that’s the
number one secret of a relationship and
the water relationship grows through
transparency transparency can only
happen through vulnerability guys you’re
a softy inside right you love your mom
all right so tell that to a woman she’ll
love you even more ladies you’re also a
softy right be soft here to your guy
right you don’t have to be this alpha
woman all the time right just relax show
your deep femininity be vulnerable that
guy is gonna hug you like you’ve never
been hugged and then both of you are
just gonna say feel so good to be a live
baby can I get a Hello there we are out
here in the heart of nature baby just
whoa breathing in that good ass Prada
have a beautiful day deep divers and
that is the ten rules of a relationship
do you have any more let us know
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you
[Laughter] [Music]
again we are out here in nature baby
first thing in the day gorgeous weather
ten rules of a relationship oh we’re
about to dive really deep let’s just
whoa breathing in that good osprey Oh
baby
this is sexology daddy’s home we’re back
what a fire hot cold yin-yang now I get
thousands of messages from beautiful
deep divers every single day about
relationships ralph is my girlfriend
ralph is my boyfriend it’s my husband
it’s my wife everybody always has
something to say about their
relationship put your hand up if you’ve
ever had a problem with your
relationship okay all hands are going up
right now I see I mean even at breakfast
yeah can I get a hello
[Music]
let me share with you us help me along
my journey the ten rules of a
relationship now I talk of two kinds of
relationships you have the water
relationship which is the harmonious
relationship very transparent very
authentic you feel at peace with that
person and then there is the coca-cola
relationship the very toxic relationship
that’s the relationship you really want
to duck from like this you just dodged
the bullet thank goodness for that okay
the first rule of a relationship that’s
helped me along my journey is to stay
faithful now let’s face it a lot of us
we have a hard time dealing with
commitment I did for a long time along
my early journey and what it boiled down
to was that I realized that being
general
ship was not a top priority for me and
being in a relationship on a
subconscious level is not a top priority
for a lot of people look at it like this
when you are really really really really
young at school you don’t say okay I
just want to be in love as a profession
you’re like okay I want to be a doctor I
want to be a scientist I want to be a
rapper I want to I want to do something
with my life and I want to be in love as
well right I want to find my prince
ladies right I want to find my princess
fellas right okay but it’s really it’s
really not at the top priority so many
of us during our relationships a
relationship we find it very hard to be
committed because we have other
priorities you see a lot of us we have a
lot of priorities we don’t have a
priority what helped me along my journey
with the water relationship was being
committed when you are committed nothing
is sexier than commitment slow motion
aside stand by me stand by me baby be my
ride-or-die fight for me right hold me
back so I realized that staying faithful
is the number one rule of a relationship
and that means you have to be committed
to that person in the heart now here’s
where it gets a little bit it gets a
little bit tricky because the water
relationship is not something you can
force you see everyone will eventually
end up with who they are meant to be
with we can’t force a relationship even
if you really really really want to be
with someone and they really want to be
with you if it’s not meant to be it’s
just not going to happen that’s why a
lot of people are with someone but
they’re thinking of the cat down the
road oh yes you
thinking of someone else you’re
physically with them but your heart is
somewhere else when you allow your heart
to be with someone in a very natural and
pure way you find that you now enter the
water relationship so stay faithful stay
committed that’s the number one rule
that’s helped me of a relationship right
what’s the second rule of a relationship
make someone feel like they are wanted
for goodness sakes I see time and time
again what happens a lot of people they
feel neglected
and that’s why a lot of relationships
they become toxic they move into the
coca-cola relationship because when
people feel neglected they start to do
all kinds of crazy stuff right when they
feel loved you create more harmony
within the relationship now check this
out when people feel like they are
wanted they open up more to you and that
means you got to appreciate people you
got to be proud to be with someone like
I’m proud of you baby lift them up and
say baby I love you
and then put them down gently right be
proud to be with that person celebrate
them celebrate like you just won the
lottery
you just won $10.00 great 10 euros great
right now you just won 100 million yeah
that’s how you should be celebrating
them even more than that when you
neglect people which can happen once
again when you are not committed to
someone based on your priorities then
people begin to drift apart when you
make someone feel like they are wanted
and that can happen by just being there
for them emotionally not just saying
okay let’s sleep together and all of
that that’s only the physical connection
that’s common
the mental and the heart connection is
rare
[Music]
slow motion aside so make someone feel
like they wanted what’s the third rule
of a relationship that’s helped me along
my journey okay know this so many times
we don’t respect people respect people
respect that person you are with even
when they are not around how about that
meaning you don’t start gossiping about
someone you supposedly love to someone
else right you don’t start trash-talking
them remind yourself that you are
choosing to be with this person I get
thousands of emails long essays about
how bad this person’s partner is and I’m
thinking wait a minute you are choosing
to be with them and that’s why a lot of
relationships fall apart because people
once again they’re concealing how they
really feel but when they’re not
together then they have so much to say
about them you really want to learn how
to communicate to that person in a very
authentic way and respect that person
don’t laugh at them I know what they’re
wearing is pretty funny right now but
still respect them respect them don’t
try to make them feel small what happens
in so many relationships as time goes on
you see when you first meet someone
everything is beautiful okay because
you’re dressed up you’ve got you’ve got
the turquoise going like nice baby right
but as time goes on you got to wake up
to them no makeup
you just roll out of bed okay now you
get to really know someone and sometimes
it can get pretty ugly sometimes you
might have a little argument first thing
in the day when you ain’t even had
breakfast yet but
that’s what you have to go through to
make the relationship stronger you see
as time goes on in a relationship you
begin to see people’s true colors and as
you begin to see people’s true colors
you begin to realize you begin to
realize okay is this what I really want
you ask yourself this question and if
you can respect someone when they’re
just themselves you find that your
relationship will become more harmonious
the authenticity we’ve got to respect
people’s authenticity we can’t expect
the glimmering lights all the time
sometimes look you just have to respect
how they are not trying to change them
right a lot of people a lot of people
right want to start to change people
ladies say Ralph I want to change this
guy I can change him around I can change
him
now you can’t his old mother couldn’t
even change him what makes you think
you’re gonna change him you have to
accept people as they are realize that
people are evolving anyway even if you
don’t want them to but you have to
realize that you got to respect people
and you respect people by accepting who
they are honoring who they are and
celebrating who they are without always
trying to change them around because
that’s really a pain in the butt
what is the fourth relationship rule now
what’s helped me along my journey is to
realize this you’ve got to be able to
have a conversation with your special
being and say okay what do I tolerate
what do you tolerate what is good good
what is no no some people don’t like you
flooding one relationship I was in when
I was younger this my partner at the
time didn’t want me to look any other
woman I’m like what
huh right and that relationship didn’t
last long because I’m a very free spirit
the water relationship is not about
possession it is about appreciation but
at the same time I’ve been in
relationships where we both come to what
I call the mutual agreement where we say
okay this is what I tolerate this is
what I don’t tolerate and that’s
beautiful some people are like don’t
flirt with other people just don’t do
that and then we can have the best night
ever
oh baby okay right look you’ve got to
meet each other halfway and that’s why
the greatest relationship you can have
is with yourself when you form that
relationship with yourself you now meet
your reflection
therefore you are with someone who
shares the same values as you do and
then it’s just smooth sailing from there
whoops
you just slip don’t worry about it okay
what’s the fifth rule of a relationship
what helped me along my journey seven
day vegan challenge let’s talk about it
make time for someone that’s right I
don’t have time make time for someone
make time to eat with someone nothing is
sexier than authenticity nothing is
sexier than both of you stuffing
avocados in each other’s mouths how sexy
is that now your shirt is like stain
don’t worry about it okay I realized
this that the water relationship for me
is about making quality time even if
you’re working I know what it’s like you
busy make 30 minutes take 30 minutes go
out with that special someone and take
them out on a meal on me and the cat
down the road and say baby let’s just
eat and celebrate this beautiful
plant-based meal drink a nice cacao
smoothie put some chia seeds on
talk maca powder even a little bit of
vanilla right and you’re both going to
form a deeper chemistry because intimacy
is really created over food if music be
the food of love play on baby
Shakespeare for you right so I realized
that food and love go together and when
we talk of just eat with someone like
you got to eat every single day and
what’s helped me in the water
relationship I’ve been in is to eat with
someone you don’t have to go to a fancy
restaurant bring a pack lunch I’ll make
it for you what do you want we got some
brown rice okay avvocato okay want some
seaweed on the side okay what else I’ll
make you some homemade homemade curry
okay what else some spinach oh we got it
we got it feet we got it for you I’m
gonna make two packed lunches for both
of you right and now you’re gonna find
that oh my gosh I get it we can just
talk and talk have deep conversations
over this beautiful meal and now the
food is gone where did it go nobody
knows what is a sixth rule of a
relationship communication without
communication there is no relationship
now check this out we are living in the
Information Age the beautiful Age of
Aquarius where everybody
well not everybody but a lot of people
especially deep divers are awakening to
the truth of who they are that’s why I’m
getting thousands of messages that’s why
I’m getting thousands of messages on
relationships Ralph my third I just
opened I don’t know how to tell my
boyfriend he doesn’t understand what I’m
going through right now real I don’t
know what I can deal with it okay okay
right so when you’re awakening your
relationship is going to change more so
the communication dynamic is going to
change
check this out after my awakening my
relationship shifted because the person
I was with at the time didn’t understand
when I was saying
hey my third eye is opening i’m
decalcifying my pineal gland no one like
what are you talking about right then I
met someone who actually got me and we
just made beautiful babies
right so if you can remind yourself this
that communication is key without
communication there is no relationship
ladies you write to me all the time
saying Ralph my boyfriend just doesn’t
open up he’s a macho man he doesn’t talk
to me okay
so long fellas and ladies to to not
suppress how you feel
communicate how you feel to that special
someone because the more people know
people aren’t natural mind reader’s I am
and the cat down the road is but not
everyone else is right so you got to
talk how you’re feeling right that’s an
essential rule of a relationship
what’s the seventh rule of a
relationship baby baby what helped me
along my relationship and I admit I’ve
screwed up some great relationships
because of my ego the ego is a
three-letter word that can destroy a
12-letter word called a relationship
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slow motion inside but guess what I have
had a beautiful relationship because I
realized and I learnt from my early
teenage years to remove the ego from a
relationship you see the water
relationship is where the ego dissolves
that’s what we call the merchant’s where
the two become one can I get a hello
there you see the ego is the mask the
mask is the persona in ancient Greece
they used to talk to a mask and say I
see the cat down the road right that’s
acting that was early form of acting but
check this out when you are with someone
you don’t have to act
you just have to be there for you don’t
have to put on an act you don’t have to
appear like the Macho Man guys to your
woman I’m so tough look at me look at my
muscles you don’t have to do that ladies
you don’t have to put on an act either
you don’t even have to overdress just go
casual right and you’re going to find
that the more you begin to remove your
ego and the other person does the same
you realize now you don’t have to
pretend
in essence both of you move into your
true authenticity now you have the
sympathetic vibration this is where both
of you are vibrating towards each other
and then you just hug each other and
then you just dance into the sunset
together and I write a book about both
of you right what is the eighth rule of
a relationship that’s helped me along my
journey trust more please trust more
trust more I’ve been in relationships
where people have been very insecure and
I get it sometimes I’m insecure too
they’re like I’m so insecure I don’t
trust you I don’t trust anyone you see
I’ve learned along my journey that if
you don’t trust yourself you’re never
gonna trust anybody else you see part of
the water relationship which is the
harmonious relationship is that you
learn how to trust people ladies write
to me all the time saying Ralph my guy
doesn’t trust me he’s always so
possessive and guess what Ralph I’m
getting a divorce
oh don’t worry about it right you got to
trust people if you really want to know
if someone really loves you you let the
bird out of the cage if it comes back it
was yours
mmm slow motion this side now if it
flies off well it wasn’t yours and it’s
never going to come back don’t worry
about it right so realize that you can’t
force a relationship you can’t force
really
a relationship is something that
happens in a very pure and simple way
and it happens through trust you’ve got
to learn how to trust someone
wholeheartedly every single day now what
support support me that’s all I ever
asked for baby just support me in my
mission just stand by me because they
always say behind every successful man
there’s the cat down the road behind him
right there’s a successful there is a
successful woman behind him famous for
every successful woman there’s a
successful cat down the road behind her
I realized this that you got to support
people in their mission and I’ve seen
being in a water relationship that’s
what helps the relationship grow support
look ladies learn this you are gonna
fall in love with a guy okay and what
draws you to this guy is his ambition
he’s so focused in his purpose but you
see as time goes on he’s gonna have to
choose between you and his mission but
down the line he realizes he doesn’t
have to choose
he just needs your support in the
mission he’s going to be able to do his
job even better and he’s going to be
able to love you even better you see
what happens is that you meet a guy
ladies and what happens you see him
working all the time making power moves
and you’re like he’s neglecting me Ralph
no it’s not he’s just focused on his
mission you need to support that guy
same guys you need to support that woman
so what I call men of purpose women of
purpose the more you support them then
they open up to you they’re like okay
you’ve been supporting me this is the
least I can do like they lift you up on
their back and they take you for a long
walk like thank you baby you supported
me I’m supporting you right now
ouch my shoulders
me right so support people that’s the
ninth rule of a relationship and what is
the tenth rule of a relationship the
tenth rule of a relationship that’s
helped me along my journey now check
this out
vulnerability now the great psychologist
brené Brown talked about that the power
of vulnerability I can attest that
vulnerability is probably the number one
secret of a relationship
in fact vulnerability is the glue that
holds a relationship together
check this out you meet people all the
time every single day you meet people
sometimes hiking on the beach wherever
it is in this in the mall in the
supermarket but you don’t really know
them so you’re just like hi hi hi when
you really know someone you open up you
allow yourself to be vulnerable to that
person and they allow themselves to be
vulnerable to you through vulnerability
you start sharing your dirt your dark
grimy secrets right and guess what
that’s what makes the relationship even
sweeter because now both of you you
don’t have this fear about trying to be
perfect all the time right you just let
it go
you just free yourself from all of that
like tension and you share beautiful
secrets you talk about what you did when
you’re 5 years old and they talk about
what they did that time when they stole
those cookies out of the jar and now
you’re laughing you also talk about your
fears your insecurities your aspirations
also your imperfections you see only
through vulnerability can you show
someone what I call your perfect
imperfections because so many of us we
want to appear like with with we’ve all
got it figured out and then we we land
on our us right not fun so learn to be
vulnerable with someone I’ve done it
along my journey and that’s why even if
you’re no longer with that person they
gravitate back towards you because they
realize it was real
it was you both allowed each other to be
you both allowed each other to be
vulnerable to each other that’s the
number one secret of a relationship and
the water relationship grows through
transparency transparency can only
happen through vulnerability guys you’re
a softy inside right you love your mom
all right so tell that to a woman she’ll
love you even more ladies you’re also a
softy right be soft here to your guy
right you don’t have to be this alpha
woman all the time right just relax show
your deep femininity be vulnerable that
guy is gonna hug you like you’ve never
been hugged and then both of you are
just gonna say feel so good to be a live
baby can I get a Hello there we are out
here in the heart of nature baby just
whoa breathing in that good ass Prada
have a beautiful day deep divers and
that is the ten rules of a relationship
do you have any more let us know
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you
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