P some Finnick waters diving deep once
again we’re out here in nature breathing
in that good ass prana baby
do you have an approval problem ten
reasons getting approval isn’t
everything but Ralph I just want to be
liked it isn’t everything but it means
the world to me Ralph but it isn’t
everything
you still don’t listen to you and we and
okay let’s be honest I’m gonna be honest
I love getting approval
I feel approval is beautiful it’s
wonderful everybody wants to be loved
appreciated more so they want to be seen
do you like approval yes you do because
you’re like Ralph look at me I’m on TV
no you’re not you don’t want to be on TV
really it’s full of lies
say what you want who cares let’s go
okay let me share with you what I
approval is great but it’s not
everything and here’s why the first
forces you to fit into a standard but
you have to ask yourself who stand it
[Music]
slow motion this side mmm
so we say this is the right thing to do
that’s what society says it’s right to
go to university get a job get married
have children
and then work for the rest of your life
oh right
I’m too busy I’m on holiday right now
can’t pick up the phone so sorry okay
look I realize that my whole life I
spent trying to fit into some standard
forget about liking it or not I just
thought that was the thing to do and
that’s where is that you right now is
that you but you got a thousand
different people telling you a thousand
different things about what is the right
thing to do with wait a minute
your life not theirs right so I started
to realize that look when you start
approving yourself right you stop
worrying so much about this standard
okay the great Krishnamurti said it is
no measure of health to be well adjusted
slow-motion insight mmm
did so I agree completely the second
reason getting approval isn’t everything
is that anxiety will increase yes do you
have high levels of anxiety wait for it
then just breathing that good-ass Prada
baby don’t wait for me to tell you to do
that right but a lot of us that’s how we
live our lives like we’re scratching our
heads waiting for people to give us the
go-ahead to stop breathing
that’s really really dangerous so I
started to realize this that the moment
I started to care a lot less about
approval and starting to learn how to
approve myself my anxiety level started
to dip and decrease and I felt so calm
so at peace and I’m like this is like a
wait a minute anxiety cure that’s right
if you are having a panic attack right
now it may have something to do with
your need for constant approval so once
you let that go then
your anxiety will pretty much decrease
what is the third reason now being
popular doesn’t mean it’s you slow
motion this side I just want to be
popular I just want to follow the trend
I just want to do what they’re doing
because apparently what they’re doing is
the cool thing to do but is it you now
deep divers much love I’ve spoken about
spirit guides recently huh
that was tough route I can’t believe
don’t care I was speaking about the
third eye years ago indigo children
DMT marijuana all of these really taboo
topics but guess what this is what has
helped this channel grow so big or maybe
it’s not actually maybe it’s just the
cat down the road and that I just like
breathing in that good ass prana but
psychology reveals that once you face
your greatest fear what is so taboo that
will set you free
doing the very thing you fear the most
so yes along my early journey I was
talking about the 5th dimension a lot of
out-there stuff right but that’s what
actually made me feel really comfortable
because I’m like if I can talk about
that then I can definitely talk about
wait a minute anything I won right
carpets and stuff right yeah anything
right are you trying to play it safe
right now in your life is that you out
there trying to not step on too many
toes trying to be seen as this perfect
person I’m no saint
ain’t no Saints around here ain’t no
Saints around here right I’m just real
like I talk about whatever I’m feeling I
don’t need you to approve it or not I
got the cat down the road for that right
so just remind yourself being popular
okay that’s great but is it you be you
unapologetically the fourth reason
getting approval isn’t everything it’s
cool I know but it isn’t everything is
that do you remember when you suddenly
change your diet and you were like at
the table and you’re like I’m not gonna
eat that and all of your family look to
you like huh or your partner looked at
you like huh that was me along my
journey 12 years ago when I became a
vegan started a plant-based plant-based
journey right plant-based journey people
thought I was going nuts and I was
eating a lot of nuts Brazil nuts and
almonds right no they thought I was
going bonkers bananas and I was eating a
lot of that right a lot of plant-based
foods a lot of kale and they were like
Ralph you’re losing weight and I was
because I didn’t seek their approval
because a lot of people were saying like
Ralph where are you gonna get your
protein from and I was like I don’t know
to be honest then I started to really do
my research oh wait a minute chia seeds
complete source of protein
hemp complete source of protein right
yeah so that kept them quiet can we see
what is taking place and this is
probably happening to you right now by
not seeking approval I actually saved my
life because right now I’ve got so much
energy look here take some take some
take some take some you got some good
right it saved my life because it moved
me in the direction of eating better and
now I feel amazing every single day now
if I did seek approval in terms of diet
seven day vegan challenge right just to
eat what everyone else was eating cuz I
had friends back in the day and we would
all go out and at that time I was
starting to question what was on the
menu like anything vegan here and
they’re like here’s a glass of water I’m
like thanks uh oh right and there were
days it was hard I was like maybe I
should just stop this and eat what
everyone else is eating cuz they were
like looking at me like I’m the odd one
out and I was but I
I stayed me right I didn’t seek their
approval I did what felt right to me and
it saved my life okay the fifth reason
getting approval isn’t everything if
something but it isn’t everything is
that when you are weird weird really
means authentic everyone is pretty much
weird on the planet let’s be
it’s pretty much a lunatic asylum don’t
worry about it
look when you are you when you are weird
be weird because you never know who
might fall in love with your weirdness
with your quirky sides right check this
out we spend so much time trying to be
seen seen to have it all figured out to
be perfect in the eyes of society to be
perfect in the eyes of society that now
you could have missed the potential
partner or great friend because that
isn’t you it looks good on paper but is
it you right so I realize I’m just gonna
I’ve just yeah that’s right
just just let it all go real let it all
go and that’s what I did right I’m just
myself every single day it feels great
I’m weird I’m wacky and I’m quirky and I
love it because now people who really
dive deep will really this is what you
get I’m sorry
I can’t do anything for you this is all
there is and the cat down the road right
it’s enough right and you can just sleep
at night peacefully right be weird
because you never know who may fall in
love with your witness number six so
many times in society we equate approval
with self-love like the more likes you
get the more hugs you get the more
people that say to you good job well
done we think that’s a form of self love
when actually it isn’t Oh Oh Mike don’t
worry about it I had to learn that the
hard way
I realized that self love is actually
you’re amazing I love telling you that
right I pay your compliments but it
doesn’t matter what I tell you if you
don’t see yourself your perception you
have of yourself is the only thing that
matters because it’s greater than the
perception other people haven’t you we
create our reality by what we focus on
right not what other people are focusing
on so I started to realize this that
okay self-love is generated by
self-acceptance not by only approval
okay number seven you sometimes news
originality right that’s why getting
approval isn’t everything like I admit
along my early journey that’s all I ever
wanted mom all I ever want is your
approval right good job son
thank you mom look all I ever wanted was
approval so I used to do everything
everyone would tell me I was like a
yes-man yes yes yes yes yes yes right
and it was great until I realized I was
actually saying no why am I saying yes
then nobody knows you came here to be
unique you came here not to be like me
not to be another brick in the wall but
you came here to be authentic to stand
out to shine and that means you’re not
supposed to be copying what everyone
else is doing you got to come with your
own style your own cadence your own
rhythm your own mojo yeah you got to be
you 100% and that’s what I’ve learned
that’s why I feel so good right now
still so good to be alive right because
I’m realizing I can stay more original
when I am in my only
as opposed to competing trying to win
approval right I’m just being me right
now the eight you also may lose you
might you might start to lose your
imagination because what happens this is
what I call the approval trap a lot of
us we think getting applause and all of
this means this is great and it is it’s
fantastic but you have to ask yourself
and this is what I learned that your
creativity increases when you want
afraid to be wrong slow motion inside
you see and that’s really what it boils
down to you see when you always want
approval it’s often a sign that you
always want to be right right you want
to be a perfectionist you want to get it
perfect you want everyone to say you did
it right and then I talk about like
what’s the weird thing I’ve spoken about
recently I’ve done so many weird videos
like on any kind of crazy subject right
and it’s not crazy it’s just unique and
I’m using my imagination I couldn’t do
that if I was always trying to be right
and win approval I’m left-handed by the
way right so I want to be left as well
left right right left okay so you become
more imaginative when you stop seeking
approval all the time of course it’s
natural sometimes but once you start
approving yourself a lot more number
nine getting approval isn’t everything
because often times we find ourselves
what procrastinating that’s right like
you want to do it and now you’re
second-guessing yourself I’m not sure I
should do it right now all you have is
right now and I started to realize this
because I was pretty like
shy and anxious growing up right yeah
and I would always think to myself that
the longer I took like if I just wait a
little bit more things will be wait a
minute I’m still waiting I’m still in
the waiting room is that you living your
whole life in the waiting room because
you’re trying to get approval you’re
trying to be validated well why not
start validating yourself and get your
butt out of the waiting room how about
that even the cat down the road crease
right so I started to realize I have
stopped procrastinating ever since I
started to honor my own approval a lot
more than other people’s and lastly
number 10 getting approval isn’t
approval often makes us over think a lot
ruminate a lot is that you in the
bathroom reading a magazine taking a
dump thinking about what you’re gonna
eat for breakfast goodness gracious
don’t worry about it look we are over
thinking over thinking over thinking
over thinking because sometimes it’s not
about us because we want other people to
see us in a certain way that was me
along my early Jed right now I say that
not only takes up a lot of time it takes
up a lot of my energy and creativity so
right now once I started to approve
myself I’ve stopped overthinking so much
and I don’t have to think about if you
like it or not because the cat down the
road does I do and if you like it that’s
fantastic because I do too and then you
just say feels so good to be a live baby
getting high infinite time deep once
again
[Music] you
again we’re out here in nature breathing
in that good ass prana baby
do you have an approval problem ten
reasons getting approval isn’t
everything but Ralph I just want to be
liked it isn’t everything but it means
the world to me Ralph but it isn’t
everything
you still don’t listen to you and we and
okay let’s be honest I’m gonna be honest
I love getting approval
I feel approval is beautiful it’s
wonderful everybody wants to be loved
appreciated more so they want to be seen
do you like approval yes you do because
you’re like Ralph look at me I’m on TV
no you’re not you don’t want to be on TV
really it’s full of lies
say what you want who cares let’s go
okay let me share with you what I
approval is great but it’s not
everything and here’s why the first
forces you to fit into a standard but
you have to ask yourself who stand it
[Music]
slow motion this side mmm
so we say this is the right thing to do
that’s what society says it’s right to
go to university get a job get married
have children
and then work for the rest of your life
oh right
I’m too busy I’m on holiday right now
can’t pick up the phone so sorry okay
look I realize that my whole life I
spent trying to fit into some standard
forget about liking it or not I just
thought that was the thing to do and
that’s where is that you right now is
that you but you got a thousand
different people telling you a thousand
different things about what is the right
thing to do with wait a minute
your life not theirs right so I started
to realize that look when you start
approving yourself right you stop
worrying so much about this standard
okay the great Krishnamurti said it is
no measure of health to be well adjusted
slow-motion insight mmm
did so I agree completely the second
reason getting approval isn’t everything
is that anxiety will increase yes do you
have high levels of anxiety wait for it
then just breathing that good-ass Prada
baby don’t wait for me to tell you to do
that right but a lot of us that’s how we
live our lives like we’re scratching our
heads waiting for people to give us the
go-ahead to stop breathing
that’s really really dangerous so I
started to realize this that the moment
I started to care a lot less about
approval and starting to learn how to
approve myself my anxiety level started
to dip and decrease and I felt so calm
so at peace and I’m like this is like a
wait a minute anxiety cure that’s right
if you are having a panic attack right
now it may have something to do with
your need for constant approval so once
you let that go then
your anxiety will pretty much decrease
what is the third reason now being
popular doesn’t mean it’s you slow
motion this side I just want to be
popular I just want to follow the trend
I just want to do what they’re doing
because apparently what they’re doing is
the cool thing to do but is it you now
deep divers much love I’ve spoken about
spirit guides recently huh
that was tough route I can’t believe
don’t care I was speaking about the
third eye years ago indigo children
DMT marijuana all of these really taboo
topics but guess what this is what has
helped this channel grow so big or maybe
it’s not actually maybe it’s just the
cat down the road and that I just like
breathing in that good ass prana but
psychology reveals that once you face
your greatest fear what is so taboo that
will set you free
doing the very thing you fear the most
so yes along my early journey I was
talking about the 5th dimension a lot of
out-there stuff right but that’s what
actually made me feel really comfortable
because I’m like if I can talk about
that then I can definitely talk about
wait a minute anything I won right
carpets and stuff right yeah anything
right are you trying to play it safe
right now in your life is that you out
there trying to not step on too many
toes trying to be seen as this perfect
person I’m no saint
ain’t no Saints around here ain’t no
Saints around here right I’m just real
like I talk about whatever I’m feeling I
don’t need you to approve it or not I
got the cat down the road for that right
so just remind yourself being popular
okay that’s great but is it you be you
unapologetically the fourth reason
getting approval isn’t everything it’s
cool I know but it isn’t everything is
that do you remember when you suddenly
change your diet and you were like at
the table and you’re like I’m not gonna
eat that and all of your family look to
you like huh or your partner looked at
you like huh that was me along my
journey 12 years ago when I became a
vegan started a plant-based plant-based
journey right plant-based journey people
thought I was going nuts and I was
eating a lot of nuts Brazil nuts and
almonds right no they thought I was
going bonkers bananas and I was eating a
lot of that right a lot of plant-based
foods a lot of kale and they were like
Ralph you’re losing weight and I was
because I didn’t seek their approval
because a lot of people were saying like
Ralph where are you gonna get your
protein from and I was like I don’t know
to be honest then I started to really do
my research oh wait a minute chia seeds
complete source of protein
hemp complete source of protein right
yeah so that kept them quiet can we see
what is taking place and this is
probably happening to you right now by
not seeking approval I actually saved my
life because right now I’ve got so much
energy look here take some take some
take some take some you got some good
right it saved my life because it moved
me in the direction of eating better and
now I feel amazing every single day now
if I did seek approval in terms of diet
seven day vegan challenge right just to
eat what everyone else was eating cuz I
had friends back in the day and we would
all go out and at that time I was
starting to question what was on the
menu like anything vegan here and
they’re like here’s a glass of water I’m
like thanks uh oh right and there were
days it was hard I was like maybe I
should just stop this and eat what
everyone else is eating cuz they were
like looking at me like I’m the odd one
out and I was but I
I stayed me right I didn’t seek their
approval I did what felt right to me and
it saved my life okay the fifth reason
getting approval isn’t everything if
something but it isn’t everything is
that when you are weird weird really
means authentic everyone is pretty much
weird on the planet let’s be
it’s pretty much a lunatic asylum don’t
worry about it
look when you are you when you are weird
be weird because you never know who
might fall in love with your weirdness
with your quirky sides right check this
out we spend so much time trying to be
seen seen to have it all figured out to
be perfect in the eyes of society to be
perfect in the eyes of society that now
you could have missed the potential
partner or great friend because that
isn’t you it looks good on paper but is
it you right so I realize I’m just gonna
I’ve just yeah that’s right
just just let it all go real let it all
go and that’s what I did right I’m just
myself every single day it feels great
I’m weird I’m wacky and I’m quirky and I
love it because now people who really
dive deep will really this is what you
get I’m sorry
I can’t do anything for you this is all
there is and the cat down the road right
it’s enough right and you can just sleep
at night peacefully right be weird
because you never know who may fall in
love with your witness number six so
many times in society we equate approval
with self-love like the more likes you
get the more hugs you get the more
people that say to you good job well
done we think that’s a form of self love
when actually it isn’t Oh Oh Mike don’t
worry about it I had to learn that the
hard way
I realized that self love is actually
you’re amazing I love telling you that
right I pay your compliments but it
doesn’t matter what I tell you if you
don’t see yourself your perception you
have of yourself is the only thing that
matters because it’s greater than the
perception other people haven’t you we
create our reality by what we focus on
right not what other people are focusing
on so I started to realize this that
okay self-love is generated by
self-acceptance not by only approval
okay number seven you sometimes news
originality right that’s why getting
approval isn’t everything like I admit
along my early journey that’s all I ever
wanted mom all I ever want is your
approval right good job son
thank you mom look all I ever wanted was
approval so I used to do everything
everyone would tell me I was like a
yes-man yes yes yes yes yes yes right
and it was great until I realized I was
actually saying no why am I saying yes
then nobody knows you came here to be
unique you came here not to be like me
not to be another brick in the wall but
you came here to be authentic to stand
out to shine and that means you’re not
supposed to be copying what everyone
else is doing you got to come with your
own style your own cadence your own
rhythm your own mojo yeah you got to be
you 100% and that’s what I’ve learned
that’s why I feel so good right now
still so good to be alive right because
I’m realizing I can stay more original
when I am in my only
as opposed to competing trying to win
approval right I’m just being me right
now the eight you also may lose you
might you might start to lose your
imagination because what happens this is
what I call the approval trap a lot of
us we think getting applause and all of
this means this is great and it is it’s
fantastic but you have to ask yourself
and this is what I learned that your
creativity increases when you want
afraid to be wrong slow motion inside
you see and that’s really what it boils
down to you see when you always want
approval it’s often a sign that you
always want to be right right you want
to be a perfectionist you want to get it
perfect you want everyone to say you did
it right and then I talk about like
what’s the weird thing I’ve spoken about
recently I’ve done so many weird videos
like on any kind of crazy subject right
and it’s not crazy it’s just unique and
I’m using my imagination I couldn’t do
that if I was always trying to be right
and win approval I’m left-handed by the
way right so I want to be left as well
left right right left okay so you become
more imaginative when you stop seeking
approval all the time of course it’s
natural sometimes but once you start
approving yourself a lot more number
nine getting approval isn’t everything
because often times we find ourselves
what procrastinating that’s right like
you want to do it and now you’re
second-guessing yourself I’m not sure I
should do it right now all you have is
right now and I started to realize this
because I was pretty like
shy and anxious growing up right yeah
and I would always think to myself that
the longer I took like if I just wait a
little bit more things will be wait a
minute I’m still waiting I’m still in
the waiting room is that you living your
whole life in the waiting room because
you’re trying to get approval you’re
trying to be validated well why not
start validating yourself and get your
butt out of the waiting room how about
that even the cat down the road crease
right so I started to realize I have
stopped procrastinating ever since I
started to honor my own approval a lot
more than other people’s and lastly
number 10 getting approval isn’t
approval often makes us over think a lot
ruminate a lot is that you in the
bathroom reading a magazine taking a
dump thinking about what you’re gonna
eat for breakfast goodness gracious
don’t worry about it look we are over
thinking over thinking over thinking
over thinking because sometimes it’s not
about us because we want other people to
see us in a certain way that was me
along my early Jed right now I say that
not only takes up a lot of time it takes
up a lot of my energy and creativity so
right now once I started to approve
myself I’ve stopped overthinking so much
and I don’t have to think about if you
like it or not because the cat down the
road does I do and if you like it that’s
fantastic because I do too and then you
just say feels so good to be a live baby
getting high infinite time deep once
again
[Music] you
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