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10 Questions To Ask People If You Want To Know Who They Really Are


peace and finit waters diving deep once
again breathing in that good ass prana
baby we are out here first thing in the
day in the heart of nature baby ten
questions to ask people if you really
want to know who they are
someone wrote in this that they’re very
shy around people they don’t know what
to say
they freeze up in summary they totally
suck at conversations and we even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello don’t
worry you’re not entirely alone I’m
gonna share with you what’s helped me
along my journey cuz I used to freeze up
around people I didn’t know what to say
I was like how are you they were like
either fine or I’m good or I’m terrible
no nobody ever says I’m terrible because
nobody wants to act like their life is
falling apart when actually most of our
lives are programmed questions give you
programmed responses slow motion this
side there is a reason why a lot of
people are anxious around people have
panic attacks around people I did
nervous around people because we simply
don’t know what to say and I’m gonna
share with you 10 questions amazing
questions to ask people if you really
want to know who they are
the first question ask anybody this what
is the most unique part of yourself
uh-oh for me I’ve been skating since I
was 13 years old but now I free line
skate
two separate skates a lot of people have
probably seen me cruising around like
that looks a bit like a invisible wave
board a hoverboard and it’s so fun
I don’t know hardly anyone that freeline
skates maybe like three people and they
all live in different countries so that
is a unique part of me now you know okay
you know my secret
well you don’t if you’ve watched these
videos for certain people it could be
I love stargazing now I know what to buy
you for your birthday
a whole astrology book okay some people
they like nature some people just like
staying in bed until 3:30 3:00 in the
afternoon that’s unique okay there is
something unique about all of us certain
people love hiding huh who loves I think
you do that’s why you’re so unique okay
people open up by that question the
second question to ask people if you
really want to know who they are is what
is a song you’ve listened to that you’re
really embarrassed about could be a song
could be a book you’ve read something
you’ve watched a movie a television
program that you’re really embarrassed
about now I’ll answer it Sunset Beach
that’s right Sunset Beach I used to
watch that growing up as a child and
they would have like long freezes in
between saying stuff like Gregory don’t
do and they would just stop like for
five minutes and it was really fun and
entertaining growing up okay so once you
are somebody that why is this such a
great question because now they are
learning they’re learning how to be
vulnerable to tell you that they used to
like the Teletubbies theme song they
used to like all kinds of weird stuff
they used to read maps okay in their
spare time which is fantastic you get to
know about people embarrassing stuff now
gonna create a better relationship with
them the third question to ask people if
you really want to know who they are is
what are your weirdest eating habits 7
day vegan challenge I can answer that I
sometimes eat multiple things at the
same time strawberries raspberries
blueberries I’m going like that right
now am i eating no what am i doing I
don’t even know ok but it feels good
ok what is your strangest eating habit
I’m asking you right now don’t lie to me
man ok woman so why is this such a great
question because a lot of us we want to
act holier than thou when it comes to
food and nutrition and a lot of people
like eat in their room certain people
don’t even sit down to eat certain
people eat in their bed certain people
eat really late at night now you get to
know people a little bit more and then
you just become best friends the fourth
question is this if you could go back to
any age and any time where would it be
this is such a powerful question because
you see the psychology is a lot of us we
love nostalgia we love going back
reminiscing on the good old days but
actually you get to find out so much
about people when they reminisce for me
what age would I go back to 7 years old
what time where would I be playing on
the monkey bars on the swings in the
park just playing games having a great
time ok so you get to learn about people
7 people it could be I would go back to
just sleeping in when I was young
my mom used to make me sleep on Sundays
my sister and I okay that’s a great
memory I had nowadays on Sundays I don’t
even sleep anymore well I actually do I
just sleep outside okay so what H would
you go back to and what time would it be
in your life you get to really know when
people were at their happiest maybe
their saddest okay people open up what’s
the fifth question if you could change
anything about yourself what would it be
I’m asking you that right now write it
down don’t be shy
you see vulnerability is what people
don’t like vulnerability is what will
take you to the next level slow motion
this side okay I’ll put myself on the
spot like I always do if I could change
one thing about myself it would be to
not be so hard on myself because
sometimes I’m kind of hard on myself and
then I realized wait a minute wait a
minute you’re actually doing pretty good
Ralph just chill out okay so what is the
one thing you would change about
yourself now people start to come out
okay they start to get really personal
number six what have you gone through
that’s made you stronger what’s made you
feel very weak
okay what’s what I’ve gone through when
I was studying at University so so long
long long long long ago right over 13
years ago what happened I was
hospitalized and due to stress and that
was a very life-changing experience for
myself because I was there for one month
okay it made me stronger I’ve gone
through some stuff that’s why I can
share I’m a deep diver I’ve gone through
a lot of spiritual experiences
out-of-body experiences okay they’ve
made me stronger what’s made me feel
weak sometimes when I’ve realized my own
character flaw sometimes I see my ego
coming to the forefront then I’m like
okay it needs to be put in check okay
so sometimes what makes me feel weak is
also the state of the planet a lot of
people are being manipulated a lot of
people are being dumbed down and a lot
of people who are in positions of power
aren’t really using their voice to
really speak the truth I’m doing that
more and more each day and I love to see
people doing that see how much you
already know about me just by that one
question what’s number seven if money
was no object if money was no object
what would you do
okay Alan what said that and that’s a
great question why is this such a great
question if you really want to know who
people are if money was no object what
dream job would you choose for me I
would be doing this okay because there’s
a reason why I make videos in nature
because I’m healing myself at the same
time breathing in that good ass she that
good ass Prada and I naturally come to
nature a lot of people wouldn’t be
working where they’re working if money
was no object they would probably be
jumping out of an aeroplane well do you
think I should do that do you challenge
me to drop to jump to jump out of an
aeroplane saying can I guess oh they’re
right I wonder how I would say it
actually okay okay so that is what will
help you get to know someone a lot more
because then you start to see their
values their principles dah dah dah dah
dah and what’s number eight what is the
best physical and non-physical attribute
of yourself now a lot of us we love to
say okay
wait a minute what’s the best physical
attribute of myself a lot of people say
what you would least expect for me I
would say it’s probably my eyes oh my
gosh Ralph’s probably my smile probably
my teeth right Lots a lot of things are
coming out right now okay but you see a
lot of us we think okay someone’s just
gonna say their body because you’ve seen
them post a nude picture or have a
profile on Instagram but they probably
say something you wouldn’t even expect
so what I found out is that what’s your
favorite as well non-physical attribute
right a lot of people now go even deeper
they start saying my energy my your my
charm my charisma that you can feel
through the screen right so that’s how
people really open up you will be
surprised if you are someone that more
so you probably just might end up
getting married because I’ll be like
what he’s ever asked me then what’s
number nine what decade do you belong to
why is this such a powerful question to
us because I’m still stuck in the 80s
like I grew up and I was influenced by a
lot of dance music good 80s music and
even a lot of 80s rap music into the
early 90s right the 90s we can do the
90s because I was listening to a lot of
Tribe Called Quest a lot of Illmatic who
likes nas out here shoutout to nas right
so that’s the era I’m off I’m off the
80s and also I even like a bit of the
60s like the hippies I’m like gosh I
probably belong to that that that decade
right where people would just like
dancing around wearing leaves to cover
their genitals and smoking marijuana and
dancing in a field that’s pretty cool
okay so right now do I book do I feel I
belong in this technological age yes and
also no because I’m kind of someone
who really is in nature I probably
actually belonged to the dawn of time
that’s right when we walked her out
naked that’s right there was no internet
that’s right and you didn’t have to
check your phone every single five
seconds that’s the decade I belong to
okay cuz now it’s getting a little bit
tedious but I love it at the same time
okay
so that’s a great question to ask
somebody cuz you really get to know what
they like and what they definitely don’t
like and what’s the 10th question
baby baby to ask people if you really
want to know who they are the last day
on planet Earth
that’s right you got actually five
minutes left five minutes left
or 59 or 58 that’s right it’s goin down
real fast what are you gonna do last
five minutes on planet Earth what would
I do I would probably just start free
line skating and say hey at least I go
out skating let me do hand this trick
though right a lot of people might just
stay in bed
a lot of people might just really do
what they always wanted to do it might
be walk out walk out of work walk out of
the classroom right you’ll probably be a
renegade because you would see that you
have nothing left to lose and really if
you think about it I am living like I
only have five minutes left to live and
once you adopt that mindset you put
things in perspective to say okay it
doesn’t matter how much money you have
how big you how big how big your bank
account is okay where you live how many
views your video gets all of these
things are just superficial okay the
only thing that matters is if you are
doing what makes you love if you are
doing what you love and you’re having a
good time for the last five minutes I
would probably just say though feels so
just in time have a beautiful day
out here baby infinite wars diving deep
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