peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re here what happens when
people get on our nerves what are we
going to do about it we must remember
not to become like the people who make
us unhappy and embrace the ones that do
how to deal with negative people first
of all I am negative and I am positive
but it is wonderful when you can find
balance the whole earth is full of
positive and negative ions so therefore
nobody can be negative all the time just
as nobody can be positive all the time
in essence it’s about inner equilibrium
there’s a great indigenous American
Indian tale an old Cherokee told his son
my son there’s a great battle of two
wolves inside us all one wolf is evil
it’s fear resentment jealousy greed the
other is good it’s love compassion trust
the boy thought about him and us
grandfather which wolf wins and the old
man quietly replied the one you feed
powerful here’s what’s helped me along
my journey dealing with negative people
number one is
don’t take it personally I was in
California it was actually the day I was
meeting up with Luke so we went to the
skate park and there was a guy skating
around and he must have thought I pushed
you in front of him so he said okay as
long as I’m in this skate park you are
not going to skate and at that moment I
just remembered all of my videos okay
now I need to start using what I’ve been
talking about and it made me realize at
the time that I am NOT this person’s
problem it’s his own problem I don’t
know him
where did he come from so it was amazing
because he was so angry and I was just
breathing I was remaining calm and as he
was coming with so much anger towards me
he just had a little accident he fell
off his skateboard in so much anger and
he was shouting and I was like just so
calm and I even looked who are you
talking to and once you can see that
that goes on to the next point which is
to stay calm it does wonders because it
is the resistance that we build up that
helps negative people continue in their
negative ways so a lot of the times
resistance makes stronger if I was
arguing with him it would have gone on
and on and on but I did him at the same
time I didn’t run away to I stood there
to face him without fear because you
have to let love guide you not fear and
it helps when we look at the second
point stay
komm it’s all about realizing that once
you have this inner balance within
yourself you are grounded and staying
calm is all about breathing it’s all
about meditation it’s all about being in
alignment within yourself your body mind
and spirit and it’s powerful once you
can realize that it is your calmness
that will save you in the most testing
times another three is the perspective
the bigger picture a lot of us we may be
dealing with someone at work it may be a
friend even the next-door neighbor
and they push our buttons we have to
first see that all relationships are
mirrors so what can we learn from this
experience that is fundamental so they
are also showing us things about
ourselves so we have to thank them as
well
and we have to see the bigger picture to
say it’s not the end of the world there
is so much going on in the world that
why am i focusing on this person because
whatever you focus on gross you turn
into whatever you’re tuned into so we
have to see that once you can see the
bigger picture this so-called person who
is making you feel unhappy they just
disappear into thin air
we can go on to the fourth point which
is also about having this empathy
putting yourself in their shoes to see
that some people they may have had a
hard background because when we talk of
negative and positive people in essence
we are only talking about energy so we
have to ask ourselves okay
what is life like for them do they have
an addiction
and it’s helped me along my journey and
lastly not lastly number five a great
way to deal with negative people is
always to keep it moving and to keep it
moving
you have to see that how is this serving
you because we have to let go of
whatever no longer serves us but more so
we have to see that we’ve got work to do
we have to ask ourselves how is this
helping us become the greatest version
of ourselves because once you argue with
a fool from a distance nobody can tell
the difference so a lot of the times we
just have to see that keep it moving
don’t let negative people take over your
life number six is all about accepting
accept that you can’t please everyone
and that’s not your job
I always say I’m not in this world to
live up to other people’s expectations
of me and I also and I also allow other
it’s wonderful once you can just see
that not everyone has to be the same
this beautiful Orchestra we are all
creating is all about balance so certain
people they may be and behave in a
certain way but in essence everything in
the universe is based on resonance so we
have to say that okay I may not resonate
with this person but maybe it doesn’t
mean that they are a negative person is
just that our energies are not
compatible we go on to number seven
it’s about invitation it’s about seeing
that we are choosing to be around this
person they are not asking us so we have
to see that we are
at what we are we have to always
remember that that we are inviting
people into our personal space and that
is a great way to deal with people who
you are not in harmony with to see that
the power lies within you number eight
is all about attention and once you can
see that you don’t have to pay attention
you don’t have to focus on the
negativity a lot of the times what
happens is that we are carrying all of
this negativity I always say put a smile
on your face because once you can smile
in the face of adversity you see the
secret you see that the power has always
been in your hands your best friend and
enemy lies within you so once you can
just see that what are you focusing on
what are you thinking about because
that’s what you are creating through
your belief systems and then you can
just have fun someone is shouting at you
look the other way when we go on to
number nine
it’s about deep breathing and this
always has been my greatest tool to
always be grounded breathing deep from
the base of our spines and it really
just relaxes your muscles you improve
the blood circulation but also you have
that clarity a lot of us when we are
around people we are not resonating with
sometimes we are too quick and we say
words which we regret afterwards so
breathing gives you that clarity and
lastly we have to own our emotions when
we are dealing with negative
of people we have to see that once you
can take responsibility for your
emotions which is the energy in motion
you free yourself because now you don’t
have to blame external sources for your
problems five words I am NOT a victim so
you reclaim your power the secret is is
that you have to become an alchemist the
secret of alchemy is making the best out
of the worst and not allowing external
events to govern your internal condition
so when there is a storm you can get
your little dance on maybe even do a few
spins around but essentially in fact I
was I was walking and there was a
rainbow today it was raining and there
was some Sun in the sky as well so you
also see that this is energy this is the
yin and this is the yang it’s all part
of the universal dance but more so we
also have to see that it’s not just
about turning the other cheek no we have
to always overcome negativity with
positivity not with negativity so that
still means that we can stand our ground
just as long as we are smiling what
happens when we are angry to someone who
has been hurtful towards us we want to
strike out at them now we have absorbed
their energy I did a video how to stop
absorbing other people’s energy and now
we have become what we most disliked in
that person we have taken on board their
traits so to free ourselves of this even
if we are going up against a negative
person we have to always smile keep that
in a smile
E
you are serious and it does wonders
remember that being free is your
birthright and every day you can smile
if you are grateful for the things in
your life that’s what I’m doing and
right now I don’t have time to entertain
gossip I don’t have time for drama I’m
all about elevation and it’s beautiful
remember you can live your dream once
you surround yourself with those who
remind you who you are we are here
infinite waters diving deep once again
[Laughter]
[Music] you
again we’re here what happens when
people get on our nerves what are we
going to do about it we must remember
not to become like the people who make
us unhappy and embrace the ones that do
how to deal with negative people first
of all I am negative and I am positive
but it is wonderful when you can find
balance the whole earth is full of
positive and negative ions so therefore
nobody can be negative all the time just
as nobody can be positive all the time
in essence it’s about inner equilibrium
there’s a great indigenous American
Indian tale an old Cherokee told his son
my son there’s a great battle of two
wolves inside us all one wolf is evil
it’s fear resentment jealousy greed the
other is good it’s love compassion trust
the boy thought about him and us
grandfather which wolf wins and the old
man quietly replied the one you feed
powerful here’s what’s helped me along
my journey dealing with negative people
number one is
don’t take it personally I was in
California it was actually the day I was
meeting up with Luke so we went to the
skate park and there was a guy skating
around and he must have thought I pushed
you in front of him so he said okay as
long as I’m in this skate park you are
not going to skate and at that moment I
just remembered all of my videos okay
now I need to start using what I’ve been
talking about and it made me realize at
the time that I am NOT this person’s
problem it’s his own problem I don’t
know him
where did he come from so it was amazing
because he was so angry and I was just
breathing I was remaining calm and as he
was coming with so much anger towards me
he just had a little accident he fell
off his skateboard in so much anger and
he was shouting and I was like just so
calm and I even looked who are you
talking to and once you can see that
that goes on to the next point which is
to stay calm it does wonders because it
is the resistance that we build up that
helps negative people continue in their
negative ways so a lot of the times
resistance makes stronger if I was
arguing with him it would have gone on
and on and on but I did him at the same
time I didn’t run away to I stood there
to face him without fear because you
have to let love guide you not fear and
it helps when we look at the second
point stay
komm it’s all about realizing that once
you have this inner balance within
yourself you are grounded and staying
calm is all about breathing it’s all
about meditation it’s all about being in
alignment within yourself your body mind
and spirit and it’s powerful once you
can realize that it is your calmness
that will save you in the most testing
times another three is the perspective
the bigger picture a lot of us we may be
dealing with someone at work it may be a
friend even the next-door neighbor
and they push our buttons we have to
first see that all relationships are
mirrors so what can we learn from this
experience that is fundamental so they
are also showing us things about
ourselves so we have to thank them as
well
and we have to see the bigger picture to
say it’s not the end of the world there
is so much going on in the world that
why am i focusing on this person because
whatever you focus on gross you turn
into whatever you’re tuned into so we
have to see that once you can see the
bigger picture this so-called person who
is making you feel unhappy they just
disappear into thin air
we can go on to the fourth point which
is also about having this empathy
putting yourself in their shoes to see
that some people they may have had a
hard background because when we talk of
negative and positive people in essence
we are only talking about energy so we
have to ask ourselves okay
what is life like for them do they have
an addiction
and it’s helped me along my journey and
lastly not lastly number five a great
way to deal with negative people is
always to keep it moving and to keep it
moving
you have to see that how is this serving
you because we have to let go of
whatever no longer serves us but more so
we have to see that we’ve got work to do
we have to ask ourselves how is this
helping us become the greatest version
of ourselves because once you argue with
a fool from a distance nobody can tell
the difference so a lot of the times we
just have to see that keep it moving
don’t let negative people take over your
life number six is all about accepting
accept that you can’t please everyone
and that’s not your job
I always say I’m not in this world to
live up to other people’s expectations
of me and I also and I also allow other
it’s wonderful once you can just see
that not everyone has to be the same
this beautiful Orchestra we are all
creating is all about balance so certain
people they may be and behave in a
certain way but in essence everything in
the universe is based on resonance so we
have to say that okay I may not resonate
with this person but maybe it doesn’t
mean that they are a negative person is
just that our energies are not
compatible we go on to number seven
it’s about invitation it’s about seeing
that we are choosing to be around this
person they are not asking us so we have
to see that we are
at what we are we have to always
remember that that we are inviting
people into our personal space and that
is a great way to deal with people who
you are not in harmony with to see that
the power lies within you number eight
is all about attention and once you can
see that you don’t have to pay attention
you don’t have to focus on the
negativity a lot of the times what
happens is that we are carrying all of
this negativity I always say put a smile
on your face because once you can smile
in the face of adversity you see the
secret you see that the power has always
been in your hands your best friend and
enemy lies within you so once you can
just see that what are you focusing on
what are you thinking about because
that’s what you are creating through
your belief systems and then you can
just have fun someone is shouting at you
look the other way when we go on to
number nine
it’s about deep breathing and this
always has been my greatest tool to
always be grounded breathing deep from
the base of our spines and it really
just relaxes your muscles you improve
the blood circulation but also you have
that clarity a lot of us when we are
around people we are not resonating with
sometimes we are too quick and we say
words which we regret afterwards so
breathing gives you that clarity and
lastly we have to own our emotions when
we are dealing with negative
of people we have to see that once you
can take responsibility for your
emotions which is the energy in motion
you free yourself because now you don’t
have to blame external sources for your
problems five words I am NOT a victim so
you reclaim your power the secret is is
that you have to become an alchemist the
secret of alchemy is making the best out
of the worst and not allowing external
events to govern your internal condition
so when there is a storm you can get
your little dance on maybe even do a few
spins around but essentially in fact I
was I was walking and there was a
rainbow today it was raining and there
was some Sun in the sky as well so you
also see that this is energy this is the
yin and this is the yang it’s all part
of the universal dance but more so we
also have to see that it’s not just
about turning the other cheek no we have
to always overcome negativity with
positivity not with negativity so that
still means that we can stand our ground
just as long as we are smiling what
happens when we are angry to someone who
has been hurtful towards us we want to
strike out at them now we have absorbed
their energy I did a video how to stop
absorbing other people’s energy and now
we have become what we most disliked in
that person we have taken on board their
traits so to free ourselves of this even
if we are going up against a negative
person we have to always smile keep that
in a smile
E
you are serious and it does wonders
remember that being free is your
birthright and every day you can smile
if you are grateful for the things in
your life that’s what I’m doing and
right now I don’t have time to entertain
gossip I don’t have time for drama I’m
all about elevation and it’s beautiful
remember you can live your dream once
you surround yourself with those who
remind you who you are we are here
infinite waters diving deep once again
[Laughter]
[Music] you
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