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A STORY THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE – One of The Best Speeches Ever by Lisa Nichols (emotional)


I’m at (Angol Wood)
I live on government support (social security) and I no longer have money
I had to buy Pampers for Gilani (her son)
I had $ 11 and 42 cents in my bank account
I remember that my son wrapped his towel instead of the pampers
For two days
I know, someone might say .. Your eyes are harden whenever you mention this story
Because every time I tell the story, my eyes are bleeding
One of them said, “Do you believe these tears because you told this story many times?”
No I am a mother !!!
Every time I tell the story I feel it again
I remember on the second day, my hand was on the belly of my son Gilani
I said:
Do not worry, darling
Your mother will not be bankrupt or broken again
On that day, what changed for me …
I was ready to …
I do not know if what I’m going to say is crazy
I was ready to
That’s totally oblivious
Any form (personal) you have been on previously
So that I can give birth to what I aspire to be
A new camera
The reason why many people do not …
They reach Himmuth (self change) they are
Relating to what they were before
You hear it often when people say, “I’ve always been like this”
Well .. if this situation is good for you, no need to change!
I learned that my situation was no longer viable
You have reached the bottom
So I was ready to give up everything
And all the people
There is another reason why people do not get what they want
Because the door of access (path) does not allow you to pass through it
You are trying to take everything with you to cross, because you are trying to be a 911 savior
While you must save yourself first
I am more helpful to my family and to my community now because I was willing to give up my attachment to them then
I walk through the door myself, I know myself and I learn myself, I set conditions for myself and then go back to the original for what I want
I am more useful to them now
But I suffered ten years of pre-rulings ,,,,
You do not leave us to go with the eggs, and you go (without reason) to these countries
I had to allow my new convictions to make me uncomfortable
As you see .. We want to develop but at the same time we want to impress everyone !!!
I was ready to be my savior even if at the expense of your opinion of
But most of us do not want to do it ,,,, Facebook is a good example .. We all want to get (Lake)
Well .. I woke up today and I was impressed with myself ,,,, if you like me is something extra
My job is to admire myself first
I was ready to say every day to myself “Lisa, do you like him?”
“Lisa, are you proud of yourself?”
Every day before I wonder what everyone thinks
This gives a feeling of alienation to his thought
Why do many people do it? It is scary, and gives you a feeling of alienation
So what did you do?
I was ready to …
I’m looking for people who have what I miss
People who lived a life I did not live
Who believed in things I did not know
I was ready to be their pupil
I wake up every day and eat a slice of humility pie until I learn
When you reach this level ,,,, even ten years ago
You can fall into your trap as you are
At any time when I hear someone reading my autobiography
Before I join you here on stage and you are reading my autobiography
I used to say, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh …
Because I do not want to think I arrived, never
That biography became old
You should be interested in my future CV
What will I do, what I will be in 2020
We attach in our autobiography
We attach to the trap we have reached now, I never allow it to prevent me from going to
I go to someone and sit at the edge of his dress and say to him:
What do you know about riches?
Because there are three forms of money:
Our relationship with money:
We learn how to win it, learn how to keep it, and learn how to invest it
I ,,,, I learned how to earn it
Because the song I always echoed:
“I’m a fraud for my brother …”
“… I want you to know …”
All of you chatted with me
“The issue is not where I was but … … where I’m going …”
You sing this song ….
Tom: That was good Lisa: they know it ,,, they know it right
You sing this song when you … you ….
I was busy from the closet where my clothes were my office
I used to work in that wardrobe, where you could hardly walk
In fact you can not take a step as well as wrap [very small]
True ,,,, column and hang clothes as you know the column on which you place relationships
…. in the closet
I use it to hang files [Manila files], on these relationships ,,,, which have my client files
I was sitting there
I have put a cheap price mirror ,,, which you can get from the CVS [well-known chain of shops] that mirror hung inside the cabinet
So I feel that my office seems bigger than it actually is
I worked in this treasury \ office for 4 years
I sing that song: “… it’s not a question where you are …… but where I’m going …”
I knew that …. how do I get the money
I did not know how to keep it
No one in my family knew how
So maintaining it was a problem for me
But his investment was not a problem
So I went to those who know how to get money, keep it, and invest it
I went to people who were most interested in helping others
I know I’m making a lot of money [now] because I helped a lot of people
You know … Your success comes after helping people
People who are interested in making money for money will have a short success
But if it is to change people’s lives
Success will continue, continue, grow and grow
So I went to the one who knew the money I know
And …. and ,,, and killed Grover
Every day I kill my “Shigu” [an expression of arrogance]
Because I have a great ego
Right?
Every day Tom
And became eager to learn ,,, went to the same training session 42 times
Yes ,,,, I said 42 times
Some people stop and say I’ve gone there and learned it
I was not so ,,,, I wanted to be able to complete their sentences [trained]
I wanted to know what they knew [meant coaches]
I wanted to walk like you ,,,, I talk like you (I mean coaches)
And then I wanted to immerse myself in what I learn
Success leaves traces but we do not pay attention to them
I was the only African American of this conference
I was one of two women at this conference
During the last 29 sessions of this conference
I became the manager of the conference
But I was ready to be a pupil first
This is the first thing I did ,,, the second thing
I looked at all the poisonous habit [bad] in my life
everyone
You see me go behind my black curtain
Everyone tries to avoid confronting himself and tries to protect them
You are trying to do four things: protect, prove, conceal, defend
If I woke up every day and said “I have nothing to protect!”
I have nothing to prove
I have nothing to hide, I have nothing to protect
Now who do I choose to be?
Because your energy is consumed by: protection, proof, concealment, and defense
But if I give up
Becoming in the process of [renovation]
Every day I told myself so
Every day you see in women and tell myself three sentences:
Each sentence was given seven different ends
Sometimes I cried so hard that I did not understand what I was saying to myself … because I …
Because in the end, the sentence was so strong that saying it was difficult for me
Every day you see in the mirror and tell Lisa: “
I am proud of your
I looked for seven different things to celebrate Lisa
Because we do not celebrate ourselves as we should
Because you want someone to celebrate you more than you celebrate yourself
You want to hear “thanks” from more people than thank yourself
You want to be told “I love you” more than you say to yourself “I love you” [Conscience returns on the same person in both cases]
I said this in the opera program, and it was her reaction that she said “my God”
“I believe in the same thing,” I think I have at least one thing
The world looks at you and follows your steps in the way you treat yourself so that he treats you
How to treat yourself
[The world] treats you the same way you treat yourself
If you treat yourself, everyone will treat you in the same way
So I began to treat Lisa better, because I treated people in a dedicated way and did not treat myself as much
So every day I look in the mirror and say three sentences: “Lisa I’m proud of you for ….”
Second sentence: “Lisa I forgive you …”
This sentence was strong
It hurts me hard every day
Because I had a child [her son]
This is my worst nightmare
Great nightmare
I was in a relationship that developed into a mental and physical blackmail. My son was three years old
I collected money but lost it
I was receiving government care [Social Security], support from a charity
I had a lot to forgive myself for
But I was willing to forgive myself every day … and every day I told the same thing to myself ,,,, for six months
So the subject became easier
One day I said “Lisa I forgive you …”
And that thing did not come this time …
So I said to the next
Seven different ends ,,, and the last thing I was doing every day ,,, another sentences’
“Lisa I’m committed to you b …”
We stick with people [if we promised them something]
If I promise you something, make sure that I will fulfill my promise under any circumstances
But when I promise myself … I do not … nor do I
I stand up in my way Tom: Strange
So I start every day
With my celebration of Belize, my pleasure for Liza, and my promise to Liza
After that I had a willingness to invest in myself [self development]
Tom: I love this story
I had a willingness to invest money in myself [to develop]
Tom: Literally Lisa: Literally
Literally [per letter]
I worked in a school
I knew I could not stay there
Because they were asking for a university degree
I did not have a college degree
Kano seems unhappy
And I wanted to be happy
I was
I was
I leave my son in the nursery during the day
I work 9 hours
I take my son out of curiosity and take him with me to my place of work again
I take a 30-minute break from 6:30 to 6:30, until I take him from the barn to my place of work
Then I start working from 6:30 pm until midnight, every day in my office
I busy myself [developing myself] every day
I put my son on a colorful blanket in bright colors until he occupied it
I give him games after I take out the battery, so he does not tire of it quickly, and spends some time trying to understand what is happening
Why the game does not work ,,, I am serious in what I say
I did it every day, every day, every day
I did not go out for dinner anymore I did not go out to dance I stopped going to the nail shops, I stopped going to the hairdressing shops
Every two weeks when the school pays me I am made
I was writing a check for “my dream”
I was writing a note on it “to finance my dream”
And you …
I sent the check to the bank by mail
Wales Fargo [Bank Name]
I sent myself a check by mail every two weeks for three and a half years
My family thought I was
They thought I was taking drugs
I say strange words ,,,,
They say “maybe because they are older, maybe this is the reason for these behaviors”
And,,,
I went to the bank three and a half years later
This story I mentioned at first
I entered the bank and I said I want to inquire about this account
Because I did not open the account statement
Because my mother was telling me when I was small:
“The redemption of this money burns my pocket” [an expression of the unnecessary disbursement of funds]
I told myself that the money was hot
thanks thanks very much
And go quickly [money] That’s why I did not open the statement of account because I do not want to know
How much money I have, because I did not have good money management, in fact I had no good relationship with money
When I was busy training myself in these courses
Kanu guide us to save money, well I will not need the money I was writing in the check
Because it was the money I used to go to work my nails and to sew my hair
And then I challenged myself for these checks: that each new check is 5% more than the check after
Check received [corrected itself]
I did not know how to calculate 5%
That’s why I was adding $ 30
Or $ 60 so without an account
Because I really did not know anything about these things
It was then linked to a second work
I started working in the evening less in my project and more on my job
So I can edit a check for larger amounts
So I learned how to live at $ 31,000 a month
That’s all I spend to live a month
We can do it (she says to herself). We can understand the situation
I sold my car which I had then
I bought an older Ford
I was narrowed down on myself in expenses
I moved from the three-room house
She lived in a condominium shared with a lady
I was smoking, so I was putting towels under the door
You should be annoyed to hit
Put the towels down the door so as to prevent the cigarette smoke from sneaking into the room
Where I was with my son
We slept next to me and my son in the same dream
I left a house with rooms and three bathrooms, two floors
To move into a shared dwelling
Because I wanted to write a check to fund my dream
I kept writing on the check “to fund my dream”
I went to the bank
Three and a half years later
I gave the employee my name and said “Hello, my name is Lisa Nichols … I was surprised
Surprised Annette owner of the account “financing my dream”?
I said yes
Then all the bank’s staff ran with me and with them the bank manager
Because I think everyone has passed through them a check or more of my checks
They said we were all wondering and would like to know
What a dream you want
I said ,,,, I do not know
But in any case it will cost money
I thought my builder had collected a fraction of the money for my dream
Then I said … that I came today to find out how much money in my account
Because I never checked him before
They answered me … what
I said .. I did not disclose any of my accounts because my mother was saying that money burns her pocket (rapid exchange)
I did not want to burn my pocket (my money)
I did not want to distract
The employee wrote my bank account for me and managed it
He pushed me toward me and when I looked at the revelation I was astounded
I said … both my lady … my name is Lisa Shantin Nichols
This is my social security number and I do not want to take this money
Because you will ask me later to bring it back
I do not want to fall into trouble
Please give me my account
As you know … I do not know anyone from my family owned $ 5000
Or $ 10,000 in his bank account
So when you write (employee) that my bank account
62500 dollars …. This money is not for me certainly
Then everyone cried
He is your money
I looked at my son Jilan, who was then 5 years old and I told him
Jillan .. I think life will change for you and your mother
My son said to me
My mother, can we finally go to McDonald’s to eat?
Because I was preparing the hamburger myself at home
My son says … Can you do a hamburger?
Such as McDonald’s
Because I wanted to put myself tight for all aspects of my life
I wanted to give you my current life to buy my future
To give a chance to my dream
We are not supposed to turn or put our dreams under the pillow
When we wake up in the morning
We are not supposed to leave our dreams at home
Let us go and realize the dreams of other people
We do not have to do that. We are not designed for this
This work does not reflect who we are ….
Your human spirit does not care about the economy
The human spirit does not care about the father who went to jail
The human spirit does not care what happened to your family
The human spirit does not care about what happened in the past
You may have been abused
I lived in a financially bankrupt family
Or maybe you have been betrayed, or fallen
Your soul does not care about all this
Your spirit simply says “What is our commitment to tomorrow”
What can we create?
The soul does not deal with degrees ,,, the mind deals with it
Because your mind is designed to keep you safe and safe
As for your spirit,
Designed to keep you fresh (renewed)
And when you reach the edge of this position
Can I stand .. now?
When you reach the edge ..
Your mind will tell you to retreat
He will always ask you to retreat
For you may fall
Because before you fall … you must have seen someone who has failed
It may also hurt … you may not be able to work …
He will keep telling you that … he is designed to protect you
That is why you have to play between your mind and your spirit
Sometimes, you have to listen to your soul only
She says …. Sighs … I’ll cross the ledge
Most people are on edge and you are also standing on the edge
Everyone is seen jumping (flying)
That took my vehicle .. And cheating in the exams
You are at the edge watching the others live … and ask
What would things be like if you jumped
I have never jumped before
I tell you …. Skip
For only three things will happen
Either you jump and fly
Or you will jump and fall on something soft
Or you will fall down cruelly
In both cases you will find your way to advancement
You will be aware of what it takes to rise again
Your biggest fears are not because you will fall .. .. your biggest fears
You’ll live all your life and never fly
You will never achieve a boom
You are not afraid of death
You are afraid to die before the world sees who you are
Before they get your add on life
Before they feel your breath
Before they get your contributions
Before they feel you
This is what you do not want to happen
You do not want to go to this place before you let us know that you were here
All I do is give my dream a chance
I am not great
I am a normal woman
She chose to make a decision
More great every day
You are a windmill
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