so today I want to speak to you about
your social network about 10 years ago I
learn a concept from one of my mentors
that everybody in our life falls under
two different categories there are
either assets or liabilities and let me
explain what each means liability could
be a cousin of yours or a friend of
yours now you spend 45 minutes with them
by the time you believe you feel the
world is coming at its end terrible
times are there and maybe when you come
home and you get into an argument with
your spouse that person you thought
about is probably a liability let’s talk
about assets assets could be a person
you spend time with you walk away
feeling good about life they challenge
you to get better they encourage you to
go out there learn certain information
to get better in life that person would
be an asset so make a list of the names
of you people you spend the most time
with and see which one of them fall
under which categories so the question
becomes can we fully get rid of all of
our liabilities in our life the answer
is a no just like in our day-to-day
expenses we need to pay for Department
of Water and Power we need to pay for
cellphone taxes are going to be there
there are certain things you cannot get
rid of but I will tell you for the most
part there are many ways to minimize our
liabilities but how do we increase our
assets in order to increase our net
worth what increases our assets well I
remember being a teenager thinking I had
all the answers and then when I hit rock
bottom at 24 25 years old I learned
something very quickly I don’t have all
the answers and it’s okay and by the way
it’s liberating to know you don’t have
all the answers so who can help me with
some of the answers this is what mentors
come in place and mentors can be in
different areas of your life faith
family health business finance you could
have a mentor in all those areas but the
question becomes how do I choose the
right Mentors
this is the list I follow number one a
mentor must care about you number two
they must encourage you number three
they must be willing to challenge you
number four they must have a vision of
where
going number five a good example in
their lives good marriage good husband
good wife and last but not least will be
was willing to give you tough love
because sometimes people want mentors
until they realize that mentor gives
them tough love then they don’t like the
mentor anymore but the mentor doesn’t
have a struggle finding mentees because
mentors never lack mentees mentees lack Mentors it’s my message of the week
your social network about 10 years ago I
learn a concept from one of my mentors
that everybody in our life falls under
two different categories there are
either assets or liabilities and let me
explain what each means liability could
be a cousin of yours or a friend of
yours now you spend 45 minutes with them
by the time you believe you feel the
world is coming at its end terrible
times are there and maybe when you come
home and you get into an argument with
your spouse that person you thought
about is probably a liability let’s talk
about assets assets could be a person
you spend time with you walk away
feeling good about life they challenge
you to get better they encourage you to
go out there learn certain information
to get better in life that person would
be an asset so make a list of the names
of you people you spend the most time
with and see which one of them fall
under which categories so the question
becomes can we fully get rid of all of
our liabilities in our life the answer
is a no just like in our day-to-day
expenses we need to pay for Department
of Water and Power we need to pay for
cellphone taxes are going to be there
there are certain things you cannot get
rid of but I will tell you for the most
part there are many ways to minimize our
liabilities but how do we increase our
assets in order to increase our net
worth what increases our assets well I
remember being a teenager thinking I had
all the answers and then when I hit rock
bottom at 24 25 years old I learned
something very quickly I don’t have all
the answers and it’s okay and by the way
it’s liberating to know you don’t have
all the answers so who can help me with
some of the answers this is what mentors
come in place and mentors can be in
different areas of your life faith
family health business finance you could
have a mentor in all those areas but the
question becomes how do I choose the
right Mentors
this is the list I follow number one a
mentor must care about you number two
they must encourage you number three
they must be willing to challenge you
number four they must have a vision of
where
going number five a good example in
their lives good marriage good husband
good wife and last but not least will be
was willing to give you tough love
because sometimes people want mentors
until they realize that mentor gives
them tough love then they don’t like the
mentor anymore but the mentor doesn’t
have a struggle finding mentees because
mentors never lack mentees mentees lack Mentors it’s my message of the week
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