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I know what you are, but what am I? | Jamila Faber | TEDxFryslân


[Applause]

hello get to see you I’m glad that

you’ve all come out to see me that’s

good because as you all know today is

all about me right yeah ok so today

we’re talking about identity and

stereotypes and that’s very interesting

and I thought about that subject the

other day and I wondered when it comes

to identity do I determine who I am or

do others determine what my identity is

and I thought that was very interesting

and I came up with something fun to find

out I have some cards here with the

sentences for you to finish and all of

those sentences are about me and you

guys probably don’t know that much about

me but that’s okay because I’m not

looking for the right answer I’m looking

for your answer ok so we’re going to

start I was actually going to climb off

stage on that side but hi Lola this is

I’m going to start with you this is my

mother in the first sentence that you’re

gonna finish its descendants hi my name

is a fika no because they’re about me

they’re not about you ok so that’s good

this this happened because it’s all

about me we’re talking about me ok so

I’m not looking for stuff about you

we’re talking about me yes ok so let’s

try again hi my name is jameelah thank

ok so the next one I really enjoy music

wow it’s like we’ve known each other our

entire lives but I detest just practice

Brussels sprouts I’m not I’m not even

gonna tell you whether you’re right or

not because that’s not the focus here

and I find it very difficult to be

myself thank you and to me the most

important thing in life is to be on

stage when I want to achieve something I

so you will have reached on effects and

I can go on and on about myself we’ve

got a joker here it’s you nubiles funny

guy I kill you last to me being in the

center of attention is the most

important thing my oh my and when in an

argument I try to get the right thing

and I get really really really excited

and the final sentence of this round

when in love I mean I me me is not a

verb what do i do when i’m in love your

question i couldn’t when i’m in love

in a very very special way ok so we’ve

talked about me and now instead of

talking I’d like to sing a song and this

song is called stop drop and roll and it

is about not actually knowing anything

about someone but still you have an

opinion and whether that opinion is

right or not you too you tend to stick

with it because that’s just what people

do and that is ok but still should we

really be afraid of things we don’t know

we put everyone in boxes and need little

drawers but we’d never judge a book by

its cover of course not we’ve learned to

spot the people who are up to no good we

know who to treat kindly and who’s got

bad light I’m a fruit of every person

who walks in that door before you know

it they’ve taken over and you won’t be

yourself anymore stop drop and roll stop

drop and roll stop drop and roll you

never know your deal

my throne stop drop and roll

stop drop and roll you never know who

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they might be stranger weird or

dangerous their heart set on pain they

might try to subdue you relieve you at

in the ring now we know by heart whose

righteous who’s to take all your cat

who’s good and wholesome who’s to be

stopped well I’m afraid of every person

who walks in the door before you know it

they’ve taken over

won’t be a sale anymore

our stop drop and roll stop drop and

roll stop drop and roll you never know

my throne stop drop and roll stop drop

and roll you never know you’re dealing

[Music]

[Music]

thank you so a fun fact just you know to

have fun with it that is the most

beautiful piano I have ever played in my

whole life it is a Steinway & Sons piano

and it is ridiculously good ok so you

guys probably have an opinion about me

now do you of course you do you had an

opinion the minute I walked out on stage

that’s just how it works and that’s fine

that’s that’s great but i wonder if your

image of me has shifted by now and I’ve

got some more sentences for you to

finish so I’m coming for you again and

we’re going to talk about me some more

yeah yeah I love it when I make a joke

and I hear people just know chuckling

that makes me feel like I’m doing okay

Who am I kidding of course I’m doing

okay let’s see i have spotted a man with

a beard and who doesn’t love a guy with

a beard so my first sentence is for you

and you’re gonna finish it and it’s

going to be about me okay it’s very

clear now isn’t it you know with the

first thing that went wrong ok so the

sentence is i strongly believe that I’m

that’s what you get for bringing your

kid and my biggest goal in life is to

always look on the sunny side my biggest

fear is not being onstage it’s funny to

see that your answers strongly relate to

what you’re seeing of me right now when

under pressure I cry no i don’t i love

about myself that I dare to walk around

here and ask questions but I hate about

myself that I’m always laughing always

loving well it’s pretty clear you don’t

know me my motto is sorry I was thinking

about what she said but my motto your

mother is always go for the best and I

long for attention well that couldn’t be

further from the truth dear sir not one

inch further from the truth so the next

one is what I love most of all out of

everything in the entire world is ice

another guy with a beard okay so just to

be sure so you guys remember my name is

do you mean ah thank you ok so I had

another one to ask you but yesterday at

the tryout they told me that I’m not

allowed to ask that one because it might

look like I’m you know promoting myself

and the things i do so i couldn’t do

that however we’re going to go on to the

next song and that song is called what

do you see and it’s about wondering what

people actually look for and people and

what makes you feel a certain way about

do you see when you look at me

do you see when you look at me

ought to be do you hear when you hear me

speak what do you hear when you hear me

miss week are my words the ones they

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can I ever do what’s right by you can I

ever do what’s right by you or should I

just get and I’m sorry I was never bored

what do i do to make it right what do i

do to make it right what do i do to make

it right can you see

[Music]

thank you

[Applause]

I enjoy fake gold necklaces and also

glittery socks I want my coffee to be

strong and I like the smell of harbors

and docks I like the son of snow

crunching beneath my feet i won my house

to be untidy sometimes forget to brush

my teeth and my favorite movie is a sad

sad musical and because it makes me cry

I don’t like to watch you at all I’m a

musician I’m a writer I’m a child I’m a

mother I’m a woman I’m a dutchie a

little sister to my brother so who am i

what is my identity what is determined

by the others and what is up to me I’m

difficult but pleasant funny I might add

and not at all upset about the father I

never had I am afraid of falling and

breaking my right leg and that is mostly

because of the bone tumor I had I’ve

never been to Russia yet I like to think

I know all about their lives how that is

yes and yet is no and when I look up to

the clouds or up to the stars it’s kind

of unsettling to know just how small we

are and I find it strange to realize

that everything we see in here someday

will diminish and eventually disappear

so who am i what is my identity what is

determined by my history and what is up

to me well does it even matter who I am

or what I do after me there’ll be

another and they’ll also think they know

what is false and especially what is

true

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