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Finding My True Voice | Yoojin Han | TEDxDaeguInternationalSchool


first impression as people we are very
aware of how important oppresses first
impression is teenagers like me
especially know how crucial external
appearances are and we put excessive
effort and taking care of our lights but
I guess that’s just part of human nature
so back to the discussion first
impression according to research our
brains amygdala evaluates our appearance
if valleys are her friends toward a
person with sentence of a second by
number one appearance number two voice
and the MER 3 fiction I had a series
complex over number two my voice not
that I was confident over appearance or
diction either but I used to hate my
voice so much because I thought people
would judge me on the instant they heard
it I’ve temporally made some foolish
efforts to hide my voice from other
people like trying to avoid phone
conversations I used to reach up
people’s phone calls concerned that my
voice would sound stupid over the
speaker the idea that they were Presta
falls onto the ear and listen to my
creepy voice mimic range how crazy is
that
so here’s another one I really hate
arguing my weird voice so back then when
I knew that I would get into an argument
I would just simply avoid conflict by
passively are going to others instead of
expressing my own opinion I didn’t
believe that I could persuade anyone
anyways because I was too self-conscious
of my voice but then one day I was hit
by a fast Santa realization so I have a
older brother who lives in Seoul and he
often visits us and they go for a spin
one on one particular day he built this
new digital camera and started filming
me without warning I don’t know his
camera record videos so I
pay much attention to him actually I
never do so I was just being myself
cleaning my dog trying to have some
human conversations with the hairy
creature but then a life-changing moment
occurred when my broader pressed play
button there’s a panel with a speakers I
heard an unfamiliar beautiful voice of a
change room being silly put her little
dog ladies and gentlemen I want to ask
you a question ladies and gentlemen I
like to ask Yasha so this is me saying
the purpose fine exactly the same does
this sound like my voice of course it
does why wouldn’t it but not to me it
doesn’t
I’ve researched this phenomenon as I
speak here if you like some vibrations
in your throat to your mouth enter your
eardrums this leads you to hear a lower
deeper sound than your actual voice as a
result many people think that their
record voice sounds weird perhaps even
embarrassing that they never want to
hear again but in my case it was the
complete opposite the voice that I hated
so much that manly deep unattractive
voice sounds just fine drew my brother’s
camera since that day I’ve become very
confident with my voice and started
speaking comfortably in front of anyone
I make phone calls sink her okay and
sometimes engage myself and hit at the
base which I never winning so now the
question is am I completely satisfied
with myself my answer is still unknown
but any teacher I do have other physical
complexes that I have imagined today my
voice was merely one
but now I know how to be positive over
my deficiencies I know how to love them
and I know how to be proud of them I
will never again think that others would
judge me and define who I am with my
flaws because I now know that from
another angle I am the one judging
myself this is who I am and what I am it
doesn’t really matter how I’m shaped as
long as I loves myself thank you
[Applause]
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