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Opposites Do Attract | Natalie Lin | TEDxYouth@CIS


before I what you got to think about
this favor romantic story video movie a
novel a treaty series anything
definitely stuck with you because I
definitely have some my own so number
one well you know a little she’s slick
she’s mortar she’s live the movie
literally out of this world you know he
grows up with a crime with proved a
faulty local chain she civilized smarts
as an artist people went wild for this
movie my favorite is tangled bright a
little girl she’s sheltered her life to
be good everything her mother says and
she meets a bad boy and and you’ll
notice from all these examples like they
gave their all opposites you know they
all hate you in the beginning but it’s
somehow love you tell those differences
and embrace their differences at the
very end so they’re probably thinking
Natalie what actually happens after
offenses attract because I did some
research i watch the tangles with
seventies time now realize that they
actually get together in the last five
minutes so what
nobody wants to watch that stuff it’s
it’s boring okay Cinderella boring
they’ve already reconciled their
differences which is that I say it’s
actually very exciting and I speak from
personal experience in a relationship
with my parents that’s different people
I all looks lead into why they ever got
married Herberger
so how are they different they have
different political parties so a time on
this is to go fight a trans party and
there’s also the Kuomintang KMT so the
DVD is what my mum supports so things
like civil rights independence you know
gay marriage the KMT is basically Pro
money and my dad likes money
first my mom it’s Christian she drill
going to church every week we offer both
whenever because a per side of the
family was doing prayers before meals
after my dad he grew up what is so those
leaders of the family you know we’re
going to temples were lighting incense
or whenever I go to their house there’s
always like Buddhist scriptures playing
in the background and so the next part
is how their personalities disperse
so my mom music diligently follow the
law and order like literally law and
order she so she you know how you watch
the first episode you get bored you’re
like forget to see then but no no no
she’s gonna go watch season 1 season 2
season 3 so finish the whole thing and
go before my dad if I have to think of a
still to describe him and probably be
the perfect
like rules are meant to be broken
I’m like that’s how you end up in jail
like jaywalking
yes pirated DVDs by him you know
everything he’s like rules are just
meant to be broken
if those one thing are is parenting and
my mother philosophy on parenting is
control and you thought this is by
Machado who’s by Cynthia Wang I think
the best not exactly this is art
instrument plane she wants every single
one of our rehearsals it’s always our
primal essence always out of order
string rehearsal and you know I said mom
can i buy water why she’s like why do
you Spotify just make it easy by
yourself or that’s my dad
and finally so you’re probably how in
the world do they possibly read your
work since they’re such polar opposites
and what they do in a big cave but not
like humans each other’s demands because
that’s how a nice relationship what they
do it’s an acronym I’ve made out of
years of thorough research
what’s the matter is coal mine and
without anything to give something up
from for yourself so what they do with
elections is actually they never go to
the tower to watch it together
only one of them goes to vote cuz idea
that they both went and they would be
cancelling out each other’s vote
so it’s great whenever to my mom’s turn
to go to elections because it’s like
holiday yeah and then opposing how do
they ever fight at home and so what they
do is my mom stays in the living room my
dad sees in his room they watch their
own political shows and that’s how they
reconcile the differences so finally the
second example are in two steps so
instead of giving something up is you
teach something in so what they do
religions they actually practice each
other’s religions so we pray everyday
people but you might assets to
respectfully but he actually looked into
the eyes of entire time and I go this
because once I open my eyes just take a
peek at food and I saw my sister’s house
and there they kind of like a little
life of instants lighting play set up
and that’s what we’ll do over there and
my mom although she doesn’t participate
in the actual to be there in the entire
time so that’s what they stepped on each
other’s differences and finally when it
comes time compromising a sceptic
doesn’t work so you just have to invent
so when it comes to rule breaking my mom
right she knows to follow rules we don’t
torn we don’t download we go to the
movie theatres it’s not my dad was
complained why are you paying hundred
dollars but I could probably get 100
what’s the thrill of doing it when the
Dedes because if you complain about the
Korean subtitle that can’t even read up
Linux part sometimes it doesn’t work out
and you just have to do an insertion of
coal control and no I couldn’t think of
a single word for this experience like
that can I go to the movies dad tonight
I’ll go out by this and he’s like the
western wall and this is how or how we
work to fully one you covered their
children by my values we went to
Christian club we were their dream choir
with it all this means the nutrition
club what came to save parenting we did
everything she a play our instruments
religion I and so everything we did we
just folded what might one believes an
ounce of the Democratic Progressive
Party but I think the older you begin to
realize that not all these things are
true so now I don’t think that what
single Tories always right because
there’s arguments for both or religions
I mean this is really think that I’m
Christian anymore
I think I could be Christian and
Buddhist because if the ceiling was to
follow me at this very moment and I
wanted I probably going to hell because
I haven’t been that eerie to the One God
rule and probably if I would put it at
this moment there’s new fella me I
probably incarcerate like a worm or
something and I can rule so closely but
now I think why don’t you to follow you
will do before I used to think the
senior student car was useless now I
have to use it increasingly polarized
world you really get like far left for
right I think there’s value in just
being able to see the contrast in people
being able to embrace that so I think
that’s what we should go forward doing a
new carriers boards in the world thank
you
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